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Dating: Help and advice

How do I get her to respect my feelings more?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5513 days ago

30 March 2009 (M) - My girlfriend takes me for granted. And it's pretty much my fault. I have tried so hard to let her know how much I love her and I have stuck around when she has made some big mistakes. Now she knows that I won't leave. I mean, some day if things ...

Is it safe for him to cum inside you when you're on the pill?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5513 days ago

30 March 2009 (F) - I know this is kind of a rhetorical question, but please give me your opinion and knowledge anyway :] I just started on birth pills. Me and my bf don't use condom anymore since he never cums in me anyway. However, last time we had sex, he wanted t...

Help!!!! Stuck in a love triangle!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5511 days ago

30 March 2009 (F) - I'm stuck in a sort of love triangle I suppose. I'm sorta with this guy Mark but a while back I went out with his best mate Josh, who I still love soo effing much but like I'm happy with Mark cos he makes everything amazing and I do love him... but ...

I don't feel attractive to him at all. Should I move on?

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30 March 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for 2 years, he has always watched porn, no big deal but lately I haven't been getting any love. I know I am not his physical type. A lot of the stuff he looks at says escort on it. I don't think he has the time ...

I just don't think I fit into society properly.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5490 days ago

30 March 2009 (M) - I'm in my mid twenties and I have the insecurities of a young teenager. I have some very strange complexes that if I thought about enough I could probably analyse but even that makes me uncomfortable. It's mainly about the typical body appearance ...

Once I have her, I don't want her as much as I used to when I was after her!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5510 days ago

30 March 2009 (M) - What is wrong with me? I'm 14 and one minute I'm head over heals for a girl... and do everything in my possibility to be with her and go out with her... I fell in love for her but once I have her... I don't want her as much as I used to when I was ...

Is it best for us to stay together or go our seprerate ways?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5497 days ago

30 March 2009 (M) - Hi, I'm 15 and I have an amazing girlfriend, she's also 15. Well we've been going out for two years and we've had our ups and downs but were still together. here are some of the bad things. She cheated on me about 2 or 3 times with her her ex that ...

I'm inexperienced and so confused about this guy, what does he want?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5514 days ago

30 March 2009 (F) - Ok, the situation with me and this guy: Met him at my friend's birthday party last Friday, were both quite drunk and ended up making out. In the morning (cos we stayed over) he admitted he'd quite enjoyed it and we went out for a walk together an...

Guys why don't you call the woman you like?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5514 days ago

30 March 2009 (?) - Guys, please tell me. If you really liked a woman wouldn't you think about her everyday and call or contact her? Or you do like her but you just don't think about it? Or is this some kind of game? ...

Future spinster written in stone for me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5514 days ago

30 March 2009 (F) - I think it was written in stone that I was meant to be alone because I never got asked in my teens and my 20s. Now heading for my 30s, I think I was always meant to be alone. If you think about it, it's true. I never had a boyfriend, it's just ...

I can't seem to accept his past...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5514 days ago

30 March 2009 (F) - Hi, this may sound silly or selfish, but I have recently got engaged, and I can't seem to accept his past! I know, in the back of my mind, it shouldn't bother me, but for some reason it does. He is the first person I slept with, but his ex was the ...

My friend is now going out with the guy I fancy!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5514 days ago

30 March 2009 (F) - I have really really fancied this guy I know through friends for about six months. Recently I met him at a gig and we got on great and I got the impression he liked me. My best friend (who knows him quite well) found out I fancied him. She said she ...

Do you think this can be worth anything or is it just a fantasy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5514 days ago

30 March 2009 (F) - Dear agony aunts and uncles here is the situation... last week I had a chat with a high school friend who has been trying to get hold of me... we had nice thoughts until we spoke about dating... so I told him about my life and he told me about hi...

I don't know what wrong I have done

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5514 days ago

30 March 2009 (M) - Hi guys I wonder if you can help me work out this situation i'm in. I've been with my girlfriend for over a year. We don't get to see alot off each other as she works during the day and i work during the night. A few days ago i promised to pick her ...

Shave or not... how to ask the question?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5514 days ago

30 March 2009 (F) - I'm a 14 year old girl. I have had acne on my bum area so my confidence has been really low. I've been with my boyfriend for quite a while and we're thinking about having sex, but if I do... how do I ask him beforehand if he likes shaved or ...

Ex lovers can rekindle?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5512 days ago

30 March 2009 (F) - Me and my ex boyfriend went out for about a year. We were young but both had things for each other for 2 years and were each others first everything. He was my very best friend as I was his, and one could easily argue we were two people living in ...

My friend is flirting too much with my boyfriend.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5514 days ago

30 March 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and best friend are good friends. She was a cheerleader for his football team so they seen each other a lot. Me and him go out but people tell me she flirts with him all the time. I didn't believe anything was going on until they had a ...

How do I tell my family about my boyfriend - different religions!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5514 days ago

30 March 2009 (F) - Hello, I have been seeing my boyfriend for 3 weeks and I feel like we love each other which I know sounds a bit too soon, however he already spoke to his family about me and I wanna do the same but my family are different because we have different ...

Tips on how to get noticed and how to get her to like me??

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30 March 2009 (M) - I have never done this before but i hope you can help me with my problem. There is this girl i have known for a while and i have found that i quite fancy her. But she doesn't feel the same way about me or at least i don't think she does.i was w...

What if he's the one I'm supposed to be with ???

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5506 days ago

30 March 2009 (F) - I'm with my guy for 6 years.... love him to death. Perfect on paper and in person. Handsome, outgoing, sweet and would do anything for me. He's my best friend and we're getting married in 6 months. Our families and friends love us together and ...

How do I chose between the two women?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5514 days ago

30 March 2009 (F) - so I've been dating this girl, "K" for about 7 months now. i do love her, my first love. and she's in love with me. but I've lost interest since she never wants to come see me. it's been 6 months. (she lives in Brighton) it's heart breaking, and i ...

His co worker told me my boyfriend stopped caring for me 4 months ago... what do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5514 days ago

30 March 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I been together 2 years. He goes out with co workers but tells me nothing, does not text or call, he tells me he doesn't need to check in and doesn't want me to know where he hangs out. What do I do? His co worker told me he is ...

I want him to want me, I don't want pity sex!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5510 days ago

30 March 2009 (F) - I have been with a man for over 3 and a half years. I am about 14 years younger than he is and that has always seemed to be a good thing. We have one child together and I have two from a previous marriage who consider him their father... Here's my ...

Why can't he just be a man and face me rather than treating me horribly?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5514 days ago

30 March 2009 (F) - My boyfriend suddenly started treating me horribly. I feel like jumping in front of a bus just to see if he'll show up at the hospital. Why can't I just break up with him? That would be the logical thing to do. I feel like he's mentally terrorizing ...

How can I feel sexy?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5492 days ago

30 March 2009 (F) - i am not fat bt i do hav a bit of a belly if u know what i mean and i have small boobs. my bf sed i am his ture love and he loves my body and wouldnt change it, however i dont feel sexy. he says i am bt dont feel it, am willing to let him see me ...

I want to have sex with him

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5514 days ago

30 March 2009 (F) - I really want to have a boyfriend. I just wish I could make out with him every day! There is this one guy, we both like each other. I just dont know how to talk to him. I also want to have sex with him, every time I see him, I have an orgasm! Pl...

How to get rid of a girl???

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5514 days ago

30 March 2009 (M) - hey everyone i wanna ask a cruel question here...please bear with me ....i am being cruel to be kind to someone i care a lot.... how should a guy get rid of a girl who is very affectionate, sentimental and emotionally attached to him ? what if t...

Tell me how to give him space?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5514 days ago

30 March 2009 (F) - im so in love with him, he doesnt have time and keeps on telling me he loves me.sometimes i think i am putting more effort and giving him a lot of pressure. i want to give him space, which is a bit harder, tell me how to give him space? n how do i...

Should I continue liking her, or will I just get more hurt?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5511 days ago

30 March 2009 (M) - Basically, there's this girl called Js, I've really liked her for about 3 and a half years now, we've been with each other on and off due to various petty reasons. More recently I realised how much she does mean to me, I need not explain myself, as ...

I was pretty sure my promotion had something to do with sleeping with my manager

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5513 days ago

30 March 2009 (M) - Hello people. I've been at my current place of employment for three years now. I consider myself a trust-worthy, hard and efficient worker and have been working hard towards a promotion. I've always been slightly distracted by my manager. She's only...

Should I get his name tatooed on me or is it bad luck?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5514 days ago

30 March 2009 (F) - I'm a 22 year old female who is in a very serious and committed relationship with a 32 year old male. I really love him and he loves me we are unable to be with one another physically because he is behind bars. I cant see myself with anyone e...

I want to seduce my 26 year old gardener..not sure I remember how? HELP!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5514 days ago

30 March 2009 (F) - Hi everyone. I'm a 46 year old lady and I fancy my 26 year old gardener. We are always flirting and now I'd like to make a move on him, hopefully get him in my bed. But the thing is, it's been so long since I've done anything like this that I'm not ...

He says he was on the sex register for verbal abuse to a teenager..do I still see him?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5511 days ago

30 March 2009 (F) - iv met someone he told me he was on sex register for verbaly abuse to teenager it ends in may but i dont know weather to trust him ,my family would not aprove if they find out im so worried...

B/f is bipolar..but I don't think I deserve the treatment I get from him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5514 days ago

30 March 2009 (F) - My boyfriend is bipolar and he can really treat me like crap, he blames it on his emotions but I can't stop thinking that I don't deserve this. I love him and I want him to get better but how much of my happiness and my life do I give up before he ...

What do we say when the bill arrives???

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5504 days ago

30 March 2009 (F) - Hello all! I have a dilemma that I need help with. I am godmother to both of my friend's children and whilst she is a lovely, geunine person, her partner is the biggest waste of space ever... He has always taken advantage of me money wise by giving ...

Hymen, sex and oral!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5514 days ago

30 March 2009 (M) - My boyfriend and I love each other, we make out and fool around, he sometimes fingers me but it hurts. Now I have two questions : I have looked and it looks like I have like a -full- hymen, so you can't really get your fingers -inside - is that why ...

Is it possible he just doesn't fancy me any more?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5514 days ago

30 March 2009 (F) - My boyfriend is 29 years of age. He does not like to have sex often, I usually have to initiate sex all the time. I ask him if it's me and he say's no, and replies with saying I don't have a sex drive any more. Is he telling the truth, when ...

I'm not ready to be acting like I'm a mum!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5514 days ago

30 March 2009 (F) - I really need some advice from someone who has been in the same situation.. My bf has a one and a half year old daughter to his ex and we have been together since she was 2 months old. I have been there through everything but I find it so hard to ...

Why does he want me to meet an ex friend that he'd been screwing?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5513 days ago

30 March 2009 (F) - When my boyfriend had been married, he had what he said was a brief affair. That is not the reason for divorce as his wife never found out. Anyway, I've been with my BF for about 10 months and we are going on vacation in April. He decided to ...

I lied to him and told him the baby was his... when it wasn't!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5514 days ago

30 March 2009 (F) - There is a guy that I met 7 years ago and we were never in a relationship.. but occasionally slept together. We had that "understanding" with one another I guess. Well to make a long story short of course I secretly had more feelings for him than...

Question for the guys: How long do I wait to give him a blowjob.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5514 days ago

30 March 2009 (F) - Ok so for sex, you wait about 4-8 months if you are looking for something serious. Hopefully by that time you have developed a close attachment to where the sex would add to the relationship. What about for oral and other kinky acts?? Do yo wait...

Either way I don't want to hurt my friends feelings

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5511 days ago

30 March 2009 (F) - Dear Cupid. There's a guy I like and we are friends but I don't know how he feels. A girl I know also likes him but whenever they're together she's all over him, like literally hanging off him, but he doesn't seem to be showing any interest in her....

Help with boyfriend's lies

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5514 days ago

30 March 2009 (F) - I need some advice on dealing with my boyfriend and his lie. It all started a year ago when we had been dating for about 4 months. We had already opened up and talked about our pasts (exes, etc - but not in detail - just names and basics) and ...

Guys hate me. Am I not suitable for any one?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5514 days ago

30 March 2009 (F) - s there something wrong being single all your life. because i have being single all my life i am nearly up 30 years old and i never had boyfriend and never being kissed once in my life.its not like i don,t want a boyfriend i just can,t have ...

Am I falling in love here or is it just attraction?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5491 days ago

30 March 2009 (M) - Hi all, I'm kinda confused here. I recently met a girl down the pub and I think I'm falling in love with her. On Friday we ended up hanging out and talking in the cemetery, we went for a walk together and got some food and then spent the res...

Is he over it all competly or just playing mind games with me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5515 days ago

30 March 2009 (F) - hey guys im in need of some help on understanding my ex any thoughts would be appreciated my ex broke up with me about 6 months ago when i see him i usually have a convo with him cos im still friendly with him because thats the type of gal i am...

What can I do to let him know that I care?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5513 days ago

30 March 2009 (F) - Alright, I've been with my man for two years now. We've known each other for a very long time. We never have any big fights, but lately things have been looking down for us. Small things that I know can be fixed with a little effort, which we are ...

I don't know what to do, I'm scared to stay with him

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5514 days ago

30 March 2009 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for almost 2 years now, but a few months ago we got into a really big argument over really small issues and he pulled me off the bed and threw me onto the floor, I was really shook up and didn't want to talk to him so he ...

How would I win his trust again?

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30 March 2009 (F) - hey there , to day am kind of happy because we finally had a heart to heart talk with my ex........... recently i was worried about his decision of breaking up with me but now he spells it out for me last night.. apparently he broke up with me ...

I feel so sad right now. Why isn't he calling like he promised?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5514 days ago

30 March 2009 (F) - I have been seeing this guy from my university for almost a month. We act couple when we are together and he says he thinks I'm so sexy all the time. I asked him what exactly we were and he said that he really likes me and wants to see where this ...

Why do women prefer being on the top?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5512 days ago

30 March 2009 (?) - Well, i have a simple question which i couldn't find the answer by myself. I hope your answers will help me... Do the women have more pleasure and have orgasm when they are dominant? I mean when they are riding or when they are controlling the ...

I just don't seem to have the whole "dating" thing down

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5514 days ago

30 March 2009 (M) - Hello and thank you to all and any who are nice enough to read about my problem... I am seventeen years old and I have some serious problems with girls. First of all, I know that I am a good looking guy. My problem isn't with confidence eith...

I don't think it is worth keeping this relationship

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5515 days ago

30 March 2009 (M) - i am 21 and my girlfriend is 17...we are in the relationship since a year now ...she has been very responsible and extremely caring and so am i ..but there is a lost spark in the relationship and i am not that crazy for her and have liked her only ...

I just have a feeling he doesn’t like me like that

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5514 days ago

30 March 2009 (F) - So there's this guy that I met about a year ago and in that year we have became very good friends. I believe I can say he is one of my best friends and recently I've developed a huge crush on him. I denied it to myself for a while, but finally gave ...

Why am I so shy with girls? Do I feel intimidated by other boys?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5515 days ago

30 March 2009 (M) - Hi i;m 13 and I wondered why am I so shy with some girls and others not, forexample, I went to a girls party (meaning I was the only boy) and it went great, my best friend intoduced me to her friends and I had a great time but today I was ...

What can I do about my jealous gf?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5514 days ago

30 March 2009 (M) - My girl and i have been seeing each other for about 7 years i love her very much and would do anything for her. Throughout the seven years we have been through problems with being jealous she treats me like a baby and ask me when im coming home what ...

Confusing yes/no/yes/no rollercoaster ends with her kissing me and leaving me heartbroken!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5515 days ago

30 March 2009 (M) - This is a long one but I can't express my confusion anymore concisely: I really don't get this girl. (We're both in our mid twenties) It's been a roller coaster of yes and no signals. I'm left confused and heartbroken. I liked her 3 years ago....

Why would he keep the earrings? An excuse to see me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5515 days ago

30 March 2009 (F) - Cutting to the chase, me and this guy were casually seeing each other between October till about mid January. After the middle of January things dwindled off. He called me the day before Valentine's, I didn't pick up so he left a voicemail casually ...

He just stares at me..do I talk to him? or wait?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5515 days ago

30 March 2009 (F) - okay, so at my church there is this boy who always looks at me, we always smile at each other, but never say anything. well the second week it happened, he had so many oportunities to come talk to me.. but instead he just starred.. and i ...

Friends interferring with relationships

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5509 days ago

30 March 2009 (M) - Well, i like this girl with OCD, (whatever that means hehe) I have great feelings for her, yet my ex friend decided to put the poison down saying I cheated on her, which put some weird feelings into her, she isn't exactly avoiding me, but whenever ...

I like him, he likes me..but there's a girlfriend!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5515 days ago

30 March 2009 (F) - I really like this guy and he's starting to like me..he always calls me EVERY night, he's really sweet and the thing i like about him is that he's all about what a girl likes and wants he basically never has a say in anything..thats just the way he ...

Why doesn't she want to be "secretly" engaged to me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5515 days ago

30 March 2009 (F) - i worry about things constantly, and im with my gf now for 3 months, and i want to spend the rest of my life with her, i feel so comfortable with her and i love her to pieces, she feels the same but wen i talk about being engaged, even if its just ...

Ideas for a really good first date that is better than dinner and a movie?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5515 days ago

30 March 2009 (M) - Hi, I'm looking for a really good first date idea. I really, really like this girl and want to show her that I care about her and am not like the jerks she has dated in the past. But before I ask here out I need to have a plan... Ladies, what a...

Feeling trapped by the relationship, not by him personally.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5513 days ago

30 March 2009 (F) - I have been in 4 separate relationships since I was 18 (10 years ago), my most current one being 5 years and counting, with a man 19 years my senior. Lately I have been dreaming of being alone, for about a year or so, as I feel I have no idea who...

I think I love my friend's best friend...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5515 days ago

30 March 2009 (F) - I have been going out with my current boyfriend for nearly two years. And the other weekend I hooked up with his best friend. Both me and his best mate have decided to keep it a secret. But I think I now have feelings for his friend now. Although I ...

Is it over for good or just a break?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5514 days ago

30 March 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have dating for 2 years and 7 months. He is 25, but I was his first girlfriend. We have talked about marriage in the past, but he has avoided the topic for almost a year now. He hasn't been saying "I love you" back for the last ...

How can I show I trust?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5515 days ago

30 March 2009 (M) - I have a girlfriend who I love with all my heart. We are both honest and we trust each other. We are both people who have been burned by love before. We are both people who take their time before we trust another person. Somehow we seem to be ...

Can long term drug use cause erectile dysfunction?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5515 days ago

30 March 2009 (F) - I have been dating this man for 5 months, everything is so great and perfect-except for the bedroom. He has a problem keeping it up. Sometimes it works and everything is wonderful, but there are a lot of times when it just dies before we even ...

I have this uncontrolable urge to be on my own...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5515 days ago

30 March 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I are always joking around, and yesterday he was joking about what a fraidy cat I am. He says I am scared of everything, which is true, I am a woos lol. Anyway, he said "that's why you'll never leave me... because you're s...

He said he isn't ready to live with anyone as he hasn't lived alone long enough. Is this bullshit?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5513 days ago

30 March 2009 (F) - I have been seeing a man for 5 years. I would like to get married to him or at least live together but he seems to want things his way... meaning he tells me that he never had much of a chance to live alone. He lived with a somewhat abusive parent ...

He says he feels awkward around my family yet he still talks to his ex's family!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5507 days ago

30 March 2009 (F) - My birthday is coming up, he says he feels awkward around my family and he doesn't wanna go to dinner with us, but he still talks to his ex's family... what do I do?...