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writes:Ok, the situation with me and this guy:Met him at my friend's birthday party last Friday, were both quite drunk and ended up making out. In the morning (cos we stayed over) he admitted he'd quite enjoyed it and we went out for a walk together and chatted.Last week we met up one night for a drink, we talked some more, I embarrassed myself at pool, and then we went back to his to watch a film before he walked me home. But not even a hand-hold!He's now home from uni for 3 weeks so I won't see him til he gets back, but we're going out again when he does. We've just been texting each other every couple of days.So, what I want to know is, is he really interested, he seems it but then again on our night out he didn't initiate anything?Also how interested should I show him I am, I think he knows I like him, but people keep telling me to let him do the chasing? And how do I do this?Would it be a good idea while he's away to suggest meeting up in the middle, which would be a 1 hour train journey to Manchester for both of us, or is it too soon to be so demanding?I am very inexperienced with this sort of thing, so I would appreciate any advice, where do I take it from here, how to continue?
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 March 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks! Well I already asked him if he wanted to go out again and got a yes :)
I guess normally I'd be more relaxed about this sort of thing but I'm desperate for this to work out cos I really like him! But don't want him to know that ^^;
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reader, funnyintit  +, writes (30 March 2009):
 Sure just ask about when he's coming back, what will he be doing?, does he want to meet up with you again?, maybe you could give him a complement now and again, see what the reaction is..
Basically try flirting with him through text, its unlikely he won't respond to it...
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 March 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThe texts are just random stuff like 'How's it going' every other day or so!
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reader, funnyintit +, writes (30 March 2009):
First of all, yes it is too soon to be demanding, I think you should hang on til he comes back instead of going to Manchester....
They say "let him do the chasing", doesn't seem like he is chasing, does it...
Seeing as drink was involved the first time its quite possible he's shy about initiating anything again, he might be waiting for you to do something.
What do you text each other about?? This is the easiest way to find out if he likes you, in my opinion..
You don't have to ask him straight out, but try doing it in a subtle way...
Show a small bit of enthusiasm about seeing him again and hopefully he will respond positively!
good luck! :)
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