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Archived questions from: 16 March, 2009 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

How do I get her to have sex or should I just move on??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5527 days ago

16 March 2009 (M) - I have asked all of my friends so I guess I will ask and wait for a random person to give me the answer. I'm still in high school and my gf is older than me but she is a virgin and I want sex but I don't want to cheat on her.... she avoids the ...

Does "sleeping over" bring a couple closer?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5528 days ago

16 March 2009 (F) - Ok, so what is behind the whole reason why my boyfriend wanted me to sleep over on Saturday night.. He gave me a tight hug and didn't want to let me go. Jokingly of course but kept insisting it was late and I should just spend the night.. I didn't ...

Me on top?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5528 days ago

16 March 2009 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend a couple of weeks now and we've had sex a few times. I really want to try going on top, it's something that I fantasise about often and he's said he wants me to but I've never tried it. I can usually get on top but t...

Does anyone have any advice or even experience of having a baby while with someone in a long distance relationship???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5528 days ago

16 March 2009 (M) - My girlfriend of 2 years and I are in a distance relationship. I am 34 and she 32 years old. We see each other every weekend and are very close. We would both far prefer living together but despite hard efforts I am not doing well in getting a job ...

Suggestion on stopping this from happening so fast??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5528 days ago

16 March 2009 (M) - I need some advice, wen I'm having sex with my girlfreind on top I can last a good amount of time, but when I'm on top I just seem to cum after a few minuites any suggestion on stopping this from happening so fast??...

He's going out with me but flirts with her. Why??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5528 days ago

16 March 2009 (F) - okay so me and this guy are going out and theres this one girl that he does the whole tap your right should then jump to the left side while she looks the wrong way thing and he'll be talking to her then just reach in her pocket right outta nowh...

Too eager? Sent text nothing back

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5500 days ago

16 March 2009 (M) - Hi, I met a girl on Friday and we exchanged numbers (she suggested it). I decided against texting her over the weekend so I don't come across as too keen. This evening I decided to drop her a quick text message just to see how she was doing (I asked ...

We broke up, I still love her and people are saying really mean things

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5528 days ago

16 March 2009 (M) - hi im 15 and i was in a 2 year relationship. it had its ups and downs but we made it this far untill a couple nights ago. heres the story ill make it short. my gf and i were textin one night and all the sudden she asked why i hated her ex. i said: ...

How do you keep him interested when others like him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5528 days ago

16 March 2009 (F) - we both like each other, i probably like him more but i know he does actaully like me to some point. he speaks to me online for hours sometimes and says really sweet things. we hardly see each other in person as we dont have any mutal friends ...

Serious all consuming jealousy!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5528 days ago

16 March 2009 (F) - There is this girl that always wrote on my bf's friendster wall..i asked him bout it bfore and he said he never met her before,she is just sumone he knew from friendster..i think he knew her before he met me..anyway,what really really annoys me is ...

I'm 14, want to date an 18 year old. How to tell my mom?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5527 days ago

16 March 2009 (F) - hey guys. thing is there is this guy I like, he's 18 and I'm 14, he sed he likes me and I like him too and he asked me if i'd go out with him. I said yes, he also said that he would push me into anything and would respect me, (I would let him pu...

I miss my girlfriend so much but I'm still with her

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5322 days ago

16 March 2009 (M) - I miss my girlfriend so much. The trouble is, we're still together. We've been together for 18 months now. For the first 12 months, things could not have been better. We were so close. We trusted each other with everything, we could talk about an...

Crazy about a guy but don't know how he feels any more

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5527 days ago

16 March 2009 (F) - I have been with my bf nearly 4 months now. I'm young, but I am crazy about this guy... Now knowing my age I have high school exams so I can't contact him a lot. I love him LOADS, he's my world, I don't know what to do because when I get in conta...

Sperm filled fingers!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5528 days ago

16 March 2009 (F) - I am just wondering this is really weird for me to even have to ask.. I started my period on the 1st of March yesterday was the 15th.. me and the boyfriend where having sex and well I ended up with quite a bit of sperm on my fingers. Instead of ...

I confront him and he just lies to me more

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5528 days ago

16 March 2009 (F) - My boyfriend of almost 8 years is lying to me about were he met this girl on his myspace. We have had our problems in the past yet I have stayed with him. I feel like this is the last draw I don't know what to do I confront him and he just lies...

Does anyone think fetishes can be 'cured' or diminished?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3439 days ago

16 March 2009 (M) - Hi. My main problem is excessive masturbation.i seem to put more effort into it than any other area. I have a steady girlfriend and things are generally ok in that area, guess could be improved a bit but thats cos we dont always see a lot of...

Why would a guy ask a girl to call him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5528 days ago

16 March 2009 (F) - Why would a guy ask a girl to call him? Ok so i am seeing this guy and whenever he calls me before he gets off the phone (if at night) he will say "call me tomorrow". When i call him all i say is I'll talk to you tomorrow - pretty much meaning eith...

Why do things have to be so complicated?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5522 days ago

16 March 2009 (M) - Hi! I need help here! I met a girl this weekend through a friend of my brother. It appears this guy was under the impression that she liked him. Anyway, later on she told me that she didn't fancy him at all, and felt awful about it. She w...

I just wish we were both less jealous and co-dependent

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3768 days ago

16 March 2009 (F) - I'm extremely jealous/insecure. I don't know where it stems from, but let's try and see. I've been with my boyfriend for 2 years and a half. He's my first boyfriend ever. In the beginning of the relationship I wasn't this jealous, and I was more...

I have never expressed once that I could or would support her in this way

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5528 days ago

16 March 2009 (F) - since I've been with my girlfriend she has had maybe 5 or 6 different jobs, most last less than a month. the longest was at Macy's and that was 3 months working only weekends. she's not in school, she's not disabled, although she doesn't have any ...

What is she thinking? What should I do?!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5528 days ago

16 March 2009 (M) - My girlfriend and me have recently fallen out and I'm in such a state. The reason for the falling out is not important so I won't go into that. My problem is the way I'm reacting to this. She said she wanted space and I have done my best to give tha...

Problem is he is my superior at work

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5528 days ago

16 March 2009 (F) - There is this guy at work and I am not sure if he likes me in that way. i think he does but i don't want to make a fool of myself. He's been texting at night and been so supportive during a very difficult time for me. Problem is he is my superior...

My ex hs started to flirt with me again

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5507 days ago

16 March 2009 (F) - i am with my ex boyfriends friend, it did not mean to happen but he treats me better than my ex, my ex was cheating on me with two other girls and he finished me. but now my ex hs started to flirt with me again and asking to come to my house, now ...

I do not think he is cheating on me but I am not sure he is done with that relationship.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5528 days ago

16 March 2009 (M) - I have been in a relationship with my current partner for two years. He has an ex g/f from a few years ago. He stays in contact with her and recently let it slip out that he has not told his ex g/f that we are seeing each other. He sometimes tell...

Help me save my friend!

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16 March 2009 (M) - So here's the story. I've been friends with a guy for four years now -- hes my best friend. We moved in together almost 2 years ago now and we have a great relationship. Just this past November, he dumped his girlfriend of 3 years because he ...

A love triangle thing and don't know what to do

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5528 days ago

16 March 2009 (M) - Ok im in the middle of a very messy situation at the moment! kind of a love triangle thing and i dont know what to do. From the outside looking in im probably going to look quite bad (i know i feel it) but any knid of advice on what to do here would ...

Points to ponder on advise against teenage sex

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5519 days ago

16 March 2009 (M) - Out of curiosity, I was recently browsing through the advice I had given in the past 9 odd months I've been on this website. What struck me is how much "stern" I seem to be when giving advice to teenagers under 18 about sex. I frequently adv...

I need to trust him, could I ever trust him again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5491 days ago

16 March 2009 (F) - Hi, I have a question that I really need some help with. I have been with my boyfriend for over two years now and we have had an amazing time. We had a split about a year into the relationship as we were both un-happy and needed a break. About 3 m...

What do you think is his purpose?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5528 days ago

16 March 2009 (F) - hey there, me and my ex boyfriend broke up last october 13, 2008. i really cried hard because i really love him, even though he hurt me for several times, i still love him. now, i wanted to befriend him, when we talked via im, he told me that he regr...

I have text him but he hasn't text back, now I'm so confused, what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5528 days ago

16 March 2009 (F) - I met a guy and we were seeing each other for not quite 3 months, things were going extremely well until BAM! I was hospitalized, nothing life threatening but still hospitalized, he called when I was in the hospital but never came to visit me, (we ...

We've been friends for a while, should I tell him that I like him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5528 days ago

16 March 2009 (F) - we've been friends for a while, and I really wanna tell him that I like him, but I'm too scared that things will get awkward afterwards, or it's not mutual. My friends think that he likes me... Like he often teases me (is that a sign?) and does ...

He says he loves me as a mate

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5528 days ago

16 March 2009 (F) - ok im so confused. Theres a lad whos a mate of mine that seems to have some sort of problem in talking to me... i don't know why its so weird. Like if we are alone at college in a morning before other people will get there he'll probably talk for...

I am not sure how to turn him down nicely!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5528 days ago

16 March 2009 (F) - I have been serving this male customer for about a year now, and he has finally asked me out. We have good brief chats whenever he drops by. Unfortunately I don't fancy him at all but am not sure how to turn him down nicely!! Please help....

I am very confused

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5528 days ago

16 March 2009 (F) - I am very confused my boyfriend left me just before christmas after 11 years moved out and moved straight in with another girl who has a child of 6 yrs old and we were due to go to st lucia for christmas. he is giving half the money so gave me...

Dont know what to do!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5528 days ago

16 March 2009 (M) - I am 17 years old. My bestfriend and I dated for about 6 months, but we've known each other for about 3 years. Well we broke up, but now were just bestfriends again. Well anyways, her ex that she dated for a year, and lost her virginity to is stil...

Is this a good idea?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5528 days ago

16 March 2009 (M) - Hi, im 15 and my gf is 14, weev bin goin out for five months now, and in a few days itll be our sixth month, this one's gonna b special cuz its also my bday! I need to kno if this is a good present idea, im gonna buy her a meaningful ring, not too ...

My boyfriend is balding and I don't like it

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5508 days ago

16 March 2009 (F) - I really need help please. I love my bf as a person. I think he's great but recently he's been losing his hair and its really starting to look bad. He's tried many different hairstyles but they don't really suit him. Recently he shaved his head ...

Should I tell her parents my intent to marry her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5526 days ago

16 March 2009 (M) - Hi this is my first time to this site and I need some insight on my relationship. I have been dating my younder girl friend for 9 months now (she is 24) I am 39, I am a divorced father of 1. I started dating her before my divorce was final , alth...

I am so insecure about this I don't even want to have sex anymore!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5529 days ago

16 March 2009 (F) - I have always been a little unconfortable about "down there" but now Im really ashamed. I have a really big labia on the right side and its kind of umm "loose" I had a boyfriend a while back and he is the only one I have ever been with. He was givi...

Did I find my soulmate?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5527 days ago

16 March 2009 (M) - So... a few things... I am an attractive guy, one night stands never did it for me so after the few that I had, I stopped them. I can't stand girls who do have them a lot. I met this girl.. and she is the sweetest thing on earth, we are madly ...

Should I wait for the right time or just dive in?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5528 days ago

16 March 2009 (M) - I am 13. Me and my girlfriend have kissed already. But she doesn't seem to want to makeout with me. I know not to rush her. And I'm not. But we have a strong realationship and we love each other. Should I wait for the right time or just dive in?...

He loved anal stimulation but won't do it again for fear it's 'gay'. What should I say to calm his fears?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5529 days ago

16 March 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I enjoy taking turns masturbating ourselves while the other stimulates elsewhere. We were doing that a couple of nights ago, he was masturbating while I was massaging his testicles. I started lowering my fingers slightly to his ...

Please respond if you know of any recovery stories and explain how it was done.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5529 days ago

16 March 2009 (?) - Have you or anyone you know had recovery success in a relationship with: 1. A compulsive liar 2. A partner who flirted behind the other's back 3. An emotionally, verbally, mentally abusive partner Please respond if you know of any rec...

Other than waiting for therapy to give results does anyone have any ideas for how to liven things up or does the dark cloud loom?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5528 days ago

16 March 2009 (M) - My girlfriend would be the perfect candidate for someone with a necrophelia fetish. Unfortunately, that's not me. As I think back over the past year I can recall times of better sex and some of the worst encounters possible (the train keeps running ...

I need your help here! How do I get my girlfriend to open up to me? Do I have to open up first?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5426 days ago

16 March 2009 (M) - Hi, I'm having trouble opening up to my girlfriend to get her to open up. I always imagine just being totally romantic to her and kissing her passionately but I'm afraid of the out come is what scares me and if I screw up. I feel like such an idiot ...