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Archived questions from: 9 March, 2009 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

How do I know he likes me? What are the signals?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5535 days ago

9 March 2009 (F) - Okay i really like this guy hes locker is right next to mine.We talk a lot but i don't want to risk our friendship.And i don't really want to try to ask him out i just don't right now... Like i want to become his close girl thats a friend for right ...

Contact & say I am available for lunch?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5527 days ago

9 March 2009 (F) - Hi, it is a little bit long but I need your help ! Question: should I contact him again and tell him that I am available for that lunch? should I wait to see if he contact me back? (which I do not think will happen) This is the story: I met ...

My ex husband just won't leave me alone and it's scaring me.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5521 days ago

9 March 2009 (F) - I am separated three years now and have someone new in my life for a while now and it is serious to both of us but none of my children know about him, I have four sons. I have met my new man's children, grandchildren, his mother and family and they ...

How can you make a woman feel special and sexy and during foreplay?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5534 days ago

9 March 2009 (M) - How can you make a woman feel really special and make her feel really sexy during foreplay?...

Girlfriend's sexual past is killing me, please help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3755 days ago

9 March 2009 (M) - I recently asked my girlfriend how many people she has slept with and she said 6. Than a few weeks later she told me the truth of 14. She told me she made big mistakes in high school and shes not what she use to be. Yes, she has definitely changed ...

My boyfriend cheated and I don't know what to do.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5535 days ago

9 March 2009 (F) - Hello, I discovered nearly two weeks ago that my boyfriend of a year and half had been cheating on me for two weeks. When i confronted him he did not try and deny it and said "im sorry i do not know why i did it". He has told me that he has end...

Pathetic drama between my mother and partner

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5535 days ago

9 March 2009 (F) - Hi, My situation is not very dramatic but its difficult for me to know what to do. My partner is Spanish and I am English, we have been together for 5 years now. Living together for 2 and have recently moved back to England to try and make a go of ...

She needs a sitter. Is it wrong of me to pay for them?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5535 days ago

9 March 2009 (M) - I find myself going out with a single mother. Nothing out of the ordinary though it's something I never thought I'd do. She doesn't have any family or close friends so when she's out with me or at work she has to use a babysitter as she has two ...

What is he thinking? Do I have the upper hand now??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5534 days ago

9 March 2009 (F) - Hi, I guess I will get right to it. I've been in a verbal, emotional abusive realtionship on and off for 4 years. He always breaks up with me, than changes his mind and I take him back. Or, I will show up at his place, or call him and then we ...

Is it MY semen or does she seemen?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5532 days ago

9 March 2009 (M) - My partner and I had sex two days ago, today while we were beginning to have sex I pulled out and my member had a big glob of semen just below the head, and I know I didn't just cum. It looks fresh and she says it's from the last time we had sex and ...

Should I cut all contact with her and get on with my life or try to slowly purse a future relationship with her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5534 days ago

9 March 2009 (M) - Hey Guys and Gals, I'm on a slippery slope in my head right now. I broke up with my gf who I've been seeing for 5 years now. I'm 21 and we've seen each other since school, after which we went to different universities but managed to keep the flame ...

How can I stop feeling like a whale in comparison to my boyfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5535 days ago

9 March 2009 (F) - Ok, well I have been dating this guy. He's great and I love spending time with him, but I feel fat in his presence. I know it's kind of dumb, but I can't help it. He's very thin and small framed, while I on the other hand, am probably 15 pounds ...

How to relax when he is fingering me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5535 days ago

9 March 2009 (F) - Ok, me and my boyfriend have been talking about him fingering me. I just want to know does it hurt and what should I do to help myself relax when he is doing it? Hope you can help....

He says he loves me, but how do tell him he is a player not look like I am the insane one?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5534 days ago

9 March 2009 (F) - *deep breath* Here it goes. I'm kind of embarassed to talk about this because I sound so stupid, but I'm stuck.. that's the best way to describe it. I've known Mn for over 3 years now. My school is Mn's rival school, and vice versa. When we first me...

Playing games?Likes me? What?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5524 days ago

9 March 2009 (F) - A few weeks ago on Valentines Day an old flame got back in touch and wished me a Happy Valentines day. It was all very innocent so I replied back and we ended the texting pleasantly. Anyway a couple of weeks later I went out for my birthday and as i ...

Birthday present for the guy who's got everything?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5535 days ago

9 March 2009 (F) - Hey, Me and this guy have been seeing each other for just over a month now, hes completely amazing! its his birthday soon and hes (no offence to him if hes reading this) basically got everything! i really don't know what to get him. Any ideas gu...

Are all guys like this? "geez, its just a game!"

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5535 days ago

9 March 2009 (F) - Are all men like my boyfriend? Impatient?!? Or is it a guy thing where they think they are always right, no matter what?!? Ok, so my boyfriend will never, I mean never admit that he's wrong! If I'm wrong, I'll admit it. But if he's wrong, he'l...

Orgasm by fingering possible?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5535 days ago

9 March 2009 (M) - Well to start off me and my girlfriend have been dating for 9 months now and we both lost our virginity and we had sex about five times now and I haven't gave her an orgasm I'm always the one who gums first so I was wondering how do I give her an ...

I feel obligated to say "I love you"

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5535 days ago

9 March 2009 (F) - I dont know whats wrong with me Ive been with my bf for 10 months now. Ive always had a crush on one of my old guy friends from college, and he me. The result of this in kinda disastorous, as it now means that everytime i see him or talk to him o...

Short time dating...love? Or infatuation?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5535 days ago

9 March 2009 (M) - i met this girl who asked me for my number. we got texting and then dated for just short of two weeks. she was my first girlfriend. i have never got on as well with a girl as i have with her. i thought things were going well when she said to me she ...

It's all going well, he kisses me a LOT but I have to chase him for a date!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5533 days ago

9 March 2009 (F) - I have gone out with this gentlman twice now, the first time we went to dinner. The second time I meet him at his house and we went to dinner and then the theater. He kissed me on the first date, not a peck but nothing aggressive at all, it was ...

Is he not into me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5535 days ago

9 March 2009 (F) - I asked this question before but didnt get a lot of answers so here goes again. I met this guy through a friend. My friend lives with him and he told me that the guy doesnt really hook up and he mentioned that he wanted something long term and that ...

I've decided to swallow my boyfriend's semen, but I'm still scared.

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4586 days ago

9 March 2009 (F) - i've decided to swallow my bfs semen and i'm still nervous about it. i'm afraid i'll gag from the taste. people said it's better to let it shoot down your throat but i'm horrible at deep throating. i was wondering, does the semen shoot out fast into ...

My fiancee wants an abortion, but the thought of it makes me sick. What should I do?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5533 days ago

9 March 2009 (M) - Hi everyone. My fiancee was scared to death of becoming pregnant and now she is. We use contraception but nothing is 100% as you all know. She has always been adamant that she will get an abortion regardless of whether I want it or not and she says ...

I just found out he has a child!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5535 days ago

9 March 2009 (F) - Dear Cupid i have been in this relationship for four years with this guy i love him very much and i know that he loves me too.the problem is tht this past week the was a lady who came to him and told him that he has a 4 or 5 year old girl whit her...

Why did he want to get back together only to push me away again? Should I just forget him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5526 days ago

9 March 2009 (F) - I can not understand this behavior. Why did he want to get back together only to push me away again. I dont understand this cat and mouse game. We got back together for 2 months I got jealous ke got mad and then said it hurt him and he cant be ...

I feel like I was his second choice. Should I stay with him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5526 days ago

9 March 2009 (F) - We have been together for almost 2 years. Since the beginning of our relationship he never told me about this girl until I found out trough his friend he used to like her and wanted to go out with her but she never wanted to. Everytime we had a ...

Unfortunately I don't think HE think's I'm the one...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5535 days ago

9 March 2009 (F) - Alright, I have been dating a great guy for the last year and four months, unfortunately I have have a feeling that he already knows that I am not the one. First of all he has never said I love you, only that "you are my best friend" and "I care ...

I bled for 11 days after having sex, is this normal?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5535 days ago

9 March 2009 (F) - I'm sorta worried now! I always said I wanted to save my virginity until I was older, mature and in love.. I've been in a relationship with this amazing guy now for just over a year, and we both felt ready, we'd spoke about it for about 6 weeks, I ...

Boyfriend is cross dressing & lying about it

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5535 days ago

9 March 2009 (F) - I am a 19 year old female and a few months into our relationship i found out that my bf liked to cross dress. He is 24. I was disgusted at this and confronted him about it. He said he would try to stop but things got flung out and more stuff got ...

So desperate to be with me and yet now he never calls?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5532 days ago

9 March 2009 (F) - Hello to all of you, I am currently going out with a man, he says he loves me very much but there is something that happened recently which got me thinking a lot about his feelings. It's been a long time since we met and he was very really very eag...

How to seduce a lady & have sex

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5196 days ago

9 March 2009 (M) - Wants 2 no how 2 completly seduce a lady and hv sex wit her. Cos i hv been wit 4 girls bt non respond properly.d 1st didnt allow me 2 touch her panties but we ar kissing. D 2nd after much strugle i remove her panties but refuse me 2 penetrate. 3rd ...

In the loop with 2 guys

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5536 days ago

9 March 2009 (F) - Hi, I was dating a guy for 6 months and he told me he wasnt ready for a steady relationship. Since then i moved on and met someone else who is 20years older. Been dating him for 3 months. He is very nice to me and he is looking for something ve...

He refuses to go down on me

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5536 days ago

9 March 2009 (F) - I am just wondering why my boyfriend won't go down on me anymore. We haveo nly been together about 4 months and I keep myself well groomed. THe most it ever gets to down there is a little stubbly which he has commented he likes because it "tickles" ...

Have I lost my sex appeal?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5535 days ago

9 March 2009 (M) - so i have been wondering for the past maybe 7 months of my almost 2 year relationship that my girlfriend, now fiancee has been wanting increasingly less sexual things, not just sex, but everything of a sexual nature, even just making out or fooling ...

What are the signs to falling in love?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5536 days ago

9 March 2009 (F) - Hello! I need to know how I can tell if I am falling in love. What are the signs? ...

What does this all mean? Is he flirting or...?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5535 days ago

9 March 2009 (F) - okay so this guy and i were just hanging out and so he started to try and tickle me so i tried to get away but he grabbed my hand and pulled me back into him and he gave me a hug aand said "hmm someones ticklish". what does that all mean?...

A date turns into a FWB, but I'm confused as to WHY?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5492 days ago

9 March 2009 (F) - I dated this guy for 2 months, we had sex on the first date and continued to date for several weeks. i was unsure about him the whole time, and he kept hinting that i could see him and date others. about two months in, he became a bit distant and ...

What do I do with his "boys" while giving a blowjob?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5026 days ago

9 March 2009 (F) - how do i suck my bfs testicles during a blowjob? ive never done it before so im a little nervous as far as what to do with them. do i lick them? suck them? and my bf says he enjoys the blowjobs i give a lot but i want to make them more enjoyable. ...

Is the awkwardness because we just don't know eachother enough?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5536 days ago

9 March 2009 (F) - Hey, I'm having difficulties with something that I think is a bit stupid! Well, I've been going out with this guy for about a month and a half ....and everything was okay, but I feel a little bit awkward from time to time,probably because it is my ...

I really love her, but she still talks to her ex!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5535 days ago

9 March 2009 (M) - hi im 15 and my girlfriend and i broke up like 3 weeks ago and thats the longest weve ever broken up. i was kinda doing okay compared to the other times but dont get me wrong i missed her and still had feelings for her and i loved her more each day...

Suggestions preferably by males, on ex's behaviour, please help!!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5533 days ago

9 March 2009 (F) - Please give your advice. Me and my boyfriend broke up over a year ago. We kept in contact a bit and I text him, until I decided to tell him that I wanted to be with him and still had feelings for him. He told me to move on, so I did. Have not had ...

I tried to break it off with this married man but he still flirts with me, what do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5524 days ago

9 March 2009 (F) - I began dating a guy at work a few months ago. He is married and I knew it from the beginning. (I know it's horrible). For the past few months, we've gotten relatively close. We emailed several times a day, went out on a few occations, (no sex, ...

What is it like to swallow semen?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5385 days ago

9 March 2009 (F) - What is swallowing like? I want to swallow my bf's semen but I'm kinda afraid because some people say they gag. What do they gag from? Do they gag from the taste? or the semen going in their mouth and down their throat? I have horrible gag ...

Should I start initiating contact with her or leave it be and let her contact me again in a week or two?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5536 days ago

9 March 2009 (M) - I began dating my now ex-girlfriend in December of 2007. In June of 2008 we decided to move her in with me because we were very much in love and we were driving 40 miles 2 or 3 times a week to see one another. She was having a hard time finding a ...

It was just getting good what is his deal?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5536 days ago

9 March 2009 (F) - Things were progressing so well with this new guy. We met online. Emailed back and forth for a while, talked on the phone and have been on four dates. Our dates have been great and he called me several days in advance to plan the first three and he ...

I feel trapped, unwanted and depressed...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5536 days ago

9 March 2009 (F) - I have been in a relationship for 4 1/2 years. The first couple of years was great, but the last 2 1/2 years have been hard. It seems like just for me. I have a daughter from a previous relationship. Me and my partner had a daughter together. ...