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Dating: Help and advice

I'm heartbroken...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5532 days ago

12 March 2009 (F) - I went out with a boy for almost 3 months and fell in love with him. He broke my heart and about 3 days later had another girl on his arm. I am still in love but they have now been going out for 5 months or a little longer. I want him back! What ...

Is she getting bored with me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5532 days ago

12 March 2009 (M) - I feel like shit... I'm 15 and my girlfrend is 16. When we started going out it was perfect but now I'm really mad... I'm a nice sweet guy, totally not a jerk and a really good and caring boyfriend... I love her and I thought she did tooo... but ...

I feel I deserve better...

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5532 days ago

12 March 2009 (F) - I have been in a relationship for almost two and a half years. I am with a guy who truly loves me and will do anything for me. But I am going for an accounting degree and he does not even have a high school diploma. I just feel like I should ...

I need your help aunts!!! How can I find out for sure if my boyfriend has cheated?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5532 days ago

12 March 2009 (F) - Hi, my boyfriend cheated before and I am really trying to forget it but it is so hard, I just cannot seem to get it out of my head. There are no definite facts but I think he's up to something, I think he's hiding a a second sim card that he could...

My family freaked out when they found out my guy is bi!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5526 days ago

12 March 2009 (F) - Hi im 22 years old and I am bi sexually. When I was 19 I told my parents and they were totally fine with it. Last year I started dating a guy "Josh" my parents LOVED him. But they didnt know that "Josh" was also bi. We have experimented in our ...

How to make out and use my tongue

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5532 days ago

12 March 2009 (M) - hi aunts im a 14 year old guy and i've never had a girlfriend before and i feel so pathetic right now.....never kissed or anything like that.. but now i do have a relationship with this wonderful girl..she's awesome and every thing is great we...

Could sex be a gift for her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5531 days ago

12 March 2009 (M) - I have a great girlfriend who is about 15+ years older but looks hot. We enjoy spending time together and doing fun things. She likes to shop and often buys me things. I feel kind of embarrassed when I don't have anything to give her. I might buy ...

What does "slow down"mean?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5532 days ago

12 March 2009 (F) - I am 33. I have been dating a 27 year old guy for about two months. We have gotten along wonderfully untill yesturday. I was in a funk and I started trying to break up with him. and he instantly started ignoring my phone calls, and blowing me off. ...

Why am I attracted to the "alpha dog"..powerful, often bad men all the time?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5532 days ago

12 March 2009 (F) - Why am i attracted to 'alpha dog' males all the time? All my life I have gone for the same sort of men:Criminals, gangsters, policemen, bikers, bouncers, prison oficers...etc, they even have a similar look- muscles, shaven head, tattoos....

Making out for the first time..

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5531 days ago

12 March 2009 (F) - heyy there. me and my boyfriend have been together for a month and half and he wants to make out except...i've never made out before. i just dont know what im suppose to do with my tongue and everything. advice please? ...

He used to hug me and stuff and now he doesn't even acknowledge that I'm alive

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5532 days ago

12 March 2009 (F) - I am so sad right now, and I always regret EVERYTHING I do. Well, there's this boy. I liked him for a long time, but he didn't even know I existed, well, that's what I thought. Until one day he started flirting with me. (He has a girlfriend) Then ...

I just want to know whats going through his head

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12 March 2009 (F) - i seriously need help as i dont know what to do. its a very long story and complicated story but im going to try and keep it short, 2years ago i really liked this guy, i never knew him properly infact we hardly spoke i dont exactly know how...

Does asking someone out too soon damage things permanently if they don't accept?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5532 days ago

12 March 2009 (M) - If you ask someone who you like out too soon and don't accept, does that always damage the prospects of anything in the future? In my case, it was a really hard choice to ask her. She never actually refused, she just never replied to the e...

I'm having trouble reading what he's trying to do.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5532 days ago

12 March 2009 (F) - So this guy and I have had a rather bumpy road. We've both been immature and acted hot and cold towards each other and gotten 3rd parties involved in our relationship. Really stupid. But now we are on break and we decided to start over and i ...

Is she just being kind and not ending it bluntly, or do you think she just needs some time?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5532 days ago

12 March 2009 (M) - I've been together with my friend for 6 weeks, quite soon after she came out of a longish term relationship. We spent the first few weeks taking things really slowly as she was worried I was just a rebound, but got closer and closer. She has said to ...

She wont open up and tell me whats going on in her life

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12 March 2009 (M) - Ok i am with the most wonderful girl ever and I love her and she loves me. Here lately she been living eith her grandma due to some issues with her dad, and she has been totally different and she blames it on being home sick. Well at christma...

He's been caught red handed!! - What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5532 days ago

12 March 2009 (F) - HELP! - c I have been seeing this guy - who I know had an ex partner who he sees from time because of his child! Anyway, the other day, he accidently sent me a text intended for his ex girlfriend saying how much he loves her etc etc! - After the in...

How much space and time should I give her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5532 days ago

12 March 2009 (M) - ill try explain fully, i met my girlfriend 2 years ago, we got on and was love at first sight we went on holiday after 3 weeks had amazing times never argue have done loads of amazing things, in 2 years we have been on 5 holidays moved in together, ...

My FWB says he loves me now that I lost weight. Reality check?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5532 days ago

12 March 2009 (F) - Ok here is the story I have been fwb with this man for almost a year now. Well I'm losing weight and he is starting to really respond to this. He tells me how beautiful I am and how much he wants me and how he can't keep his hands off of me. He h...

How do I stop putting all my happiness into a guy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5532 days ago

12 March 2009 (F) - How do i stop putting my happiness into guys? Theres this guy and i know he likes me, we always text and speak online and we went cinema a while ago. , its not offical or anything. Its one of those things were you like each other but nothings...

Accept or move on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5532 days ago

12 March 2009 (F) - how to accept or move on? my boyfriend of 12 years insist on us seeing each other every other weekend since he and i have lived apart for 2 years . i have had a very hard time dealing with this along with his drug abuse . he is also in a new band...

I would like some advice about what to do, I really like him

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5532 days ago

12 March 2009 (F) - Hi aunts and uncles, I need some advice about my ex. You might have read some of my earlier posts, if not I’ll try and sum it up real’ quick; My ex and I met at school almost 3 years ago, we liked each other from the beginning, and after half a...

No intimacy anymore! Help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5532 days ago

12 March 2009 (M) - Ok...So I broke up with a girlfriend of 3 years back in June. She was staying at my house and a girl I knew from the pool room I worked in, invited me to stay at her place. I was kind excited because she was roomies with a girl i worked with and ...

I felt for him more than a FWB. Any ideas how to cope?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5532 days ago

12 March 2009 (F) - hi me and my FWB have today decided to stop, and just be friends. ive been feeling for a while that he didnt want to carry on and that something was wrong becuase he was making excuses, so i asked him and he told me he didnt know becuase he doesn...

My man wants me to talk "dirty" in bed!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5532 days ago

12 March 2009 (F) - Hello all. I'd like to get feedback from the guys on this one! My man wants me to talk "dirty" to him in bed. What does he want me to say? Can you guys give me some tips, examples of what you like to hear and what makes you extra hot? I'd re...

How can I become more than just friends?

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12 March 2009 (F) - what do you do when you really like your friend but he not atrracted to you in a sexully way...

Is it normal for fiancee to look for nude pics on craigslist?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5532 days ago

12 March 2009 (F) - I thought I was hot but fiancee is bringing me down! seems like he likes to look for random (and free) places to view naked pics of chicks. seems to happen daily to some degree and I also thinks he looks on his phone at work. he seems to especial...

I Like this guy, alot. but I'm not sure if he likes me.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5530 days ago

12 March 2009 (F) - I Like this guy, alot. but im not sure if he likes me. we've been best mates for a long time and we do flirt a little bit. My best friend told me that she also likes him but i havnt told her how i feel. he told me he doesnt like her and recently...

I wish I knew what he was thinking. Have I blown it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5532 days ago

12 March 2009 (F) - Hey so i met this boy months ago in a bar, we started talking (as you do) he added me on facebbok and that. Anyway we started texting eachother for a while but then i kinda got bored, had a lot on so i kinda faded away from texting him. I bump...

I am starting to have physical attraction to a female friend

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5532 days ago

12 March 2009 (F) - For the past few months i've developed a rather strong physical attraction to one of my female friends. I've never ever been attracted to a girl or even thought about it and always simply liked guys. I was freaked out by my feelings at first but i ...

I have been hiding my relationship from my parents

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5532 days ago

12 March 2009 (F) - I have to hide my relationship with my boyfriend of a year from my parents, just because of his families relgion and it's cause me to become so depressed. His family are muslim but are not as strict as many are protrayed. I really love my boyfrien...

Is it because he left me years ago, the reason why I have such a fear of confrontation?

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12 March 2009 (F) - i have wrote several times. the issues i have wrote about do bother me alot. i know that out of avoiding confrontation i wont say anything to him. my question is because he left me years ago so close to our wedding is that why i have such a fear ...

Is it the truth? Or one of his famous lies?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5532 days ago

12 March 2009 (F) - I am an older person and should know this but I want to get it verified. I have been seeing this man on and off for 20 years and just back together afte being separated for over 5 years. Everything was going ok until a couple of weeks ago. He ...

He's too nice and its annoying me!!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5133 days ago

12 March 2009 (F) - Hi, this sounds sooo stupid but its been really bugging me for so long. I've been with my boyfriend for almost 5 yrs and he really is the nicest person...i swear he is a saint! Nothing is never any trouble for him and he never has anything ba...

Is not letting yourself fall in love a selfish act?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5532 days ago

12 March 2009 (M) - Is not letting yourself fall in love a selfish act? Not sure if I an scared because I know love pushes the boundaries of our heart and makes us experience more. If I resist love and it happens anyway I think that might make it more real and...

Since we are housemates now, does that mean he is off limits?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5524 days ago

12 March 2009 (F) - So here's the deal... I met this guy through mutual friends about 2 years ago. He's a relatively shy guy when hes around people he doesnt know and hasnt really had a girlfriend. We all hang out go out for dinners, parties etc and we always got al...

I am dating my best friends ex-fiancee. Should I tell her?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5531 days ago

12 March 2009 (F) - Hi guys and gals. I moved down to London around six months ago because I found a good job. I left my best friend up in Manchester. About three months ago, I ran in to my best friend's fiance here in London. I knew that they had broken up since my ...

Should I wait and see what happens or be clear about my expectations up front?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5532 days ago

12 March 2009 (F) - Would love some advice on this. My bf of 18 months and I broke up for a couple of weeks as he said he didn’t love me, just likes me alot. Having been apart for 2 weeks he says he has a lot more feelings for me than he thought and he wants me back. ...

He says he can only be with me from 6-10 to celebrate my birthday. Am I being unreasonable in wanting more?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5532 days ago

12 March 2009 (F) - I reminded my boyfriend about my birthday just in case he forgot (it's my second birthday with him) and I know he has his son that day so I suggested we "party it in". This is a German tradition that involves celebrating the night before until at ...

It's about time I gave up on a boyfriend,; it's not for me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5532 days ago

12 March 2009 (F) - hi after all my rejection in the last 10 years i think i should give up on getting a boyfriend its too much of pain.there is too much competion out there .the guys i like somebody else so i don,t think is much point, any boys perfer tall,gorg...

I saw him kissing his ex. Should I speak to him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5532 days ago

12 March 2009 (F) - I don't know what to do. In December I met a guy and since we were both fresh out of relationships, we agreed to see eachother non exclusively. We've been fine until the last month or so. He began ignoring me for days, while we were at the same ...

Unintentional kiss with actor threatening to ruin my relationship with my boyfriend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5532 days ago

12 March 2009 (F) - First off, far fetched though this may sound, I swear to god it's for real. I really, really need help with this, and I can't turn to anyone I know for advice. I have, completely unintentionally got myself into a relationship of sorts with a man...

I'm still a virgin and afraid I won't know what to do

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5480 days ago

12 March 2009 (F) - I am 16 years old and my boyfriend is 21. We both want to have sex but im still a virgin and im scared he wont like it or i wont know what to do or it will really hurt and i am completely in love with him and we are engaged what do i do...

How can I change my life to be happy again

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5532 days ago

12 March 2009 (F) - Im at the point where i cant take anything no more and i want to know how i can stop from feeling like this. Well i have been through a lot of stuff mostly just being abused by men sexually physically and mentally and i have had enough. I live wit...

My gf wasnt a virgin but I was, and it bothers me

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5531 days ago

12 March 2009 (M) - Ok. Ive been with my gf for over 4 years and we have a 1 year old baby. Ok my problem is that I was a virgin till I meant my gf and she was my first and only. But come to find out i wasnt for her. its kinda hard to explain but the guy who had sex ...

Please help. I am dying to talk to to my b/f's friends

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5532 days ago

12 March 2009 (F) - my boyfriend has friends that goes to my school........... i never talked to them before but now i want to make friends with them , how can i approach them.? and what if they reject me or maybe ask me out ? i want to tell my boyfriend about it but ...

Is it just pretend or in my mind?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5478 days ago

12 March 2009 (F) - cutting it short i met a guy through the net. he was sweet and into me. we had some rough patch at beginning when going out. now we're good. but our only form of contact is msn or the phone. now he never has credit and doesn't come online o...

Am I being selfish that I want something?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5532 days ago

12 March 2009 (M) - hi everyone. the problem i have is about my girlfriend and me. we have alot in common but its like we completely have different humor and were usually silent when we walk home together. shes really shy about letting her feelings out but i know ther...

I always call him...he never calls me first

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5532 days ago

12 March 2009 (?) - MOD NOTE: Poster age says 27, but poster says they are 13. Well im 13 and im dating a 13 year old boy. Every night i have to call him and every time i do he always says ill call you back later. 3 or 2 hours later he calls me back. He never calls me ...

Do relationships where people are young work out?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5533 days ago

12 March 2009 (M) - Me and my girlfriend have been going out for over five months now. We're both first year college students, and we met pretty coincidentally. We realized that we liked each other from the very start and started going out. Although we had some ...

His porn viewing has made me feel insecure! Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5532 days ago

12 March 2009 (F) - I told my fiance I don't want him to look at porn and I found out he did twice. He finally confessed one day out of the blue when I was talking bout porn. That's been almost a month ago.(When he confessed.) I thought it was because I just had a ...

After a year and a half...he cheated on me!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5532 days ago

12 March 2009 (F) - ive been dating my boyfriend for about a year and a half. in the beginning of our relationship, when we had been going out for about two months, i kissed another boy when i was super drunk around new years eve. he forgave me and ive never done ...

I need some advice on how to be a success with the ladies!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5532 days ago

12 March 2009 (M) - Another week, another night where I see people getting off with people in clubs, while I sit idly by unable to meet anyone myself. I'm starting to feel completely useless. I seem to be the only sad f**ker in the world who doesn't know how to comm...

We haven't talked in days! Doesn't he like me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5533 days ago

12 March 2009 (F) - i met one of my brother's friends about 2 weeks ago. we like each other straight away. we were perfect, we'd flirt and i could tell he likes me, he use to follow me around to get my attention. he told me he isn't straight forward with girls he l...

Creative ideas for asking him out?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5532 days ago

12 March 2009 (F) - I need some creative date ideas for asking someone out, sounds easy right? One problem, he works 12 hours a day, 7 days a week. I mean yes I admire the dedication and all but it makes stealing a couple hours of his time a little more difficult. I ...

Want her to want me more than just a friend

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5532 days ago

12 March 2009 (M) - i met my best friend 7 yrs ago when I was just 16 . The moment I saw her was all over her. Every day since we have hung out. We have went on several dates over the years that amount to nothing. I am totally in love with her and she know its. I don't ...