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Archived questions from: 28 March, 2009 (see latest in Dating category)

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I'm so scared I'm never going to be happy

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5491 days ago

28 March 2009 (F) - I am so scared that I'm never going to be happy. Lately, I've felt so discouraged that my heart is breaking. I know that I need to get over some things, and be grateful for the things I have, but sometimes the void inside me just makes me want to ...

I've invested a lot into this friendship. What do I do now??

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5501 days ago

28 March 2009 (F) - My best friend of a year terminated our friendship this week. I don't know what to do. I'm in a mess. This is the situation: We've been friends a year. He's a gay guy I'm a female "Grace". My gay friend I will call 'Will'. We hit it off immediate...

I fancy my best mate's ex

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5515 days ago

28 March 2009 (M) - my best friend went out wit this girls and she dumped him im still gud friends wit her and now i really fancy her i don't want to tell her because i don't no if she likes me or not but i also dont want to go out wit her because i dont want to make ...

He cheated once. Do I cheat now?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5387 days ago

28 March 2009 (F) - okay well i just currently turned 14 and i'm in a relationship wit a 15 yr old. But he live's in another town. And he currently cheated on me. But i got bak wit him. Now a 16 yr old asked me out and i don't want to cheat on my boyfriend. But he chea...

So, how do I find out if he's single??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5516 days ago

28 March 2009 (F) - right, i really like this guy, we clicked from the start. he said he had a girlfriend so i didn't think about him much. We were both at a party then where we were all a bit out of it. i THINK he said that he was going to break up with his girlfrie...

Why won't she let me pick her up for our date?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5516 days ago

28 March 2009 (M) - We had a really good first date last night and we're going out again tonight. Tonight, however, she categorically does not want me to pick her up. She would rather meet up there (which isn't exactly centretown). It's a little confusing. Why on...

Will I ever be able to love again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5515 days ago

28 March 2009 (F) - i was married for 24 years to a man that didn't love me. i fell in love with another, while married, our feelings seemed to be real, specially his, he had been hurt before and he said it was very hard for him. he said that pain is too hard so he ...

Is he sending mixed signals or is he being a duche?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5516 days ago

28 March 2009 (F) - heyy can ppl please help me understand this its driving me crazy ... my ex boyfriend was at the same party as me last week ... when i see him i usually have a convo with him cos im still friendly with him even thou he broke my heart .. afte...

I keep asking questions and its driving him crazy

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5513 days ago

28 March 2009 (F) - my boyfriend is 29 the kind of guy that doesnt like to be touched. and very quit.been together 2 years. met in a strip club. well i found out from one his co workers that he stoped careing for me 4 months ago and planing on moveing in augest and brak...

Come and help libyan's gays hassles please!!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5516 days ago

28 March 2009 (M) - hiya ,,, I actually need HELP? Four weeks ago i joined an English institute where i fell in love with a nice and blond guy, 26 Libyan. How can i come closer 2 him? And to tell him that i wanna have sex with him. I'll wanna marry him if that po...

I don't know whats going on with him and I need help figuring this out before I go crazy.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5513 days ago

28 March 2009 (F) - ok theres something going on between my fiance and i and i cant figure it out... we have been fighting for about 2-3 weeks now. we've been together for 4 years and we have 2 kids together. but some things are little as him chargeing xbox stuff to o...

I think he still has some feelings for me a little

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5516 days ago

28 March 2009 (F) - I love my ex so much we split in july last year but carried on having sex after we split, about 2 months ago, we had sex for the last time, as since then hes got himself a gf, but about the 10 feb of feb he said that he wanted to suck my tits and ...

Have I gotten too clingy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5516 days ago

28 March 2009 (M) - I have a friend that I've gotten VERY close with but we have not yet reached the point of being boyfriend-girlfriend. It's a long distance relationship (about 100 miles). We were supposed to meet over lunch recently when she left me a voice ...

Best place for a tattoo?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5516 days ago

28 March 2009 (F) - Hey Everyone I'm going to get tattooed on Tuesday and I'm going to get my Dude's name on me I don't have any tattoos and I'm wondering if I should get his name on my wrist or my forearm which would be best for a girl or does it not matter?...

Do I really fancy him, or do I see him as a father figure?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5513 days ago

28 March 2009 (F) - I like a man who is 26 years older than me, he's married and has a son and daughter,who are similar ages to me.He flirts with me a lot,and says he is fascinated with me,that i am attractive.He also says that he wants me to have an affair with ...

I don't know what going on. Can you help me solve this mystery?

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28 March 2009 (F) - ok so my fiance and i have been having some minor/major difficulties in our situation i thought we have finally worked everything out opened up to each other but it dont seem that way. well we have been fighting for weeks over everything and i was ...

My flirty fiancee wont stop flirting with our younger friend...why does she need to do this?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5515 days ago

28 March 2009 (M) - I am 47 and my fiance is 41. She constantly flirts with a younger 23 year old friend of ours everytime she sees him. She says she has no attraction toward him and it's innocent but this really pushes my buttons everytime she does it. I've told ...

Old-flame back in my life again....should I call her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5516 days ago

28 March 2009 (M) - I am 61 years old and a widower for 5 years. I recently found the girl I was dating before my late wife. She lives fairly close to me and after a little phone tag we finally talked for almost two hours about when we were teenagers and so much in ...

Is he just trying to find an easy way out of our relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5515 days ago

28 March 2009 (F) - So recently stuff has been hard. I'm under quite alot of pressure from school to get the best grades I can and at home as well. So me and my friends started going out on a friday night and taking off the pressure by drinking. We've only done it for ...

Can our relationship be saved? Or is she just one of "those" girls who cant be faithful?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5516 days ago

28 March 2009 (M) - So me and my girlfriend first started going out almost a year ago now. Although, it’s been very far from perfect. At first, as it is with most relationships I imagine, it was great. I thought it was perfect. But time went by, and we began to see the ...

Will my boyfriend leave me because I don't want children?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5516 days ago

28 March 2009 (F) - I don't want kids. I have never wanted kids. I just don't like them, have no motherly instinct, plus childbirth = ow. My boyfriend does want kids. He's said he used to think about being a father a lot. He knows I don't want them, and knew that whe...

I'm the one making all the effort in our relationship!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5516 days ago

28 March 2009 (F) - I've been seeing my ex again for around six weeks and it seemed to going well but... My problem is he used to text me a fair bit through the day, not loads but enough to know that he does like me. Now though I only get one text a day and he leaves ...

Should I expect my man only to be interested in sex when we met whilst I was working in the sex industry?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5128 days ago

28 March 2009 (F) - after meeting my man while i worked in the sex industry, should i have expected him to only show interest in being with me if we were having sex?...

Religion is getting in the way of our relationship....How do we make this work?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5516 days ago

28 March 2009 (M) - im dating this girl who parents are jehovas witnessness and she is too but not my choice anyway im not in anyway relgion n she isnt supposed to be seein guys or even me but we been sorta datin under the radar for awhile i find her really amzing ...

I miss the intimacy and don't know what's wrong

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5516 days ago

28 March 2009 (F) - I've been in a very loving relationship for 8 months now. My boyfriend is so caring, understanding, lovely... everything I could ask for and we very rarely argue. When we first together we had sex basically every day. This is how I was wit...

Now I'm being bullied by the co-worker he's dating

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5516 days ago

28 March 2009 (F) - I dated a guy in my workplace:we kept it secret due to policy.i previously helped him get a job there. he didn't know at the time that i was bullied there.i didn't want to get him involved and was scared he would think less of me. anyway, i fell i...

Said he liked me but in the morning just walked off!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5516 days ago

28 March 2009 (F) - see, i met this boy last weekend. We were drunk and kissed before falling asleep in eachothers arms.he said he liked me but the next morning he just walked off and ignored me.the thing is though, i really like him but i dont know if he likes me or ...

If I try to move on I will be lonely. I don't have that many friends.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5503 days ago

28 March 2009 (F) - Well.. Im 14 and I have recently broken up with my ex. He was my first boyfriend that I fell in love with. He is in the year above me. And well when we first met he was crazy of me always phoning me texting me and I knew that we would be going ou...

Dont want to push him further but don't want to give up either

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5514 days ago

28 March 2009 (F) - Can time realy heal I met this guy on line Jan 08 shortly after joing a chat site. We became friends instantly as we had a lot in common. About 4 month into the friendship he met another girl that he almost instantly fell for. As there relation...

I really think I might be bi but I'm scared to date a chick. What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5517 days ago

28 March 2009 (F) - Ok so I really have 2 questions 1) I really like this girl and she live in MA and I live in PA. She has A boyfriend but she wants me And I want her. Is it possible to have a long distance relationship like that? Btw I'm 17 she's 21. 2) I've...

How do you know when you've ruined a friendship?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5516 days ago

28 March 2009 (F) - This is bugging me so much that I can't sleep. Sorry it's long but I need to get this off my chest. I'm feeling very conflicted about a friend. Part of me feels overcome with guilt because I think I've ruined the friendship and part of me is...

I'm wondering if I should break up with my girlfriend...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5516 days ago

28 March 2009 (M) - Hello, I have been in a relationship for a year with my girlfriend. My girlfriend is a waitress. I recently moved in with her 2 months ago. Everything was going great but then she left her myspace open so i looked at it and saw that she was talking ...

I saw a txt meant for my friend from my boyfriend that upset me.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5516 days ago

28 March 2009 (F) - my boyfriend and i were texting on the phone... my friend nick was sitting next to me and wanted to talk to him so i handed over the phone. they started talking but he wouldnt tell me what the were saying i took away the phone after an hour an...

I want to break up with my girlfriend!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5517 days ago

28 March 2009 (M) - hello everyone ...i am 21 and my girlfriend is 18 ....we are having an affair since one year but due to some reason i have decided to dump her ...she has been a very responsible and caring girlfriend and i am really very lucky to have a person like ...

Others say I can do better than whom I am with and I might think the same.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5517 days ago

28 March 2009 (F) - Ok. So I'm dating this guy and I love him dearly and we've been dating for 1 year and almost 7 months, but everyone I know/work with say I can do better. There's a coworker that I like a lot and he likes me back. He's completely sweet, makes sure ...

I don't trust other guys after I been cheated on!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5517 days ago

28 March 2009 (F) - First off, I'm nineteen. My ex and I dated for two years. He physically, emotionally, and sexually abused me on an almost daily basis for about a year and eight months of that. Four months ago, he cheated on me with a girl who had already had eight ...

I don't know what to do in a relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5517 days ago

28 March 2009 (F) - Hi everyone!!! I need help ummmm this guy asked me out and I said that I would think about it!! And I honestly don't know what to do sure I like him and everything but I've never been in a relationship or anything that has to do with that except for ...

I can see us breaking up but I still have fun with him

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5516 days ago

28 March 2009 (F) - My boyfriend of 3 years and nearlly two months, lives with me and my family and has done for 2 years. Recently tho we;ve been argueing alot, we usualy argue but neevr this much before. He says he doesnt think thing's are working out and doesnt want ...

I wouldn't kiss her and now she won't talk to me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5517 days ago

28 March 2009 (M) - My girl friend tried to kiss wile we were going out once i said no, and she wont talk to me. what should i do?...

Are we over? He hasn't called in a week

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5517 days ago

28 March 2009 (F) - I'm seeing this guy that I have known for several months. We are on spring break now but at school, we communicate about every other day via calls/texts and I go over to his place a lot. We act like a couple when we are together, and the day before ...

She wants to go see an old guy friend, but won't let me come with her...to meet him! Right or wrong??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5497 days ago

28 March 2009 (M) - I am a 28 year old male, in a long distance relationship with a 22 year old female. I had plans to go visit her, for a week in April 3. But we hit a snag here and now I am not sure if I should go, (in light of what's happened) After my visit...

17 and no girlfriend!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5515 days ago

28 March 2009 (M) - I am just 17 years old and i have not gotten a girlfriend before, i am not desperate. I do have female friends and i have fallen in love with one of them but the problem is that she is older than me(20 years). I dont know if she loves me, she tells ...

My ex invited me & my b/f to a housewarming party and played a sex tape we had made together!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5514 days ago

28 March 2009 (F) - dear aunts, my boyfriend and i have been dating for two and a half years. he's funny, honest, smart, hard-working, just everything i could want in a man. i have never connected with another person on so many levels, and i can't imagine loving a...