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Archived questions from: 15 March, 2009 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

How can I make myself believe that there are good men out there?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5529 days ago

15 March 2009 (F) - Don't know if I did the right thing. I just left my boyfriend of 4 years after him cheating on me twice cuz he said that we were having problems, thru physical and mental abuse.. I finally woke up and realized that I shouldn't allow him to do this ...

Inconsiderate boyfriend.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5529 days ago

15 March 2009 (F) - Hey, I have a habit of falling asleep on my boyfriend... like at 4 and 5 o'clock in the morning, when he wants to have sex, or when he wants me to come over. He gets really mad at me. I'm like you act like I fall asleep at 8 or 9pm. I've be up all ...

He wants me to give him oral sex, but I've never done it before and I'm a bit nervous. Help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5529 days ago

15 March 2009 (F) - Hi, i have a bit of an embarresing question. im seeing this guy and we have slept together quite a few times and he wants me to give him a blow job. iv told him im not sure i want to do that and he said its fine he wouldnt make me do anything i wa...

I need to win back her trust, but I don't know what to do. Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5529 days ago

15 March 2009 (M) - I cheated on my girlfriend while on holiday last year. We'd been together 7 weeks, so i just put it behide me as a drunken mistake. At christmas, we moved in together and she asked me to be totally honest about everything and said it didnt matter as ...

My boyfriend and I haven't spoken in 3 weeks. What's going on?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5529 days ago

15 March 2009 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been together for about 2 years now and we recently got into an argument. Later on that night I called him but he didn't answer his phone. I decided to let him cool off for a couple of days but I still heard nothing from ...

I think she wants the best of both worlds (the single life AND a relationship). Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5528 days ago

15 March 2009 (M) - To give some information on things, me and my gf have been together for about 8 months now and we live about an hour away from eachother. She has a lot of guy friends, and I have some girls that are friends too. Things have been going really well ...

I think I'm falling for her...help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5529 days ago

15 March 2009 (M) - Ok So heres the thing i need some help and advice. Theres this girl shes been with her boyfriend for 4 years there engaged, shes been texting me bad stuff and says she wants me and i really turn her on. her and her boyfriend are on a break at th...

My parents will FREAK if I tell them how old he is. Does age matter?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5506 days ago

15 March 2009 (F) - A four weekends ago my girlfriends and I were out for drinks and I accidently dumped into this cute business type guy and spilled my drink on him. We started talking and he told me I owed him a dance for getting him dirty. We danced and ended up ...

I have a thing for a girl at work, but I think I've been stabbed in the back. Help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5520 days ago

15 March 2009 (F) - Please offer some insight I am confused. I am a bisexual,I only kissed a woman and -I am not open about it, only with a few close friends. Since before christmas, I felt a connection with a coworker she is woman a married woman, and I am a singl...

How can I turn him down nicely?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5529 days ago

15 March 2009 (F) - I have a part time job in a small shop in town. I mainly work during the weekend so therefore meet regular customers every weekend. I work on the till most of the time and as part of my personality and my job, I am friendly and polite to all my ...

My best friend's girl is cheating on him. What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5529 days ago

15 March 2009 (M) - My best friends girl is cheating on him. I heard it around town for a while now but didnt believe it until I seen it myself. He is madly in love with her, should I tell him?...

How do I know if I was in love with her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5529 days ago

15 March 2009 (M) - hi im 15 and i was wondering what does it feel like to be in love? when do you know your in love? i think was in love and i think well i know she loved me back but she chose drinkin and smokin over me and yeah im still hurtin cause it was 4 days ago ...

My fiance and I are fighting a lot. He thinks I'm the "psycho girlfriend", but I think I'm justified in my reactions. Help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5527 days ago

15 March 2009 (F) - My fiance and I have been together for 3 and a half years. We have had many ups and downs. He has severe anxiety and depression. I always seem to be insecure and sometimes fit the stereotype of the "psycho girlfriend" I guess you could say. He has ...

He's already got 4 kids, but I want a child of my own

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5529 days ago

15 March 2009 (M) - So I've been in a relationship with a 35 year old man for over a year. He has 4 kids from a previous relationship, but I love him with all my heart. Being that I'm only 19 years old. I want a family of my own, but I've been having a strange feeling ...

I feel wrongfully accused of being a "tease"

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5529 days ago

15 March 2009 (F) - I've been dating this guy for a couple of weeks now but we have known each other for about 2 months. We we first got together, he pressed himself against me and I said that I don't do that without a commitment and asked if he wanted to try dating ...

He dumped me by email...Should I try to build bridges?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5529 days ago

15 March 2009 (F) - Hello -me and my boyfriend broke up recently, we only dated for a couple of months but it was really good met over summer but we were both going to uni so stopped it there. got back together over christmas and were content in making it work, ...

Why does he protect the malicious ex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5529 days ago

15 March 2009 (F) - I've been dating my new blooke for 8 weeks, things are going very well, we get on amazingly well and for the first time in quite a while I really feel something for this guy. Now, as most guys do, he has An Ex. One of the kinda pain in the a** ...

What's going on in her head?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5529 days ago

15 March 2009 (M) - me and this girl have been talking, for quite sometime almost 5 months, we went out for 2 but she wasnt ready for a realtionship, i beleive she didnt have full closure on her ex ( they went out for three years), soo we still talked and hung out, ...

We seem to reciprocate each other's feelings and I want to date him

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5528 days ago

15 March 2009 (F) - Hi, Agony Aunts! Well, this is a mildly interesting story with some weird circumstances. It's also rather long, so I hope you have the patience. In addition to that, let me start by saying that nothing has happened yet, but I'm wondering if (and ...

Baby names...

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5528 days ago

15 March 2009 (F) - My bf and I were talking about baby names we want something unique and different but still cute. What do you think of the following names? BOYS: Flynn Owen (Owen is my bfs dad) Sloan Owen Makai (Ma-Ki) Owen Girls: Makenna Joy Arizona Jo...

My problem is when I cum I squirt!!!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5526 days ago

15 March 2009 (F) - I am 20 years old and started dating a new guy about a month ago. We haven't had sex yet but I know it is going to happen soon. My problem is when I cum I squirt, the first time it happened I had never even heard of it and had to look it up onli...

Should I keep my dependable boyfriend who wants to get married or should I follow my spontaneous instinct and heart and go for Marcus?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5526 days ago

15 March 2009 (F) - In order to understand this question you must first read my previous question. I have a boyfriend and him and I are trying to make a long distance thing work. He believes it is but I don't. Well I have known this guy named Marcus for a while and si...

I don't feel the love for him I once did

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5529 days ago

15 March 2009 (F) - I met my current boyfriend in the 7th grade when I was dating his older brother. He has liked me since then(i'm now a senior) well we started dating almost a year ago and he from the first week has been telling me he loves me and wants to marry me. ...

How can we convince her parents that she is ready to get married?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5529 days ago

15 March 2009 (M) - Hi, I'm 19 and my girlfriend is 18. We have been dating since we were 16 and know that we will be together for the rest of our lives. We want to get married this summer but I don't think her parents will approve of it. We are moving into our ...

How can I make it up to him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5529 days ago

15 March 2009 (F) - I'm not sure how to word this so I'll just tell the story and hope for the best. Me and my boyfriend have been together for over a year now, and, up untill yesterday, everything was perfect. We only really see eachother once a week on a saturday...

Is it automatically understood that I am his girlfriend since we date and kiss?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5529 days ago

15 March 2009 (F) - hi i recently met this guy and we started dating we went to a movie 3 days ago we kissed and made out and we are still dating but i don't know if he sees me as a girlfriend or just a friend or just a date or maybe even a friend with benefits or d...

Latex allergy or something else? Temporary relief?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5527 days ago

15 March 2009 (F) - I had sex the other day with a new partner and we used a condom, and a vibrator. I took all the proper precautions, it wasnt my first time. But as time passed i started feeling dry and itchy and swollen. This has only happened to me one other time...

I can't seem to find that special someone

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5529 days ago

15 March 2009 (F) - I am feeling frustrated about my singlehood. My last relationship was 8 years ago and after that relationship, it seems like I can't seem to find any nice guy who wants to be in a relationship with me. I have been to single activities, go for casu...

When I'm stressed, I let it out on people, including on my g/f

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5529 days ago

15 March 2009 (M) - i have been very stressed with exams coming up and i keep snapping at people, mostly towards my girlfriend who i love so much (because were almost inseperable) all this stress has been coming out at her and it is unfair and i have hurt her ...

How do I trust her when I know this guy wants her?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5513 days ago

15 March 2009 (M) - I have been going out with my girlfriend for 4 years. Recently she has made friends with a guy who I think just wants to get into her pants. She wants to go and hang out with him. She says she won't let anything happen and I do trust her but she ...

I'm worried about his true intentions behind his words?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5529 days ago

15 March 2009 (F) - Thanks for reading this, I need some advice! My bf of 8 yrs has started saying he would like us to get married and have children in the next year or two. I don't know if he means it, as he said the same thing last year, then broke up with me ...

My friend and my b/f don't get along and now he's refusing to see me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5529 days ago

15 March 2009 (F) - hi, me and my boyfriend have been together for 6 months now.. him and my friend don't get on at all, they really hate each other and are always at each others necks..! on friday at school we were sat in the hall talking and my friend came and sat ...

How do you know he means it when he says "I love you"

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5529 days ago

15 March 2009 (F) - How do you know when a guy means it when he says i love you? Do they say it just because they think it's what a girl wants to hear? My guy and I are not exclusive but we have a close relationship and have had sex before and he recently said this to ...

I'm 19 & haven't had a proper boyfriend

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5529 days ago

15 March 2009 (F) - i'm 19 and i havn't had a proper boyfriend yet. i'm worried that i'm never going to find someone that really loves me! It doesnt help that my best friend is stunning can have whoever she wants. i got friends that are not that pretty or conf...

How do you chose between 2 guys?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5529 days ago

15 March 2009 (F) - I started dating this wonderful guy in may of 2007 who lived 2 hours away and he was also older than I was ,had his stuff together,2 kids like me,and went through crazy divorce. because he lived so far away we would tend to grow apart when he was ...

Maybe not girlfriend material?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5529 days ago

15 March 2009 (F) - i,d like lot of guys over the year.and got rejected i am fat,short,with a fat round face.were glasses. they don,t like me.may be its me thats wrong i am the reason they don,t like me that way.i am not type of girl to do my nails and painted them...

Could I be in love with the wrong person?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5529 days ago

15 March 2009 (F) - Can I be in love with the wrong person? I am 28 and practice my religion. I have strong feelings for another women who is in her forties and is an atheist. We have different cultural backgrounds. We have been friends for over 4 years, and I have had...

She wants to break up but I just cant?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5529 days ago

15 March 2009 (M) - I got a relationship for over 7 months now, but now my girl wants to breakup with me because she said she didnt felt anything for me for quite a while now.. I begged her to give me 1 week to make her fall in love with me again, but she said it woul...

Girlfriend older than boyfriend? Wasting my time?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5529 days ago

15 March 2009 (F) - my boyfriends 17 and im 22 weve been dating almost a year now were pretty happy and planning on moving in together soon his family knows my age and doesnt mind at all however my parents and freinds do not know Im just wondering should i tell them ...

Is he stringing me along or am I just sprung?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5528 days ago

15 March 2009 (F) - So I got to know this guy through the gym. He had just gotten his heart broken but there was an obvious mutual attraction (at least physically). We'd hang out once in a while but mostly see each other at the gym. After a few months, I totally fell ...

Should I be worried my boyfriend looks at other girls?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5530 days ago

15 March 2009 (F) - me and my b/f have been together just over a year now and lately ive been feeling insucure, hes a natural flirt and i have always known this but when i catch him looking at girls while were out it makes me feel like im not good enough or he thinks ...

Does he actually want a relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5511 days ago

15 March 2009 (F) - I am currently dating my friend's roomate. We got together last weekend but have known each other for about 2 months. Even though we were both drinking, we were fully aware of what was going on. We started kissing and he pressed himself up against ...

I'm meeting his parents and grandparents for the first time! I'm really nervous!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5530 days ago

15 March 2009 (F) - Tommorow i am going to pizza hut with my boyfriend and his parents and his grandparents for his birthday. I have been with him for a year and he felt it was time i met them. Im really nervous because what if they dont like me. also im vegetarian and ...

I love my best friend but he thinks I have feelings for our other friend!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5530 days ago

15 March 2009 (F) - i knoe you probably get a 1000 questions like this a day but i just need some advice... here goes.. well when i started college 3 years ago i started hangin around with these two lads ( i am a girl) so me and one of the lads became really cl...

I am incredibly shy

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5529 days ago

15 March 2009 (M) - There is this girl in my dorm who I have known for a few months now and who I have come to really like. I think she's incredibly beautiful and it seems like we genuinely have a lot in common interests and personality wise. The only problem is, I'm ...