New here? Register in under one minute Already a member? Login

244976 questions, 1084353 answers

Got a relationship, dating, love or sex question? Ask for help!

New Questions Answers . Most Discussed Viewed . Unanswered . Followups . Forums . Top agony aunts . About Us . Articles . Sitemap

To browse questions by day in March, 2009, use the links below (in brackets, number of questions on that day in this category)

1 (30), 2 (49), 3 (52), 4 (38), 5 (32), 6 (25), 7 (25), 8 (35), 9 (47), 10 (62),
11 (47), 12 (56), 13 (42), 14 (31), 15 (45), 16 (45), 17 (28), 18 (49), 19 (59), 20 (37),
21 (31), 22 (58), 23 (49), 24 (48), 25 (52), 26 (42), 27 (50), 28 (43), 29 (56), 30 (71),
31 (55),

Archived questions from: 10 March, 2009 (see latest in Dating category)

(More questions from March, 2009)

Dating: Help and advice

She grabs me by the neck and just starts making out with me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5533 days ago

10 March 2009 (M) - okay today was very strange and i need some advice from you aunts..' well any ways my life is pretty dull, boring, not full of excitement at all..pretty miserable in fact.. but today i was on the bus and all of a sudden this this really hot ...

Is this girl into me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5534 days ago

10 March 2009 (M) - My girlfriend just broke up with me so I changed my facebook status to single and a girl I have not talked to in along time commented on my wall that she missed me and friends and that she is moving into the area where I live. Does this mean she is ...

I'm scared that what happened to me before might happen again!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5532 days ago

10 March 2009 (F) - rite ok im not sayin this to get attention or sympathy!..i was sexually assualted and attempted rape on me a few years back! by my ex bf.. my new bf who i been with for almost two years wouldn dream of doin anythin to hurt me. but he started takin...

Girlfriend shows no emotion

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5534 days ago

10 March 2009 (M) - I don't know why I feel the way I do, and I'm so confused. Me and my girlfriend have been together for a few months now. But I've always had a few extreme problems. Since our schedules are so busy, we're getting less and less time to talk. Th...

I am dreaming of our future and he is thinking of my past

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5534 days ago

10 March 2009 (F) - I am engaged to be married in less than 6 weeks. I am 30 years old. My fiance is 25. We have been together over 2 years. 90% of the time I am the happiest I have ever been; when he comes in the room I feel myself soften, my body relaxes and I can't ...

What is going on with this guy and is it over???

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5534 days ago

10 March 2009 (F) - Back in September I met this guy at a bar, he was looking at me like no one had ever looked at me before. I decided to talk to him and give him my number. He called me three days later and we went out on our first date. He was really into me a...

How do we know when enough is enough?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5534 days ago

10 March 2009 (F) - if two people are in love but cant seem to get they're shit together how do they know enough is enough?...

Am I meant to be single, alone and unloved? Help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5534 days ago

10 March 2009 (F) - there is a guy i used to know from 6 years ago .he asked me out but i rejected him indirectly .but i did like but i was shy and quiet .he tease me alot but i tease him too.but he a lot girls who liked him and spend time me alot but i didn,t know ...

Is it OK to take a shower together if you haven't slept with him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5534 days ago

10 March 2009 (F) - I have been seeing this guy for a couple of months, we kiss and that's about all, I want to take thinks slow, he has suggested I stay at his (I think he wants sex) and we can have a nice bath/shower together. Do you think its a good idea to have ...

Is he going off me or am I worrying too much?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5534 days ago

10 March 2009 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for over a year and we've moved in with each othere and things are great. Although i don't know if im just being a sex pest but we used to have sex all the time- and now its me that always suggests it. Also once we'v...

I fear that strippers aren't going to be the only ones catching his fancy. What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5534 days ago

10 March 2009 (F) - So, i have been with my boyfriend for ten month in three days and he has changed a lot. When we started dating he didn't hang out with his friends very much even though i told him that he should. He would bring me along sometimes and we would ha...

Was she trying to irk me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5534 days ago

10 March 2009 (M) - First off I wanna say Hi to everyone on the site. I am slackersace and new to dearcupid. I shall start my career of asking dumb questions now. So heres the thing. I finally worked up enough cahones to ask my favorite Latina sweetie out on a date...

Alot of sexual tension but I'm not experienced

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5534 days ago

10 March 2009 (F) - I need some advice regarding a fella I have liked for a while. We work together and we started to flirt about three years ago but we never really spoke until about two years ago, we arranged to go out once but he blew me out without an excus...

Boyfriend looks at other women when hes with me

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5510 days ago

10 March 2009 (F) - Is it normal for my boyfriend to look at another woman while with me? It really makes me feel awful and I've told him this many times but he doesn't seem to stop. Please help! ...

I kissed a guy at work but unsure what to do now

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5534 days ago

10 March 2009 (F) - I kissed a guy at work but he got a bit turned on, well very turned on so I pulled away as I kinda got the feeling he wanted more than a kiss and a feel, he keeps suggesting we should do it again, but I just don't know what to do as I am very ...

Men in comitted relationships hanging out with their best friends?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5534 days ago

10 March 2009 (F) - how often do men in long-term committed relationships with children hang out with their bestfriend? and for how long in a single time? should it only be them or should i be involved as well and how much? (we hav both cheated on each other and this ...

I'm dating but live with my brother and it embarrasses me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5534 days ago

10 March 2009 (F) - hello there... I hve just started dating a guy (seen him 6 times now) and we get on really well. Im just so embarrased because I live in rented accomodation with my brother and it gets me down. I cant afford to rent on my own and feel embarras...

Afraid of falling in love again

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5534 days ago

10 March 2009 (M) - I am afraid of falling in love again! I have been with someone recently and I think I'm falling in love again! He is struggling financially and so am I. I tried to break up with him but I could not see it through and I am sure he feels ...

Curious: how long do guys in LT committed relationship hang out with their best friends?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5534 days ago

10 March 2009 (F) - how often do guys in long-term committed relationships hang out with their best friends? and for how long in a single time?...

He doesn't hug me but is all over his mates

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5534 days ago

10 March 2009 (F) - im going out with this guy for two moths now and we really love each other. but he'll never tell me whats bothering him he just puts his guard up and stresses at me and now hes always stressed about sumat coz our group of friends have had an ...

Meeting the parents - am I reading too much into this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5534 days ago

10 March 2009 (F) - Question for all! My boyfriend and I are planning something special for Mother's Day weekend. That's about two months away! We looked at a brochure and he said..Let's do it! I agreed and we made the reservation. I thought guys would get scared...

She said she loves me but not ready for a relationship. What to do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5534 days ago

10 March 2009 (M) - She said she loves me, but isnt ready for a relationship, how can i approach this? so last week the girl i love told me she loved me it was probably one of the greatest feeling in the world to hear that from her mouth, but as a couple days went by ...

Am I blinded by love?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5534 days ago

10 March 2009 (F) - After My Divorce I went wild and said just what every other girl says when they have been through hell, I will never love again. I met a guy in December that has just taken every inch of my heart, and I’m not sure if it’s in the best entrees for...

What should I make of his remarks and what would you do about them?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5534 days ago

10 March 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together over a year now. I asked my boyfriend if he was serious about me. Our circumstances have not changed. He still has no job, still drinks a lot and has not hinted around any about marriage. His answer to my ...

We split up but he won't leave me alone even although I have moved on.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5534 days ago

10 March 2009 (F) - I know this guy who talks to all these girls on msn and by phone he has never met them, and always agrees to meet them which never actually takes place, when I was with him he still talked to them and went to them with his problems instead of coming ...

She wants to cheat on her fiance with me! Help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5534 days ago

10 March 2009 (M) - Hey People! Need some help and advice! Im Male and iv got this female friend who has been flirting with me more and more, she has a bf and is engadged to marry him.... Shes cheated on him before and he forgave her now she wants to cheat on him wit...

He has terrible habits, which I know I can't change, yet still wish I could!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5534 days ago

10 March 2009 (F) - I need a guys point of view i have fallen for one of my guy friends.. now this crush has been going on [forever] (we have kissed drunk) but he goes normal/ strange with me he also smokes bongs most nights, but hes such a lovely guy.. people say ...

Am I reading into this or could there really be true feelings?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5533 days ago

10 March 2009 (M) - I have been interested in this man for about 3 years. I never thought I would ever get a chance to talk to him because I am just way too shy. Last summer I was out with some friends and he happened to come in to the place where we were hanging ...

My face feels numb when we have sex...what's causing this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5534 days ago

10 March 2009 (F) - When i have sex with my boyfriend i get a pins and needles sensation in my face. Like its numb. Not everytime. But often. I dont orgasm through sex so what is this? ...

My boyfriend is emotionally abusive, but I don't know how to leave him...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5534 days ago

10 March 2009 (F) - Hi everyone, Ok I have a boyfriend who is almost 26 years old, we've been together for 1 and 1/2years. For half this time though he has been emotionally abusive but tries to disguise it as "joking" comments. He orders me what to do, says we are m...

Should I continue to justify my resentment, or should I just move on?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5534 days ago

10 March 2009 (F) - I know I have a huge anger problem. I have had this problem since I was little. I know the cause of the problem; I just don’t know how to plan for a positive outcome. I know that a lot of my problem comes from early childhood when my mother and I ...

What do I do when I'm on top?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5534 days ago

10 March 2009 (F) - I have never done the girl on top position and always felt a little self conscious about it. Like what exactly am I supposed to do? Do I go up and down or move back and forth? I dont want to appear fat to him and I dont want him to be grossed out. ...

Should I move on or go to the next level?

No replies yet: Be the first to answer!

10 March 2009 (M) - I was in a relationship with a woman for 7 years and she's 37, im 28 now. recently [last november] i went to jail for 3months and was released a couple of weeks ago i come home and she tells me she has a friend and that me and her can be friends i ...

Could anyone give me some tips on how to improve my appearance?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5534 days ago

10 March 2009 (F) - hey all.. i was just wondering. its my 19th birthday coming up next week and im going out for a meal and into town clubbing afterwards. i no im not very pretty, i also dont wear much makeup apart from alight foundation and mascara and a bit of...

Will it ruin our friendship if I confess my feelings?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5510 days ago

10 March 2009 (M) - I'm deeply in love with one of my closest friends. She is a co-worker. I think that she has feelings for me as well, and the major reason nothing happened before is that we worked in the same office. We no longer work in the same office however ...

Do you think my ex's rebound relationship will last?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5534 days ago

10 March 2009 (F) - my ex and i where frineds after our brake up and the friendship was going better. he always wanted to be there for his step kids. he always said they where his. now his new girlfriend of 5 weeks has told him he can't be friends with me or be ther...

This girl is blowing hot and cold all the time but I still want to get to know her better.....

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5534 days ago

10 March 2009 (M) - As the title explains, there's a girl at my uni that I like. In the past month or so, we've hooked up a lot - including staying with each other twice (although nothing's happened) other than passionate kissing. Anyway, I've asked her out a few ti...

I broke up with my boyfriend of 2 and a half years, and immediately regretted my decision. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5534 days ago

10 March 2009 (F) - I was with my ex for 2 1/2 years. We had a good relationship.. barely ever fought. I think we both just started getting bored with the relationship and decided to go our separate ways. Right after we split I regretted the decision and tried to fix ...

I don't understand why I don't have a boyfriend. Help please!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5533 days ago

10 March 2009 (F) - i don't understand why i don't have a boyfriend. it seems like ever since i broke up with my boyfriend of two years i cant seem to find another boyfriend..i mean i have been in relationships after that but they just have all gone wrong. plus some...

Should I send him a second message with my number?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5534 days ago

10 March 2009 (F) - I'm pretty new to the whole dating thing. I was just wondering. If I told a guy that I had feelings him online (I have met him) and he said he does me and that we should meet up sometime. I agreed but didn't ask when... or any question really :/ And ...

Any tips on how to make him last longer?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5518 days ago

10 March 2009 (F) - My long term boyfriend and I have recently in the last 5 or so months, have started having sex. I love him, and don't in anyway regret this decision, and our relationship isnt purely physical and sex isnt everything. However, when we do have those...

What can I possible do to win her back????

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5534 days ago

10 March 2009 (M) - On Xmas day my Girlfriend of 2 years left me. We where living with her parents while we saved for our own place. The reasons she gave me was because it had become difficult with her family. The relationship was a good one many happy times together ...

Once a cheat? The doubt is driving me crazy!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5531 days ago

10 March 2009 (F) - Hello, I'm looking for some advice. I've been with my bf for nearly 9 years. Last year, he came home (we were living together, not engaged/not married)from a working trip abroad and abruptly told me he didn't want to be with me anymore. Four week...

Do men not want sex when they are stressed?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5534 days ago

10 March 2009 (F) - ok, where do I begin...I am seeing a guy and I love him very much, when we started seeing each other he was married and I was engaged, almost like a infatuation relationship, his wife found out and of course she told my fiance, so both our rela...

So should I accept when he asks?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5534 days ago

10 March 2009 (F) - I am quite a good student at school, and am respected by my peers in that sense, but at the same time, my friends all like me, and think I am a fun, funny person to be around with. I am always pulling small pranks and just having fun, but balancing ...

I screwed up! Should I just call her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5534 days ago

10 March 2009 (M) - Hi all, I recently had one of the best nights with a woman I have ever had, at least that was my interpretation of the night when under the influence of alcohol. After a few days of coming to terms with what actually happened that night, I ca...

One date and I don't understand his actions

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5534 days ago

10 March 2009 (F) - I met a guy online two weeks ago and he recently asked me out. He planned the whole thing so well and made such an effort and even wanted to pick me up (I decided to meet him there for safety reasons). I mentioned to him once that I collect certain ...

Am I making a big deal of nothing?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5534 days ago

10 March 2009 (M) - i would like to know if i am just being a big baby or if i should be as frustrated (i guess would be the right word) as i am.. my and my girlfriend decided to make the step to engagement on new years FINALLY but like everything there is a problem....

What should we be talking about, how should we be talking?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5534 days ago

10 March 2009 (M) - My gf(23) split with me(39) a few months ago. Recently we started seeing each other again. We discussed why we split, and the biggest reason see said was that we didnt talk. But we both are not the talking type. We can answer a question with on...

I'm trying to change for my boyfriend

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5534 days ago

10 March 2009 (F) - im having problems with my boyfriend. im trying so hard to change for him and he still doesn't see it. when ever i try to talk to him he takes my words in a wrong way and he thinks im complaining to him. i want to make things good again because i ...

He said he wanted to kiss me..why didn't he?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5535 days ago

10 March 2009 (F) - Someone please ease my mind! I have known this particular gentleman for about 5 months. We met at Walgreens where we exchanged smiles and had a pleasant conversation. He seems to be very busy with his job, his club and his fitness. So I figured ...

I slept naked with him and now I'm worried

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5532 days ago

10 March 2009 (F) - I slept naked with my boyfriend..How ever he was clothed..He kissed me all over.. After this I'm really guilty for what i did:(:(I am not even talking to him properly.. what do i do in this situation???I'm having sleepless nights cuz of this.He a...

Whats she implying? What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5535 days ago

10 March 2009 (M) - Ok, so heres the deal. I was with my ex for nearly 5 years and we have a child together. The relationship ended because of me, and Im willing to admit this. We went almost a year after the break-up without talking (unless ablsolutely neccessary). ...

She doesn’t flirt or date. Is she interested?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5534 days ago

10 March 2009 (M) - She doesn’t flirt or date. Is she interested? I’m interested in one of my classmates but her signals are very confusing. Some feminine insight would be much appreciated. I was interested in her two years ago and it appeared to be mutual. S...

I miss my ex, it hurts so much! Am I insecure?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5534 days ago

10 March 2009 (F) - I'm trying to gain some insight on things.. I wish my ex would come back but I have questioned the situations that happened over the course of the 3 plus years I was with him. I wanted to reveal some aspects that made me feel insecure which l...

He kissed me when he was "high". What do I do next?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5535 days ago

10 March 2009 (F) - hi so ok this question is kinda complicated Lol I don't even know If it's a question but here goes ok so I'm currently 15 and a sophmore in high school. Idk how to say this Lol but ill try ok so when I was in 3rd grade I kissed a boy for the firs...

How do I know he really loves me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5505 days ago

10 March 2009 (F) - Okay well i always tell my boyfriend i love him and he says it back but how do i know if he really loves me bacause he always tells me that he want to be with me forever and he dont want to lose me but how do i know that hes not liein i mean he...

I love my b/f but I don't want his family. What to do??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5534 days ago

10 March 2009 (F) - ive been with my boyfriend for just over a year now, his parents dont like me, end of, case closed. I stayed over his house one evening and we were talking on the stairs the next day and all his dad said to me was 'move im trying to get upstairs'. ...

Curious why my FWB never initiates

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5535 days ago

10 March 2009 (F) - I'm in a friends with benefits situation with a guy i dated for two months, so here's my delimma: It was my idea to do the FwB thing after I told him he was treating me terribly and he seemed to lose interest in pursuing me as a gf..so now we have ...

What do you think of dating your step brother/sister?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5535 days ago

10 March 2009 (M) - What do you think of dating your step brother/sister? I'm not doing it or anyone else that I know of, I've just been thinking about it for a while and wanted to see what other people thought. I do and don't approve of it. ...

He doesn't want to go out with me - but keeps staring at me. Why?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5535 days ago

10 March 2009 (F) - OK I asked him out he said no he has a girlfriend. Now he keeps looking at me in classes and I hate it. If he doesnt want to go out then why is he staring at me? I realy need some advice....

He ignores texts!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5535 days ago

10 March 2009 (F) - My so called boyfriend ignores my texts when I ask him something like," You want company this weekend?" or somehing of that sort. he replies back when I ask him how his day went. Also, he is saying things like, the reason he isn't dating me, ...