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Dating: Help and advice

Help me please... I'm so confused!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5524 days ago

20 March 2009 (F) - My partner of two years broke up with me because he got addicted to his computer game, his computer in general his world was the game. His friend got him totally addicted to it as soon after we spent a night at his friends house in North wales. I...

He's with someone new and I can't stand it!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5524 days ago

20 March 2009 (F) - So I dated this guy on and off for over 5 years, since I was 18. He was my first everything and I've always felt a special connection with him. We had our problems, including me not trusting him, and we fought a lot, so we weren't always stable. ...

Is it possible to experience depression if your boyfriend has emotionally abused you for quite some time?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5524 days ago

20 March 2009 (F) - Is it possible to experience depression if your boyfriend has emotionally abused you for quite some time? Do men who emotionally abuse say cruel things about you and then tell you that you are crazy and that they love you? Or that you should not ...

My mom won't let me be with my girlfriend without a parent there

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5524 days ago

20 March 2009 (M) - My mom won't let me see my girlfriend without a parent with us. We've been dating for over 6 months and I really want to be alone with her. What can I do?...

How can I become closer to him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5522 days ago

20 March 2009 (F) - i am 15 and i love my boyfriend very much and i want our relationship to go further and for us to get closer but i don't know how to make this happen. can anyone help and tell me how to make this happen? thanks. x... ...

He asked me to marry me and then has gone really distant!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5523 days ago

20 March 2009 (F) - I recently got engaged on Feb. 26 and since then I've seen my fience all of four times, he only calls me when's he's at work or in the car. And the pervious Thursady he told me he was too tired to go out on Friday that things had been crazy busy ...

How can I word a text so my friend with benefits will be jealous and not let me move on?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5524 days ago

20 March 2009 (F) - I don't know what to do - Me and this guy at work have been flirting since he arrived - after several missed opportunties and we finally kissed (about a year of flirting) he just wants friends with benefits I really want more because I like him so ...

Is it time to call it quits? Or hold on?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5524 days ago

20 March 2009 (F) - My boyfriend has had many female friends, yet I am his first girlfriend, he is 22. So, most of the problems we face are first timers and never happen again, he is very good about learning what not to do. This may seem odd to most other people, but ...

He was so keen to start with, now he is blatently ignoring me... why?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5524 days ago

20 March 2009 (F) - Help, I have been dating a guy who I just clicked with for the past 6 weeks and we have had a lot of fun. He was calling me all last week saying he could not wait to see me and that he smiles just thinking about me, to letting me down on a date as ...

Simple foods to take with us?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5524 days ago

20 March 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I are planning to rent a boat and take the family out on the beach for about an hour.. What are some simple yet good foods to take with us.. The theme is Italian by the way. :) And by boyfriend doesn't like garlic or onions on his...

Why are you texting me if you don't want me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5430 days ago

20 March 2009 (F) - This is about texting. I know many people have many views on this topic. I don't mine if its not the only form of communication. My story is I had been talking to this guy, who use to call me all the time. We spoke several times a day and text ...

He won't put label of b/f & g/f on us!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5519 days ago

20 March 2009 (F) - i need seriouse advise. i have been dating this guy for 1 year now and it has trully been an emotional roller coaster, he foudn me at my weakest point and some how i feel in love with him, which surprised me. im tired of not being able to be ...

I'm a hopeless romantic and I need some birthday ideas!?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5505 days ago

20 March 2009 (M) - My girlfriend's birthday is coming up soon and i want to do something very romantic for her. She and I are hopeless romantic but i am not sure what to do for her. I know different girls like different things but i am just asking your advices to help ...

I have a crush on a co-worker who has a "player" reputation, does he just want fun??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5524 days ago

20 March 2009 (F) - Some thoughts or advice would be great. I have fancied this guy for some time (coming up 2 years), we work in the same building, different departments ,we always chat but he has a bit of a reputation for being a bit of a player, which I never re...

My boyfriend is not willing to commit. Should I dump him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5524 days ago

20 March 2009 (F) - We are in a commited relationship, we only see each other except we do go out with our friends men and women. However, if the topic comes up my bf says he does not want a commitment. What does this mean? I did have the key to his house for 9 mo...

I came on too strong and freaked a guy out..Help?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5524 days ago

20 March 2009 (F) - I recently got a car and am now able to get around town a lot easier and do things my own way for once in my life. Well, I've been single for just under four months now after a two-year relationship that wasn't very good for my mental stability but ...

How to get back to where we used to be?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5524 days ago

20 March 2009 (?) - Hi, My bf and I have been together a bit over 2 months. We broke up for a day, and I kind of lost a lot of the trust I have for him. We don't really have much time to spare anymore, but when we do, we call each other. I'm happy just to talk to him. ...

Give him space still?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5524 days ago

20 March 2009 (F) - I have liked a guy for about 4 months now, and he likes me back and so I expected the relationship to progress into dating. However, last week I found out that he also likes another girl. I confronted him about it (as nicely as possible) and he said ...

Why do men do the things that they do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5524 days ago

20 March 2009 (F) - Ok, this is my dilemma. I have started dating a guy earlier this year, we have known each other for a while we play sports together at our job. Things were going great, we both were remodeling our homes and he is good with a hammer so he really ...

Do female bosses really invite male workers to meetings at bars on Friday night?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5524 days ago

20 March 2009 (F) - Most of my boyfriend's friends are from work. I know he had a crush on at least one woman at work, and doesn't include me in social events related to work. Yesterday he told me he has a meeting with "his boss" for "happy hour" at a bar tonight. ...

The pill and fear of getting pregnant!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5524 days ago

20 March 2009 (F) - Hey guys, I went on the pill for about 2 years and then came off it.. for the duration of time that I was on it I never let my boyfriend finish in me even while on the pill for fear of getting pregnant... Now I'm with a new person and would like t...

My dad is putting so much pressure on our relationship...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5524 days ago

20 March 2009 (F) - I'm not usually one to express my problems over the net, but would appreciate an outside perspective on this issue. My partner of 5 years and I got engaged 3 months ago. Everything was great until our family found out we had got ourselves into a bad ...

Kissing an' stuff!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5524 days ago

20 March 2009 (F) - I'm 15 and meeting my man on Tuesday along with my friend and her man. I'm a bit nervous as my boyfriend is shorter than me and he wants me to snog him today... and I'm not sure how! Any help? Thanks x...

Coil problems!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5524 days ago

20 March 2009 (F) - Hiya, I think I might be pregnant... I've had a coil for the last two and half years. Oover the last couple of months every time me and my partner have sex I have been having pains very deep pains inside... we decided to take things a bit slower and ...

How to handle obsessive crush!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5524 days ago

20 March 2009 (F) - i really really like this guy whose a year older than me, we are both in high school and flirt sometimes but he doesnt sit with my group so i dont see him too much. im like obsessed with him, i take extra trips to the toilet so i can walk past him, ...

Too shy to ask me out?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5525 days ago

20 March 2009 (F) - If a guy likes you and he is a few years younge than you. say you are 23 and he is 19, would he be too shy to ask you out?...

Should I let my b/f go? I still love him very much

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5524 days ago

20 March 2009 (F) - I'm going to be really honest. I had been with my bf for 3 years. All of our relationship, I introduced my bf to my family and friend but my bf never introduce me to any of his friends or family except only to his son, 6 yr old. He got divorce once. ...

Trapped in a relationship with a obsessed girl - How do I escape?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5525 days ago

20 March 2009 (M) - hello friends ....i am in the red alert zone and need to take some step fast...i have a girlfriend since one year and she's really creepy !! she always brings "u and me" in everything that comes across us. guys dont find her very attactive and just ...

I have a serious serious controlling problem. Help me!!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5522 days ago

20 March 2009 (M) - I have a serious serious controlling problem. I have had my last 3 lovers leave me for someone else with the last two ending up in marriage. 3 months ago I go involved with an incredible young lady who has been everything that women should b...

An affair to bring out the best in me!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5523 days ago

20 March 2009 (F) - Okay this is a long one. Been with this guy for almost 11 years. We are almost 6 years married. 2 Kids. I am only 25 almost 26. My husband is super rude and mean to me. I am planning on divorcing him soon. I can't take this abuse from him ...

Why doesn't he ask me out? Is he only after one thing?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5525 days ago

20 March 2009 (F) - I am currently dating this guy that I have know for a couple of months. We havent been on a real date yet because he doesnt have money right now but he promised to take me out once he does. The first night we got together (granted he was drunk) he ...

DO men really love their girlfriends or wives if they are capable of treating them like that?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5495 days ago

20 March 2009 (F) - I don't know what to do. My boyfriend has spat on me, called be a whore, thrown a candle into the bathtub, he has accused me of meeting with someone during the 15 minutes that he was gone and I was sitting in the bathtub before putting on my ...

Advice needed! How do I get her to have sex with them and maybe let me watch?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5524 days ago

20 March 2009 (M) - so... I've had this fantasy for a while now. I want to see my girlfriend have sex with other people (guys, girls it don't matter.) How do I get her to have sex with them and maybe let me watch?...

Not sure if this is just a phase...

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20 March 2009 (F) - Hi, basically my question is - in a relationship should you be abstaining from damaging actions(eg kissing, messing round, shagging others) or should these thoughts/desires just never enter your "real" brain anyhow? background: I'm in a great re...

I think he wants to trap me!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5521 days ago

20 March 2009 (F) - Help plz!! Today was the first time I had sex with my boyfriend. He didn't use a condom. He said he wasn't going to nut inside of me. I gave him a rag to use when he pulled out. So he claims he used the rag. But when I was cleaning up the room I ...

Is there any hope for us at all?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5470 days ago

20 March 2009 (F) - I'm 20 and my boyfriend (babys dad of 2) is 23 and we've both done the cheating and the lying thing in the past but not since we got back together last aug. Me and my boyfriend have a huge trust issue that I wasn't exactly aware about until now. ...

Her comments about their 'bits' is making me feel self-conscious!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5525 days ago

20 March 2009 (M) - My g/f keeps telling me about all the blokes 'bits' she sees at work. She is a radiographer so i can see that the medical profession should be used to this but she tells me she has never studied this and that there is no need for them to be naked, ...