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Archived questions from: 4 March, 2009 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

He wants me to smoke weed with him before we have sex... what should I do?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5538 days ago

4 March 2009 (F) - My boyfriend wants to have sex with me but he also wants me to smoke WEED with him before we do it so I can get high. I don't know if I should because I'm worried that if he gets high he'll forget to put a condom on and I might get pregnent. What ...

Are there no decent men out there any more???

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5540 days ago

4 March 2009 (F) - Can anyone help me why is it so difficult to meet somebody that is serious? I have had failed relationship after relationship and it normally involves the guy being full of it or a cheater! Is it me? Am I doing something wrong, the way I present ...

Is he close to saying "I love you"

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5540 days ago

4 March 2009 (F) - My boyfriend said, "I think I'm falling for you." Now, he says "I like you A LOT!" We've been together for a little over a month now. And known each other since the end of last year. My question is could he be getting close to saying, "I love ...

Abuse and infidelity...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5540 days ago

4 March 2009 (F) - Confused been with my boyfriend of 4 years through abuse, infidility.. I went through his phone and noticed a naked picture of himself who he sent as a message to a girl.. I've been feeling funny ever since he cheated 2x's with the same girl 2 ...

I don't know what to do... I'm not sure how I feel about my boyfriend any more.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5540 days ago

4 March 2009 (F) - I don't know what to do... I'm not sure how I feel about my boyfriend any more. We have been together 7 months and get along great. I love spending time with him but recently a lot of things have begun to annoy me. His confidence is one, dont get...

My boyfriend wants to have sex for the 1st time

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5540 days ago

4 March 2009 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been dating for 3 months now and he thinks we should have sex but I'm a little scared because it's my 1st time and I'm also a little scared that I might get Pregnant, I mean I do love my boyfriend but I don't know what I ...

I recently found out that my little sister slept with my boyfriend a few weeks ago.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5540 days ago

4 March 2009 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for 5 1/2 years, we have a five year old daughter together. I've known him about 8 years. I recently found out that my little sister slept with him a few weeks ago. But What I didn't know is that this has been going on ...

What do I do to get some passion into my relationship and thin out the arguing?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5540 days ago

4 March 2009 (M) - My relationship is failing... we are lacking passion in our relationship... we are always arguing..... but we love each other.... what do I do to get some passion into my relationship and thin out the arguing?...

This guy is really speical to me, I don't want to lose him.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5540 days ago

4 March 2009 (F) - My situation is kind of crazy, there's this guy that I love so much. We met last year in April and we started out he wanted to be with me but I didn't want a relationship and we didn't talk for about a month and he started coming back around and now ...

Even although he's my ex now, I feel guilty about seeing his best friend.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5535 days ago

4 March 2009 (F) - I dated a guy for 4 years, we were so in love but in the end grew apart. It didn't end well and we no longer talk to each other. It has been 15 months since the break up and we both seem to have moved on with our lives, he is seeing someone else ...

Should I try to repair our relationship?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5540 days ago

4 March 2009 (M) - Hi everybody! Sorry if my English isn't that good. Here is a problem. I have been dating this girl for about 4,5 years from which we lived together some 2 years (when I was working in the same city where she is living). It was a year from that and...

I think my girlfriend's 19 year old sister is getting in over her head

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5540 days ago

4 March 2009 (M) - So me and my girlfriend have a great relationship and have been together for awhile and are even considering marriage but are waiting till we are more financially secure. This is regarding her sister and some of the foolish decisions she makes. ...

Very few opportunities to have sex, and she usually doesn't take advantage of them!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5540 days ago

4 March 2009 (M) - So heres the stuation. Both my girlfriend and I live at home with our parents so we don't get to have sex often. Its not a big deal to me, but I do have a problem with when we have the chance we don't take advantage of it. Not because of me, but ...

4 month relationship has caused pregnancy..I don't know how to tell him!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5539 days ago

4 March 2009 (F) - I've been seeing a guy for 4 months. We both have gone through terrible relationships and we have so many things in common. He's an awesome guy and there's no doubt about that. We've been having sex, however, he uses the withdrawal method but it ...

We keep getting interupted before sex...karma? A sign not to have sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5540 days ago

4 March 2009 (F) - This has to do with my boyfriend and myself. We are in love. We often make out. When we are both into it we try to advance toward sex. Every time we try to move on to sex we seem to be interrupted. Last time I was starting to remove my boyfriend’s ...

How can I let her know that I would like to see her naked? How can I warm her up to the idea?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5540 days ago

4 March 2009 (M) - My girlfriend and I started off just as friends. Now we are boyfriend and girlfriend. We kiss sometimes. We are entering our teen age years. We are learning about human sexuality. It seems important to us and our relationship. I think an important ...

I want this crazy sex addiction to stop now!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5540 days ago

4 March 2009 (M) - Hi guys 'n gals. I'm a 19 year old dude who is CRAZY about sex. I can't go even 2 days without getting some and I always use a condom but I just don't wanna go on like any more. It's like I'm dependent on sex. I have 3 girlfriends currently. If I ...

I don't know if I could ever trust her again...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5540 days ago

4 March 2009 (M) - I recently broke up with my girlfriend of a year. I caught her in several lies involving an ex boyfriend. She felt the need to hang out with him behind my back and tell me she was going elsewhere. Each time she told me she lied to me because she ...

I didn't know she was married... what's more, she's my bosses wife!!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5540 days ago

4 March 2009 (M) - I recently started seeing a woman I met while I was out and about. It has developed in to a sexual relationship and I discovered yesterday that she is my bosses wife! I didn't know she was married let alone my bosses wife! I've called it off but I'm ...

How can I make this weekend special?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5533 days ago

4 March 2009 (F) - Me and my bf have been going out just over a month (was a month on monday) :). I've always had a little thing for him aswell. Anyways... We spend the weekends round each others houses (he lives an hours bus ride away, but we both go to the same c...

He's hiding that he's doing drugs!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5540 days ago

4 March 2009 (F) - I have been in a relationship for nearly 2 years now and I love my partner very much. I knew that he was taking coccaine probably twice a week which wasn't a problem to me, however a few times now he has been taking it in secret without telling me, ...

Torn between my now and my then

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5541 days ago

4 March 2009 (F) - Ugh im 18 and seem to think the grass is greener on the other side... Im totally stuck and i would love some advice... Im gonna tell you the WHOLE story so its gonna take a while so make sure you have time before you start reading lol... Well my ...

Do men have a forgiving nature?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5531 days ago

4 March 2009 (F) - do guys have forgiven nature or not.guy said i was rotten to him years ago and he still mad me for it.and i said sorry and i didn,t mean to hurt his feelings.but i really didn,t .but i though he was making fun of me,i didn,t even know he liked me ...

My girl is skinny, I am big, how do we manage intercourse, more so how do I approach her to do it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5540 days ago

4 March 2009 (M) - How do i pop the question on my hot and skinny GF? She's pretty small and i've done everything except intercourse with her, but how should we do it? we already talked about it and were ready but should i do it? where though? I know about condoms, ...

Where should we watch a movie together, if I want us to be closer?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5541 days ago

4 March 2009 (F) - What's the best way to watch a movie with two people that obviously have feelings towards one another but nobody's made a move yet: in a theater or at the guy's house? I'm thinking the guy's house because we'd have a chance to talk and watch t...

I am 16, going to have sex for the first time, how can we make it special?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5537 days ago

4 March 2009 (F) - I'm 16. My boyfriend is 18. We've been dating for almost a year now and we had a long talk and I decided that I was ready to give up my virginity to him. He's done it before and I want it to be special for the both of us. Does anyone have any ...

Having a very hard time getting over this broken relationship. any tips for healing?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5540 days ago

4 March 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I broke up and we had a pretty good relationship, but a pretty bad break up.. its been a month and some any tips or stories of how anybody else got over there break ups.. and moved on would be appreciated im hurting really ba...

Will this work??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5541 days ago

4 March 2009 (F) - Dear Cupid: I met a great guy after a long relationship finally ended (messily) and we started a fast relationship. From the beginning, he didn't trust me; he had been hurt in the past and I tried to be understanding and confident about ...

We have not had sex for 4 months, what is wrong with him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5541 days ago

4 March 2009 (F) - My partner and i had no sex for four months it is unlikely of him to go without sex, what is wrong with him?...

There's definitely something between us, but we're both spoken for already. What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5237 days ago

4 March 2009 (M) - Here is the problem i have. About 6 months ago i met a girl. Well i didnt meet here then i met her about 2 years ago but i met her again 6 months ago. I started talking to her online. We realised that we didnt live so far away from each other...

I don't know if I have the patience to show her how relationships work outside of the bedroom. What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5540 days ago

4 March 2009 (F) - hey i am a bisexual female who currently has a gf . we have been dating on and off for almost a year now. i have cheated on her twice and i felt terrible about it , fortunately for me she took me back. i vowed to change my ways and i have no ...

I'm a hopeless romantic...but I feel like I'm being used.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5541 days ago

4 March 2009 (M) - Is there a difference from being "in love" with someone, and "loving" someone? i ask this bc I'm in a very difficult relationship. My best friend and I have been dating for a little more than a month and she is now back living with her ex bf. She ...

I'm questioning moving on from him now. What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5541 days ago

4 March 2009 (F) - I am currently getting over a guy and need opinions to see if Im on the right track. My problem is, when Im in his spotlight, he showers me with attention/texts/flirting and Im happy. When he ignores me, which is most of the time, including right ...

Parents tell me they love my b/f tell everyone else that they hate him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5541 days ago

4 March 2009 (F) - Ok so here is the deal, I am twenty years old i have been dating my boyfrinend for four years we are perfect together. We were sixteen when we started dating and i am now twenty he is also, He is very shy my parents lie to me and tell me that they ...

Did I realize that I don't want a world without him in it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5541 days ago

4 March 2009 (F) - So me and this guy have been dating off and on since may 08. We have dated a total of three times: once from may-june, once from september-october and then december to now. Both times i was the one to break things off. Each time the reason given wa...

My boyfriend took me back after I cheated, but he deserves better, what do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5541 days ago

4 March 2009 (F) - I cheated on my boyfriend and decided to break up with him but I couldn't handle the thought of being without him so that very night I begged him to take me back and he did and I don't know if this was the right thing to do. I feel as though I don't ...

I need ideas... What can I do to show her that I really do love her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5541 days ago

4 March 2009 (M) - Can someone please help me? My girlfriend says that I don't love her but I do and she said she'll forgive me if I show that I cared abt her.. how can I show her that I care? I really need help, I'm a clueless person and this is my first ...

I would love to have sex with her but I don't want to lose my virginity just yet.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5516 days ago

4 March 2009 (M) - Hi aunts, I need some advice. I have a girlfriend and I absolutely adore her, she feels the same way about me, and I'll never do anything to pressure her or hurt her. See I'm a pretty nice guy (14), really sensitive and caring, I'm not like those ...