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Archived questions from: 24 March, 2009 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

His lack of intimacy makes me think he might be gay! Your thoughts?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5120 days ago

24 March 2009 (F) - Why my boyfriend is not interested in itimacy? I have been dating a guy I met for a couple of months. He was in a long marriage and his wife left him. I would say this guy has some feminine characteristics even in his walk. His house has no clu...

I keep remembering everything we did together and everything she said... it hurts!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5520 days ago

24 March 2009 (M) - Hi, I'm 15 and me and my gf broke up a little while ago and it's a long story so let's just say we had too many differences, well anyway when we were going out I remembered everything she told me and I mean everything. Even when we weren't going ...

The whole story - I don't know what to do any more?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5520 days ago

24 March 2009 (F) - I love my boyfriend of 13 years with all my heart and soul! I can't picture my life without out him and I really don't want to! We have always had an awesome relationsip! Right now it's a bit rough-1st time ever! I just wanna fix it! He recent...

I need your suggestions! How can I get her back?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5519 days ago

24 March 2009 (M) - I had a girlfriend and she was my first true love. It felt like it at least. She told me a month into our relationship she had feelings for her ex still who was my best friend before I started to date her. I was there for their whole ...

Does he want more from me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5520 days ago

24 March 2009 (F) - My boyfriend just fingered me and it was really good. I just want to know will he want more now and want to have sex? I mean we have talked about how we are going to want a little bit but he is always all over me and was just wanting to know if he ...

I always think that if I hold on a little bit more she would love me again, but nothing's happening..

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5504 days ago

24 March 2009 (M) - My girlfriend and I have been dating for almost a year now. At first were were having fun and I can see that she loves me as much as I love her but now things got a little bad for me. She told me about this guy that she was talking with on the inte...

Is this a phase or something I should get out of?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5520 days ago

24 March 2009 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been together a year now but lately his interest in me seems to have disappeared, he's also become a lot more immature than I had realised before the relationship started. He's a musician, and even though I'm happy for hi...

What should we do to make it good between both of us and make our parents happy too?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5520 days ago

24 March 2009 (M) - Okay, so me and my gilfriend have had are ups and downs and as of now, what should I do? I want her to marry me and she wants to marry me. But, there are many things wrong, for one her parents don't like me and mine don't like her but we are both ...

Trouble in Paradise?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5520 days ago

24 March 2009 (F) - My boyfriend is 10 years younger than me. We have been together for 7 months. We used to snuggle all night long, have sex twice a day everyday but as of late he does not snuggle at all. He was also not too interested in sex the other day. Has...

Just want to be friends...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5516 days ago

24 March 2009 (M) - Sigh...well here it goes... This girl at my school asked me if I liked her while we were txting and I said ya cuz I really do! Anyways before I even asked her out she told me she just wants to be friends... That was like a month ago and now she comp...

Can fingering cause pregnancy?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5519 days ago

24 March 2009 (M) - My fiancé has last her periods on the 12th of February 2009, after which we have not be much sexually active, but yes we have had some fingering/masturbation session, and i don't remember if I touched my genitals b4 I fingered her, but have not had ...

Relationship status: COMPLICATED

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5503 days ago

24 March 2009 (F) - So Ive been with this guy on and off for more than a year now (Dec 07). We get along well, have good sex and get along with our friends. We dated officially for a good half of the time we were together but since June of last year we have gone back ...

Shall I just drop it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5520 days ago

24 March 2009 (F) - hi i'm 22yrs old hope you can help i have known this lad for seven years he has always liked me as we worked together but i had a boyfriend and saw him more as friend we didn't see each other for two years as i went to university i have been back...

In 3 days her attitude changed completely

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5514 days ago

24 March 2009 (M) - Why would a girl that was really into you for weeks beforehand suddenly loose interest in barely 3 days. She went from being as giddy as a school girl, to wanting to only be friends, to not wanting to talk to me and asking for some space for a whil...

I'm really insecure about my big clit...help.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4200 days ago

24 March 2009 (F) - I hardly feel comfortable writing about my clit much less letting any guy see or feel it.i really want to take it a step further in my relationship with my boyfriend but im to scared to because my clit is big and i don't know if he will like it. so...

I want to get all my old feelings back and just be happy with him

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5520 days ago

24 March 2009 (F) - I broke up with my boyfriend because i felt like i was too young to be with just one person. I felt like my feelings had changed for him as well. The problem is that i dont want to move on from him. I want to get all my old feelings back and just...

I am hurt by this behaviour and wonder if I should behave the same way

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5520 days ago

24 March 2009 (F) - I am a married woman that has a great male friend through a business partnership. We would spend long periods of time talking to each other and I confided some of my marital problems to him. I realised that we developed feelings for each othe...

How do I get him to see this and give me a second chance?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5520 days ago

24 March 2009 (F) - i'm in a relationship with this guy the first time we met i jumped onto him and wrapped my legs around his waist after i grabbed onto his genitals. he told me the other night that we started our relationship off wrong. we had sex three days aft...

What do I do to make her leave him and me alone?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5437 days ago

24 March 2009 (F) - ok im 17 and i'm pregnant. my boyfriend of 2 years who got me pregnant is 28 and there is a huge problem and it's not the age gap its his ex girlfriend. he has a 3 year old daughter by his ex girlfriend and his 3 year old daughter looks nothing ...

Is ex leading me on?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5519 days ago

24 March 2009 (F) - i was stood up by this man that i thought was interested in getting together. well we talked on the phone prior to meeting. when the day came no him or phone call. should i call him or should i wait for him to call. by the way this man is my ex....

I think he's gay and I want to break it off! How do I end this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5519 days ago

24 March 2009 (F) - I have been dating this guy for a month now and I have always suspected he was gay. Here's why: 1. He likes to get manicures and pedicures. 2. He knows nothing about cars or sports...I know way more than him. 3. He talks about how his male frie...

What would you make him do to win you back?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5520 days ago

24 March 2009 (F) - This will be really long and complicated because I am afraid if I don't explain it right then I will get advice when people still just don't understand and I'm getting enough of that as it is. I'm 16, so is my boyfriend, it's been six months. ...

I'm losing my girlfriend..please help

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5519 days ago

24 March 2009 (M) - i am 16 and i have been going out with this girl who i absolutely adore for 2 and a half years, i thin she's the most beautiful person in the world and i love being with her. we've gone through a lot of crap in the past, her kissing other boys, me ...

What can I say to my daughter's boyfriend to make him feel more secure?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5520 days ago

24 March 2009 (F) - My daughter, 17 (18 in July) and her boyfriend (19)have been in a relationship for nearly 3 years. All they do is fight. Her boyfriend is very insecure and thinks that she is going to cheat on him with every male friend she has. They do love each ...

When it comes to "connecting" with girls I get scared!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5520 days ago

24 March 2009 (M) - I am a 20 year old male and have never dated nor had sex. I admire girls but when it comes to connecting with them, I get scared, lose interest or feel inadequate. Some girls show interest in me but I remain stuck since I don't know how to respond. ...

We're "on a break", then he joked we were "Friends with Benefits" ???

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5518 days ago

24 March 2009 (F) - 2 weeks ago my boyfriend of 2 1/2 years and I went "on a break". It was his idea since we had been spending too much time together and arguing a lot more than normal. A few days later I asked what he meant by "break" and he said it was that we were ...

His behaviour has made me feel jealous. Help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5520 days ago

24 March 2009 (F) - I am a woman who can admit to other women as being beautiful but enough is enough. My boyfriend stares at every nice looking girl...not look but stares. So when I'm talking to him he doesn't hear a word I say. I asked him to stop doing that around ...

I've finally fallen for him, but now he doesn't care. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5498 days ago

24 March 2009 (F) - Ok, I was in love, in a 2 year relationship and then he suddenly left me and didn't even give me any reasons. I was shocked, and alone for about three months, and then this guy (my current bf) came around and I really liked him. I even thought at ...

How do I get my girlfriend back or is all lost?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5520 days ago

24 March 2009 (M) - I want to know how I get my girlfriend to go back out with me.... I started seeing this girl a year ago just after I left my wife, it was the most perfect relationship ever....Never argued about anything, agreed on everything, had great fun, good ...

Moving in with girlfriend and her kids

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5520 days ago

24 March 2009 (M) - Hay everybody, My girlfriend and I have been in relationship for almost two years and have decided to move in together.She has three kids (7,9 and 11 from first marriage).She is seeling her house and with that money will pay off her mortgage and...

He has done this before where we break up and then get back together...??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5520 days ago

24 March 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have had a rough month kind of like constantly walking on eggshells. He went out on St pattys day all night and didn't call me which I found disrespectful since we live together. I called him the next day and he gave me the worst ...

My b/f touches me in intimate places whenever he feels like it! Normal?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5520 days ago

24 March 2009 (F) - Hello there, My boyfriend of 7 years likes to come up to me and touch my breasts and private area whenever he feels like. When I tried to tell him stop because I am in the middle of something, he would ask me if I would be happier if he di...

How do I get over what I had and be grateful for what I've got?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5521 days ago

24 March 2009 (M) - Compared to some peoples' problems on here, this probably isn't very bad but some advice would be welcome nonetheless. I have been with my girlfriend for almost 18 months now. For the first 12 months, everything was amazing. I couldn't do a th...

I slept naked beside him... now we've broken up and this worries me.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5506 days ago

24 March 2009 (F) - Hello, 1) First of all I'm confused totally. Dunno if I should be in this relationship... Sometimes I feel I can live without him... But otherwise it's like I really can't live without him. Can't wait to text him. Now, I really dunno what dec...

I've had 2 abortions and I solely regret having them now...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5517 days ago

24 March 2009 (F) - Hi, I'm 24 year old female, I've had 2 abortions. I had the first one in August 2007 and thereafter in January 2008. The first time I was so scared I didn't even think of anything but my fear of my parents and my boyfriend at that time not at all ...

Worried about tension

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24 March 2009 (M) - i am 25yrs man. now i was working united arab emirates.basicaly i am an indian.my girl friend is in india.Sometimes she was loved me too much but sometimes not.on that time she has given lots of pressure for me also.i loved her too mcuh as more than ...

Is this a good gift idea?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5521 days ago

24 March 2009 (M) - Hi, im 15 anf my gf is 14. Next week will be our six month anniversary, and i wanted to get her somethin special. We recently took some pictures together and i really like this one where we were passionately kissing, it looks so romantic. So i ...

How can I get this trust back?

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24 March 2009 (F) - How can i get my boyfriends trust back? I have messed up and messed with 2 guys, But when i did that it was during the break ups...we been off and on for about 6 months now. the first guy was before we started dating but i was still talkin to both ...

Stay with the boyfriend, go back to the fling, or move on from both of them?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5521 days ago

24 March 2009 (F) - I am in a very difficult situation. I have been with an amazing guy for the past four years. We met online through a friend and clicked very well. We can talk about everything, he is supportive, dependible and faithful. But he is also very different ...

Is what he's doing to me ...abuse??

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5513 days ago

24 March 2009 (F) - Is this abuse? We were being intimate and I was enjoying being close with him (boyfriend of just over one year) and I have been doing kegels a lot because he tells me almost every other day that I'm 'too big' for him and that it must mean that I...

Even though we had really bad times we had wonderful times, too. I miss her! Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5520 days ago

24 March 2009 (M) - Hows it going, could use some advice here. I have been in a relationship on and off for 6 yrs now and it has recently ended.Im not sure what happened and i know sometimes when you are heartbroken you tend to not be able to see whats going on.It ...

We are both history professors and I hate to ask but I need tips on how to pusue this beautiful, intelligent woman!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5491 days ago

24 March 2009 (M) - I have never been the most confident or the most attractive male and at this point in time. I actually hate to admit that. I am 32 years old, single, have only had three girlfriends in the past, and only had sex with two of them. Now, I know my ...

I want to make it work with her, without sounding needy or desperate! How can I do that?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5521 days ago

24 March 2009 (M) - My ex girlfriend and I split on January 10th. We had been together for a little over a year. We lived together 5 months of this period but both moved back in with our parents temporarily to get our finances back on track, then I was going to buy us ...

First kiss dilemma...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5521 days ago

24 March 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating since January 17th and we want to kiss but we're both too nervous to. What should I do and can you get kicked out of the library for kissing? (we're only 17)...

I just want her to be direct. How can I get her to talk?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5521 days ago

24 March 2009 (M) - I told her that since she lives a few states away from me, when I move, I'm not going to see her until I'm out of school and have a car. She took this as I'm breaking up with her. We've been talking still, but I can't get a word out of her. I can't ...

If you knew the girl you were dating had a few one night stands would it put you off her?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5505 days ago

24 March 2009 (F) - Guys, if your dating someone, is it a turn off to know the girl has had a few one night stands? and a 'friends with benefits' relationship? or is it not that a big of a deal?...

Last week I was cleaning and I found women's underwear and a huge stash of condoms which weren't ours.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5521 days ago

24 March 2009 (F) - I just recently moved across country with my boyfriend of 2 years. Everything seemed perfect and I can't picture my life with out him. Last week I was cleaning and I found women's underwear and a huge stash of condoms which weren't ours. I felt so ...

I was tricked and I'm hurt .

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5520 days ago

24 March 2009 (F) - Oh my god I can't even begin to tell you. The love of my life is NOT what I thought he was. I thought he moved away, at least that's what I was told, cried myself to sleep that night when he comes back. I thought we had broken up but you know that ...