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Should I continue liking her, or will I just get more hurt?

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Question - (30 March 2009) 1 Answers - (Newest, 3 April 2009)
A male United Kingdom age 30-35, *allousCal writes:

Basically, there's this girl called Js, I've really liked her for about 3 and a half years now, we've been with each other on and off due to various petty reasons. More recently I realised how much she does mean to me, I need not explain myself, as I know theres many people who have felt the same way.

At her Birthday, she was trying to hug and kiss me etc. saying that she loved me and many other LIES! Anyway, I confronted her and asked her to 'get with me', only it didn't go to plan, she said," No because of our history." Even now this 'history' never stopped us getting back together in the past.

I fell out with her because i classed it as leading me on and she got offended by the fact that i told her i wasnt happy about being led on.

About 3 days ago i received a text saying... "Cm". Iv been thinking. iv just been lieing to myself because its the easiest way. i do really like you. i dont know how you feel. I might have messed your head around. I just needed to tell you xxx.

And as you do, you think great, i may have a chance. So once again I confronted her and asked her about the text i had received, only she said that because i know what she thinks about me, Im not the same with her any more, she said she thinks that because I dont know that she likes me, im not her friend, how ironic that its just annoyed me, confused me, and pushed me further away, I'm sick of this situation, I dont wana let go coz i really like her and i really dont know if she actually likes me or not... what should i do??

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A male reader, jay12toes United States +, writes (3 April 2009):

jay12toes agony auntget out while you can and stay out. on again off again relatuionships are not healthy and you should just try and get out befor it becomes any more difficult.

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