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*azza13
writes:i worry about things constantly, and im with my gf now for 3 months, and i want to spend the rest of my life with her, i feel so comfortable with her and i love her to pieces, she feels the same but wen i talk about being engaged, even if its just me and her knowing and doing it properly down the line, she doesnt want it because shes 18 but i feel like age doesnt matter, i need some help, i just want to be with her forever, so basically im asking why doesnt she want to be 'secretly' engaged to me?
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 March 2009): It's most likely because making it official has a certain finality to it and she's too young to make an official commitment like that.
3 months is also too soon in my opinion. I'd leave it go, the fact that she feels the same as you do, should be enough.
Who knows what will happen in the future, right now she's with you and pressuring her with the idea of marriage isn't going to do you any good and could actualy push her away.
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