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41-50,
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writes:s there something wrong being single all your life. because i have being single all my life i am nearly up 30 years old and i never had boyfriend and never being kissed once in my life.its not like i don,t want a boyfriend i just can,t have one.younger then me or older then me.and there is no one suitable.may be i was always meant to be single. because i am fat ,short,ugly,i don,t know how to make friends i am shy around guys and scared of any thing sexual eg kiss from a guy would scare life out of me that i would run away.i like younger guys may be 1 or 2 years younger then me
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reader, SirenaBlusera  +, writes (30 March 2009):
 I don't see why an age difference of one or two years would be a big difference.
It sounds like you have terribly low self-esteem. We all have physical defects, but that doesn't mean you're ugly. Make a list of everything you hate about your appearance, and decide what can be done to change that. If you are overweight, for example, go to a gym and talk to a trainer about an exercise plan to lose weight. If you have stained teeth, or chipped teeth, look into bleaching/porcelain veneers.
Change what you can, and think positively. :)
Meg is right, one of the most alluring things about a woman is confidence, poise and interests.
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reader, meg2989  +, writes (30 March 2009):
 Well with that attitude its no wonder you have never had a boyfriend!Sweetie, look its not about how you look, I mean looks do play a small part but every man is attracted to a different type of woman. I know men that like heavy set women, tall women, short women, skinny women, average women, and chubby women all the like. Its really all about charisma, and how you carry yourself. If you live a happy, content life, and carry yourself with a sexy attitude, then you may have more luck! But make sure that you are completly happy and content with yourself first and make sure no one can bring you down from that happy spot. Like my best friend Brian says, " Carry yourself like a gem and the world will see you as a gem, but if you carry yourself like you are hideous, then thats what the world will see." So try a different attitude and outlook on life and well maybe your hunny will come knocking on your door. Oh and honey, it may just help that you are not too picky about age. One or two years older, or younger wont hurt you... so ty to expirience life while youre living!
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