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Archived questions from: 27 March, 2009 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

She made out with another guy, should I forgive her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5517 days ago

27 March 2009 (M) - Hi, well my dilemma is with my girlfriend. We've going out for a year. She's 15 and I'm 14 turning 15 this year... and yes we've been intamate once and decided to wait until we started doing it casually.. we love each other very much. The th...

Am I stupid to feel down about this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5517 days ago

27 March 2009 (F) - Hi, I'd like some advice (hopefully including guys' views) about a stupid argument I've had with my bf. We've been dating for 5 years. It's his birthday soon, so I got some tickets for us to see a band he loves as a surprise. So I asked him if he ...

I feel so insecure about my body.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5517 days ago

27 March 2009 (F) - I feel so insecure about my body. And this makes me feel weak and abnormal... I see so many women being ok with who they are, and I just can't seem to accept these issues. But here it goes. My boyfriend watches porn, and the other day he told me h...

Did my girlfriend orgasm?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5517 days ago

27 March 2009 (M) - Me and my girlfirend were doing a lot of foreplay on each other today when out of the blue her back arches, eyes close very tightly and she makes a bit of a grunting scream. She claims it was an orgasm but I was wandering is this an orgasm or is she ...

Am I being overly sensitive...?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5416 days ago

27 March 2009 (M) - Hey All, SOME CONTEXT: My girlfriend and I have been dating for a little over a year and a half now. We have been long distance almost all of that time, the worst was when we were both in different countries for five months and temporarily opened ...

How can I be more supportive but still keep the fun times going?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5517 days ago

27 March 2009 (F) - Is this normal? Why is it bugging me?!? My boyfriend started this new exercise program.. it's a 90 day program and you work out for six to seven days a week. He just started this week and our conversations go on and on about how many carbs and ...

Both our sex lives seem to have diminished!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5517 days ago

27 March 2009 (F) - I've been in a very loving relationship for 8 months now. My boyfriend is so caring, understanding, lovely... everything I could ask for and we very rarely argue. When we first together we had sex basically every day. This is how I was with my ...

Girlfriend gets upset over minor things...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5517 days ago

27 March 2009 (M) - Hey guys! Well a little info before I start. I am a bit of a joker but not immature or anything, I just like to make people feel good and make them more comfortable. Well Me and my girlfriend were talking and she said "You and me will have a nice ...

It feels nearly impossible to gain her trust back now.. what do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5517 days ago

27 March 2009 (M) - Hi everyone. I just want to know everyone's opinion on this situation I'm in... I recently lost my g/f due to a mistake, on my half, and to an extent I don't understand why I did it.. seriously... Well what happened was I was with my g/f for about...

Is it a possibility my girlfriend is seeing someone on the side?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5517 days ago

27 March 2009 (M) - Hey everyone I'm 17 years old and I'm very depressed well here's the story... Me and my gf have been going out for 11 months and well my parents and my whole family know her .. I take her to family events everything! She doesn't even live it at he...

Drifting away and always in a bad mood..why?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5495 days ago

27 March 2009 (F) - I started talking to this really great guy a few weeks back. He goes to the same school as me but I don't really see him around much so we mostly talked through IM and texting. We seemed to really hit it off- we have the same interests, same ...

Lost interest in guys?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5517 days ago

27 March 2009 (F) - hi i am going on 30+ years old.i have never had a first boyfreind never got my first kiss and still virgin. because guys always treated me badly even a guy who i though like me said i was total bitch to him.now i have lost interest in guys complete...

I'm unhappy when single and can't accept it

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5517 days ago

27 March 2009 (M) - Hello, I recently posted a question on this website. I only received a couple of answers one of which basically said "Just start dating again. Simple." I don't understand why that is so simple, or easy! If it were simple then I'd have a girlfriend ...

Would you consider this cheating?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5517 days ago

27 March 2009 (F) - Hi people, this morning I was walking down the hall of my school with my friends and then I meet up with my best friend. We were walking down the hall and we go past my boyfriend and all my friends say that they saw him hug and kiss a different ...

Why would he be so paranoid calling me a cheater for not answering my phone...?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5517 days ago

27 March 2009 (F) - I love my boyfriend very much. We are very serious and are planning to get married in like a year. I am very trustworthy and not capable of cheating in any sort of way. We've become so attached to each other, However, lately he is being paranoid ...

Did he send that message just to fob me off?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5517 days ago

27 March 2009 (F) - OK read this:- "Love you too honey, take it easy, see you soon!" - These are the words from a guy I have been seeing. He is not very reliable, still sees his ex from time to time and I haven't heard from him in over a week! - Do you think he will ...

Is he keeping me sweet in case it doesn't work between them?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5517 days ago

27 March 2009 (F) - Hiya everyone i have 2 questions really about an ex of mine, we split up in September last year, and have still been having sex until a couple of weeks ago until he got this new gf and my questions are is there a possibility that he still likes me...

Is he slowly coming around again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5517 days ago

27 March 2009 (F) - I just wanted an opinion here. I have been with my boyfriend for four months. Two weeks ago he broke up with me because he was stressed out over things that were going on in his life. At that time he had told me that he wanted to still be frie...

What can I do for my mum to accept my boyfriend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5516 days ago

27 March 2009 (F) - im seeking for help don't know what to do. i have a boyfriend who really love me and i also love him but my mum don't want to accept.i don't know what to do, he invite me on the beach with him but i don't know how i will tell my mum about it because ...

I cant give her what the poor girl expects as I don't feel that way!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5517 days ago

27 March 2009 (M) - hello dear uncles and aunts ....its a bit lengthy stuff but please bear with me ...i have foolishly messed up my life ....im 21 and my girlfriend is 18...i kinda have a strange problem....before i come to it i would like to tel u that my girlfriend ...

How can I ask for some space without hurting his feelings?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5517 days ago

27 March 2009 (F) - I've been dating a really good man since about November. I had decided I was ready for a "real" boyfriend and he is definitely a good on paper guy - trustworthy, super smart and sweet. I get the feeling he is more into it than I am, but after some ...

Should I leave her alone on keep on trying?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5504 days ago

27 March 2009 (M) - Hello guys and girls. On Mon i finally asked out this girl whom I've been having a crush on. She requested time to think about it. i let Tues pass n talked to her on wed. she told me to come back on Fri. on Thurs she had told my friend that her frie...

Needing forgiveness

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5517 days ago

27 March 2009 (F) - Im 22yrs old, I was separated from my son's father A year ago because of his infidelity. Since then my friend (guy) of three years have been there for me. We started dating but he saw a couple of emails where i was talking to my ex boyfriend from...

Help! Boyfriend troubles

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5517 days ago

27 March 2009 (F) - hi , 'im just wondering if i can get some advice me and my boyfriend have been together for about 7 months now ,, but recently i've noticed him staring at other girls practically all the time and he keeps giving my girl as friends and other girls ...

Will Kegel exercises benefit the both of us?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5517 days ago

27 March 2009 (F) - Hi, I'm 19 and I'm not a virgin. I've only ever had one partner and I have a feeling that number will stay the same for quite some time; I'm not exactly the most confident or most assertive person out there. For now, I'm okay with that, but late...

Should I continue with my application for the military?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5517 days ago

27 March 2009 (F) - Hi. I need some advice and hope someone is able to help. I am engaged to a wonderful man and we have been together for nearly 5 years. However because im still young and in a dead end job, ive applied to join the Military. I am always thin...

Is there any other form of contraception I can take, while being on the pill???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5517 days ago

27 March 2009 (F) - Hey I was just wondering , me and my boyfriend realy want to try sex without a condom, im already on the pill and am always extra safe when it comes to sex. However i dont like just using one from of contraception mainly because i know you can s...

I picture my future with him, but not my present.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5516 days ago

27 March 2009 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for 4 years and we have been together since we were 16. Throughout our relationship we have both gone travelling separately and I have gone to Uni and am now in my 2nd year. A few times in my relationship I have felt the...

What can I do to help him overcome his insecurity?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5517 days ago

27 March 2009 (F) - My boyfriend is this really great guy - successful, intelligent, funny, good looking, erc. However when it comes to relationships he is very insecure and very immature. I think he has only had 2 serious relatonships in his life. One in in 20's...

A rushed wedding? Advice please!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5513 days ago

27 March 2009 (F) - My boyfriend is in the Canadian army and we have been dating for a year and three months now. He recently was told by one his advisers that during his leave in august he should get married because in October he has to move to another base and he ...

I need to feel loved and in a secure relationship

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5517 days ago

27 March 2009 (F) - Heres the situation. My ex boyfriend and i broke up 6 months ago cos basically we didnt spend enough time together and i felt that he didnt love me as i loved him. And i was gonna get hurt! Even though he tells me he does. I have thought bout him ...

Is there a good reason for people to find out you've had sex?

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 5514 days ago

27 March 2009 (F) - is there a good reason that people have to find out u've had sex? because i want to have sex with my bf, he wants to have sex with me, but we r concerned about getting caught and him going to jail since he is 18 and im 15. but i thinks its impossib...

It feels like he hangs with me just because he has to.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5517 days ago

27 March 2009 (F) - I was in love and after two years he broke up w me without giving me any reasons. After two month he told me he loves me but I couldnt answer with the same because I still loved my ex, so now 1 year passed and I love my bf but lately more and more...

I have not had a sexual partner for 20 years. Advice please

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5516 days ago

27 March 2009 (F) - hi, im an older women who lives by her self and have not had a male partner in 20 years, i have recently been texting and calling a guy who i think is my perfect match and think i am falling head over heals for him, but he lives a fair dist...

I can't forget him but want to..........

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5518 days ago

27 March 2009 (F) - am still in love with my ex and i really want to forget him in a short period of time.......... what should i do? i tried ignoring my feelings for him but i just can't take it anymore. some times i think of going back to him but other times i t...

He makes me feel like sex is all he wants me for sometimes

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5507 days ago

27 March 2009 (F) - I've been dating my boyfriend for nearly 3 years. We are both in our 3rd year of college and busy. He is very much a prototypical 21 yr. old male who wants more sex (right now it's about twice/week). The problem is that I'm very busy and make a long ...

Can you trusta serial cheater?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 5489 days ago

27 March 2009 (M) - Can you trust a serial cheater (woman)? I am dating an woman in her late 30's early 40's who is a serial cheater. She has been married twice and has cheated on both husbands. Her reasons and method of cheating are particularly dis...

It was like a daydream come to life

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5517 days ago

27 March 2009 (F) - i liked this guy his in my modeling and acting class when i first saw him i was like dayumm..i gave him my number at night we would talk and he would sing some songs on his piano and his voice wasnt that great but him singing to me was beautiful cuz ...

Told his friends we were moving too fast and now he won't talk to me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5518 days ago

27 March 2009 (F) - i dont know wat to do i feel like this is my only solution..theres this guy i went on a date wit we're really diffrent he comes from a veryy rich family and i come from a middle class.his used to the glamm new cars,big houe,a maide kinda thing and ...

Let it go or keep chasing it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5517 days ago

27 March 2009 (F) - i like this guy the problem is i never talked to him in my life..freshman year my friend tried to hook us up but i didnt likie him now i'm head over heals for him..my friend now says i missed my chance and i'm trying to figure out wat shes talking ...

Where else can you get love bites

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5518 days ago

27 March 2009 (F) - Can you get Hickeys/Love Bites, anywhere on your body besides your neck? If so, where all on your body can you get them at? ...

Tired of being made out to be a whore!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5517 days ago

27 March 2009 (F) - Hi there, i really love my man and he's really an amazing, rare kinda guy. he always buys me flowers and massages my back and rubs my feet and looks after me really well if i've had a hard day or i'm sick. only one problem, he's reeeally jelous and ...

We argue over stupid stuff

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5518 days ago

27 March 2009 (F) - im 13 and so is my boyfriend.we have been going out for 5 months and we have our ups and downs.the affinity I have for him is sooo strong I just can let him go.WE argue but he says its just disagreeing with each other but is this really worth it ...

This just doesn't sound right..

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5517 days ago

27 March 2009 (F) - I got some texts to my cell phone one night from an anonymous person claiming she had been sleeping with my boyfriend, they are together and he was leaving me for her. She claims to have read texts I sent him and that she saw my pics in his phone. ...

From a one night stand to a relationship to a booty call?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5516 days ago

27 March 2009 (F) - One night stand to a relationship to a booty call? Is that what it is? Ok so I really like this guy, hes 22 im 24 i slept with him right away a drunken mess really but we both think the sex we have is awesome. Neway back in June 08 it started off ...

I care about him alot but don't think I want to be with him

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5518 days ago

27 March 2009 (F) - I'm stuck in a real predicament. I have been dating this boy for nearly 8 months but I'm starting to fall out of love after quite a few incidents where he has been overly protective and possessive of me. I don't know what to do, he has a great side ...

He doesn't want to put a label on our relationship..and I'm tired of this attitude

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5517 days ago

27 March 2009 (F) - i need seriouse advise. i have been dating this guy for 1 year now and it has trully been an emotional roller coaster, he foudn me at my weakest point and some how i feel in love with him, which surprised me. im tired of not being able to be ...

I'm shy and don't want to lose my girlfriend!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5518 days ago

27 March 2009 (M) - Am madly in love wit my girlfriend,and we have been goin out for one year but anytime i see her,am usually shy of expressin my love to her,how relationship is getting bored day by day,pls advice me i dont want to be shy any more and am afraid of ...

My g/f now calls this guy her "best friend"...should I worry?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5518 days ago

27 March 2009 (M) - Ive been away from my girlfriend off and on because of my job, with me only staying about a month here and there before i am forced to leave again. Recently she has become very close to one of her guy friends, and now refers to him as her best ...

Best friend becomes girlfriend but then things go sour!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5518 days ago

27 March 2009 (M) - In a bit of a pickle. Around 18 months ago I met a girl at college - let's call her A - and we became really good pals. In fact we became best friends, there was a real connection between us. I never really knew if I genuinely liked her, or whether ...