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Archived questions from: 2 March, 2009 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

My jealousy is killing me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5542 days ago

2 March 2009 (M) - I've been with my girlfriend for a month and a half now. And everything is going so well. She has a past with other boys and it bothered me a lot, but I got over it. But yesterday, I was on her Hyves (other sort of Facebook/Myspace) and I went to ...

I found my own sister in bed with my boyfriend!!!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5541 days ago

2 March 2009 (F) - My sister is having an afair with my boyfriend! I was going to his apartment and saw her car. When I got upstairs (I have a key) they were in bed. What should I do? I hate my sister now!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!...

I get the feeling he wants to take our relationship to the next level.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5542 days ago

2 March 2009 (F) - I have been in a relationship for about 6 to 7 months but I feel he wants to have more then just love... meaning he wants to have sex with me. Should I and if I do decide what are the best condoms to use? ...

Should I continue on these pills?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5530 days ago

2 March 2009 (F) - I need some advice. I have been dating a guy for some time now. He's 38 and I am 20. I am also a teacher and I am ready to have a child. The problem is I have problems ovulating and my doctor puts me on fertility drugs - which I am taking now. H...

The test came back... POSITIVE!!!!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5536 days ago

2 March 2009 (F) - I had sex and I missed my period and when I took a test it came came back positive! I don't even love this guy. Should I get an abortion? Should I tell my parents? What should I do?...

I sort of went through her stuff and found something I didn't want to see! HELP!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5542 days ago

2 March 2009 (M) - My future in this relationship depends on what you guys think. Please read it and give some wise advice. I don't want to make the wrong decisions, or tell her things I don't mean. Please read as much as you can, and let me know! I have a problem w...

He made up a story that a was seen cheating. Why would he do that?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5542 days ago

2 March 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been arguing for the last couple of months over the same things over and over. After finally talking everything over and analyzing our relationship we have decided to stay together and work things out. We had a long ...

Is she interested in me? or just being friendly?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5542 days ago

2 March 2009 (M) - Hi. On Friday I went to the pub and met a friend then got talking to a female friends of my friend. We spoke for ages about loads of stuff, laughed together etc. I then brought out my notepad to show my friend some musical material of mine...

What to do if your b/f is having a bad day

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5542 days ago

2 March 2009 (F) - what would u do if ur BF is having a bad day? i want to destract him, and do something really sexy with him, but his ex gave him a blow job, and im willing to do it, but i just want to be sexy, so unless i have to, i dont want to just yet. so wha...

He asked if I'd love to come again...is that a good sign?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5542 days ago

2 March 2009 (F) - Dear cupid Aew days ago i went to a movie with a grou of new peole. Among them was a by whom i really liked. After he movie we went o grab some ice-cream and all the other girls were talking he ket on asking wich flavours i liked and ifi had fun ...

When he gets angry he takes it out on me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5542 days ago

2 March 2009 (F) - right, well me and this lad have been seeing eachother. We have been out before, but now it is more of a seeing eachother thing, Im only 14. When he gets angry, he tends to take it out on me, and i hate it. He gets really frustrated and takes ...

I want to play! How long do I wait!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5542 days ago

2 March 2009 (F) - my BF said he was willing to have sex, but i said to take things slow cuz i dont want to be a whore. but i want him to finger me so bad. so how long should i wait?...

He wants to runaway to marry..not telling the family

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5542 days ago

2 March 2009 (F) - My bf and me hav been goin out for over a year he recently has been having problems wih his family and asked me to marry him i sed yeh but wen i sed we should tell the family and frends he refused he wants a secret ceremony should i mary him or ...

Sexually attracted to my b/f's best friend

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5542 days ago

2 March 2009 (F) - hello, first of all my English may not be good, but i try. The situation is that my boyfriend has a friend that i long ago am sexually attracted. I'm a 33 years old. I know my boyfriend for 13 years ago and at that time i also met one of his be...

Am I questioning my sexuality because of college?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5542 days ago

2 March 2009 (F) - Hi. I am 18 years-old and a freshman in college. I am currently struggling with a huge issue. I have been in a three year relationship with my boyfriend and I love him so much. Recently, I have been questioning my sexuality, something I have never, ...

The darn back door

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5542 days ago

2 March 2009 (F) - Dear Cupid, Hi I'm 15 years old and my parents are fairly strict. I have a boyfriend and we've been going out for about 6 months now and Ive seen him in person once before I moved and that was the first month of us going out and more about when it ...

Boyfriend immature and not sure what to do about it

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5542 days ago

2 March 2009 (F) - Hello I have a problem basically with the inmaturity of my boyfriend, on his favor I have to say that he is the best guy I have ever met, he treat me like a princess, he does everything to please me, he is aware of my needs,I am his first real g...

I got back with him as I was scared he would hurt himself, how do I handle this situation?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5542 days ago

2 March 2009 (F) - Ok so I've been dating this guy for a few months now. And I have to say our relationship doesn't make any sense. For one he's already talking about marriage and having kids. When he has 2 kids and I have 1. I told him I'm not ready for marriage, but ...

Do guys keep in touch with girls they've slept with?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5539 days ago

2 March 2009 (F) - Do guys keep in touch with girls they've slept with? I had a fling with someone, decided not to take things any further then changed my mind so I sent him a text. He replied straight away, then later started texting me and we were texting for a co...

Was his comment out of fear or a true reflection of how he feels about me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5542 days ago

2 March 2009 (F) - I have been dating this man now for about 2 months. We are both divorced. I have an 8 year old son and he has two teenage sons. We always get along great. He tells me he cares about me and he acts as if he does. He told me a while back that he wou...

All of his friends say he likes me, but I don't know whether his does?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5542 days ago

2 March 2009 (F) - Hi Basically I have this little problem. For the past 3 years I was seeing this guy a lot younger than me. It was a very nerve wrecking relationship and we split up 7 months ago. Just recently, this guy who is older than me told me he liked m...

What does it mean when he says stupid things just for me to reply back to him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5542 days ago

2 March 2009 (F) - what does it mean when you text a guy and they tell u to tell the other people ur texting to stop texting you because hes texting you? and what does it mean when he says stupid things just for me to reply back to him?...

My girlfriend has anorexia. How do I help her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5542 days ago

2 March 2009 (M) - Hello guys, I've got a big issue here. I don't have a clue how to deal with it, my girlfriend and I have been together for 8 months now, we had a break once and she kind of cheated on me then, Anyway I got over that part, she really needed me...

Am I being a fool and allowing myself to be played?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5542 days ago

2 March 2009 (M) - I don't know where to start with this. What I really want to know is, am I being a fool and allowing myself to be played? or is she real w/ what she has said... does she really love me and is true?.... I'm dating my best friend. we have been fri...

So close to something great, but unable to get there.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5542 days ago

2 March 2009 (M) - I have been dating my girlfriend for a year and 1/2. We live an hour apart. Generally spend weekends together and sometimes weeknights. There has been growing problems about her expressing her feelings for me. I know she loves me, I can see it in ...

How good is Spermicide?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5542 days ago

2 March 2009 (M) - Which spermicide works the best and what are the chances of it not working properly? (Never used it before). My girlfriend likes to make love without condoms because we feel closer that way but we also would not like a baby so I am wondering just ...

Help ! I wanna confront my feelings for what He did to me... but I can't.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5542 days ago

2 March 2009 (F) - I'm so pissed off but at the same time sad. Please take your time to read this, it might be long but please read it and help me... I went out with this guy - let's call him Bob and so we lasted like 2 months and a half. I later found out that in ...

I know I need to own up but it is going to ruin everything!

This question has 23 answers - newest was posted 5540 days ago

2 March 2009 (F) - My boyfriend who is working abroad asked me to to go out and visit him for a holiday so we started planning and for some stupid reason thats when I stared lying. As the weeks passed I daren't tell my parents about the holiday (I have never travelled ...

Is he afraid to talk because he is afraid of closeness?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5542 days ago

2 March 2009 (F) - He said he would talk with me about what happened. But it has been two weeks. I did see him but he said he does not want to talk about it yet. I don't understand this. I just want an honest open discussion. It is hard for me to get closure ...

Does he care about what happened to me in my past or does he just want to score?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5542 days ago

2 March 2009 (F) - This is really weird for me to say or ask about so please bear with me. I'm 20 and have a boyfriend the same age, I've been with him for like 2 months. We never had sex and I told him I'm not ready, I'm a virgin he is not. We just make out, h...

Any tips on asking a girl out?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5542 days ago

2 March 2009 (M) - Hey there I have my year 12 formal and there is this girl who I'd like to ask but I dnt know how to ask her can anyone give me any helpful tips like what should I say if anyone can help that be awsome Thnx ...

My boyfriend is bi and cheated on me with another man!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5539 days ago

2 March 2009 (F) - I found a few months ago my boyfriend of 5 years is bi sexual. I found out through texts I found on his phone and pictures and also I found out through a device I installed on the computer which showed up as he been looking at gay porn sites . I ...

I want my sister's deadbeat boyfriend's friend to GO AWAY!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5542 days ago

2 March 2009 (F) - Ok, so i started dating this guy that i met through my sister that isn't living her life right, who is dating a dead beat guy. the guy i met was his friend. i knew it was a bad idea but they said he was nothing like my sisters boyfriend. and he ...

Should I leave it for him to call me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5542 days ago

2 March 2009 (F) - ive met a new guy (online) and we've now had 5 dates in the past 2 weeks. He lives about 30 miles away. We get on really well, lots of laughs and banter and alot of chemistry. He texts me messages to say I make him smile alot etc. I have told ...

I fall in love very easily!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5542 days ago

2 March 2009 (M) - I have a problem. I fall in love very easily and normally is unconditional. In that aspect no other woman catches my eye. Now I did it again but, she does not feel the same. Therefore my question is how can I stop falling so quickly. That way when I ...

Fate? Just a really weird coinicidence?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5543 days ago

2 March 2009 (F) - Almost 1 year ago i called an old boyfriend and another guy answered the phone the new owner of that number and from then until now we are still communicating with each other but we've never met in person the strange thing is i now have strong ...

Flirting magic needed!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5543 days ago

2 March 2009 (F) - Hi! This is a bit long, so I really hope you have the patience... I recently turned nineteen and the guy I'm into is turning twenty on March 8th. We met in Speech class (required for any degree) four weeks ago and I basically wasted the first three ...

I hate kissing him knowing he has a girlfriend!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5542 days ago

2 March 2009 (F) - Dear Cupid, Theres this boy i'm talking to and we love each other dearly but he has a girlfriend.He said he's not in love with her but he does love her and he told me that he's in love with me and tells me he loves me and that he wants to spend th...

Like me? How do I get him to ask me out?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5542 days ago

2 March 2009 (F) - so there is this guy. he is a senior and i a junior. (high school) we only see each other once a month. he liked me my freshmen year and i started liking him my sophomore year. so this last month we had to o to a workshop sort of thing. we go to a ...

She doesn't seem to be happy with me any more... should I just let her go?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5542 days ago

2 March 2009 (M) - Hi there to all of you aunt's out there. Well the story went like this, me and my g/f made love 2 days ago and I completely undressed her that time (but I forgot to tell her earlier that I want to have a regular day with her next time I come over...

I'm so sick of guessing what is going on with him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5543 days ago

2 March 2009 (F) - I know this man loves me his friends tell me. They say he really loves you but you should move on. What does that mean. I know he is afraid of trusting when in a relationship. He says he loves me in many ways but why doesnt he just say he loves ...

Been out a few times, didn't work out..confused!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5542 days ago

2 March 2009 (F) - Hi, im only 14 and i dont care if people say 'your too young to be in love'. I am. I am really confused about me and this boy. We have been out a few times, and they didnt work out. We still both love eachother, but we are scared to try it again. He ...

He doesn't know whether he wants to be with me or his ex!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5542 days ago

2 March 2009 (F) - Almost three weeks ago, my boyfriend decided that he needed time because he was confused about wanting to be with me or his ex girlfriend. I told him that I would give him time, and that is what I did. I started no contact and for almost three ...

Can a guy love one woman and be sleeping with another?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5525 days ago

2 March 2009 (F) - Hello, everyone! Can a guy love one woman and be sleeping with another? He has indicated his love for me but is with a girlfriend. Now I'm with another guy and the guy who talks about our love is angry with me. Should I tell the guy who say she ...

Engaged and cheating

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5539 days ago

2 March 2009 (F) - I am engaged and been in a relationship for almost 7 years. However, I have cheated a handful of times throughout the relationship. Since I have been engaged I have cheated 3 times with different people. I feel guilty and know that this can't ...

I am so confused... I think I'm gay but I don't want to be...

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5537 days ago

2 March 2009 (M) - I am a 13 year old boy, when I masturbate, I think about boys feet. I know I have a foot fetish. When I look at girls they don't turn me on... I tried to watch a hot girl on tv and masturbate but I couldn't, Am I gay? I really don't want to be...

Almost losing a close family member has made me see life differently. Should I tell her I love her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5530 days ago

2 March 2009 (M) - My girlfriend broke up with me about 4 months ago and it really crushed me. We were really in love and distance and other circumstances kept us apart. Even after the break up we almost got back together and she confessed her love for me but due to ...

Did I pop my cherry???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5543 days ago

2 March 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I are very much in love, believe it or not. We had sex and it didn't really hurt... and there was no blood. Just a tight burning sensation. Someone told me I probably already popped my cherry via tampons or masturbation. I mean t...

Boyfriend drama!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5542 days ago

2 March 2009 (F) - I just found out that my boyfriend of a year is cheating on me. What should I do? Should I give him another chance or should I break up with him? Please help me....