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I just don't seem to have the whole "dating" thing down

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Question - (30 March 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 30 March 2009)
A male United States age 30-35, *ersan writes:

Hello and thank you to all and any who are nice enough to read about my problem... I am seventeen years old and I have some serious problems with girls.

First of all, I know that I am a good looking guy. My problem isn't with confidence either. I am pretty desperate to get a girlfriend but I find that very difficult.

When I am interested in a girl I never know when to advance or to just keep it cool. I never really know the right things to say either. I just have no Idea how to be romantic or even just begin a relationship.

I am totally comfortable around girls but I just don't seem to have the whole "dating" thing down. Any advice or suggestions would be awesome.

Thanks friends

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A reader, anonymous, writes (30 March 2009):

ok,i was in exact the same postion only witn boys.

ive met this boy ata pub and i was so scared to approach him but i did in the end and he loved the fact i had confidence and it turned out he liked me too..i just beat him to it by askin him if he wanted to dance first lol.

and im a girl us girls do like a boy asking us to dance or for a kiss or even ask for our numbers. just be a bit cheeky..the girl will melt lol..she'll be a your stalker by the end of the night..just make sure shes single first.

good luck babes x

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A female reader, eyeswideopen United States +, writes (30 March 2009):

eyeswideopen agony auntPractice makes perfect. The more dating you do, the more experience you will get. Just try to ease up and just relax and have some fun, don't worry about the whole relationship thing. You'll be just fine, buddy.

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