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Archived questions from: 23 March, 2009 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

What to do in this situation: Boyfriend/friend trouble?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5521 days ago

23 March 2009 (F) - It has been a long time since my boyfriend and best friend spoke to each other. It's not the solution I wanted and it was certainly not what I wanted to happen, nevertheless suggesting it. 6 months ago, they were so close together. So clo...

Am I asking too much to tell her NOT to see the "friends" she cheated on me with?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5521 days ago

23 March 2009 (M) - My girlfriend that I'm still with cheated on me about a year ago and we have been fighting more and more now. She cheated on me with her friend "lets call her the Bitch" that's a girl and her boyfriend and now my GF can't understand why I don't want ...

Why can't I get on with my life? I can't function!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5521 days ago

23 March 2009 (F) - I know I need to move on and forget my bf because we just don't see eye to eye which I could live with but he can't. Why is it so hard for me to move on? I have at least 5 guys asking me out a week but I don't want to go out with anyone. Even my ...

I have to let him go due to his jealousy.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5520 days ago

23 March 2009 (F) - I love my boyfriend so much and I know he loves me. But I know I have to let him go due to his jealousy. He gets very upset when other men say hello to me and then he withdrawals from me completely. I dont know why he is like this. I guess he is ...

Recently I have started having feelings for my friend's gf and iI don't know what to do

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5521 days ago

23 March 2009 (M) - my best best friend has a gf. they have been dating for quite a while now. a year and a bit in fact. they are very happy and are intimate. i myself have a gf but we never talk and the love just isn't there. recently i have started having feelings...

I just need to know what to do to get this person to fall back in love with me!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5521 days ago

23 March 2009 (M) - I've been dating this girls for about a year on and off. Recently we lived together and I started to feel taken advantage of so we decided to live seperately and still date. Well we both say we love each other but yet she doesn't show a lot of emot...

Is there any way I can get her back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5521 days ago

23 March 2009 (M) - I cheated on my girlfriend around 4 months ago. She found out after reading texts on my phone. I regret what i've done so much and i know i love her but i cant prove it to her anymore. We've been 'staying friends' since, but its on and off. Is...

Maybe I should just tell the guy I like him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5521 days ago

23 March 2009 (F) - So really like this guy who I've been friends with for ages. He used to really like me but now fancies one of my taken best friends...I don't know what to do, sometimes I think there's a chance he might still like me but I'm scared he'll just say ...

Why do my friends and himself won't tell me why he stopped talking to me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5520 days ago

23 March 2009 (F) - I met this boy about a year ago in the summer, when I went back down South to see my old friends. He's a friend's friend, and we hit it off straight away. It's just a friendship, he was basically in love with the friend that introduced us. After ...

Is there anything I can do to help him see our problems are fixable?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5521 days ago

23 March 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating for three years. I am his first serious relationship, and he is my first adult relationship. We are both very stubborn and always feel we are right. When we speak calmly, we can understand the other person'...

If I tell him that I am in love with him would it jepordise our friendship

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5520 days ago

23 March 2009 (F) - i recently met up with this guy who i hadn't seen in years i really like him and would love for something to happen between us, should i tell him how i feel. if so how should i tell him, i know it sounds silly but i've never told someone somethin...

I'm so unhappy in my life

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5521 days ago

23 March 2009 (F) - Dear Cupid For the last two years, I've been unhappy. During my finals at uni, this guy who I used to date contacted me after a long period. He said he liked me and wanted to date. To be honest I couldn't jeopardize my studies, I think at the tim...

Should I tell him why I'm mad?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5521 days ago

23 March 2009 (F) - Recently i found out that this bo at m high school liked me. i wasnt really intrested in him at first, but friends conviced me to give hima chance. Just befor the march break we started talking and i decided to give him my number. we texted and talk...

Erection problems... Help!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5514 days ago

23 March 2009 (F) - Help! Me and my boyfriend have been going out for 7 months now, and whenever we try to have sex, it won't happen. Whenever he puts the condom on he loses his erection and can't get it back to put it back on again. It's happened around 10 times now ...

Is he a woman beater

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5319 days ago

23 March 2009 (F) - ok so my friend is with this guy and they claim they "love" eachother but everytime i talk to him he's always saying that he';s got to prove to his gf whom is also my friend that he loves her because she's said! this is getting really pathetic tbh ...

He's cheated on me before and I'm sure he'll cheat again, I just don't know what to do any more...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5521 days ago

23 March 2009 (F) - My boyfriend (he's 20) was really sweet since we got back together but now he's starting to be mean again. I asked him why he treats me so bad but he just gets mad and says that he treats me right. His ex which he had 2 kids with keeps calling my ...

Is it possible we could get together in the future?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5521 days ago

23 March 2009 (F) - Me and my boyfriend of 11 months broke up because i had gotten bored with our relationship and felt like it was going no where. Im 17 and he is 19. I can see us together later on but just not right now. Do you guys think that we could successfully ...

Some creative and inexpensive ideas for a birthday gift would be appreciated

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5521 days ago

23 March 2009 (F) - I need some birthday gift ideas for my boyfriend of two years. His bday is coming up in exactly one month from today, and I would like some ideas on what to get him. I am leaning more towards making him something, like some arts and craft, cookies, ...

Why do I go back to him? Do I just get lonely and go back to the ex because I can?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5521 days ago

23 March 2009 (F) - Hmm, okay here goes. So I'm 17 and have been on and off with my boyfriend for about 3 years now. I'm the one who has done the breaking up in the past. We broke up at the end of august last year after being together 6 months, because by the end I ju...

B/f has aspergers syndrome..what can I do to help him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4086 days ago

23 March 2009 (F) - Hello all! I was wondering if there is anyone out there whose parter has mild Aspergers syndrome. My boyfriend whom I love deeply and would do anything for, has this condition. I would really apprieciate ideas on how to help and support him. ...

How long until we have sex?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5512 days ago

23 March 2009 (F) - Hey, I just started seeing this guy. He seems very nice, and cool ... little bit of a party animal, but I don't mind. We went for 2 dates .. kissed .. and at the second one he did ask me, if he can come upstairs, but I said no ... he didn't push. ...

His friend Katie is getting to close to him for comfort!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5521 days ago

23 March 2009 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for 3 months now. I love him to pieces. I'm not a jealous girlfriend and I know I can trust him but he has this friend called Katie and she fancies him. She is all over him all the time. She tried to kiss him in front of ...

Where can I find a serious woman?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5521 days ago

23 March 2009 (M) - Ok, Well these days and times everyone is into scandalous dating and non-serious relationships around my age group(18-22). I myself am 18 and I've looked far and wide to find someone who wants to have a serious relationship. I've been told by girls ...

I want a permanent future!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5521 days ago

23 March 2009 (F) - My boyfriend had several girl's numbers in his cell. We have been together for over a year. I finally got the nerve to ask him why he still had them in his cell. When I did he got really mad! He said I bring drama because a few weeks ago I had ...

Should I be happy that even though he goes out and he gets female attention it's me he wants?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5521 days ago

23 March 2009 (F) - My boyfriend is gorgeous. He has the charm to go with it that's why I love him so much. Thing is he has lots of friends, female ones too! And I seem to have a problem with this. I know that they fancy him and would love to be with him he gets a lot ...

Why does my boyfriend have bi desires?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5105 days ago

23 March 2009 (F) - We've been together for almost two years and since we've lived together I've discovered alot about him I didn't know. I was curious when I noticed he had naked pictures of himself in his photo files. When I confronted him about it he just blew it ...

I don't know what to do... Should I have sex with him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5521 days ago

23 March 2009 (F) - Let's just get straight to the point, I'm nearly 14 and I've been seeing this lad for just over 3 weeks, he's nearly 16, but the thing is he wants sex even though he says he's ready when I'm ready. Sometimes I think he will dump me if I don't have ...

Her libido is way off the richter scale!!!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5521 days ago

23 March 2009 (M) - I've been with my fiancee for two and a half years. I couldn't ask for a better lady. She's intelligent and absolutely stunning. The thing is though, she has a massive sex drive. She's never satisfied with just vaginal intercourse, she has to have...

Were we ever meant to be?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5521 days ago

23 March 2009 (F) - I broke up with my boyfriend a week ago, the problem is that I cannot get him out of my mind. What should I do? Besides, I know he is still in love with me because when I asked him to help me forget him he got very sad that he even stopped ...

I don’t understand why he won’t grab the chance with me

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5521 days ago

23 March 2009 (F) - Hi Does anyone have any advice please on emotionally distant or emotionally unavailable people? I am certain that my man is one of these people. We have known each other for 18 years (we met when we were 18 and are now 36) and during that time...

Need help with overcoming past hurt to move into a great new relationsip

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5521 days ago

23 March 2009 (F) - I have been seeing a great guy for about a month and a half now, for some reason we started having these silly tiffs, and when things started getting a little out of hand we decided to give each other a some space to figure out what the root of this ...

Loving girlfriend but all I can think about is her exes

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5521 days ago

23 March 2009 (F) - Hi, Im in a loving relationship with my girlfriend. When we started going out everything was great and I was never worried or jealous of previous sexual partners but as we are together longer I get more and more jealous. We are lesbians and ...

She doesn't want me to perform oral sex on her

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5522 days ago

23 March 2009 (F) - Me and my girlfriend have been together for 6 months and have a healthy sex life. Just recently I've wanted to find more ways to pleasure her and one being eating/licking her out. She has had a few male previous sex partners, one being who she let ...

He left and came back! Should I believe him?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5521 days ago

23 March 2009 (F) - I am 19 years old and married. He is 22 years old. We have been together for about 3 years now. Last year i got pregnant and thats why we got married. My mom kind us forced us too which was kind of stupid of us to let her do that. So everything ...

Should I try and move on by dating other guys?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5522 days ago

23 March 2009 (F) - Im in love with a guy but he ended it with me a few days ago he says he still loves me but then just today he told me he doesnt like me more then a friend because i pissed him off to much but it wasnt me pissing him off because id come home fro...

Did my behavior push him away?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5522 days ago

23 March 2009 (F) - I need some serious advice here... I have been dating my boyfriend for 6 months now and I don't know what to think. I have been a little clingy, asking him to stay over more, trying to make love more(usually after one time he is spent:(), and...

I'm screwing it up and it kills me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5522 days ago

23 March 2009 (M) - I was in love with my best friend for about a 2 years. i finally told her how i felt and after about 2 months she broke up with her boy friend and made it pretty clear she wanted be with me. so i was stoked and for about 6 weeks it was really gr...

Is 30 years old, OLD?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5521 days ago

23 March 2009 (F) - is 30 years old ,old? because i think its old. ...

Why am I so selfish?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5522 days ago

23 March 2009 (F) - Im 22 and I have been in a relationship for a little over two years, but lately i have started to realize that i am being selfish. My boyfriend is beginning to get fed up with me...he pointed out today that i dont do anything for him, simple thin...

He doesn't feel the same, he still has a thing for his ex

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5178 days ago

23 March 2009 (F) - I have been dating this guy for 5 months and he warned me from day one that he didn't want to hurt me. I told him I wouldn't let him but I don't know anymore. He told me that he and his girlfriend broke up two months before and that he was still in ...

I gave her a ring, she calls me pet names and then starts dating someone else!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5522 days ago

23 March 2009 (M) - I am 17 years old and she is 21.I was going out with my ex for 4 years.She is hot and when i gaved her a ring she wanted for years she says I'm going out with someone else.it hurt me for so long.For some reason she calls me by my nicknames she gave ...

I lied about my debt problems so I wouldn't lose her! She left me...help!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5522 days ago

23 March 2009 (M) - I have been with my fiance' for three years. She moved here from another state to be with me. Being recently divorced, I am broke. I did not want to lose her so I continued to spend money and shower her with "things". I charged more. Became more ...

My kids deserves a better dad who is there to support and confide in them who is not part time.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5522 days ago

23 March 2009 (F) - I'm in the post pardum stage but not sure if my feelings have to do with any of the decisions I've made. My kids dad and I have been in and out of relationship. We are cool and one point and here we go... big blown argument. Past issues come up, ...

My period only lasts 3 days and I never get cramp, is this normal?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5522 days ago

23 March 2009 (F) - Hi, this isn't a relationship question, it's actually about my periods. I'm a 23 year old woman, have slept with three guys in the past, including the guy I am currently dating (we've been together for two years and seven months now). I've never ...

What to say on a first date?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5521 days ago

23 March 2009 (M) - Okay so I'm asking out a girl but if she says yes I have nothing to say after so can y'all give me some ideas???...

He cheated... now what?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5522 days ago

23 March 2009 (F) - I need all the help I can get! I just went on my boyfriend's myspace and he's been cheating, what the hell do I do? I'm scared, it's been happening for a couple months. I'm so stupid, why didn't I see it before? What can I do? I'm having his ...

I REALLY want to go with him to the prom!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5521 days ago

23 March 2009 (F) - So I had this boyfriend in 8th grade named Darell but I broke up with him after a few weeks because either I got scared or I just realized I didn't like him like that. I don't know .. it was something stupid. We were like 12 after all. Anyway, I...

I found my boyfriend and his ex in bed together today!!!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5522 days ago

23 March 2009 (F) - My boyfriend of 2 months (that I was really starting to fall for) cheated on me with his ex girlfriend. They are friends and have been since they broke up. I found them in bed together today. He said they went out and got really drunk, so drunk ...

I want to call him just to say hello, and see if that connection is still there between us.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5497 days ago

23 March 2009 (F) - I have a boyfriend who is relatively new. We get along great, and I have a lot of fun with him. Also our relationship has a lot of passion in it. But I have realized that passion is only temporary, and I'm starting to think What's going to ...