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Archived questions from: 5 March, 2009 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

My girlfriend is obsessed with my penis!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5538 days ago

5 March 2009 (M) - I know this may sound silly but it's true. My girlfriend is obsessed with my penis. I don't know why, maybe it's because she's never seen one in real life before me... or something, I don't know. She's so fascinated by it, she's always wants to ...

He wants to sleep with other girls but said he couldn't stand it if I sleep with another guy!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5539 days ago

5 March 2009 (F) - I have been seeing a guy on and off for around four years now. But he has never considered me as his girlfriend. He tells me that he loves me but then won't call me, message me or answer my calls for weeks. When I do finally see him I try to ignore ...

I'm pregnant but it's come at the wrong time and I'm freaking out about it!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5501 days ago

5 March 2009 (F) - I just found out I am pregnant and I think I am in shock. I am a 21 years old, senior in college. I am a biology major and I planned on going on to medical school, dental school, or some other graduate school. I am an excellent student with my whole ...

My boyfriend can't keep his erection and it's not doing much for my confidence.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5539 days ago

5 March 2009 (F) - Hello... my boyfriend and I have been going out a year in a couple of weeks. I'm 15, almost 16 and he's 16, almost 17. We've had sex a lot but then I went away over christmas and we haven't had sex since then. We've tried but it didn't happen. ...

What else has she not told me...?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5538 days ago

5 March 2009 (M) - Well my fiance has a pretty bad past as far as boyfriend's and sex and partying and all that stuff a lot of girls do. She told me that she only had been with 2 guys before me. And that would make me her 3rd.... at the time of us talking like that ...

What exactly is "taking it slow?"

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5539 days ago

5 March 2009 (M) - Let me start by explaining myself or rather my past. I knew my ex-wife for 10 years, married 7. 4 years into my marriage she broke a few of my core values. This created a loveless marriage for three years until it ended. I had one relationship ...

Love Me? Or a sexual gesture?

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5 March 2009 (F) - with all these love language issues going around. im a bit curious about how people in general think. is kissing the strongest way of showing affection. Its been 8months since i started going out with my b/f. Each time we meet he kisses me. does he ...

Boyfriend? OR FWB guy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5539 days ago

5 March 2009 (F) - I can't choose between my boyfriend, who loves me a lot and a friend who wants to be sex buddies. I love my friend more than I do my boyfriend. What should I do?...

This guy makes me think "What if"...and I have a boyfriend!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5539 days ago

5 March 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for 11 months now. And I'm really happy with him and I love him very much. However, the past couple of days, I started talking to the guy I dated before him - just as friends though. This guy I have known for ...

Wrong to love one and be with another?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5539 days ago

5 March 2009 (M) - Basically i don't know who i want to be with. it's pretty much i want girl2 but i'm happy with girl1. Me and girl1 are in a great relationship. I do actually love her. I see her like 3 times a week and we always have fun if we go out or just watch ...

Friends to lovers

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5539 days ago

5 March 2009 (F) - hey everyone.! From best friends to lovers...i have been realy close friends with my now boyfriend for 6 years.We started dating whilst he was out there after we both realized that it wasnt just friends missing one another it was a much deeper fe...

She's very shy when it comes to anything sexual

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5539 days ago

5 March 2009 (M) - hi, Ive been seeing a girl for over 2 months now and been going out with each other 3 weeks now! the problem im having is that she is very shy when it come to anything sexual! when were alone i.e my room kissing, i would rub her leg and move my ...

Is there a rule of thumb as to the number of dates you need to go on before having sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5539 days ago

5 March 2009 (M) - I have a friend who we started dating. We just had our first date it was fun. We were friends for a while before dating. I think she is cute and would like sex with her. Typically is there a number of dates to go on before talking, thinking about, ...

My crush went out with me for a day but it was a joke?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5539 days ago

5 March 2009 (F) - Hi, I've had a crush on this guy for a long time, we went out for like a day but it was just for a joke apparently. That was a while ago and he makes it pretty obvious that he might like me but i told him that I did, and he hasn't said anything and ...

I want to give it a go with this guy but he already disrespects me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5539 days ago

5 March 2009 (F) - I want to know if I should give a relationship a go with this guy I've been dating for a bit. He really says he likes me and wants to make the commitment to a relationship. However, I am unsure. I feel like he doesnt respect me. I feel like hes very ...

Is he pushing me away?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5539 days ago

5 March 2009 (F) - im 22,and inlove with a 36 yr old man.we have been seeing each other for 2.5 months now.we are both very attractive.what confuses me is wheither he doesn't love me or it's just how older men are.he takes me to nice and expensive places, he is there ...

How do I get her to have phone/webcam sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5540 days ago

5 March 2009 (M) - I met my girlfriend over the summer, and we've had a long distance relationship for seven months. I love her a lot and we've had sex before. I'm so damn horny I have to masturbate everyday just to feel sane. I keep asking her if she masturbates, but ...

I want him to know I'm interested

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5540 days ago

5 March 2009 (F) - How do you know when a guy is interested in you? I have problems showing my interest in a guy and he may be thinking I'm not interested at all. I don't want him to believe I only see him as a friend. How do I flirt with him without being too...

Why would he say that to me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5540 days ago

5 March 2009 (F) - My friends say a guy likes me. I like him too. He is a friend of ours so he told me one girl asked him out and he refused to it. He told her he is not looking for a love relationship right now, and gave me a lot of reasons why he shouldn't have a...

Highschool girlfriends

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5533 days ago

5 March 2009 (M) - Alright so i was in highscool 2 years ago. Senior year all is nice popular doing mma keeping in shape. I find this girl she was 16 i was 18 we became friends. After months we decided to start a relationship. Everything was going nice took her to ...

Fallen for my FWB!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5540 days ago

5 March 2009 (F) - I've got myself into a bit of a situation and i don't know what to do. It's a bit complicated... i've been seeing this guy for about 2 months now. It's was kind of 'friends with benefits'. I used to go round his in the evenings and 'chill'. B...

I told him no but should I give him a chance?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5540 days ago

5 March 2009 (F) - So I'm new to a skewl n this boy likes me n I like him.but since I'm new I had 2 do my research.n I asked teachers n the other girls n without a thought said noooooooo.mayb its because he's a thug but should I give him a chance?...

He's shy, how can I get him to ask me out?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5539 days ago

5 March 2009 (F) - My friend has these roomates and one night, I had a makeout session with one of them. He wanted to have sex but I said no and left. Even though I like him, I found out that he is a complete manwhore so it will go nowhere. I have been talking to my ...

How do you know what to do for your partner?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5540 days ago

5 March 2009 (F) - Dear Cupid, so, i'm kind of new at the whole dating thing. I'm 15. I know that true love is extremely rare at this age, and honestly i'm dating for experience, i'm not expecting marriage out of this or anything. Anyways, i have a boyfriend now, and...

Going back into the dating arena after 5 years

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5540 days ago

5 March 2009 (F) - It has been a long time since I have dated and I am really interested in getting back out there but I guess I have difficulty finding people I am interested in. I am in my 20s and I am normally attracted to guys a little older (in their 30s or ...

Should I give this guy a chance despite everything in the past?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5540 days ago

5 March 2009 (F) - There is a man that I have been considering getting involved with. We met a few years ago. Since then we have maintained some correspondence through email, always friendly, a little flirtatious but mainly professional. The truth is when we met it ...

He gave me the ring after he found out that there is another person interested in dating me.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5539 days ago

5 March 2009 (F) - My boyfriend gave me a ring on Feb 2006 and I accepted it but he didn't propose. He gave me the ring after he found out that there is another person interested in dating me. After he gave me the ring he said that we're engaged. And now I feel ...

Is being fingered even anything like sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5528 days ago

5 March 2009 (F) - I'm a virgin and have been with my boyfriend for 6 months now. I'm 18 and I've never had sex before so I'm kinda nervous but we both feel ready to do it. I've heard it hurts when you have sex as the hymen tears but my boyfriend has fingered me ...

Is it cheating if I want to experiment sexually with a woman?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5540 days ago

5 March 2009 (F) - Is it cheating if I want to experiment sexually with a woman? My boyfriend said it's cheating even if it's just for experimentation. I on the other hand have no problem with him experimenting with a man if he so chooses. What do you think? ...

I feel as if I'm deceiving my boyfriend by not telling him about my friend.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5540 days ago

5 March 2009 (F) - I am in a very loving relationship with my boyfriend of six years. We live together and have a six month old son. Our relationship got off to a terrible start but we've worked through it all. A few months ago a guy I met while doing a business...

Why is he being so distant???

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5536 days ago

5 March 2009 (F) - hey, I'd really like someones help! Well ok it all started last July with this guy who is 37, and we became bf and gf (I'm 17) and at the start he was really kind... always told me he loved me and texted me loads... now its March and I went to see ...

We both want to stay together when she goes to uni but I can't help but think about the inevitable.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5529 days ago

5 March 2009 (M) - My girl and I have been together for one year. When we started dating she mentioned an interest in an exchange program that our university offered. She applied and got in after months of waiting. She will be leaving the counrty for 8 months at the ...