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Archived questions from: 17 March, 2009 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

My girlfriend won't come on to me for fear I'll reject her.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5527 days ago

17 March 2009 (M) - I've been with my girlfriend for quite some time now and we have a good sex life. The only problem is that when she is horny she won't make a move on me in case I don't want to have sex. If we're both horny then it's fine and if just I'm horny ...

What the hell is a married man doing in gay bars anyway?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5524 days ago

17 March 2009 (M) - I am 23 and have just broken up with my boyfriend of 6-months (he's 34 years old). I broke up with him after finding out he was married with two children; I feel disgusted and sick and have self-loathing. We met in a gay bar that's popular loca...

We had dry sex, he had boxers on, I had none.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5527 days ago

17 March 2009 (F) - ok me and my boyfriend have been together for awhile and were planning on gettin married but were waiting on the whole sex thing. but we have dry humpted more then 10 times he has had shorts and boxers on but i havent and yes he has came but from...

Drifting apart & I don't want to!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5527 days ago

17 March 2009 (F) - so ive been with my boyfriend for 3 months now. hes so special to me and he means soo much to me. were so good togeather and we have soo much fun when were in eachothers company. i do really love him but over the past 2weeks he and i have had alot ...

I seem to get bored with him, should I continue?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5527 days ago

17 March 2009 (F) - Hi all, Im glad i stumbled across this site. I really need some advice. I've been in a long distance relationship for 5 years now.My BF is wonderful,he treats me like a princess and over the last 5 years his love has grown for me...My feeli...

I like my female, married co-worker!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5527 days ago

17 March 2009 (F) - Thanks all, for taking the time to read and help. Im 35 divorced (happy n giving person) I met somone she is a female married. This is my coworker, and I am really new too bisexual scene.( I have only kissed a girl 4 yrs ago) Why so long -wel...

She wants to get married, but I want to wait!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5527 days ago

17 March 2009 (M) - I've been with my Girlfriend for years now and we live together and have been doing well. I love her very much and want to be with her for a very long time. She wants to get married but I don't really want to. She thinks I don't want to because I ...

Should I leave my boyfriend that has babymama drama?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5527 days ago

17 March 2009 (F) - My current boyfriend of 5 months has an ex who is also the mother of his child of 7months. They talk or text almost everyday "about their son" sure. I asked him did he still love her and he says he do but he is not in love with her. She gets angry ...

Is this mean or am Itaking this too hard?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5527 days ago

17 March 2009 (M) - ok so there is this girl, we met about 2 months ago and the way we met i thought we was supposed to be together, we started seeing each other and it was all good. just recently ive started to feel so comfortable in holding her hand and kissing her, ...

I love a chinese man but my family wants me to marry an Indonesian!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5527 days ago

17 March 2009 (F) - Dear Cupid, I have a boyfriend,his name is J. I love him so much that I dont want to be away from him, problem is he's Chinese and I'm Indonesian. I'm worried about my family,they're so old fashioned and they want me to marry Indonesian guy ...

Girlfriend's behavior finally put me over the edge!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5527 days ago

17 March 2009 (M) - My gf's behavior on Saturday night has finally put me over the edge. I was invited to a Paddy's Day party. I immediately asked her to come with me. She first refused because she didn't like the people that were going to be there. Particularly the ...

My boyfriend has become really boring!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5527 days ago

17 March 2009 (F) - hello my boyfriend is getting really boring and i dont what is wrong with him . we used to be all happy and he always wanted to go out and take me places but now all he wants to do is sit in what shall i do xxx thxz love stacie...

Stay with the girlfriend or just keep moving on?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5527 days ago

17 March 2009 (M) - I've been with her officially for 3 months now and I was seeing her for 4 months before we actually got together. The thing is, things were alot better before we actually got into a relationship. Things weren't complicated, we got along sooo so ...

Good gift? I don't want to be boring & thoughtless

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5527 days ago

17 March 2009 (M) - Hi, the girl I like (or at least think I do - still unsure)has her birthday on friday, and we should be meeting Saturday (I suggested we meet for a coffee, but she asked if I would go for a walk with her - cannot really refuse) Anyway, I'd lik...

Should I ask her out? Flirt?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5525 days ago

17 March 2009 (M) - There's this girl that I like. She's one of the nicest person you can meet; she's a little shy, but once you warm up to her, fun to be around. Another thing is she had been extremely sheltered through out her life, so at times she seems a bit ...

Says he's not in the right state of mind

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5527 days ago

17 March 2009 (M) - ive been speaking to this guy for a week and a half now.. he's 23 and im 18, we are both interested in each other but he has just came out of a 2 year relationship, 3 months ago, bringing with him alot of money problems. i asked him the ot...

G/f depressed because she's obese

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5512 days ago

17 March 2009 (M) - My girlfriend is depressed because she’s obese. She’s tried quite a lot of diets but nothing seems to work as she gives up after a couple of weeks. Generally I’d say she eats about the same amount that I do and if anything I’m underweight. What can ...

He's shorter than me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5527 days ago

17 March 2009 (F) - We like each other very much he worries all the time that i dnt like him cause hes shorter than me... M 5"10 hes 5"8. By him worrying he makes me self conscious about my height. Any idea guys please... And also girls too... Help me...

I like my daughter's coach!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5527 days ago

17 March 2009 (F) - I am a single mum who has a nine year old daughter. my daughter has recently started tennis lessons and her male coach is very nice very good looking..and single!! Is it wrong to ask him out as he is my daughters coach and how are some ways i can ...

Am I going to bleed or not?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5527 days ago

17 March 2009 (F) - I was molested when I was really small and I'm about to get married in a months time..... and now I'm just worried if I am going to bleed on my wedding night when I have sex? Am I going to bleed or not? And will the guy be able to tell whether ...

He's already got a g/fbut I like him!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5527 days ago

17 March 2009 (F) - Hi well i am 20 years old and single i've been through alot with guys alot of them treat me badly and tell me things that in the end turn out not to be true. But i work full time at a solicitors office and there is a guy who often comes in he is ou...

She's very stubborn and doesn't know what she wants, meanwhile I am in so much pain!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5527 days ago

17 March 2009 (M) - Hello Everyone. I'm not in a good place right now, and could really do with some help and advice. Basically, I met my girlfriend about one year ago and we fell in love so fast, we were practically inseparable. All was perfect throughout the s...

I'm losing feelings for him and don't know what to do!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5528 days ago

17 March 2009 (F) - im dating a guy i have been since just after christmas he says he loves me and all n i am pretty sure i love him but im losing feelings for him and i have no clue what to do i told him bout it once he stopped talking to me for a few days and i guess ...

I want a boyfriend, he wants sex... how do I make him change?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5528 days ago

17 March 2009 (F) - Just some advice needed really. There's a lad I really like and he likes me, we are very attracted to each other but neither of us are in the right place to have a relationship with each other. We went to Paris a few weeks back with each other ...

How long should I wait for this 16 year old girl to grow up?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5527 days ago

17 March 2009 (M) - I have fallen in love with a 16 year old girl.I love her very much.Yet I is it correct for me to think of settling down with her after say 6 years....

Should I dump this friend to look for potentials?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5528 days ago

17 March 2009 (F) - I have a guy mate who I get on with and try to see on a regular basis. He already has a girlfriend, but lives away from him and I'm 23 and still single. Every time Mum knows that I arrange to meet up with him, she complains that I am 'wasting my ...

I think I love two men

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5521 days ago

17 March 2009 (F) - I think I love two men. My current b/f is wonderful her treats me great. But he seems to have no plans for the future. He wants to marry me but he seems to have no stability. We dont live together or share finances)We have been together for almost 3 ...

I'm wondering what kind of person my boyfriend is.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5527 days ago

17 March 2009 (F) - I've been seeing this man for the past 4 months. He's a professional, intelligent, funny and very caring. It was supposed to be a casual meeting which turned into a one night stand which turned into a relationship. i met him through the inte...