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Archived questions from: 26 March, 2009 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

Single and crazy about a married man!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5518 days ago

26 March 2009 (F) - Alright, well here is my problem. About 7 months ago, i met this young man.When he and I met he told me he had been married twice. Appox. two months go by and then one day he calls and tells me that he is actually still married, but they are sepe...

I like him but I don't like him... should I call it a day?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5518 days ago

26 March 2009 (F) - Hi people, I go out with this boy right know and he likes me and I kind of but don't like him but my friends are making me go out with him. Do you think I should break up with him? I want but I don't want to hurt his feelings because one of my best ...

I feel I was used as a booty call and now I feel so used...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5517 days ago

26 March 2009 (F) - I found out the man I really liked and had feelings for was just using me as a booty call. He didn't tell me this, though. He promised me the world. He told me I was his girl. This went on for months. But it turned out he had a girlfriend already! ...

How do I know if I'm REALLY pleasing her in bed?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5518 days ago

26 March 2009 (M) - I'm a 20 year old male, and I want very much to please my girlfriend with oral sex. However, she is very stoic and reserved in bed, so I can't tell if I am doing a good job or not pleasing her, I've asked her straight up, and she always just says it ...

I am really worried he has been to a prostitute!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5517 days ago

26 March 2009 (F) - Hi, my boyfriend stayed in Hong Kong for less than 2 days and in that time he took out two lots of £125. He is now is Australia and says he didn't do any shopping while he was there - just went to an Irish bar. I am really worried he has used a p...

Did YOU bleed your first time???

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5505 days ago

26 March 2009 (F) - Hey! I know this probably just sounds like I'm being a nosy bitch, but I've started going out with this guy, only been with him 11 weeks! I'm 17 in 3 weeks and I'm still a virgin, he's 20 and he's also still a virgin, and although I'm not jumping ...

Is it normal for long term long distance relationship to go through periods like this, or are we just not suited to each other?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5518 days ago

26 March 2009 (F) - Hello, I am hoping to get some advice. I have been in a long distance relationship for 3 years now. We have discussed marriage and the future a lot recently, which has got me thinking about whether this is really me for life. I moved cities 3 ...

Is he just nervous?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5518 days ago

26 March 2009 (F) - So my boyfriend and I have been going out for a while now and he is a virgin and I am not. We have discussed having sex and have even tried a few times with protection but whenever we are about to he stops and doesn't want to try any more... Why is ...

So what else can I do in place of giving him oral sex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5518 days ago

26 March 2009 (F) - Hello! I posted a question yesterday evening, but only recieved one response. And, well to be quite honest it didn't really answer my problem. So I'm reposting in hopes that someone can help out. Here is the question in it's original form. "My bo...

Does he or does he not like me back?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5518 days ago

26 March 2009 (F) - I'm 19 years old and the guy is 20, so I'm getting pretty annoyed by his 'high school-like' behavior. Anyways, I'm really into him and the problem is that I have no idea if he likes me back or not. We can be all flirty one day: touching each othe...

I have never felt very confident in my body

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5518 days ago

26 March 2009 (F) - I have recently starting seeing this bloke and he is always very touchy feely and wanting more than just a kiss. My problem is that I have never felt very confident in my body and I don't mind touching with clothes on but I hate it when he touc...

26 and I haven't been with anyone :-(

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5518 days ago

26 March 2009 (F) - I need some help/advice. I am 26 years of age and have never had a boyfriend or intimate with a guy if you catch my drift. I have kissed one guy recently and I kinda liked it but I ended up pulling away because he made me feel how excited he was, ...

Complete Ridiculousness

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5518 days ago

26 March 2009 (F) - This is completely and utterly ridiculous- trust me I know that. But after about 18 months of the single life I've completely surprised myself and developed feelings for someone. Only problem being he's not remotely interested! I met him last wee...

I can't bear all this waiting around!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5518 days ago

26 March 2009 (F) - I'm feeling very sad and low at the moment and can't shake out of it. This man I have been seeing (who has always been quite unreliable) hasn't contacted me for a week. He does go through phases where he contacts me a lot and then disappea...

I don't want to give up on him but he is pushing me away.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5514 days ago

26 March 2009 (F) - I've been with this guy for 5 months now: 2 months ago he's lost his job. I've been trying to keep him happy doing all he has ask(like sex, money, cooking 4 him, washing his clothes, etc.). We don't live together but he stays 2 blocks from my house. ...

Give up... or keep going?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5518 days ago

26 March 2009 (F) - I started seeing this guy about 6 months ago who now my boyfriend of 5 months. I have had seriously 2 and 3 year relationships but I have never felt this way about anyone before. I truly believe that even after going out with him for only 5 months, ...

Boyfriend doesn't like to be touched and doesn't talk to me

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5518 days ago

26 March 2009 (F) - are there guys out there that don't like to be touched snuggling? and what do you do when you have a boyfriend that is quiet and don't like to be touched and really does not talk to you...

Should I move on? She lied numerous times ....

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5518 days ago

26 March 2009 (M) - I am so confused. My ex and I dated for a year, but have known each other for 4 and dated a time or two in that period. An ex boyfriend came back into the picture a few weeks ago. I found her lying to me about where she was, and she was actu...

What do I do? Should I believe him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5518 days ago

26 March 2009 (F) - my boyfriends co-worker told me that he is planning on braking up with me in july and moving in august and that he stopped caring about me 4 months ago, he told me no to everything and that him and his co-worker had words almost fighting. my boyf...

Is there anything I can do? I really like him.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5518 days ago

26 March 2009 (F) - What do you do about a man who is absolutely perfect in every way; kind, attentive, romantic, intelligent, everything really, but who says he doesn't do relationships because he is selfish and loves himself too much? I get the impression he's had ...

How to maintain at least the possibility?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5518 days ago

26 March 2009 (M) - I have known this girl a few months, and after long and careful thinking I have decided that I do not know is SHE specifically is the one I want, but she definitely matches the type of person I want to be with. We have been out three times as f...

I'm not a guy, so I just don't get this killer exercise to get in shape I guess.:)

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5518 days ago

26 March 2009 (F) - This is a queestion for everyone out there! Ok, so my boyfriend started this new exercise program. It's for 90 days, but a killer!! You have to do certain exercises every day. He has only done this (3) days and the soreness just gets worse every...

Can casual sex between friends work or is our friendship heading for disaster?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5518 days ago

26 March 2009 (M) - My best friend and I hang out together alot. She's always over at my house at the weekends, she stays over on Friday and Saturday nights. Last Saturday, she was over as usual. We were watching a film on the settee. At the end of the film, we were...

I know he loves me the way I am, but I really want to lose some weight

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5518 days ago

26 March 2009 (F) - Thank you in advance for anyone taking the time to read this! I suppose this is a more health-related question, but I could really do with some advice. I'm going away with my boyfriend at the beginning of July to Spain. I know he loves me the way ...

Why has she left it this long to tell me that? Could she be lying?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5518 days ago

26 March 2009 (M) - I'm having the time of my life romancing an older woman. I'm 26 and she's 46. You have to see her to believe her. She's gorgeous and got a great personality. We met at a party, she's a friend's friend's friend's friend's Mum or something like that...

I want to heal and to trust him. Am I mad?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5518 days ago

26 March 2009 (F) - Hi im 41 and the guy i have been seeing is 52. We have been together on and off for just under a year. In feb of this year, after staying at his house I found very explicit photographs of him and another woman taken over the past few months. I wa...

I truly love him so why am I having these doubts?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5517 days ago

26 March 2009 (F) - ok here goes. I am in a little situation here I have been dating my bf for 2 yrs now and seriously he is not motivated or anything.He is faithful and is a nice guy but I dont think i want to marry him anymore. Ever heard of the saying small thin...

"I am a good man without money" What does it mean???

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5518 days ago

26 March 2009 (F) - Hello, I have been dating this man for 8 months now , He first told me when we met that he dated other women and even got engaged but broke up because of money issues he said he just leaves when any women makes any money demands he said he alway...

He is really pushing for us to be together 24/7 !!!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5517 days ago

26 March 2009 (F) - I need advice on how to approach my boyfriend so as not to hurt him. We met about 8 months ago; I am having a few doubts about us. I own my own place and he has gradually spent more and more time with me until it has now got to the point that he i...

Is he using me for a fun time at the weekend only?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5518 days ago

26 March 2009 (F) - Dear Aunts, I have been with my boyfriend for nearly a year - we both work hard and only see each other of a weekend (but all weekend). It took him a long time to say 'I love you' (said it for the first time last month, and even now I can see th...

The woman I get along great with has commitment issues.... Thoughts?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5517 days ago

26 March 2009 (M) - So I 'reconnected' with a girl I knew a while back through friends of mine at a wedding last month. Had a great time with her at the wedding, asked my friend for her number, and for the last month we've been hanging out alot and just this weekend ...

Am I JEALOUS of the dog?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5518 days ago

26 March 2009 (M) - I hope there are some pet lovers out there that can help me with this. As a disclaimer, I LOVE animals, I've just never liked them indoors. All right, on with the show: My fiancée is pure magic. She's everything I've ever wanted, and...

I have never been unfaithful but he is constantly assuming I am!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5518 days ago

26 March 2009 (F) - I'll just lay it all out on the table. He and I have been together for over one year. I have never been unfaithful to ANYone in my past, I know the pain of infidelity and I would never do that to someone else. For eight months now, I have h...

Convict? or cop?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5494 days ago

26 March 2009 (F) - I am a 38 yo single woman with high IQ and very practical. Here is my issue. I broke up with Ryan a few months ago because he was living with another woman and didn't seem ready to make that step. He is the perfect image of responsiblity, lawful, ...

He keeps coming back. What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5518 days ago

26 March 2009 (F) - Although i haven't seen the man i used to date last year, for nearly 2 months, i can't stop thinking of him. He is always in my mind and i wonder what he is doing. I have decided not to call him any more but he calls me some times, not often. ...

My boyfriend doesn't approve of me hanging out with one of my guy friends. What do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5518 days ago

26 March 2009 (?) - Hi, lately I've really been missing all my friends and this weekend there is a huge party happening which is really exciting because i'll get to see all of my friends there. the problem is i know that this boy (let's call him Shaun) is going wh...

Will he come back for me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5518 days ago

26 March 2009 (M) - Backgrounder: My ex boyfriend and I had been together since my birthday three years ago. We met at my b-day party, and hit it off really quickly. Before that point, we did not know each other. My ex moved in about a week later after that p...

What would a guy do that would make a girl think he's sweet?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5519 days ago

26 March 2009 (M) - hi well I'm just curious but girls what does and guy have to do for you to consider him sweet or nice or whatever is the best adjective out there. thanks bye....

Meeting my boyfriends father

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5519 days ago

26 March 2009 (F) - Hey Everyone, I'm 18, and I'm meeting my boyfriends Dad for the first time in a few days. (my boyfriend is my age too) I'm actually staying with them for 2 weeks, so I just wondered whether anyone could give me some advice on how to act,...

He proposed too soon!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5519 days ago

26 March 2009 (F) - This is a bit long and I apologize, but I do need some help. My boyfriend and I have been together since I was a junior and he was a senior in high school. I'm now a junior in college and he's a senior in college (we go to the same university)...

I love him but he's fat!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5519 days ago

26 March 2009 (F) - hi :) well i have a bf and i really love him but he is fat nd i am too but not big he little bigger than me nd like i dnt date fat boyz nd sometimes i think to myself should i even be with him but i love him! or do i just love him beacuse he said he ...

She deleted messages to other guys "by mistake!!!" Hmmmmmm...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5518 days ago

26 March 2009 (M) - I am getting married in a few months, I have been with her for over 4 years and love her with all of my heart but the other day I was on her computer and found some messages that she had sent to other guys and I decided to read what they had talked ...