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Archived questions from: 10 June, 2009 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

My lack of trust in him is damaging our relationship.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5440 days ago

10 June 2009 (F) - I am in a long-distance relationship with my boyfriend. I have known him since two years ago. Around February of last year we became boyfriend and girl friend. Then though, a job transfer happened and i had to move about 300 miles away. Given aro...

How do I get him back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5440 days ago

10 June 2009 (F) - i want to know whether it's possible to get back with a guy, and if so how... basically, i was with this guy for about 2 and a half months, which for me at my age is quite a long time btw. Anyway, i was with him, we had a few arguments, but n...

What does she want from this if she doesn't say she wants to break up?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5440 days ago

10 June 2009 (M) - I have been with a girl for two months, went out on a few dates before we got involved. We are not officially broken up, but she revealed to me that she was worried because she hasn't been having strong feelings for me. I don't have them either, but ...

Did he mean what he said or is it all a show?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5421 days ago

10 June 2009 (F) - ok, i met this guy a couple years ago, he is my uncle's girlfriend's son. We just recently got introduced again about 4 months ago. We hang out here and there he helped me move and helps me a lot. Anyways, we went out Saturday for his birthday...

I think my hypothetical question backfired!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5431 days ago

10 June 2009 (F) - I have this guy friend that I've known for about 8 1/2 months. I found out seven months ago that he likes me.. When I found out I spazed and avoided him for a day. I felt so bad and decided to hang out with him agin, but I just now am starting to ...

Moved away from home to be with him, now I'm home alone and so sad!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5440 days ago

10 June 2009 (F) - so me and my boyfriend started out great he was so sweet and we got along great. we moved in together 2 months ago and it wasn't just down the road its 3 hours away from my friends and family.. so I haven't been able to find a job yet and I just sit ...

Do guys get intimidated by beautiful girls?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5438 days ago

10 June 2009 (F) - many people(family,friends,strangers,boys) tell me i'm beautiful but i would say i'm just pretty.guys usually stare at me,smile at me,flirt with me and some of them even approach me.i get attention from them,even from those who are way older than ...

He say's I can't come to his house because it is too messy!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5440 days ago

10 June 2009 (M) - Hi. I have been seeing an old friend I used to know from high school... He is 38, I am 39. He has been to my place every other night for the last month or so...We have been intimate, and he has told me he loves me and I feel like I totally trust him ...

Should I spice it up before we go on separate weekend trips or when we get back?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5440 days ago

10 June 2009 (F) - Ok, so my bf (going on 5 months dating) and I are going our separate ways this weekend. I will be attending a family wedding and he will go out to the casino with his buds. I want to buy some lingerie and wear it for him. We have a great sex life...

I regret my decision to leave him! What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5440 days ago

10 June 2009 (F) - After a 14 year relationship of ups and downs in and outs we still love each other but he said it just won't work because of Family and the disagreements and things said in anger.... I believe that it could be and would be different, I was going ...

Are these symptoms of love or lust?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5240 days ago

10 June 2009 (F) - so me and this guy have just recently been talking well actually more weve been on 2 dates already[they were back to back] and he wants to hang out again today:] on the 2d date he kissed me like 9 times for our first kiss i was walking in fron...

How and when should I approach this girl?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5440 days ago

10 June 2009 (M) - Hello, I see this girl on a weekly basis in a big foodstore. she's a cashier and there's always a lot on people on the checkout line so I cant really make her stop what she's doing to get her to talk to me. One time it wasn't that busy and I just ...

Should I speak to him, and what can I say to make it sound natural?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5440 days ago

10 June 2009 (F) - Okay I really like this guy in the year above, but I haven't spoken to him for ages and he hasn't spoken to me Last time we spoke (like 9 months ago), we talked easily (but then i wasnt sure if i liked him in that way) I don't know if he hasnt s...

What should I tell my 5-year guy about the other one?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5440 days ago

10 June 2009 (F) - ok i have this problm ive been with this guy for almost five years and i had alot of problms with him lying to me and using drugs hes trying to change well in the mean time im talkin to another guy threw letters who is in jail he seems like a nice ...

How far should I take things on our first date?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5440 days ago

10 June 2009 (F) - I am going on a first date with a lad who i realy like he seems to like me too as he keeps asking how my love life is as if he is hinting to find out if i have a bf not sure how far to take things on our first date like hold his hand and do i kiss ...

Should I be patient, or walk?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5440 days ago

10 June 2009 (F) - I have a crush on this guy who is basically getting out of a depression. he never used to talk or hang out with us and now he is slowly starting too. the more i hang out with him, the more interested i am. he is really smart and funny, just really ...

How can I get over the paranoia from past relationships and trust him with his best friend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5440 days ago

10 June 2009 (F) - Hi. Needing a bit of help here. I've been with a really wonderful guy for just over 2 months now and everything is going very well. I'm crazy about him and he makes me feel so special. He phones me every evening, we meet up and go for walks ...

What are some good chat-up lines that aren't cheesy but work?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5439 days ago

10 June 2009 (F) - Hi, I was just hoping that guys and girls could help me out with chat-up lines. I'm not really a fan of them but maybe something to break the ice. Good ones though, not cheesy ;) So girls: Any chat-up lines that have never failed to work? And ...

I'm interested in her, and my friend has her number - should I ask him for it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5440 days ago

10 June 2009 (M) - i recently met a girl at college. it was exam period and i never got to see her again to ask her if she would like a coffee sometime or whatever. my friend has her number. should i ask him for it? and would she feel awkward if i called her ? i don't ...

I don't have (or want) many friends, but will this stunt my chances for getting a girl?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5440 days ago

10 June 2009 (M) - hi all. i think i have an issue. i don't have a broad amount of friends. to be honest i don't want lots of friends due to bad experiences (such as gossiping and fakes etc...), but because of that, i feel that chances for having a girlfriend are ...

A lot has happened between us. Now I'm pregnant and he doesn't want it

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5434 days ago

10 June 2009 (F) - right I have been with my boyfriend for 3 months, in the very short space of time alot has happend. soo when i met him he had only been single for 1 week. he split up with hes ex as hes in the army and she called him all the time was very needy an...

He kept looking at me...was he interested?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5438 days ago

10 June 2009 (F) - Hi i'm a bit clueless when it comes to guys. so i was just out at lunch with my sister we were at a bar and this guy was sat there so we sat down and he kept looking at me. he was on his laptop and he kept looking over at me i caught him ...

She never told me about her "friend"

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5440 days ago

10 June 2009 (M) - my gf of over a year has a "friend" that gets out of jail soon. she says they are just friends, however they have slept together. she said that was a mistake and they are just friends. she didn't know him that long before he got locked up. she has ...

He's sent e-mails to another woman...what do I do now?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5438 days ago

10 June 2009 (F) - I know I shouldn't but I've been hacking into my boyfriends email account and recently found emails to another woman which imply they have had a previous encounter (not sure how long ago) but my boyfriend has told the woman I will be working away ...

Really paranoid boyfriend

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5440 days ago

10 June 2009 (F) - Okay, so before i even met my 3 month boyfriend of today, i met my seriously best friend ever, but he is a boy. I tell him every little thing, and i honestly dont know what i would do without him. So i started dating my boyfriend and whenever i ...

Violent past

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5440 days ago

10 June 2009 (F) - My new partner is really lovely and kind to me but i recently found out in his past relationship he was really violent and abusive. Do you think he will be the same with me or do you think he has changed? ...

Do you guys think I'm way in over my head with her or should I ask her out?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5428 days ago

10 June 2009 (M) - Alrighty then. I'll try to make this as brief to the best of my abilities. I'm 24, she's 22. We met in a forum where artists gather and discuss... whatever it is we discuss. Few words about her: She's cute (I'd give her a 7 out of 10), sort of...

WHY can't he move on???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5440 days ago

10 June 2009 (F) - Ok well I was with my boyfriend 1 and a half and 8 months ago, he cheated on me and he confessed to me he had sex with his former friend, I gave him a second chance. And throughout the time people kept telling me stuff about him and what he did with ...

With her for 2 years, now she's changing, avoids me, what can I do about this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5441 days ago

10 June 2009 (M) - I have been in a relationship for 2 years, I am dreadfully attached. I have come to realize she doesnt want to see me all that much, she is very big on being together on birthdays.. but hers was today and she didnt want me to see her.. she keeps ...

Please tell me if she is manipulative or do I expect too much?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5439 days ago

10 June 2009 (M) - Please, forgive me for the lengthy email, but I need to get the facts straight here. I have dated this woman for 1 1/2 years. She is 29 now. A few months ago I caught her lying to me. She told me - she actually set up her lie for a week!!! - that ...

Single dating fathers, could you tell me if you are able to be attentive to a woman who is not the mother of your child?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5436 days ago

10 June 2009 (F) - I really like this guy.. hes a few years older than me but we seem to have soo much in common. The only thing is he has 2 kids and is living with his ex (the mother of his kids). I know he doesnt like her anymore. But Im still jelous of her beca...

How do I control my fear of her leaving me, it's driving me crazy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5441 days ago

10 June 2009 (M) - My previous relationship lasted a year and a half and near the end her friends were constantly telling her to get rid of me because they were jealous of how much time I spent with her. She also hated me spending time with my friends because they ...

His mother hates me because of untrue rumors, how do I deal with this, or should I just drop him?

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10 June 2009 (F) - im really into my boyfriend of 8 months, everything is great between us except for the fact that his mom hates me. she doesnt even know me, only reason why she dont like me is because the girl my ex husband cheated on me with is talking alot of ...

She is more experienced sexually and she brings up sexual acts with past lovers, how do I deal with this, without screwing up?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5440 days ago

10 June 2009 (M) - The relationship I'm carrying with my fiance is great. We seem to get along as perfect as they can come. The only problem is me. My fiance was very sexually active in her past, and it makes me feel awkward because it seems that everything we do is ...

My girlfriend's choice of clothing is too revealing, we argue, any suggestions how to deal with it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5440 days ago

10 June 2009 (M) - I've been dating a girl for some time now, and she's been putting on some clothing i don't like her to wear because it is a bit revealing. I tried talking to her about it, but we just ended up arguing, and she said that it was what she liked an...

My boyfriend's parents may break up, and I want to help him, what can I do to help him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5440 days ago

10 June 2009 (F) - my boyfriends parents are prolly gonna split up and he doesnt want them to. he has no clue why they will and they have been married for about 19 years and they are a great family! i mean yeah they have their ups and downs, but all families do! ...

He cheated on me and now I'm confused, would therapy help the situation and restore the trust?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5440 days ago

10 June 2009 (F) - i am 21 and had been with my boyfriend for 3 n half years. we met online and had a long distance relationship until last April when he moved to be closer to me. we lived on different coast lines. he has always said that i was the love of his life, ...

Guys, what are the best turn-ons, that you wish girls knew ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5438 days ago

10 June 2009 (?) - Guys, what are the best turn-ons that you wish girls knew? Hanging out, making out, and beyond... -GG...

Boyfriend asked " if I need to borrow $200, would you do it" , after 5 years I said, he's angry, was I wrong?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5438 days ago

10 June 2009 (F) - My boyfriend of one year asked me "What if I needed to borrow $200, would you let me?" I responded, "Maybe after we have been together for 5 years." Now he is mad and thinks I would never be there for him. Am I in the wrong for saying this? I love ...

Is he a druggie?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5441 days ago

10 June 2009 (F) - I've only been on a couple of dates with this new guy. I find him really smart, we get on well etc. Actually, he seems to be so much like me. He made an offhand comment once about scoring some "rocks" which was sort of a joke I guess but when I ...

Is he with me out of guilt?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5440 days ago

10 June 2009 (F) - Hi, I just wanted to know what you think it means when my boyfriend tells a friend of his that he doesnt feel anything when he kisses me... does that mean he's not really in love with me? He had a one month affair before and apologized for it but ...

What did I do that got him turned on?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5440 days ago

10 June 2009 (F) - me and my boyfriend were sat on the grass just talking and he suddenly stops talking half way through a sentence, leans over and kisses me and he gets turned on, i was wondering why he got turned on and it is a good thing or bad? ...

Jealousy that is leading my relationship to an end..

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5441 days ago

10 June 2009 (F) - Me and my bf have been together for 14 months and broken up twice, and it's all because it's extremely hard for me trust him.I'm really on my last chance to keep him with me. He makes it clear to me he won't cheat, flirt,ect. I also can't stand it ...