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Archived questions from: 25 June, 2009 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

Worried about going to the pool with my boyfriend because of my weight!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5425 days ago

25 June 2009 (F) - okay so i have been with my boo for like a week now, school is done and he called me and asked if i want to go with him to the pool. but i am 13 and 210 pounds. but i look 160 pounds since im 5"5. but i am highly highly emberassed to go in the wate...

My ex the baby daddy, a friend and my current boyfriend.....

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5423 days ago

25 June 2009 (F) - Hi cupid i recently went on a kinda date with this guy, and his personality attracted me, my little boy came along with us, well it all went well i loved the way he respected me , thing is his 46 and i'm only 27, what if he bores me or so on i've ...

Why does he keep looking at other girls?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5423 days ago

25 June 2009 (F) - heres my problem my boyfriend keeps looking at other chicks while he's with me and its so disrespectful even thought am so good looking girl i really dont wanna ask him to stop it because i dont wanna look not confident, i was wondering if there is ...

How to spoil your man?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5425 days ago

25 June 2009 (F) - Hi all, this time i am seeking suggestions more than answers, actually i want to learn some approaches to spoil my man, he is a really hard worker, and he deserves to be appreciated for that.. what am asking for here, is not a one romantic night to...

How can we make sex more pleasurable?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5425 days ago

25 June 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been having sex for over 7 months quite a number of times and I have never reached an orgasm and feel limited pleasure. When I do feel pleasure my boyfriend says he wants me to try and let out noises because he says it would ...

I find it difficult to show pleasure when we have sex!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5425 days ago

25 June 2009 (F) - Hey guys When I'm having sex/any foreplay I find it really difficult to show that I'm feeling pleasure from what he's doing. I feel really really awkward especially if he's watching me. I usually don't show it even if I feel pleasure. I have no ...

Decisions decisions... go back with the ex or stay with my current boyfriend?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5425 days ago

25 June 2009 (F) - Ok so i have a difficult decision, go back to my ex or stay with my current bf? Ive been with this guy for about 2 weeks and hes really sweet and all but now my ex has told me he wants me back and i want him so bad now. Last time we spilt up because ...

Boyfriend trouble, confused... do I still have love for him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5425 days ago

25 June 2009 (F) - I've been seeing this guy for 2 years now and it's been good, he's soon to be divorced, encourages me in lot's of ways, I left my job to follow my dreams and his still standing by me, he has 3 kids, 2 with the ex wife and 1 before her time, I'm so ...

I wish I hadn't gotten in touch again, what can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5425 days ago

25 June 2009 (F) - I was dating a guy for 3 years and we broke up. We didn't speak for 3 months and I emailed him last week and he responded briefly. After that I saw in a couple of times in work and he wouldn't look at me or say hello. I got upset and sent him an ...

I always feel as if I need to pee when I have sex... why is this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5425 days ago

25 June 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I had sex 1 month into our relationship and we were both virgins. It really hurt the first time but we didn't use any foreplay and I was pretty nervous so I think these are the main reasons. We have now been going out for over 8 ...

Does any one know of any free chat rooms?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5425 days ago

25 June 2009 (F) - Wanting to meet a nice guy aged from 20 to 23 in adelaide any tips or advice. Does anyone know of a free chat service?...

I'm 38 and hes 24. Is this going to work in the long term?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5410 days ago

25 June 2009 (F) - Okay so I'm a young 38 (very active) and my boyfriend is 24 (active as well) honestly, what are the chances of things working out long-term with such a huge age difference? We are exactly the same - we joke about it often, and sometimes if I have ...

I'm so tired of fighting...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5425 days ago

25 June 2009 (F) - Ok so there is this boy that I have been with for the past three years, on and off. We have broken up numerous times over little things but we never stay broken up for more than a day or two, if it gets a little more serious then maybe a week. I am ...

think she likes me, but I felt that she rejected me and I told her that (indirectly) and how I feel. What do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5425 days ago

25 June 2009 (M) - Hey, here's my story. I met this girl in uni six months ago, and soon after started liking her as possibly more than a friend. After easter things happened quickly (her attitude towards me changed, we saw more of each other, she cooked a meal for ...

I need to know how he's feeling so that I can stay with him or just move on.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5424 days ago

25 June 2009 (F) - I have been dating this guy since September of last year. If we aren't around each other, then we're always on the phone at least 3-5 times a day everyday. We've have been going strong since we've met. I was also 3 months pregnant, by him, but I ...

Are relationships with strippers doomed to fail?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5236 days ago

25 June 2009 (M) - Why don't relationships with strippers work? Are they doomed to fail? The females that are caught in the stripper life are caught in the life. A life style of low self esteem and constant admiration. A life style of free drugs and alcohol. A life ...

Are bachelor/bachelorette parties wrong for our situation?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5423 days ago

25 June 2009 (F) - Ok so my BF and I are thinking about getting married and the topic of the infamous bachealor/bachealorette party has come up. Something I should tell you is that my BF and I have been together for about 6 years now and we were teenagers when we ...

She says she's going away for work and won't have time to call me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5425 days ago

25 June 2009 (M) - My girlfriend had to travel for work. She claims she thinks she will be to busy to call. Does this sound strange to anyone? She called when she landed, to let me know she made it ok. She returned my text when I ask her a question, but when I text ...

Its been 9 months! Why won't she introduce me to her family?

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25 June 2009 (M) - Hi Me and My GF have been together for 9 months, we along fine, except when I bring up the subject of meeting her family. Her dad isn't around so It's basically her mom, Brother, Sister and cousins. She lives on her own so I never get to go to her ...

I want to date but I think the past is getting in the way

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5425 days ago

25 June 2009 (M) - I'm a 23 years old male virgin. At a young age i was sexually abused by a former class mate in middle school. I've had depression, anxiety and lack of confidence as long as i can remember. After high school these symptoms got extremely severe and my ...

I met her online and now I want to take it to the next step

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5425 days ago

25 June 2009 (M) - Hi. I met a girl online through a gaming instant messenger. At first it was just like talking to anyone else but actually spoke about stuff and our conversations were long. She gave me her MSN addy and for more than a month we've spoken almost ev...

How do I know if this is what love should feel like?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5425 days ago

25 June 2009 (F) - my bf and i have been going out for three years and i know that i love and care about him and i miss him when we're not together, he is my best friend--but i sometimes wonder if i feel the way i should about him and sometimes even wonder if he's ...

Cooking and romance!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5425 days ago

25 June 2009 (M) - hey just need a quick peice of advice i have relised that i have never cooked for my girlfriend and it is something i would like to do for her, she likes ittalian food. but how could i turn a night to cook for her into a romantic setting. ...

Is he expecting sex just because we're in a relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5425 days ago

25 June 2009 (F) - Today my bf and I started talking about each others relationship and sexual past, i.e. how many relationships we have been in, why they ended, how many sexual partners etc...Me and my bf havent had sex. He knows that I woudlnt just sleep with ...

How do I get more than "yes" and "no" answers out of him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5425 days ago

25 June 2009 (F) - So me and my boyfriend are both pretty shy people. He hasn't had a serious girlfriend before me, so I'm not sure if he just doesn't know what to do, or if he's just really shy, but he wont talk to me properly. We're both not talk-on-the-phon...

I've never had a boyfriend and I'm scared

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5425 days ago

25 June 2009 (F) - please someone help me this guy asked me out and i said yes we never actually went out or hung out so i felt like it was pointless but i really do like him.then i told him that its useless and now its really awekward between us he keeps sayi...

Should I try talking to the girl that broke my heart? Or move on?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5425 days ago

25 June 2009 (M) - I found someone that I had tried to forget long ago on a dating/chat website that I roam, When I saw a picture I clicked it thinking hey she is kind of cute, then when it popped up full scale my heart skipped a beat as it clicked and I looked at the ...

Is it normal to miss her so quickly?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5426 days ago

25 June 2009 (M) - Hi I have been with this girl now for a couple of months, and I was wondering is it right that I miss her even after an hour of saying bye?...

How to let someone know you're not interested before they make a move?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5426 days ago

25 June 2009 (F) - How do you tell someone you're not interested in them if you don't know if they are interested in you but they seem to be...arghhh! This guy who works in a coffee shop next to my work added me on Facebook. I’ve said hello to him and sometimes ch...

Dating for a year, but find her less attractive?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5425 days ago

25 June 2009 (M) - Dear People I've been dating a woman for 1 year. I love her very much, and I find her extremely attractive. But recently I feel less sexually motivated and I can't determine why. Its like, I don't feel like it, or when we do it, I feel li...

What does losing the spark mean?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5425 days ago

25 June 2009 (M) - What does "I don't see the spark on us anymore" mean? Me and my ex-gf just broke up, I love her wiht all my heart and when we were talking about it she said to me "I don't feel the spark anymore, its not the same as the first time we met." "I stil...

The ex g/f shows me that he's not good for me, but ...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5425 days ago

25 June 2009 (F) - I'm a smart, intelligent young woman and currently doing a degree in Medicine, I know I am beautiful because I get lots of compliments from both guys and ladies. I do not have any problem attracting guys but I'm so stuck on a particular guy that has ...

What kind of communication should I resume with her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5425 days ago

25 June 2009 (M) - I dated a wonderful and amazing girl who I met while she was on exchange at my graduate school in the United States. We dated the entire school year, over the summer (although 2/3 of it was long distance), while I studied for one semester in the ...

How common are these "dating rules"?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5409 days ago

25 June 2009 (F) - I have a general question about dating. I am 39, originally from Ukraine, and have been living in US for the past 13 years. Where I grew up (or at least at the time I was dating back there) there was no concept of becoming exclusive with someone ...

I need encouragement about my LDR!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4919 days ago

25 June 2009 (M) - I'm currently 16, turning 17 in two weeks, so in essence i can be referred to as 17 in this. I just visited my long-distance relationship girlfriend, for the first time ever, and we've been dating for a year and a half. I love her with all my hear...

How do I get over him for good?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5426 days ago

25 June 2009 (F) - Any ideas on what else I can do? Basically, I was in love with a guy after 2 years who I have been intimate with but we are currently not seeing each other. Actually, he only talks to me in regards to sex and in the last 2 years, I have seen him ...