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Archived questions from: 14 June, 2009 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

Is he tactfully trying to dump me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5436 days ago

14 June 2009 (F) - I have been hooking up with this guy friend of mine for 2 years. We met through mutual friends. Aat the time we met we were both going through relationship problems. He had just got a divorce and I had just moved out of my ex boyfriend's house. ...

I'm afraid that I'm going to like him too much and I'm worried.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5436 days ago

14 June 2009 (F) - I met a guy in Italy on New Year Eve, we kissed and nothing else happened. We met again in February and we kissed again and I spent a few days with him, getting to know each other, hanging out etc. We decided that we'd like to see each other again. ...

16 and pregnant! He says he's not the father!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5435 days ago

14 June 2009 (F) - hi,ive been with my boyfriend since we were twelve years old. we are childhood friends. our parents always use to joke about us getting married when we were older. who know he would actually be the guy to make me fall inlove? he's generally ...

Should I tell him about my past?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5435 days ago

14 June 2009 (F) - I wrote in my other question about how i got raped by my bro in law and my sister chose him over me. And i asked whether if i was right or my sister was. But this time ive got another problem. I am gettin into a serious relationship about who my ...

I don't trust her when she goes out with her mates.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5436 days ago

14 June 2009 (M) - Hello there, I'm currently in a relationship with this girl (for almost a year now.) She is really outgoing and a mostly a nice person. But she likes to go out a lot, with her 'girlfriends'. This bothers me somewhat, because all sorts of g...

A love saga... please help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5436 days ago

14 June 2009 (F) - I started dating this guy casually. We werent exclusive but despite neither one of us wanting to be in a relationship, we became close. He told me he loved me. 7 months in I find out he is living with a girl who has just had his baby!!! Apparent...

Haven't met yet in a year and I'm feeling insecure.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5436 days ago

14 June 2009 (M) - hey guys, well me and this girl have been dating over the phone for a year now and we havent met because she has trust and insecurity issues. Her last relationship was unhealthy with her ex abusing her sexually, physically and cheated on her as ...

Should I go out with Hali even if it hurts Haley?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5436 days ago

14 June 2009 (M) - okay so i broke up with my girlfriend. she couldnt stop doing things that were messin up her life. and i didnt feel like takin care of her anymore. so after breakin up with my girlfriend i got my friend Hali back. which is great. me and hali are ...

Should I give up my career aspirations for a girl?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5436 days ago

14 June 2009 (M) - I want to be an actor, and, as I'm sure you know,that is a career choice that takes A LOT of hard work and dedication. Plus, I'd have to move to a big city like New York of California. But the girl I'm in love with doesn't want to leave Florida(...

Absence makes the heart grow fonder? Or find another?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5436 days ago

14 June 2009 (F) - Dear Cupid, I've been dating this guy for about a month and a half now. (Since the beginning of May) I'm 16 and he's 19. Were taking things slow, we aren't official yet.. I wouldn't say its a long distance relationship, but I live about an hour awa...

My boyfriends ex is using his baby to blackmail him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5436 days ago

14 June 2009 (F) - my boyfriend and i have been together for 9 months now. i was happy with him until his baby's mother or his ex started bothering us, especially me. she is like a crazy stalker. she calls my cell phone and left 15 missed calls. she called my parents ...

Together for 3 years and still no sex, what should I do?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5433 days ago

14 June 2009 (?) - So I have been dating a girl for almost 3 years. From day one she was against oral sex, which is fine. But I believed that after dating for a while she would be willing to have sex....3 years later an this has not happened yet. Basically, I am ...

"I think we should just be friends"

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5436 days ago

14 June 2009 (M) - what does it means if you been with your girlfriend for about 3 weeks, and you telll her good morning everyday, and compliment her everychance you get,but barely get to see her because there's always an excuse, and she calls you up and say "I think ...

Had a great time together, but he didn't text me later. Now what?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5436 days ago

14 June 2009 (F) - i'm 15. ok so my friend told the guy i liked that i liked him. me and the guy i liked texted all day and he asked me out by text. i told him i wanted to be asked in person. so then he took back the question. the next day he didn't text me at all so ...

His friend is getting in the way and almost made us split. Help?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5436 days ago

14 June 2009 (F) - I've been with my first boyfriend for just over 2 months now and we have hit a rocky patch. His last girlfriend dumped bcos of one of his friends that calls him to come out and he has had sex with this person twice in the past even tho she has a ...

How long should I wait before asking out my friend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5436 days ago

14 June 2009 (M) - A friend of mine has just split from her boyfriend, he left her, we get on really well with all the flirting etc. i really like her and i think she likes me or atleast she deffiently has at some point as she told me. my question is how long should i ...

What would you do if you were in my position?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5436 days ago

I want to give him some space then contact him to see if he really is interested in me...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5436 days ago

14 June 2009 (F) - I am a little confused. Have been seeing this man for a few weeks now and things were going really well until the last few days... he came late to a planned date and has not been texting me quite as much as usual. We were talking on the phone every ...

What questions/topics can I talk about on a date?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5436 days ago

14 June 2009 (F) - I am a really shy person and I take a fair while to get to know people, before I feel comfortable around them. And even when I do know people really well, I'm a still a bit on the more quiet side. I'd rather listen to other people and hear about ...

Am I nagging him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5436 days ago

14 June 2009 (F) - I'm in a bit of a miserable situation at the moment. My boyfriend and I have been together just over 2 years. We moved in together 3 months ago, after 2 days of living together we found out I was pregnant. I am now 17 weeks gone. Because we did...

I don't like his choice of friends

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5436 days ago

14 June 2009 (F) - I have recently had a huge argument with my boyfriend which resulted in him threatening to throw me out. He said I was over emotional and was pretty harsh about my reaction when things went wrong. I have made the effort to change and it seems to ...

My mum has hated him for 3 years, how do I tell her I'm pregnant with his child?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5436 days ago

14 June 2009 (F) - i met this guy when i was 14, there was a group of us and we'd never met him before. i instantly fell for him. he was absolutly gorgeous! 20 year old 6ft tall, dark hair, blue eyes, 6 pac, he was like something from a magazine! haha. noo waaayyyy ...

I just can't get over he watches porn!

This question has 24 answers - newest was posted 5423 days ago

14 June 2009 (F) - ok so me and bf have been going strong for nearly a year and a half but the other day he told me he watches porn and now i cant get the thought out of my head!! does it me he doesnt love me? or does he not find me attractive?? i guess because i dont ...

How soon do I tell person I'm dating about my ex

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5436 days ago

14 June 2009 (M) - I'm looking at starting a new relationship with a woman. I've been separated from my ex for several months now, but we still have a business relationship and I am close to her family. Because of the business relationship a lot of people don't ...

He's difficult but I know he's worth it

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5436 days ago

14 June 2009 (F) - okay, I'm insanely attracted to this guy that I work with....but we're having some complications getting together....I've invited him out to a group outing at a bar three times, the first time, we ended up going to a restaurant, and he asked me to ...

Military relationships, should I dump my boyfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5433 days ago

14 June 2009 (F) - This is another problem ive got up my sleeve.. Are you guys ready? haha So this boy i've been with for two year as i mentioned in my last post that is kind of a loser... I realized today means nothing at all to mean.. But apparently enough for me to ...

Found my boyfriends fake vagina..what should I do?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4970 days ago

14 June 2009 (F) - I've been dating my bf for almost 3 years now and I found a fake vagina in my boyfriend's closet during in the middle of our first 1 1/2 year together. I found out that he bought it 3 days before my birthday! I was so mad that we got into a huge ...

I feel pushed out because of him looking at porn!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5428 days ago

14 June 2009 (F) - I am in a bit of a pickle if you would call it. My boyfriend looks at a lot of porn and his nieghbours and roommate all look at it as well. In general, I've never had an issue with it and it was never a big deal until I realized that he does it ...

I have falled back in love with him, could he feel the same?

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14 June 2009 (F) - About a year and half ago I reunited with my high school sweetheart. We dated for about 5 years and broke up shortly after we graduated when I went off to school. We didn't see each other for over 10 years but kept up to date on each other via ...

We just started dating, but I have not heard from him in a while, should I contact him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5437 days ago

14 June 2009 (F) - So me and my BF started dating a couple of weeks before skool let out. I haven't talked to him in two days in fact most of the time we only text goodnite. He keeps telling me he's gonna try to talk to me and stuff but her never does. I haven't seen ...

He asked me an inappropriate question, why ?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5437 days ago

14 June 2009 (F) - I have been dating this guy for almost 4 weeks now... things are going really well. Last night I went to a barbecue. When I talked to the special guy today and he asked me how the barbecue was... I said it was fun, told him a few highlights, ...

My ex threatened my first love, and told him lies, how do I fix this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5437 days ago

14 June 2009 (F) - 20 years ago I ended a relationship when I moved out of state. I never fell out of love with my first love but ended up marrying someone else 10 years ago. Last year I began my seperation with my husband, at the same time unknowingly my first love ...

Anything that I can do to calm my girfriend down, she thinks she is pregnant?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5436 days ago

14 June 2009 (M) - my girlfriend isn't scheduled to start her period for another week or so, but she thinks she is pregnant?? is this possible?? she is not on the pill and while we might start sex without a condom, i always put one on during sex. i feel confident ...

How long after a break up is it acceptable to start dating again?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5436 days ago

14 June 2009 (M) - Hi there. Where to start. It all started about 4 months when I met this really great girl at a job programme scheme. At first I just saw her as a possible new friend. But after a week we were talking everyday. Either online or by texting. But ...