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Dating: Help and advice

Sex - disappointed, hurt, jealous...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5428 days ago

22 June 2009 (F) - I'm a female and have a strange issue in my relationship with my boyfriend. It appears that I am extremely jealous of him in the sex department. I'm becoming increasingly jealous and resentful, to the point where I cry about it all of the time. ...

My boyfriend is moving 2 hours away, I'm clingy and needy... Help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5422 days ago

22 June 2009 (F) - HI! okay so my bf of a year and some days is moving away at the end of this month because he cant find a job so he's moving back home with his parents which is bout 2hours away, and idk what to do? I live with my mom still cuz i dont hava job yet ...

Help! What should I do? I really like this girl but don't want be burned again.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5428 days ago

22 June 2009 (M) - Hi all, I would like to get some feedback on this one.. 3 months back I met this girl. We met for drinks and it was all fun.. From the beginning she insisted that we would be casual. For me this was all good. I was badly burned before so being ...

Romeo and Juliette. Forbidden love, help.

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22 June 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have known each other since I was born. We are two years apart. Lately everyone has been stressed. My BFs mom died and his dad got fired. We helped each other through it. If anything it brought us closer! We were talking one day ...

In bed...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5428 days ago

22 June 2009 (F) - Hi.. I need some advice please.. I have been in a relationship for almost 2 months. We have good time together, trying to get to know each other better. He is a nice guy, sensitive, serious, we have many things in common. In bed i don't know, he ...

Help! How do I know if he's "the one?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5427 days ago

22 June 2009 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been dating for 10 months and 10 days. How do I know if he's the right one for me or if he loves me? ...

I'm afraid to have sex because I think I'll die! HELP ME!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5428 days ago

22 June 2009 (F) - So just yesterday I was in the shower with my boyfriend and we were about to do the "deed" and I started feeling light headed so I was going to get out, than my vision started going black and I couldn't see, and I felt nauseated, so I sat down in ...

Love or Lust? It's Confusing.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5428 days ago

22 June 2009 (M) - I'm in my mid 20's. Me and my girlfriend "V" have been going out for almost 5 years. I love her with all my heart. we're pretty serious, and it's generally accepted by everyone we're going to be married. we talk about it. as soon as we both get our ...

What do women really want when they ask for space?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5428 days ago

22 June 2009 (M) - I wanted to find out what to do as I have been dating a seperated woman for about 1 year and 8 months. She had been seperated for about a year and a half when I met her and she had only been out on 2-3 dates before me. Right away we hit it off and I ...

I want a younger girl, but all I attract is older women!!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5428 days ago

22 June 2009 (M) - Hi I'm a 28 year old guy. I like younger girls between 18 and 25 but all I attract are her moms!! women who are like 35, 40 45 and older. Most of them are divorced and with kids. Some of them looking for a father to their kids, and I don't think ...

How should my friend answer him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5428 days ago

22 June 2009 (F) - This boy I went out with last year started talking to me a again a couple of months ago when I started going out with this other guy. He had a girlfriend at the time, but he seemed kind of jealous that I had a new boyfriend and kept asking me about ...

I really want it to work this time... any advice?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5426 days ago

22 June 2009 (M) - I have been dating a girl since last November. Only ever met her once and haven't seen her since dating in November. Been on and off to say the least, meeting for the first time this weekend. We're going to cinema to basically make out lmao. I ...

Was he trying to fob me off with his excuse?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5427 days ago

22 June 2009 (F) - I've had a couple of dates with a wonderful man, the trouble is we met through a dating site, and left me wondering if he was also contacting other women, I got very drunk Saturday and he called me on the phone where I began ranting and raving about ...

A couple of sex questions, mostly for the guys!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5428 days ago

22 June 2009 (F) - I have a few questions for the guys. I have a boyfriend and we are very much in love and I have some questions about things he does. My first question, while we are kissing he opens his eyes every once in a while? Can anybody let me know if thats a ...

Not sure how to approach a girl I like for a date?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5428 days ago

22 June 2009 (M) - Ok so here's my problem i met this girl at a carnival she's a cheerleader so she was working the dunk booth and i stayed there almost the intire day talking to her and afterwards we went for a walk. I found out she's a senior in high school and i'm ...

Not sure of my feelings for him or what to do about it?

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22 June 2009 (F) - Hello: I finally went out on a date with a man I've been corresponding to via online (where we met) After a terrible breakup with my (cheater,liar) this guy has been calling me, sending me beautiful texts, and ecards. We finally met, I was nervous ...

Why do I always have to do everything?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5428 days ago

22 June 2009 (F) - my bf and i have been together for almost 3 years now and we get along well and have a lot in common, but i am so frustrated because i have to do practically all the work when it comes to going out and socializing. if i dont suggest we go out or do ...

Sex is painful, he's too big, it's killing our relationship

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5428 days ago

22 June 2009 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend 6 months. Yet we've never fully had sex. He's on the large side penis wise, but I've had boyfriends with large penises before and it's never been this much of a problem. It just really, really hurts! When he first go...

We split up and I've become promiscuous, why?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5426 days ago

22 June 2009 (F) - Hi Me and my ex split up after 5 years. The reason for the split was because he cheated and was physically abusive, at the time of the spilt i was 21 he was 27. It was not an amicable split due to finance and our property, but we finally sold tha...

Can you name some good places to meet nice, decent, cute down to earth girls??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5428 days ago

22 June 2009 (M) - Hi, Can you give me some good places to meet nice decent girls? Nightclubs, Bars and Pubs Do not count!! the last couple GF's I've had I met in bars and they turned out to be big headaches and I was told I've been looking in the "wrong places" so I ...

Been together 4 years, no mention of love, now we're breaking up, what do I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5412 days ago

22 June 2009 (F) - My boyfriend of 4 years and best friend and colleague are breaking off. We never fought as such... we may disagree but not fights. Our colleagues/family members dont know anything about our relationship. We meet, date, everything like a couple.. ...

I'm feeling jealous and insecure, he's cheated before

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5428 days ago

22 June 2009 (F) - My partner does a course involving a lot of women and very few male collegues (nursing) he goes twice a week, and they have all started going out to dinner together (well a group of 5 or 6 of them). I have started feeling a bit of green eyed ...

Does "just good friends" always mean just that for a woman?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5414 days ago

22 June 2009 (M) - Okay – I have been out of the dating thing for at least 2 years and was a bit rusty but started seeing a girl (she is 39 and I am 42) recently. We had an instant amazing connection - and still do! First four or five dates were very casual and we had ...

If a guy calls a girl "babe", is it meant in a derogotary way?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5427 days ago

22 June 2009 (F) - If a guy calls a girl "babe", is it meant in a derogatory way? I ask this becuase the following quote is found from the following website: http://organizations.rockbridge.net/projecthorizon/signsofabuser.htm "18. Disrespect for Women in G...

It's okay for him to be flirty with girls...but guys can't even say hello to me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5428 days ago

22 June 2009 (F) - My bf makes me feel guilty and gets jealous if another guy just talks to me. So, to save his feelings, if a guy talks to me, I try to not really say much, hoping he will get the idea. But my bf still gets jealous and makes comments like "you're ...

Worried he will hurt me again, so now my guard is constantly up

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5428 days ago

22 June 2009 (F) - i was sort of in a relationship with this lad.. we both knew we were exclusive althought neither of us had said it.. and he went to meet up with this girl that he later ditched me for after we had a bit of a fall out. He got into a relationship with ...

Is the guy for me right under my nose?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5428 days ago

22 June 2009 (F) - hiiii oki.... well there is a guy i've known since primary school! in highschool we never talked much and him and his "mates" used to sort of pick on me and stuff nothing major just still pants stuff. anyways... years on we still talk and occasion...

What does it feel like to love a man?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5428 days ago

22 June 2009 (F) - im a closet lesbian, nobody knows im gay... im just wondering, how does it feel like to love a MAN? it's kinda sad that i can't appreciate them. even though i have had a few guys who went crazy over me and did a lot of really sweet stuff.. but im ...

First date go on a ghost walk?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5414 days ago

22 June 2009 (M) - I've just started chatting to this girl who seems to like me and I like her. This may sound a strange thing to do on a first meeting, but would it be acceptable if I asked her on a ghost walk? If not, what do you think and where would readers ...

I'm 13, he's 14 and I want to take things alot slower!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5428 days ago

22 June 2009 (F) - I've been chatting to my mates old boy mate online for a while now, we've met a few times but the last time we met he suggested we went back to his to watch a few movies. I wasn't alone it was me and my mate with him and his mate. When we got to his ...

This feeling of being "left behind" is getting me down

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5420 days ago

22 June 2009 (F) - I feel like I have no life. Sure, I have my family, I have friends, I have a boyfriend.. but it seems that everybody's got their own thing going already and I'm left feeling lifeless. I don't know why I feel this way.. I don't want to feel this ...

My parents don't care for him and I'm starting to be bugged by this too..What to do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5429 days ago

22 June 2009 (F) - i have been with my guy for 8 months and this has been the first relationship for both of us...despite the fact that he and i are having a long distance relationship and seeing each other for only once a month, everything has been great. but the ...

Handjob question...What do I do when IT happens?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5403 days ago

22 June 2009 (M) - My girlfriend has agreed to give me a handjob. The only problem is, as everyone knows, guys ejaculate. Do I tell her to stop when that happens cause I feal like its rude making her have to clean up herself. I know its a weird question, but felt like ...

Not sure, but I think I'm in love with a guy I've barely spoken to...!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5429 days ago

22 June 2009 (F) - I've liked this guy for about 3-4 years. I think I'm in love. Yeah it sounds crazy. When I started liking him, I wasn't even looking for anyone. I thought oh, this will go away like other crushes I've had, but it hasn't. We've barely even spoken. He ...

My ex is pushing me to have sex...What should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5427 days ago

22 June 2009 (F) - so my ex boyfriend who lives down the street seems like he's looking for a more friends with benefits approach with us. and i've never done anything with a guy because i want everything to be special and he tries really hard even when i say no. but ...

My boyfriends brother is dating a maniac! Should I do something?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5428 days ago

22 June 2009 (F) - My boyfriend has a brother named *Jack and he has a child with his ex fiancee who left him a little less than a year ago.. Jack started to see a girl recently named *Dianne. My first impression of Dianne was not a very good one, she never looked ...

Does my older brothers friend like me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5429 days ago

22 June 2009 (F) - ok, so my brother has the 2 friends that are absolutly like my brothers. but one of them is really hot. so yesterday we were hanging out and my bro had to leave so my bro's friend and i were hanging out for a little. and we talked about "how not to ...

I need advice on how to turn them down

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5429 days ago

22 June 2009 (F) - i know a lot of guys who have a big crush on me and thats very flattering but i dont like them back there always flirting with me at school afterschool and even at bazaar's! how do i tell them that i dont like them back because first it was cute ...

Why can't I go through with a potentially rewarding one night stand?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5429 days ago

22 June 2009 (M) - I am a university student recently out of a two year relationship and have since found that after meeting girls on nights out and kissing I am not in the mood for sex when we get to the bedroom and I have to turn them down. I am happy being single ...

I need some advice on getting guys to approach me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5426 days ago

22 June 2009 (F) - I need some advice on getting guys to approach me. Guys look at me all the time but I never get approached. I don’t want to sound too vain but sometimes they turn their heads in the street to look at me. As for none of these guys approaching me, I ...

She flirts in front of my crush !

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5429 days ago

22 June 2009 (F) - My friend has been with her boyfriend for five years, she flirts with a lot of guys and to her bf she just pretends that the flirting is coming from a one way street, I just met her not for too long, I can see that she is very manipulative towards ...

I feel like moving away from all friends I've known and starting a life with her!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5429 days ago

22 June 2009 (M) - I dunno what the hell to do. Me and my friends girlfriend have liked eachother for well over a year now and no one knows. Wev spoken about it in the past and brushed it to one side because it would be to messy and we dont want to hurt anyone. ...

Does he have feelings after losing his virginity to me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4741 days ago

22 June 2009 (F) - So,this other guy from my group- he's a total computer geek,but him and i are pretty much best friends,and we slept together a few months ago,and basically he lost his virginity to me.. My question is,for all you guys especially,and g...

Sexual Fantasy

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5414 days ago

22 June 2009 (F) - So, i've been sorta CASUALLY dating this guy..and the weird thing is..somehow i get turned on and come when i imagine him in bed with another girl from our group. could someone explain why this turns me on? She is no competition at all..but some...