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writes:I have been in a relationship for 2 years, I am dreadfully attached. I have come to realize she doesnt want to see me all that much, she is very big on being together on birthdays.. but hers was today and she didnt want me to see her.. she keeps avoiding me. I am horrified.. i have never felt so scared and alone.. what should i do? I confront her and she tells me to shut up or stop. Im in love way too much to let her go.. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 June 2009): you need to talk to her again, its not going to be easy but you need to find out whats going on. Ask her what's up? be direct and confident and come right out with it & ask her if she still loves you, because she isnt really showing that she is committed to yr r/ship, is she losing interest? It sounds like she might not feel the same way as you and she is avoiding the issue by telling u to shut up to stop.
Sometimes u have to let go...loving and not being not loved in return is the worst feeling, you feel so empty and alone,but you deserve to know the truth. - have u got friends/family that can support you?
good luck.
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reader, 78ta09 +, writes (10 June 2009):
 All right kiddo.. I'm gonna give you some advice.. I'm in this exact situation but vise versa.. if you really care about this girl, let her go. Tell her your lives are going seperate ways and you want different things in life. [even if your lying] my bf of 2 years... were going through the same thing.. ive been detaching myself from him for months and he doesnt get it.. i cant dump him.. i care about him too much to break his tiny little heart.. hes clingy and possesive though idk how she would describe you but thats why he drives me insane.. i talk to a guy and get interrogated about it for hours.. and hes been tryin to get me to get married and have kids and im barely out of high school [just graduated] lol its drivin me nuts.. he loves me too much and i just want my freedom back.. give her hers.. shell miss you.. i promise if not then it wasnt meant to be..
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