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Archived questions from: 9 June, 2009 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

She likes me, but I'd like to get to know her better before dating her.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5441 days ago

9 June 2009 (M) - I want to get to know this girl, whom i just met, some more without getting into dating relationship yet. How do I do this when she already likes me a lot?...

How can I make good conversation?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5441 days ago

9 June 2009 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for almost two years now and i have a big issue with conversation and communication. its not that i dont want to talk with him its just that i dont know how to spark up a conversation. i can tell that my silence annoys ...

She gives me no attention but I'm falling for her

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5438 days ago

9 June 2009 (M) - Dear cupid ,there is a woman i like very much but she does not realise my intentions , and i am gruadualy falling in love with her. what should i do? becausevshe gives no attention to me....

I'm jealous of the professor--she's a hottie!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5441 days ago

9 June 2009 (F) - I'm currently enrolled in a Summer class that lasts 8.5 weeks and in a rather short period of time, I managed to get to know a guy who is painfully gorgeous, intelligent, hilarious, and he's MY age. He's a little on the chubby side, but fuck, ...

I'm thinking of just giving up on him

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5441 days ago

9 June 2009 (F) - I've been hanging out with this guy for 5 months. I brought up us having a relationship. He says,i just want 2 keep things simply 4 now. I decided 2 back off. Then he text me says,guess u must have someone else? I said,trying 2 get over u,in order 2 ...

Does it matter who drives to who's house? Am I exaggerating?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5441 days ago

9 June 2009 (F) - Does it matter who drives to who's house? I've been dating this great guy..going on 5 months.:) At first he would always pick me up at my house..then little by little it was less and now it seems like I'm doing most of the driving to his p...

What exactly is going on with this guy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5440 days ago

9 June 2009 (F) - Ok this is gonna be confusing but i hope you can help. Some background info may help so here goes...Basically there was a lad 1 yr n half ago in my class that seemed to like me, various things happened that were weird and would point to the fac...

I put my foot down, will he rise to the challenge?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5439 days ago

9 June 2009 (F) - I am in a long distance relationship for three months now. Things were looking good and me and my boyfriend tried to be as open as possible about issues. When we started we were both seeing other people. In my case I was in a transition phase. It ...

Anyone out there who has dated a stripper and made it work?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5185 days ago

9 June 2009 (M) - Is it possible to fall in love with a stripper? I met this girl about 2 weeks ago and weve gone on a few dates but we arent offically dating, and i wanted to make it official but she said she needed to tell me something, thats when she let me ...

Did I not communicate well enough for him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5441 days ago

9 June 2009 (F) - Hi, I had met a wonderful guy on line, he is a regional manger, used to travel a lot, finally we got the chance to meet for dinner, before the date he texted me what cuisine that I prefered and he offered to pick me up from my office after wor...

Hymen problems...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5035 days ago

9 June 2009 (F) - Dear Cupid, After a bit of reasearch, i found out that i have a septate hymen, which is really rare. While i attempted sexual intercourse, i started to bleed, but my hymen didnt break at all! What does this mean, am i not a virgin? Can i not have...

I proposed to him and he rejected me saying I was ugly!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5441 days ago

9 June 2009 (F) - I am not pretty at all and I love a boy so much but when I proposed to him he rejected me saying that I am ugly. I felt so embarrassed? Now what should i do? plz help.......

Do you think he's serious about me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5441 days ago

9 June 2009 (F) - I've been dating this guy for about 3 weeks now. I'm not sure where we stand though. I dont know if he thinks of me as his gf or just someone he's dating or what? I dont know if we are 'exclusive' or not? He says things to me like 'your my baby, y...

Short partners

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5441 days ago

9 June 2009 (F) - I am 25 and only 5'3 if that, maybe 5'2 that is more realistic well i thought i was short. I have a wonderful boyfriend, we have been together 6 months now and for some reason he is very unsure about his height. He is 21 and he is about the same ...

My family won't allow us to date again.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5440 days ago

9 June 2009 (F) - I am 17 years old. I was in a relationship for almost 3 years. My ex-boyfriend was good to me in the beginning and the last year was bad. He tried to cheat on me with my best friend, he said mean things to me - he hated to touch my hand, he ...

Do I aske him where this relationship is going or is it too soon?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5441 days ago

9 June 2009 (F) - Advice please.. I have been dating a 37 year old ( i am 28) for just under 2 months. We get on well, attracted to each other and go out on dates approx once or twice a week. He is a lovely affectionate guy, always holds my hand, cuddles,...

Tell me, why do I only attract older guys?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5438 days ago

9 June 2009 (F) - I'll try and keep this short...all of the men who have expressed physical interest in me are way older than I am. I just turned 21. Between age 19 and now, the guys who have flirted really persistently with me have been 41, 33, 28, and 36...and ...

Friend With Benefits...It SEEMED Like a Good Idea... Do I end it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5442 days ago

9 June 2009 (F) - My best guy friend and I have become friends with benefits..... it seemed like a brilliant idea at first, but now I'm second guessing the whole thing! I really really love this guy, he's probably my best friend. We'll call him "Adam". I *thoug...

I'm trying not to contact him but feel he's being rather immature about things

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5442 days ago

9 June 2009 (F) - So here's my problem (I'll try to be thorough and not too long): I've been dating this guy for about 5-months. Everything has been great. He has been everything that I could have hoped for. He is attentive and thoughtful-kind and caring. How...

If I date my step brother, how will this affect our families?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5441 days ago

9 June 2009 (F) - Ok, My dad married a woman and they were married for thirteen years. I was raised with 2 step brothers over that span, whom i loved very much. The marriage ended badly, and i was 19 and my step brothers were 15 and 18 when it happened. I haven't ...

I sent her a poem, not sure now what to do, should I ask her out or not?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5442 days ago

9 June 2009 (M) - Theres this girl on my street that I like alot. I've sent her a poem kinda as a hint that I liked her.. She considers me as her best friend. I keep wanting to ask her out, but I dont want it to ruin our friendship, or that she denies me and we dont ...

What does it mean when he calls me "mine"

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5442 days ago

9 June 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for a little over six months and I was just wondering what it means when he calls me "mine". I don't really mind I find it cute/sexy but, I was wondering why you would call your girlfriend that.we will be with ...

My boyfriend is a virgin, makes jokes if I want to have sex, should I just let him be in control?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5420 days ago

9 June 2009 (F) - My boyfriend is a virgin and when i try to have sex with him he try's to make a joke. He cant be serious. Does this make him a jerk or does it mean hes scared? should i keep trying or, drop the subject? Should i take charge if we get to that ...

He gave me a ring I am not attracted to him, how do I end this without hurting him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5442 days ago

9 June 2009 (F) - i have been dating a guy that is a gentleman but i am not that atracted to him. He is very sweet and i gave it a real go but the attraction is missing (for me). I know he has really fallen for me and that i should have just broken it off with him ...

He still wants to have sex, but not live together, is he using God as an excuse?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5434 days ago

9 June 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and i have been together for almost 4 years and have been living together for 3. I don't know how to define a ''good'' relationship, i'd say it is, with the occasional arguements of course. We're both 21. Recently he's gone through a ...

I say I love him, he never says it back to me, am I wasting my time with this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5442 days ago

9 June 2009 (F) - I have told my boyfriend twice now that I love him. Both times he has not said anything......AT all. The first time was after 3 months. Sure thats early on in a relationship but unlike many people it dosent take me years to decide if I care abo...

He says "If you munch I'll marry you"..what is THAT all about?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5442 days ago

9 June 2009 (F) - Hi, not really sure how to address this question. So my fiance and i have been talking about marriage, weve been together going on 4 years and have 2 kids together and i thought we were both ready. well one day i brought it up and he said he didnt ...

Bi-curious boyfriend

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5442 days ago

9 June 2009 (F) - My boyfriend told me a few months ago that he used to mess around with guys when he was 15. He said that it was with a few guys and it only lasted for a year or so. I don't know what to think about this? He is kinda feminine and it is always in the ...

How can I help him to trust me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5442 days ago

9 June 2009 (F) - Dear Cupid, i have been with my boyfriend for 14 months now. we have been through many ups and downs in our relationship. i want to be able to hang out with other people just as friends. my boyfriend never lets me go if there will be other si...