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writes:many people(family,friends,strangers,boys) tell me i'm beautiful but i would say i'm just pretty.guys usually stare at me,smile at me,flirt with me and some of them even approach me.i get attention from them,even from those who are way older than me.there is a guy who developed a strong crush on me and really liked me and did his best to impress me.he has strong feelings for me for at least 2 years.the problem is i heard guys get easily intimidated by beautiful girls and aren't brave enough to make the first move.is this true?this starts to worry me.i'm afraid i will never have a boyfriend because all of them will never have the courage to ask me out.sometimes i wish i was ugly.please answer.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 June 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionyou're right guys.thanks :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 June 2009): You don't wish you were ugly so why would you say that?
You said guys flirt with you and give you lots of attention so it's unlikely they would hold back asking you out.
The thing that may intimidate them is to be in a relationship with a pretty girl, becuase of all the men who hit on them and all the oppurtunities that will rise to their pretty girlfriends.
It's just like when women feel intimidated by a really, really good looking guy. They tend to believe they won't last in a relationship.
~SY.
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reader, Smellyellie +, writes (10 June 2009):
 Dont be silly if you dont want to be ugly! If you are beautiful then most girls in this world would kill to be like you. There is no need to get depressed about this subject.
Some men do find pretty women intimidating but this is normally only when their mates try flirting with you and trying to get with you. Trust me you will find someone that doesn't get jealous like that. Some blokes like the attention in thief bird given from their mates.. Men will get used to it. Just make the most of the flirting!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 June 2009): No no i'm sure someone will ask you out.
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