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Dating: Help and advice

How do I get my girl to trust me after lying and cheating on her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5433 days ago

18 June 2009 (F) - I have this girl that i been with for goin on 2 years as of sept 3rd and i made mistakes in my past like cheating and lying and i had recently cheated in april but im really done this time with playin with her i love her and want to be with her how ...

I don't want to feel jealous towards my best friend. How do I get over this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5432 days ago

18 June 2009 (F) - *Names changed...* Okay, There is this guy, I saw him at the start of last year, in the sixth form at school, He caught my eye but i didnt have the courage to introduce myself, A few weeks later my best friend starts talking about a guy she has met, ...

Had drunken sex but haven't talked about it

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5433 days ago

18 June 2009 (F) - OK, men, I need your input. I've been hanging out with this guy for a few months now. A week and a half ago, we got drunk and had sex. The next morning we woke up about 930 or 10. Layed around in bed until about 1. Didn't cuddle or anything. ...

He's very close to his ex, it troubles me, he wants us to all be friends!

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18 June 2009 (F) - hi, i have posted on here before and got some good replies. i have been with my partner now for nearly a year and i am planning to move in with him as we live 2 hours apart, the problem is that he is best friends with an ex. he split up with hi...

I feel I'm not 100% complete and I'm not sure why

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5433 days ago

18 June 2009 (F) - I'm 18 and my boyfriend is 21. I've been with him 10 month, and he is completely besotted with me. I love him too. He's every thing i wanted in a guy. He's dark, tall, gorgeous, good personality, fun to be with, sexy etc. I know i love him, but is ...

Is it like, love or lust?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5429 days ago

18 June 2009 (F) - Is it like, love, or lust? 1. I see this guy and am instantly attracted to him. I fantacize about him kissing me, etc. 2. I get to kinow this guy and realize that we have a lot in common.. even really random things, like favorite ice cream ...

Running out of time....

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5433 days ago

18 June 2009 (F) - Ok, I will try to make this as short as possible. I have been with my current boyfriend for about 8 years now. There was a period of time that we werent together and I was seeing another guy. This guy( who i will call romeo) was the perfect boyfrien...

My first telephone call with her....

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5433 days ago

18 June 2009 (M) - first contact. so... ive been msn-instant messaging this girl for about 2 weeks now. she gave me her number and said to call or sms her. so i sms'd her (it was late) - over the next two days, we sent (she sent first, on the first day) (I sent...

I think he is just using me!

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18 June 2009 (F) - ive been sleeping with this lad for ages now n he always slags me off to his friends but tells me he dosnt meen it n thats what they wanna hear my friends say hes just playing me but hes gorguss n i cant help but go back for more i realy like him ...

I've only been seeing him for 2 months, is it too soon to be in love?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5433 days ago

18 June 2009 (F) - How can you tell your in love? I'm pretty sure I am but iv only been seeing someone for about 2 months!! Do i tell him??...

In love with a girl I barely talk to!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5432 days ago

18 June 2009 (M) - I'm pretty sure I'm in love with a girl I barely talk to. I think she's perfect but sometimes I doubt she knows I even exist. I know I should tell her but I've only got a year to do it and even then there's no garuntee that the relationship would ...

Boyfriend has "been around"

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5433 days ago

18 June 2009 (F) - I'm stuck I've been with my boyfriend for 8 months but I met him for the first time when I was 14. I love him more than anything but the only problem is, hes got a "record" Lets just say, he's been around. My problem is that I just can't s...

If we've been FWB for so long, does it mean something more?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5431 days ago

18 June 2009 (F) - How long do you guys think it's normal to have the same 'friend with benefits'? Surely if it goes on too long it must mean something more? ...

I feel so bored and lonely without him, do you think he likes me too?

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18 June 2009 (F) - I've known this guy for a really long time, more than 10 years, and we've been talking since last year when he managed to get my email address. We chatted online and texted. I'm starting to fall for him and I don't know what to do. He is really n...

Should I break up with b/f just because I'm not sure that he is "the one"?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5433 days ago

18 June 2009 (F) - Im torn between two men, one a boyfriend of 5 years whos great but i just don't think im inlove with him, but hes such a good man and so good to me i don't think its a good idea to give him up! Then another man who im just friends with but we have ...

We like each other but things are awkward!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5433 days ago

18 June 2009 (M) - Well i just got from a party where theres this girl that really likes me and i really like her. We show up and things got really akward, its like we didnt know what to say to each cuz all we've done is text each other. Any suggestions on what to do ...

Is this age gap (13 years) too big?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5421 days ago

18 June 2009 (F) - I am 19, and have recently fallen for a guy who is 32! He really nice and not pressuring me into anything, in fact it's completely the opposite, everything is on my terms and upto me, so theres no pressure on his side. The truth is, I find guys ...

Should I stop appologising for everything?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5433 days ago

18 June 2009 (M) - When ever my partner is upset I apologise to her no mater what, and even if I am not in the wrong because I don't like her being unhappy or upset., but I am starting to feel a lot of resentment that she never returns this. when I talked about this ...

Should I tell him I kissed another guy when I thought we weren't official?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5433 days ago

18 June 2009 (F) - I have just started seeing this guy for just about a month, we weren't official and the other week I kissed a guy. didn't enjoy it as thinking shouldn't do this as seeing other guy. Had discussion with the person I'm seeing and we said we are now ...

I like them both, am I being fickle? Please help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5433 days ago

18 June 2009 (F) - Okay erm, I think I'm falling for my best guy friend, but I still like this other guy. Here's the deal. I met Guy in class, and I liked him since the first day. And then, Best Guy Friend is in this other class. Guy took a long time to make f...

He never includes me in any family functions, what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5433 days ago

18 June 2009 (F) - what is the best way to deal with the following problem: I have been dating a man for a long time and for the past year his kids never include me in any family functions or eating out. they just don't like me because i am with their father and ...

Taking birth control pills, but worried I'll still get pregnant if he doesn't wear a condom

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5431 days ago

18 June 2009 (F) - Okay so, my boyfriend is coming over tomorrow. He and I used to foreplay and sometimes have sex but it all stopped a few months ago when I got on birth control pills. I don't know why but I Just was never in the mood. The thing is, I've been ...

I'm 16, she's 13...is the age gap too big?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 5415 days ago

18 June 2009 (M) - I am 16 and there is a girl who is 13 who really, and I mean really! likes me. I know her best friend and she has explained how much this girl likes me. I know she is only 13 but appears very mature for her age. To begin with I liked her just as a ...

I love the soul, spirit and essence of him, but our relationship is troubled

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5430 days ago

18 June 2009 (F) - How can I have feelings for a man that feels to me like they are on a different level - as if I love the essence, the soul and spirit of the man and I feel he loves me the same way but he keeps behaving in a way that hurts and upsets me - yet i ...

Worried I've lost a good friendship and possible future relationship

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5433 days ago

18 June 2009 (F) - Hi, I need some help understanding what a lad I know is thinking about our friendship. We met by chance through a mistake on a networking sight and are both very similar with lots in common and both hurt in past relationships so it seemed fate had ...

Suspicious of my girlfriend since she had a weekend away

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5433 days ago

18 June 2009 (M) - I don’t trust my girlfriend!? She secretive and gets all defensive if I ask her about things. It never used to be like this. She used to be so open, used to tell me everything, I didn’t need to ask anything. It all changed a few months ago...

Girlfriend only shows me affection after a drink

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5427 days ago

18 June 2009 (M) - GF only shows affection after a drink? When she not had a drink and we kiss, she either pulls away then gives a quick peck on the cheek, wont kiss my lips. She wont hug, more like a pat on the back, wont hold hands in public and sex is def a no ...

She got mad when I tried to touch her breasts during sex...what's going on?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5433 days ago

18 June 2009 (M) - My girlfriend (who was a virgin before I met her) and me had sex for the time first. Well it was great when I'd to take off her bra she slap my hand away and she got really mad at me because she doesn't like when I touch her breasts. Then I talked ...

I hate kissing!! Please help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5421 days ago

18 June 2009 (F) - Hey aunts, i am sixteen years old. i have sort of a problem.. i don't want to kiss. i have a boyfriend and we've been dating for about 11 months. i love him so much but about four months into our relationship, i got mono. it made me bed sick for ...

My girlfriend seems to be ignoring me, who is in the wrong here?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5416 days ago

18 June 2009 (M) - My gf and i have benn going out for almost nine months now, we just got out of school, and we dont get to hang out as often. Since she's grounded, she cant use the phone, but still calls me from time to time, but whenever we're both signed in on ...

I've wanted him for so long, I don't know what to do

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5433 days ago

18 June 2009 (F) - ok well i have been after this guy that i met at a party since november when i first met him he made me feel so good inside like woow!!even though i had a boyfriend i started talking to him. i figured out he had jus broke up with his girlfriend the ...

Why do I get embarrassed talkiing about my boyfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5434 days ago

18 June 2009 (F) - Hi - to anyone who feels the same... I love my boyfriend to bits - when we are alone or around people that I trust I can talk about him freely. However, whenever I am around workmates or certain people I know, I "freak out" incase they might as...

He feels different down there...where's his other ball?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5433 days ago

18 June 2009 (F) - Okay so this is a weird one, hang in there with me... I just started seeing this great guy a few weeks ago, he's such a sweet and goofy guy, I feel really comfortable with him (not to mention he's smoking hot). Well we were cuddling and mes...

How do I win my girlfriend back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5426 days ago

18 June 2009 (M) - i lost my girlfriend about 2 months ago because we fight too much. She moved on and got a new boyfriend. We still talk but only for a short time. How can i get her back in my arms?...

She's overfriendly with other guys on social-network, it's making me insecure

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5433 days ago

18 June 2009 (M) - Hello everyone. I have a long distance relationship. She is over 30, divorced, have a child with her and I am 5 years younger. It has been 1 year and we fight a lot. It has been 1 week we didn't contact each other. Out of blue, she called m...

Is he interested in being more than just friends?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5433 days ago

18 June 2009 (F) - Help please! I need some advice on how to read male signals. Ok, ive known this guy for a long time, in the last few months, he has begun to email me a lot, and now we text each other every single day. He always sends me a good morning text...

I miss her. I hope she misses me.

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18 June 2009 (M) - ok heres the story i liked this girl from my work we talked alot on msn and bebo had so much in common but she had a boyfreind and she never talked about him so i took the risks on valentines day and asked her to a snow patrol concert with me she ...

She goes through phases when she's not sure she should be dating me! Help me out!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5434 days ago

18 June 2009 (M) - Right, me and my girlfriend have been going out for 7 months and its been the best 7 months of my life. She is 17 years old and i am 18 years old. But as of recently, my girlfriend has started to have mixed feelings; she wants to be able to exper...

How should I ask her out? She doesn't know I'm bi.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5429 days ago

18 June 2009 (F) - i want to have a relationship with my friend but she doesnt know im bi. how should i ask her out? (shes gay)...