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Archived questions from: 29 June, 2009 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

9 Months... No "I Love You" Yet

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5421 days ago

29 June 2009 (F) - When has it been too long after "I love you" should have been said? I have been with my boyfriend for 9 months and we have not said it yet. I'm starting to feel it and I think he does too. I have never said it to anyone before. Anyone, I dated that ...

Do I listen to my aunt or do I follow my heart?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5421 days ago

29 June 2009 (F) - Ok on vacation i met a close friends brother that is now staying with her at first glance i liked him alot.then days went by ididnt see him well one day we had a bbq and he was there well all my cuzins their gfs a friend his sister him and i decided ...

Wouldn't he make more of an effort if he was really interested?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5388 days ago

29 June 2009 (F) - Hi, i met this guy two months ago and we really hit it off and i think i am falling for him big time. The only problem is i am not sure how he feels about me now, i had sex with him after a few dates (about one month after meeting him) I feel he is ...

I can't seem to get into a relationship!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5421 days ago

29 June 2009 (?) - I'm 23, in a good job, enjoying life generally. However, the one thing that I can't seem to get is a relationship. Some women seem to think I'm a gay man just because I'm sensitive, kind and caring - however, it's my personality and that's the w...

My boyfriend has kissed literally most girls I know!

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29 June 2009 (F) - i have a boyfriend who is the most loving and amazing boyfriend ever. but i can;t seem to get over the fact that he has kissed some of my friends. he's a very shy guy and i think i took his virginity, but there have been times when we've been ...

What can we talk about? I need some help because I really want to go out with him again!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5418 days ago

29 June 2009 (F) - hello. i REALLY need some help. I've liked this boy for about 6months and we have been boyfriend and girlfriend a few times. we really like each other. well i think he does anyway. his friends says he always speaks about me, and sometimes he goes ...

What's wrong with me that I've never had a boyfriend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5421 days ago

29 June 2009 (F) - dear people, help me i am really desperate i am 15 and single and i have never had a boyfriend, i feel so ugly and not confident if i could just know the signs that someone fancies me so i could feel more confident with me my self and feel that i ...

Where can I find a boyfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5421 days ago

29 June 2009 (F) - I really want to go out with someone, but theres no guys in my school apart from a year 10 , who i like , does anyone have any advice a different way i could get a boyfriend. This was a really short question , Sorry , But thanks for any answers ...

I really like this shy guy but don't know how to act around him!

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29 June 2009 (F) - ok this is kinda hard to explain so please hang in there..... i like this guy and he's REALLLY nice. he's one of thoes guys that are kinda rare to find in my experience (no offence to all the guys reading this) he's cute, kind, funny, smart, s...

Did my boyfriend dump me as he was scared of commitment?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5421 days ago

29 June 2009 (F) - Did my bf dump me as he was scared of commitment? We'd been together for nearly 3 years and in that time things were mostly great but every now and then he'd bottle it and question whether or not we wanted the same thing. I wanted the wedding, the ...

Help, I need to know... Is my boyfriend cheating on me?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5421 days ago

29 June 2009 (F) - I have found a text message on my boyfriend's mobile phone. From a woman who has cropped up many a time in our past 2 years together. it said 'i miss you, i want you, I need you'. Is he cheating? Should I confront him? Is there any way that thi...

Stop feeling love, all of a sudden

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5421 days ago

29 June 2009 (M) - Been in the relationship since the past 9 months. It's my 1st ever. Things weren't easy. She was scared to be in one after a pathetic and disastrous 1st experience. We realised we were really in love in about 3-4 months.I know its a short time. But ...

If I told my boyfriend about me cheating... do you think he'll forgive me?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5420 days ago

29 June 2009 (F) - Okay well I still havent told my boyfriend I have cheated because I dont want to hurt him and I dont want to destroy the great relationship I have with him now! I seriously do not think I would ever cheat on him again cause the guilt I have felt so ...

Although I've been dating the same girl for 4 years, I still have feelings for my ex.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5421 days ago

29 June 2009 (M) - I have been dating a girl for 4 years now but still fancy my ex gf whom I dated in college. My ex girlfriend says no she will never date me again, what do I do now?...

Has he gone off me that quickly?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5421 days ago

29 June 2009 (F) - Hello About a month ago I started to speak to a really nice guy.. he told me he liked me.. but I didnt at the time find him very attractive at all.. we got on really well - his name's steve. I was seeing someone at at the time as well. Anyway whe...

I hate my boyfriend's sister with such a passion.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5420 days ago

29 June 2009 (F) - I hate my boyfriend's sister with such a passion. At first we got on well, I'd heard of her before, she is one year below me and is known for having a bit of a bad reputation. my boyfriend and i have been together for 7 months and last month af...

Is the surfing clothing line 'Bubblegum' male or female wear?

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29 June 2009 (M) - Is the surfing clothing line 'Bubblegum' male or female wear? My gf bought me a bubblegum t-shirt with pink writing on the front and flourescent flowers on the back.... I didn't know if they did feminine clothes for men or if i'd be wearing a ...

My girlfriend always expressed her love to me and all of a sudden she's doesn't..

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5421 days ago

29 June 2009 (M) - I've been with my girlfriend since July 4, 2008, it's been the best relationship i've had in my lifetime, we understand each other, and we sincerely have told one to another that we want to be together 'till the end of times. Thing is that ...

He drools over other girls every time we go out!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5420 days ago

29 June 2009 (F) - I am so angry with my boyfriend. He takes me out then drools over another lady looking straight past my face into hers. He has been making remarks at other ladies in front of me and I tried to brush it off, but this time it was too much. He says I ...

I'm afraid my boyfriend won't want to try again after miscarriage in unexpected pregnancy.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5421 days ago

29 June 2009 (F) - Had an unexpected pregnancy with partner when our relationship was quite rocky. A shock to us both, he especially had a really hard time coming to terms with it, and was really unhappy and unaccepting for the first several days. He said he was ...

I think my girlfriend prefers her friend's company to mines...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5420 days ago

29 June 2009 (M) - Dear Cupid, Me and my Girlfriend have been dating for 8 months now. We're really close and are important in each others lives. Her mom works a lot so she drops her off at my house and we get to hang out after school till usually 7 pm. A couple o...

Hurting blow-job. tips please..

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5421 days ago

29 June 2009 (M) - My girlfriend gave me first blow-job recently. It was not so nice. I was getting kinda pain. I don't know whether it was her teeth causing that problem. Can anyone gimme some tips to get a nice blow-job ? ...

Did I move in with my boyfriend too soon?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5421 days ago

29 June 2009 (F) - I basically feel really lost right now and im not sure which direction to head in. I'm 16, moved in with my boyfriend a few months ago and i think we moved too quickly, although it does really work well and we dont argue, we get along just fine....

I want to be able to fall asleep with my boyfriend but we cant get comfortable!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5421 days ago

29 June 2009 (F) - I want to basically know if anyone else has this same issue and if anyone else knows what to do!! Its not a major thing but its really irritating me. I want to be able to fall asleep with my boyfriend but we cant get comfortable! Our flats always...

She's trying to win my trust again, but this feeling is eating me alive from the inside!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5421 days ago

29 June 2009 (M) - I have to start by saying that i can't believe i'm doing this. But i can't sleep, so i need advices... I've been with this girl for almost a year now. And we love each other so much and want to have a future together. But as with any relation...

Is this too fast?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5411 days ago

29 June 2009 (F) - This is quite long, sorry but please bare with me cuz i really need advice! Since my last question i have dumped that guy and are now with someone else. Me meet a few days ago literally, just as friends! as he HAD a gf! But we instantly fell ...

She broke up with her boyfriend but now I don't know where I stand with her!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5398 days ago

29 June 2009 (M) - Hi I met this girl a couple of weeks ago and we really hit it off. She would stare at me with a smile the whole night and went where ever i went. The next day she told me she had a boyfriend of 4 years. I was just going to leave it at that but...

I think I lost out on "The One"!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5421 days ago

29 June 2009 (F) - Ok so I really need some help here. The last boyfriend I had was a year ago. I dated him for almost two years. He ended up breaking up with me after he got a second job because he said he simply did not have time for a girlfriend. I believed him. ...

She wants nothing to do with me, but I want to be her friend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5422 days ago

29 June 2009 (M) - How do I get over my ex GF. I dumped her becuase she kept on being too overprotective and controlling. Anyway now she wants NOTHING and I mean NOTHING to do with me. Anyway I want to be her friend her being as stubborn as she is says no her excuse i...

My mom learned about problems with my b/f; I want my family to just let me make my own decisons

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5422 days ago

29 June 2009 (F) - My mom is usually laid back, she doesn't let me get away with everything, but a fair amount of things, she would never tell me who i could and could not be friends or, or who i could or could not date.. until my boyfriend came along, i made a ...

Does he really want a threesome, or is it just a fantasy?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5402 days ago

29 June 2009 (F) - I am confused. My boyfriend and I have been together almost a year. We had the "fantasy" discussion. He said he wants a threesome. I asked why and he said its a fantasy. I said well I wouldn't want you to have sex with the other woman. His response ...

We were the 'perfect' couple; now he's with his cousin, and I can't get over it

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5422 days ago

29 June 2009 (F) - Dear cupid, I really need help. My ex boyfriend broke up with me exactly one year ago and I am SO not over him. We were together for 2 and 1/2 years. The first 18 months were perfect. People used to say we were the perfect couple. We were both...

What kind of response did he want from me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5421 days ago

29 June 2009 (F) - So me and this guy were texting the other day, just like hi how are you type of stuff. Then he says "we should hang out sometime..." so I simply responded "yeah we should." I do really want to, but I didn't want to be the one to have to ask him out. ...

Can women over 50 find love?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5420 days ago

29 June 2009 (F) - Do you think a woman over fifty should just give up on being sexually yearned for by a handsome man her own age? Suicide is out for me because I love life mightily, but after giving out my heart so fully for a series of loving relationships wi...

Does he just want to hook up? What does he want from ee?!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5422 days ago

29 June 2009 (F) - A male perspective would be appreciated in this..What does he want from me? Me and this guy were seeing each other for a few months at the end of last year to January this year. We kind of just stopped talking after that, but since then we've had at ...