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Archived questions from: 21 June, 2009 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

He doesn't keep the conversation going in txting...is he interested?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5429 days ago

21 June 2009 (F) - hey, i have a dilemma, i really like this boy. Im 18 and we have kissed (snogged) eachother twice now ..about 2 months apart..in the same night club. I knew him from my college and ive really started to like him. I somehow gathered the courage to ...

He's sending out a lot of mixed signals!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5427 days ago

21 June 2009 (F) - Hey, I've been speaking to a guy I know on msn for a few months. We go to the same college and he is very good friends with two of my best friends. He decided to add me on msn after we became friends on a school trip last year. Since then, we have ...

Any ideas what road I should take on this one?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5428 days ago

21 June 2009 (M) - ok, so i quite like a girl in the year below (year 10) and im in (year11) .... shes really pretty ... but obviously its hard to get to talk to her as im off of school for study leave and my school is an hour and a half away so i cant really just pop ...

I'm making anonymous calls and messages

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5429 days ago

21 June 2009 (F) - Hi, I have been single for a long time and I feel very lonely mainly at night. I am so lonely that I started making anonymous phone calls. I found this number over the internet, of a really hot guy I met once and so I call but don't speak. He ...

My boyfriend and I are fighting a lot because of my guy friend.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5429 days ago

21 June 2009 (F) - Hey people, my problem is that me and my boyfriend have been fighting a whole lot lately with my guy friend because he's always hitting on me and trying to grab me trying to make my boyfriend jealous, sometimes trying to kiss me. Yesterday morning ...

Since I've moved she's been really distant with me...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5429 days ago

21 June 2009 (M) - Ok, the issue with my girlfriend is I love her but ever since I moved like far from home, it's like nowadays we have absolutely nothing to talk about, we talk over IM and every time I say something, I usually get replies like she's just either ...

Help! I'm having trouble choosing.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5429 days ago

21 June 2009 (F) - I have been seeing two guys for a few months now. Neither of which knows about each other. One is my ex, which I have been with one and off for 6 years and have even lived with for about 9 months. I broke up with boyfriend 1 and moved out. A few ...

Should I just leave it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5429 days ago

21 June 2009 (F) - Help - I've been seeing a man for 12 weeks now and things have been fantastic. Texting/calling me all the time how much he likes me, missing me when were apart, and it's been wicked. We're both sociable people and we both have a wide circle of frien...

He says to leave him alone but tells me he likes me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5429 days ago

21 June 2009 (F) - Hi everybody. I need help. I have known this guy since October. I like him but didn't realize how much till all this happened.To make a long story short, I sent him an email I thought he wanted to hear but didn't.It's a long story then sent him ...

I don't like the person I have become now I am seeing a married man

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5419 days ago

21 June 2009 (F) - HELP ME PLEASE! im 26 seeing a married man for just nearly a yr now and im sooo unhappy, full of guilt, dont like the person i have become and i feel sick when i think of what im doing. I doubt he will ever leave her, she is lovely not a bit...

Will we ever be more than just friends?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5421 days ago

21 June 2009 (F) - So, I am a girl and so is this person I am completely inlove with. I am bi and she says she is straight. I've known her for 2 and a half years but have actually been talking to her for 4 months or so. I told her "I kinda like love you" but that was ...

How do I stop my insecurities from ruining our relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5429 days ago

21 June 2009 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for nearly 3 months and he is without a doubt the most amazing person I've ever met, he makes me so happy. Unfortunately due to my history of unsuccessful relationships (violence, cheating etc) I am incredibly insecure...

How can I get over my insecurities about the way I look?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5429 days ago

21 June 2009 (F) - Ok, I am an ugly 20 year old (don't tell me I'm beautiful, you haven't even seen me, and I've been told many times by many different people that I am ugly). Men never check me out, etc. It's not lack of confidence because I know beautiful ...

Should I pursue my golf tutor? Is he even attracted to me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5429 days ago

21 June 2009 (F) - I have written a column before, but unfortunatly, no one seemed to answer. I am about to tell you why I'm writing although you probably already know from the heading - that I have strong feelings for my golf tutor (it's NOT a joke, my school has ...

Am I a total idiot for sticking around?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5429 days ago

21 June 2009 (F) - I've been dating this guy for 3 months and everything was great! He kept making references to being together long term and I was right there with him. Then, his pre-teen daughter was coming from overseas to see him for a month. Considering we ...

Is he taking me for a fool?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5429 days ago

21 June 2009 (F) - Okay, well I have been on and off with my ex-boyfriend for about 5 years now. When we first met and started dating things were really good with us, we were almost inseparable. We have very different personalities, but compatible goals and our ...

Is my Mum making this all up?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5427 days ago

21 June 2009 (F) - this is sort of relationship i think! well basicly, my mum went to see a clairvoyent a few weeks back, and apparently she told her that one of her daughters is in a long term relationship, which is my sister, she's been with her boyfriend nearly two ...

Why are men so into you one minute and run away the next?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3216 days ago

21 June 2009 (F) - I really need some honest feedback here, especially from the men out there. I seem to have this pattern in my life which completely confounds and confuses me and I really need to find out why it keeps happening. I am beautiful, smart, sexy, kin...

I don't want to have to lie to my parents about seeing my boyfriend anymore

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5429 days ago

21 June 2009 (F) - long story short, me and adam were best friends. we went out, he became an ass, we broke up. he realized what an asshole he had become, and he changed. he regained my trust and i have been going out with Adam for a few months now this year. We had ...

Am I likely to hear from him again or was he just being polite?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5427 days ago

21 June 2009 (F) - Is he interested in me? Will he email me back? I recently met a guy I liked when he was driving a coach taking me on a school trip with some kids (Im a teacher). This was 3 days ago. He flirted a bit but wasnt english so the language was a b...

Is it right to still be his friend when I wanted something more?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5427 days ago

21 June 2009 (F) - I confessed to my friend (lets call him mr.gloomy) that I like him because I noticed that he care so much to me and he was able to making a flirt with me. Then an incident that our friend was tripping texted him asking if mr.gloomy likes me he ...

I've never had an issue with my body until my boyfriend started making comments about my weight!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5428 days ago

21 June 2009 (F) - I'm 5ft8 and a size 12-14 which ive always thought is pretty normal. My bodies in proportion and ive never really had an issue with it. Until i got with my boyfriend and now am sexually active, i was before but only little flings, ive never been ...

Boyfriend, friends, drugs..I can't beat them but I won't join them either!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5429 days ago

21 June 2009 (M) - A few years ago I used to be really into my drugs, well about as much as any other young person in the uk, my friends were too. However, as we finished uni it got more and more excessive, generally with ecstasy pills, cocaine, weed and binge ...

He left me for my friend, so why does he care that I have a new boyfriend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5428 days ago

21 June 2009 (F) - okay so, my ex left me for my friend. we still talk. he messaged me on myspace and he was all cool and stuff but then he saw that my headline says i love you (my bf's name) and he said who is that? i said my bf. then he said b***** i will kick your...

How can I make a player change?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5429 days ago

21 June 2009 (F) - I met a guy off the enternet,i know he is a player! i have really fallen for this guy. Everone tells me you cant change a player, i want to know how and if he could everchange? What can i do to not be a player anymore andonly want me? Thanks...

She's 12 and I have feelings for her

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5428 days ago

21 June 2009 (M) - ok so, i went to my friends birthday party yesterday and his sister had a couple of friends round ... there was this girl who just seemed to make something click in my brain and she was pretty funny for her age ... but the only problem (or is it a ...

I want a serious relationship but unsure if she feels the same?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5429 days ago

21 June 2009 (M) - I was widowed last year and have recently met someone else. We agreed it to be as friends but i find myself wanting to be with her more and more. We have planned a short break in a couple of months but have booked separate rooms as she doesnt s...

I'm 18, mature and like older women

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5429 days ago

21 June 2009 (M) - I'm an 18 year old guy, and I am very mature for my age.When someone whom I don't know asks me my age, and I tell them 18, they usually say "wow I thought you were at least 22 or 23".The problem is I always seem to be interested in women who are in ...

Why is dating so hard when you're a plus size woman?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5429 days ago

21 June 2009 (F) - Well I hope someone can relate! Ok I'm a plus size woman. I'm 5 ft 7 inches tall and weight around 290. I'm on the plan with my dr to lose weight before I have weight loss surgery.I'm having the lapband done at the end of the year. I've found dating ...

Would it be in bad taste for me to mail these tickets to her?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5382 days ago

21 June 2009 (M) - My female friend and I have known each other 18 months. We were as close as dating without actually dating and were the best of friends. Three months back we "broke up" after I started an argument at a party with her. She never stopped talking to ...

I've been promiscious in the past, and now karma has hit me with guilt

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5429 days ago

21 June 2009 (F) - I'm 25. I've been in a relationship since 15 with the same person. We live together for 4 years now. Overall... I have to say the passion and love is there. We're both very confident about that. However, being we started so young (he was 18 now 28) ...

I didn't even get to ask him to be my boyfriend, and now he has disappeared!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5430 days ago

21 June 2009 (F) - Okay I'm dating a guy He's amazing, always sticking up for me we've liked each other for about a year now, no like commitment though, just kissing and dating here and there. He's scared of commitment i guess. he always says he's not ready for ...

I like him but he's the ex of a good friend of mine. Will I get hurt?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5430 days ago

21 June 2009 (F) - I like this boy who likes me. We play on the same sand volleyball league and have hung out with each other outside of volleyball. We've kissed, but that's the extent of what we've done. He seems to be a good guy, he's funny, and we get along great. ...

Should I ask him out now, or wait awhile?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5430 days ago

21 June 2009 (F) - me and this guy have been talking everyday, all day we kiss, hold hands, hes told me he really likes me, plus weve been making long term plans, and like 3 days ago he told me that he had gotten drunk[he never drinks and neither do i] and he kept tel...

I feel horribly left out with no Love life and I have everything going for me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5426 days ago

21 June 2009 (M) - Hi I am a very athletic 17 year old male with a good muscle build and I am a nice guy who know how to get stuff done and will follow orders if they are given but anyways, all of my friends have had sex or are in a romantic relationship with some...

I was nosing around on his phone and found something I wasn't expecting! Any ideas?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5413 days ago

21 June 2009 (F) - hi again! i recently posted about me and my boyfriend,we have been together for almost a year, but we split up for a month at one point and 2 weeks not that long ago. when we broke up the first time, something happened with him and another ...

What is keeping him from meeting me in person?!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5430 days ago

21 June 2009 (F) - i am currently talking to a guy that i met from online chatting. after talking to him for about two weeks, i find out that his good friend knows my best friend at the university that my best friend attends. i like this guy's personality and the way ...

Followup : Would it be possible to be friends but still date?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5430 days ago

21 June 2009 (M) - refer to http://www.dearcupid.org/question/what-kind-of-gift-would-be-fun-and.html At the moment I am not sure she wants more, but though I do, even I have doubts at times. I want to be just be friends for now, but also I want to keep the poss...