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male
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:The relationship I'm carrying with my fiance is great. We seem to get along as perfect as they can come. The only problem is me. My fiance was very sexually active in her past, and it makes me feel awkward because it seems that everything we do is simply the same.I've always been the teacher in my relationships, but this one due to I can't show her anything new.I am easily angered when she by mistakes brings up one of her exs, or tells me something that happened to her and it involves a sexual act. I am very much afraid that this will get bigger, and I will screw everything up. Please help.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 June 2009): You are calling it your problem but any problem is between you, not just yours. Could you explain to your fiance that you do not find it helpful when she talks about other people she has had sex with and tell her how it makes you feel. Maybe then she will be a bit more sensitive to your feelings. To have a good sex life, you need to be able to trust and understand each other and both feel at ease.
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