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Dating: Help and advice

Birthday ideas for boyfriend?

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12 June 2009 (F) - So my boyfriends birthday is coming up. He has never really had a girl do anything special for him but throw a party for him (but i can't do that). I want it to be different and for him to love what I do for him. I just don't know what to do. We are ...

My friend is dating a total jerk!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5435 days ago

12 June 2009 (F) - Okay, so..... My best friends boyfriend, who is one of her first, and she just got together with, is pretty dangerous according to a few of his past girlfriends. He smokes weed and has "touched" his past girlfriends against their will (take in mind ...

Forever is a very long time....

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5438 days ago

12 June 2009 (F) - hey everyone . i hope someone could fill me in on this , or help me understanf atleast a bit i have noone to tell or ask for support and i trust alot of your opinions . me and my bf were making out and so on , told him i loved him - we say it ...

I think I made a mistake cutting the other guy off!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5437 days ago

12 June 2009 (F) - I'm afraid I made a bad choice, all I want is to be happy! Recently, I met this guy, we got along great, and he was normally really good to me. We had a few tiffs along the way though, and decided to remain friends, he soon after got a girlfriend. ...

Boyfriend and I have been through hell but I think I'm falling for his friend!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5438 days ago

12 June 2009 (F) - Ive asked for help on this before but the situations worsened and now i reaaaaaaly dont know what on earth to do! See, thing is. Ive been with my boyfriend for three months, i feel as though fate has set us up to be together and ive FINALLY foun...

They both like me and I don't know what to do

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12 June 2009 (F) - here's the thing... theres this boy that i like and he lies me back, but before he liked this other girl and told me he wanted to be with her (this is when i told him i liked him as i knew it would be the last chance id get) but then this other guy ...

We're going to have to be apart and I don't know what to do!

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12 June 2009 (F) - In need of help. Me and My boyfriend have been together for 2 years now and we have a fantastic relationship! Honestly its great he makes me feel alive, we have the same dry sense of humour where only us laugh he utterly adores me and cares for me ...

Isn't it normal for women to like cuddling and kissing?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5438 days ago

12 June 2009 (M) - I'm a very tactile person and I love to show affection with touch, hugging and cuddling, etc. My fiancee doesn't like hugs or cuddles... except as a precursor to making love and only when she initiates it. This leaves me feeling like just a piec...

Girlfriend depressed? Should I give her space?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5438 days ago

12 June 2009 (M) - My girlfriend is going through depression. She doesn't talk to me, touch me or anything. However she still invited me up to her cabin with her parents this weekend. It hurts me to be around her knowing how happy we were before she got depressed ...

I always seem to hug or kiss him at the wrong time! Is he just not interested?

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12 June 2009 (F) - I met a guy 3 months ago and we have been hanging out alot at friends house and stuff, and occasionally he hugs me or even kisses me, but i always seem to do it at the wrong time and he seems uninterested. why is this?...

Is he along with others trying to make me jealous?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5435 days ago

12 June 2009 (F) - Well I seriously like my friend's Brother and he knows I think he is cute. Im thinking he likes me too, He stares at me a lot, he laughs at everything I say and he is always shy around me. Only problem is that he has just got a girlfriend, I get the ...

Good girl fallen for bad boy! Can it work?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5438 days ago

12 June 2009 (F) - So my ex boyfriend and I are starting to 'talk' again and it's highly likely we're going to get back together this summer. This will be the third time. I admit I'm nervous about it and I have my insecurities but it's like whenever were not together ...

I'm scared to let go, but now I feel its too late!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5436 days ago

12 June 2009 (F) - Recently, I started having feelings for this guy. He is great, and was normally really good to me. It was the first time I had really felt happy since my ex boyfriend. We had a few tiffs and decided to just stay friends, soon after that he got a ...

Should I add him as a friend on MSN? Do you think he would like it or could he make fun of me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5438 days ago

12 June 2009 (F) - so,i and my crush like each other a lot for almost 2 years and we share a lot of great memories together.in the past months we have been pretty distant with each other,so i thought maybe he doesn't like me anymore.today was our last day at ...

Our affair has been revealed. Where do we go from here?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5438 days ago

12 June 2009 (F) - I’m having a relationship with a married man for nearly two years now. He’s been married for about 18 years. We are both contract workers and work away from home for months at a time and only get back home one’s every four months. We love each oth...

What's up with them? Why are they ignoring me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5438 days ago

12 June 2009 (F) - Were friends and his bestfriend and I used to have this weird 'more-than-friends-but-less-than-lovers' thing going on until he(bestfriend) cleared out that he did not like me. Then he (the guy in question; not the 'bestfriend') started complime...

I love my boyfriend, but have butterflies over another boy

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5438 days ago

12 June 2009 (F) - Heyy aunt's and uncles. I feel so bad, and i havent even done anything. I need major advice. Ive been with my boyfriend for a year and a half. Im only 16, and hes 17, but where in the same year in school, as ill be 17 in july! He arranged a sup...

How can I make my fiance and my dad get along?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5438 days ago

12 June 2009 (F) - Hi, I've been having problems with my fiance. I'm 19 and he's 24. We've been engaged for a few weeks now but my parents don't know this. I love him dearly yet he hates my dad; he despises my dad's morals and wishes my dad could act more like a real ...

Should I be playing games with him to make him interested?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5438 days ago

12 June 2009 (F) - Why do guys whom I dont want a relationship with keep pursuing me like they are obsessed? And the one I really love is not? Could it be that I am being to easy with the one I want to be with? Do I need to act more aloof with him? I know some men ...

Friends before boyfriends/girlfriends?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5400 days ago

12 June 2009 (?) - I know people always say 'freinds before boyfriends/ girlfriends' but is this actually true? Does this apply to freinds of the opposite gender, even if they really are just friends and your'e not attracted to them at all? My boyfriend recent...

Relationships: What would you not tolerate?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5438 days ago

12 June 2009 (?) - This is'nt an advice question as such, but I do require help. I know it would be difficult to say, and every case is different, and you probably have no idea how you would act in the actual circumstance, but; What things would you never put up wit...

Is he just using me to get physical?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5438 days ago

12 June 2009 (F) - I just wanted some advice, because I really feel like my bf is jst using me. We knew each other really well b4 we went on our first proper 'date' and by the end of it we were snogging. Since then we have had abt 5/6 dates and every time he just ...

What is a perfect girlfriend?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5438 days ago

12 June 2009 (F) - I tend to always just try and be the perfect girlfriend to the guy i'm with. I pamper him with care and support and I do a lot of cute things for him such as leaving cute notes in his car for him to find or I give him massages and make it all abou...

Nice guy but incredibly quiet around me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5438 days ago

12 June 2009 (F) - I met a guy who was really sweet, but seemed a little bit awkward in a shy way. I thought he was nice and cute, so I left him my number. He started texted me almost every day to see what I was doing, usually later in the evening, but I was never ...

New boyfriend problems

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5437 days ago

12 June 2009 (F) - Well you see im dating my friends brother and i have liked him ever since the first day i met him and he felt the same for me. Well we started talkin then he moved out of his house and met this other girl, they dated for like 5 months and they broke ...

Astrology test says we are made for each other, where do I go from here?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5436 days ago

12 June 2009 (M) - so i download a stupid astrology test cuz i was bored and am intrigued by them. anyway i ran my own numbers, then looked at the report. bla bla, fairly accurate. so i did one for this girl i like, right. i then discover this program can compare. ...

Can I change my friend's feelings towards me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5438 days ago

12 June 2009 (M) - So there is this friend that i like. I told my friend i liked them and well the feelings werent the same. time passed by and we got closer. however we've kissed and stuff but my friend just says they do all this because want it and that it doesnt ...

How do I change his impressions of me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5439 days ago

12 June 2009 (F) - Hey there :) Okay, so I have known this boy for about 7 months now, and he is one of my best guy friends. I used to like him, but then I just liked him as a friend. Now I know I like him again, but the problem is he is a very smart person, and he's...

LDR...should I stay with him or look for someone else?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5436 days ago

12 June 2009 (F) - Ive been dating this guy for a while and things are going fine and we havnt had a fight....but he lives in a difrent state then me...i really really like him...but i cant go see him...so should i stay with him or should i look for someone else???...

Why do I love him but hate him at the same time?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5410 days ago

12 June 2009 (F) - Im not sure why i want him around, but i want him to leave, yet i dont. Im in love with a guy (so i think) whom i would consider a friend, ive known him for almost 3years now and we've said 'i love you' many times but we're not together...

She wants a break but will it actually help or make things worse?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5437 days ago

12 June 2009 (M) - My girlfriend of 5 months wants a break. At first I was ok with it and I knew it meant hooking up with other people. Her best friend is a guy also an old friend of mine. She has been hurting so she said she probably wouldn't have sex with him cause ...

When a girl asks you "Are you a player" what is the best answer?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5438 days ago

12 June 2009 (M) - When a girl asks you "are you a player" ? What is the best way to answer this question Usually I just laugh it off and move on to the next topic but is there a better way to address this problem because I don't want to have girls feeling as if I'...

How do I get over him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5438 days ago

12 June 2009 (F) - okay so to all of you who answered my previous post: I don’t mean to sound naive, but could he be lying?” i never said this but later on that night when i read the convo, i sent him a msg on msn saying: hey, i just saw the convo with u and my friend ...

We're complete opposites, can this relationship work?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5367 days ago

12 June 2009 (F) - I know that opposites attract, but can two opposites really work in a relationship? My bf and I are so different and sometimes it scares me because I fear that he will want to change me to be more like him. He is a big drinker, and I dont dri...

Dating my brothers ex. It bothers me when I think of them having sex

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5438 days ago

12 June 2009 (M) - Ok I will try to sum this up quick. I'm currently dating my brother X. My girlfriend had a pretty ruff break up a few years ago with my brother and I pretty much been there for her helping her out in her problems. During that period we became real ...

What should I do if my boyfriend believes my sister and not me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5434 days ago

12 June 2009 (F) - Okay, I really hope this makes sense because I am still trying to figure out what is going on! So here goes, my boyfriend of 6 months lives with my sister and her husband, where I basically used to live. My brother in law has never liked me and him ...

My fiance wants to watch me with another woman and I'm tempted!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5439 days ago

12 June 2009 (F) - Ok, my fiance of 2 years been together 4 years and have 2 kids asked if i was intersted in being with another women, he just wanted to watch.. yeah as life gets shorter i start to get curious and now im kinda thinking about it but i really dont know ...

One night I have always dreamed of... or lifetime of happiness with boyfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5439 days ago

12 June 2009 (F) - I've always had this secret crush on a friend of mine but it was just childish. hes now 24 and im 19 and he has just split up with his girlfriend. i was there for him as a friend in the beginning and now it has esculated that he is physically ...

Stuck!!!!

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12 June 2009 (F) - I've been in this relationship with this guy for 2 years and almost 4 months and im stuck. Don't get me wrong I love him so much he really is everything to me but I don't see him going anywhere in life. He was supposed to graduate last year but he ...

Bf is hinting at sex! I am scared to do this..any advice?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5417 days ago

12 June 2009 (F) - My Boyfriend is 19 and im 16, he keeps hinting about sex, but im too scared, as i am a virgin and im scared it will hurt and also im body consious so that doesnt help either, any suggestions on anything ??...