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Dating: Help and advice

Problems with my best guy friend! He's ignoring me now..help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5435 days ago

11 June 2009 (F) - Things have got complicated with my best guy friend. We have been friends for 5 years and met at university. It all began with me liking him and flirting when we were out at partys and kissing (nothing more). However he got together with my friend ...

I don't think he's in love with me! Should I even care?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5438 days ago

11 June 2009 (F) - I am 28 he's 31 we've been married 3 years now. we haven't had sex in over a year, we kiss hello and he helps me around the house and stuff we don't talk much unless it's house or bills related. I suspect that he's seeing someone and when i asked ...

He doesn't want to tell his mates that we are dating!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5439 days ago

11 June 2009 (F) - Hey I was just wonderinig you see my boyfreind is really nice and everything i still love him and that. i just find one problem he doesn't want me to tell any of his mates that we are going out! this doesn't really bother me except when i see them ...

What should I do about my married man dilemma?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5434 days ago

11 June 2009 (F) - Hi, Im desperately in need of some advice on my situation which I know may be a familiar one. I met a married man, who's 12 yrs older than me (I'm 35) just over 2 years ago, we clicked straight away and have fallen in love and our relationshi...

If I forgive my ex and take him back, my parents will hate me! Help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5439 days ago

11 June 2009 (F) - Hi everyone, ok I don't know what to do. I broke up with my bf of almost 3yrs. about a month ago. He liked to "joke" but I called it verbal abuse because I didn't like being called fatty or stupid. He has a temper but has never hit me, he punches ...

Can I get him back? Do men change their opinion on somebody?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5439 days ago

11 June 2009 (F) - Hi there! First of all thanks for the answer I can have :) I have known this guy for 2 months already, we went out at the beggining for a couple of days (have sex, being public together) and after a week of being intimate he dissapear. From ...

He doesn't send loving texts in between visits, am I making too much of this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5439 days ago

11 June 2009 (F) - I have been in an LDR for almost a year and a half, we see each other every two weeks and when we are together its great. We travel to each others homes to split the travelling between us. when we are not together, we text each other a few time...

What can I do to make boys like me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5415 days ago

11 June 2009 (F) - Hey xx Im a typical teenage girl. And ever since I started secondary school I have been reallly open about everything and sometimes I feel I am too open about things and make boys feel uncomfortable. I laugh a lot and always talk to boys. I like a...

I'm feeling a little bored in my relationship. He doesn't want to go out and party, I do....

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5439 days ago

11 June 2009 (F) - I'm feeling a little bored in my relationship. I do love my boyfriend, we've been together 6 months. He's 27 and I'm 25, although I would say he acts older and I act younger - yet we work well and can be mature/immature when needs be! So his fr...

He's great in all aspects except he never contacts me, and I feel I'm doing all the work!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5439 days ago

11 June 2009 (F) - Hi guys I've been with my boyfriend for a couple of weeks. Im 21 and he's 28. We live 30miles from each other. We've known each other for years and after breaking up from my horrible ex, we've made a go of things. He is amazing....when ...

When did you start dating / when were you allowed to start dating?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5413 days ago

11 June 2009 (F) - Heyy! I was just wondering, what age did you start dating/were allowed to date?? Because I have had a crush on the same boy (we are both 15) for a few years now, but my mum said that even sixth formers (16-18yrs)only have a boy/girlfriend for a 'f...

If I'm so great then why don't I have a boyfriend?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5439 days ago

11 June 2009 (F) - hey i am 14 i have never had a boyfriend never been kissed i know i must sound like a proppa geek But i dont get it i get loads of attention from boys when i walk down the streets or when i am out with a group of freinds they shout somthing l...

What approach should we use in talking to our daughter about dating/sex?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5439 days ago

11 June 2009 (M) - We need advice about our 15 yo daughter, sex, and questions she's asking us. Our daughter is 15 1/2 and we told her she could start dating this summer as long as her grades her good. She is a really good kid, and always has almost all 'A's and maybe ...

Has she been leading me on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5439 days ago

11 June 2009 (M) - Hello. Just a quick question. After months of e-mails and Instant Messaging but little face to face interaction at work (at her request - in case people should 'talk' about them - but there was a very flirtatious meeting in the library!) she finally ...

Am I in the wrong?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5439 days ago

11 June 2009 (F) - Can anyone give me any ideas or tips? My eyes have been on a guy for severl months now. The one night back at the club everytime he got out of his seat he would move it closer to me when he would sit back down. By the end of the night his whole ...

Clueless at relationships

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5437 days ago

11 June 2009 (F) - Back Again: This is the low down: For a 6 months now I have been attracted to a female coworker (I am Female) She is married and I am single. We have shared alot of intense looks and she always does thing to get me to look at her like puts her...

Will I know that he's taken our relationship to the next level if he doesn't tell me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5439 days ago

11 June 2009 (F) - Okay, so for the last year i have been in a causal relationship with a guy that is divorced, his wife left him 3 years ago.... It has not been a easy relationship as is hard for him to trust another female. I have been doing some research on how to ...

Why did she pause and get nervous just telling me her name?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5439 days ago

11 June 2009 (M) - am 20 years of age and cute too. there is this girl of abt 17 who was just sitting in front of me during our class examinations and for the 1st time am seeing her.i just opened up a chat just asking some questions about herself and where she comes ...

Why is he still lying to me about the contact he has with his ex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5439 days ago

11 June 2009 (F) - Why my man is still lying to me about having any contact with his ex? When I was living in the project a sexy man was living in front off me with his woman, but he always use to be watching me like he like to see me. He started calling me and w...

I thought he liked me, was I too naive?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5439 days ago

11 June 2009 (F) - I met this guy at a party. We got drunk and made out. Next he asked me for a movie and since then we have been seeing each other on and off and chatting over IM. We never got intimate again though he asked me to spend a night at his place once (his ...

I don't know if I just want some attention or a relationship

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5439 days ago

11 June 2009 (F) - Okay so my boyfriend and I broke up 2 weeks ago. We both cheated on each other, so it was pretty obvious the relationship was pointless as we were both into other people. The guy i cheated with is a good friend of mine and i have really strong ...

Why is he always asking for sex now?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5439 days ago

11 June 2009 (F) - Ok about 2 months ago I meet this really sweet guy. We started seeing each other, and he would text me everyday and we were hanging out nearly every second day. This went on for about 2 weeks. Then he started only texting me every second day, and I ...

I'm 17 and a virgin. Is it true older women are attracted to young men?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5439 days ago

11 June 2009 (M) - I'm 17 and a virgin.I'm looking to lose my virginity and heard that MILFs are very suitable for and attracted to the average young man.Is this true? I am overweight and not very socially experienced with women and quite anxious hence my virgini...

Will she ever like me or will I always be in the friend zone?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5439 days ago

11 June 2009 (M) - ok so i was talking to this girl who just broke up to her boyfriend and we became good friends. i started to like her but i didn't know if she liked me. her and i would talk on the phone for hours! we would go to the movies and i would always pay ...

He wooed me but now he seems to be distancing himself

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5439 days ago

11 June 2009 (F) - Dear readers, I'm a 36 year old female in a 2 year relationship with a 40 year old male. The only reason we are together is because he persued me and I eventually fell hook line and sinker for him! The first year I was showered in flattering texts ...

How long to move past the initial dating stage?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5439 days ago

11 June 2009 (M) - This is a question primarily for those in their late 20's and older. How many dates/how long does it take for things to move past the initial dating stage to something more? ...

I just can't trust my boyfriend

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5439 days ago

11 June 2009 (F) - ok me and my boyfriend have been together for 14 months and we've always had trust problems that's led us to breaking up twice, and he's getting really mad saying that i really can't trust him,and i don't know why i still can't stop worrying, just ...

Should I pursue a relationship with an older man?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5439 days ago

11 June 2009 (F) - Hi i'm 21 years old and a 43 year old man is interested in me. I like him because he is the opposite of me. We have nothing in common duh!. We have already kissed and It was nice. I am not naive to the fact that it is just about sex but should I ...

My childhood love is now married, help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5431 days ago

11 June 2009 (F) - Im 20 yrs old and im dating my best friend for ever. We have been friends for 10 years already when we were younger he asked me if i wanted to be his girlfriend i said no because i was way too crazy for him and i knew i would hurt him. i left for ...

Parents don't approve. How can I make them like my friends?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5440 days ago

11 June 2009 (F) - Hey there! my friend and i have been hanging out with some friends of ours who live 20 min away and im 16 and she is 14, and well the oldest guy there is 18 and he is the driver, and then the rest is 15,17,14,and 15. and there is on...

We're both shy...now what do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5440 days ago

11 June 2009 (F) - at school there is this guy i like and hes really really quiet. And maybe a couple of days ago i requested him on myspace lol n i sent him a message saying we should hang out sometime so he just read it n denied me so i figured rejected ...

He isn't ready to be with me but I like him so much!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5440 days ago

11 June 2009 (F) - well.....i have a crush on Miguel n I told him that i liked him and he didnt say anything to me...k so the next day he starts sending me text messages n i respond I started talking about pop and then he said that its bad for you n i told him yeah i ...

I like a guy my best friend used to date

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5439 days ago

11 June 2009 (F) - well i like this guy and he likes me but we can't be together cause he was recently with my best friend and when they broke he started to say bad things about her so she doesn't like him.she knows he likes me but she doesn't know i like him i really ...

I told her she could kiss other guys, and she did..is it cheating?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5168 days ago

11 June 2009 (M) - I went on a 4 month trip to Europe without my girlfriend of 5 years. Before I left we decided to stay together, but during the trip we spoke on the phone and I told her that I didn't care if she kissed somebody as long as it was just a kiss. I ...

On and off several times, but he has my heart

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5440 days ago

11 June 2009 (F) - So I was dating this guy off and on for about three years now. Lets start from the beginning.... Me and him at first weren't really connecting so we broke up. But when we got back together after a few times of trying, we started to have a ...

Scared to go too far into relationships

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5439 days ago

11 June 2009 (F) - ok so i was raped wen i was 6 and now i keep jumping from guy to guy before we do anything at all ive not even done oral now ive got together with my mate n weve been going out for about a year now and he wants to take it further but i cant seem to ...

Could he have become too attached too quickly?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5439 days ago

11 June 2009 (F) - I am wondering if you think that my bf has gotten too attached to me too quickly? We have been going out for 3 weeks and we talk every day and see each other about every 2nd day. Hes written me a poem, and says he doesnt think he could live witho...

I think she should move on, what do you think?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5440 days ago

11 June 2009 (M) - My sister in law has been divorced from her disfunctial ex- husband for 8 years. She has been dating a Doctor who takes care of his daughter after his ex wife had to be put into alcohol rehab hospital for years. His life revolves arround his ...