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Mom at 12! Pregnant again at 13!

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 5301 days ago

15 June 2009 (F) - ok so i was 12 when i got pregnant with my first set of twins and now im 13 and my boyfriend the father of my last set of twins got me pregnant again and its twins again they will only be 11 months apart and im only 13. What am i supposed to do? I ...

I feel like I can't move on with my life. What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5436 days ago

15 June 2009 (F) - Last year, I got my first proper boyfriend. I'd just turned 16 and i lost my virginity to him. I broke up with him in november 2008 after 10 months, because he treated me so bad and the things he did to me/said to me and put me through were ...

I'm scared he'll dump me when he goes off to college.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5436 days ago

15 June 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating for over 6 months but he is going away to college at the end of summer and I'm scared that he'll dump me. Has anyone been through this before? Are there any signs that maybe he won't??...

What can I do to make our happiness come to life?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5436 days ago

15 June 2009 (M) - ok my girlfriend tells me I'm controlling but i cant help but do what i do i love her so much and im afraid that what i am doin is driving her away from me i just ask to know what she is doing before she does it not during n that she dont be ...

Please help, I feel so depressed and cry all the time. I feel my life is passing me by.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5436 days ago

15 June 2009 (F) - ok first age is wrong im 16... took over my sister's acount and dont know how to change the age! I have been on a roller coaster sense starting high school. I have had friend problems guy problems and of course more. Last december I got to the poi...

Can we make this work? What should we do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5436 days ago

15 June 2009 (F) - My boyfreind and i have known each other for about 8 years. He has always been crazy about me, but i have been married for the past 5 years. I'm now divorced and we are dating. I'm so crazy about him and he feels the same but we have one problem. He ...

I'm still letting this girl get to me... help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5436 days ago

15 June 2009 (F) - I'm feeling so sad and confused that I'm starting to make myself sick. Me and my boyfriend had a pretty big fight yesterday, but it eventually just turned into us having a conversation about our relationship and everything. It was good, we both got ...

I canceled the wedding because I don't want to be tied down. Should I leave him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5436 days ago

15 June 2009 (F) - Ok, so I have been with my fiance for 3 years now and everything has been wonderful. Just this past weekend I have cancelled our wedding which was to happen in 3months from now. He is 7 years older then I am and lately I have been feeling distant ...

He spends days working with her and didn't tell me! Should I be worried?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5435 days ago

15 June 2009 (F) - hello, me and my boyfriend have been together for four years, he started up in his own business a year ago, and since then he has had very little time for me, which i must admit was expected and for some time to come as i understand how busy he ...

23 and a virgin. Boyfriend doesn't want to be the one I lose it too!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5436 days ago

15 June 2009 (F) - I'm 23 and still a virgin. It's not that I wanted to wait till marriage; I just wanted to wait for the right person and the right loving situation. I've been going out with this guy for over a month now, who was my friend for 3 years first, and ...

She wants space, is this just a nice way of saying goodbye?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5436 days ago

15 June 2009 (M) - I wanted to find out what to do as I have been dating a seperated woman for about 1 year and 8 months. She had been seperated for about a year and a half when I met her and she had only been out on 2-3 dates before me. Right away we hit it off and I ...

How do I deal with my anxiety?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5436 days ago

15 June 2009 (M) - I have a problem of experiencing anxiety when I don't hear from my girlfriend. She will tell me she will call and when she doesn't I start thinking about all kinds of things that just isn't true. It always turns out to be no big deal at all, it's ...

What does a leather bracelet/fabric bracelet mean these days anyways.... anything?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5436 days ago

15 June 2009 (M) - so, im gonna see this chick, and noticed she is wearing a leather ''friendship'' bracelet ... i am a bit older than she is, (its a surfer style thing, and im a surfer, but just not for years and years) -- so the only place i can ask this, without ...

Tips for getting over my first crush!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5436 days ago

15 June 2009 (F) - Dear cupid, I've had a crush/been in love with this guy for three years now. He is a nice guy - confident, funny, easy to talk to (goodlooking too!) - but I don't think that us being together would work. I just want to be friends with him now. I ...

Girlfriend of a year wants a break

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5387 days ago

15 June 2009 (M) - So me and my giirlfriend were together for about a year. About three weeks before school let out, we got into a small fight that was used to tell me that she wanted a break for the summer. She said it was for the best for both of us and that she ...

Attracted to older men!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5436 days ago

15 June 2009 (F) - So I am 17 and my issue is that I am not into high school boys, I have never been with an older man but I am more attracted to the idea of being with someone older! Most men that i am attracted to are between the age of 25 and 27. Does that make me ...

How do I stay calm and put my insecurity aside?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5435 days ago

15 June 2009 (F) - I have been seeing a wonderful guy for around two months now. He's kind, warm, generous and so much fun to be around. However, he is still really close to his ex-girlfriend of 5 years. On a rational level, I trust him completely and actually ...

Is this woman worth it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5436 days ago

15 June 2009 (M) - Hello, I'm a single man and recently i've been hooking up with my ex (who has a boyfriend) when we are both drunk. She isnt happy with her boyfriend, this is underpinned by the fact they haven't been intimate in any way for over a year now. I really ...

Myster gift of flowers..are they from my date?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5436 days ago

15 June 2009 (F) - Hi, im a seventeen year old girl and i have only ever had one boyfriend. we were together 11 months but then split for the best. ive been single now for 9 months, recently ive been speakin to this guy, ive known him about 3 years now, we speak every ...

My bf left me after 11 years but he still texts me...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5436 days ago

15 June 2009 (F) - my boyfriend left me for another women he moved straight in with her, after our 11 happy years togther. he never stopped texting me he used to end me a text once a week and since the 20th may i had about 25 texts some saying how was your weekend, ...

Why do you think he wants to buy me this expensive gift after only being together for two weeks?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5436 days ago

15 June 2009 (F) - Me and my bf have been together for 2 weeks. Im 20 years old and he is 25. The other day he offered to buy me a really expensive gift- which is about AUS$4000!! That is alot for any gift, even if we had been dating logner, I would still think that ...

I like him alot but he keeps standing me up!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5384 days ago

15 June 2009 (F) - okay i met this guy in january at a basketball game i was cheering for,i had a bf then, but my relationship with my bf ended after my bday. my crush... he has the most amazing big lips any who he is so perfect for me.. hes mexican... i hav...

I keep cheating on my bf with this one guy, why?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5436 days ago

15 June 2009 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for nearly 2 years now. We have a great relationship, we both treat each other very well. Except I sometimes cheat on him with one guy. I don't know why. This other guy doesn't treat me nearly as well as my boyfriend, ...

What Now? What Next? Where To?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5436 days ago

15 June 2009 (F) - What Now? What Next? Where To? I've been dating the same guy for over four years now. The problem is I know he is cheating on me with other women. I found about one of these woman about two years ago when I thought I was pregnant and he was nowhe...

Just broke up with g/f and attracted to another boy

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5436 days ago

15 June 2009 (M) - hey,i just broke up with my girl a few months ago after i caught her cheating,i got tired of girls and i dont know why all of a sudden i was attracted to my friends new neighbour,jake,that other night when my friend was having a party.A few weeks ...

How do you know if she's lying or really likes you?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5437 days ago

15 June 2009 (M) - how do you know if a girl really like you for who you are, and how could you tell that's she's lying?...

Self esteem issue--I don't understand why he likes me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5437 days ago

15 June 2009 (F) - My ex boyfriend recently came back to me. Our break up was mutual - it was not like he cheated on me or something like that, we were just sick of arguing a lot. Well, before we got back together, there was some "competition" - one of his exes ...

Mother & brother won't let me date this guy!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5436 days ago

15 June 2009 (F) - MOD NOTE: Poster is 13... Okay, this may seam as a typical relatoinship problem but for me it is much more. SO my older brother has a friend that is my age. we have been talking to each other over the phone and online. we are NOT DATING but we b...

Does he just want me for his fantasy?

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15 June 2009 (F) - This guy who is in first year nursing like me as well in nursing asked me out to dinner for vday. Dinner went great we watched movies and thats it. After a couple days of not talking I asked him what was up and he said that im a great girl and we ...

Do you think he is playing hard to get or did I just really screw it up?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5436 days ago

15 June 2009 (F) - so this guy i know has always tried to get a hold of me. we go to different schools. and for the past year it just never really happened...us getting to hang out. but then last week he started texting me again..asking me to hang out. but i never ...

He will not end it but he will not talk about it either! It's very frustrating!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5436 days ago

15 June 2009 (F) - Am I being too hard on my boyfriend. I have known him for 26 years. We have not been together that long but we both had a relationship before we had kids for other people. We got together in 2000 again as if it was unfinished business and now have ...

Do I like this guy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5437 days ago

15 June 2009 (F) - Do i like this guy? I have no idea if u have mixed feelings for a guy do u like himm can u still like him?? Theres this guy in my class and we have been friends since grade 3 and my best friend told me a couple of days ago that he thinks im pretty i...

I'm torn between two lovers....

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5437 days ago

15 June 2009 (F) - I really need help. Ive been with my bf for a year and abit. I cheated on him with my best mate from work .I have come to realise that it was a big mistake. I told my mate that i think we should just be friends and nothing more. He has said he ...

I need help and I need help fast! Should I continue my relationship or not? I really want to though...

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15 June 2009 (M) - Ok here it is I'm 17 and I have been dating this girl for about 3 months. At the beginning she was dating this other guy who beat her and actually raped her. She didn't file charges on him because she feels sorry for him I told her she should have ...

Does he have any interest in dating me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5437 days ago

15 June 2009 (F) - Does he have ANY interest in dating me or does he only see me as a good friend? [Mod note: user age is incorrectly logged.] He asked me to be his date to an event out of all girls, and seemed pretty excited about it, it went great. After the...

I would love to find a meaningful relationship but it's just not happening...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5425 days ago

15 June 2009 (M) - I guess this is a long one so where to start. I'm 21, I'm Gay, I came out when I was 17 years old and had a fantastic response from everyone I know. As a person I'm not effeminate in anyway, most new people that meet me are shocked to find out that ...

What do I do about him as I don't trust him but we have a child together.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5437 days ago

15 June 2009 (F) - HELP! OK so me and my boyfriend have been together for 2 and a half years and we have a baby I'm 16 years old 17 soon he is almost 20. we had some problems he tryed to ask another girl out. he kissed her and was at her school trying to find her...