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Dating: Help and advice

How do I keep a relationship going in order for it to become a success?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5446 days ago

4 June 2009 (M) - My problem is getting girls and keeping them, but i am 43 years old and was once engaged but that was nineteen years ago. my mother died in 90 and 3 months later my fiance finished with me, i went off the rails for a few years but just as things ...

I want us to be happy without all this arguing...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5445 days ago

4 June 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together going on 5 years. We have a 2 year old son. We got together when i was 16. I love him very much and i know he loves me. The problem is that we argue a whole lot. It could be the smallest thing and get turned ...

Doesn't his plan make me look like his bitch???

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5438 days ago

4 June 2009 (F) - Okay well I've been with my boyfriend for 3 months and we got onto the subject of sex. We are both virgins and I'm his first girlfriend. so anyways its hard to really explain everything but um well he couldn't understand my reasons for waiting and ...

I'm afraid to kiss him in case he freaks out! Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5446 days ago

4 June 2009 (F) - Okay I've been dating this guy for 6 months and we still havn't kissed yet! I want to kiss him but he freaks out. I want to give him a surprise kiss on the lips but I'm afraid that when I get close or go to kiss him he'll freak out and make me look ...

A breach of date protocol?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5446 days ago

4 June 2009 (F) - My boyfriend of four years just asked if I was "interested" in going to a formal party his fraternity is throwing. I said sure, sounds fun. He then proceeds to tell me that tickets are $47. I'd been under the impression that when you ask somebody to ...

In love with my boyfriend's best friend...

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4 June 2009 (F) - What do i do if i´m in love with my boyfriend's best friend? i have a biggg problem! i fell in love with my "boyfrieds" best friend. The thing is soo complicated, first of all he is not really my boyfriend, he is like my forever free but we are ...

Confused on what to do with my girlfriend of 4 months

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5439 days ago

4 June 2009 (M) - I've been my girlfriend for the past 4 months now and at the moment it seems like she's letting me down 24/7. she's my first love, I love her to bits and i really want things to change but the thing is, i see her about 2-3 hours a week even though ...

My best friend's brother took my virginity AGAINST my will and now I feel so alone and don't know how to handle this...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5432 days ago

4 June 2009 (F) - I really dont know what to do. in march, i went to a party.. everyone got drunk but it was a great night! my best friend's brother is 22 and he is about 6 foot 2 weighs about 18 stone and has muscles bigger than my head. he told me a while ago that ...

She says I'm not committed enough. Is this the case or is she too full on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5446 days ago

4 June 2009 (M) - I'm mid 20's - I've been with my girl for 7 months and she is my first girlfriend. She however has been in relationships non-stop since she was 16. Things are more serious it seems from her side (i din't see this at first but am realising it) as she ...

Why am I so scared?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5446 days ago

4 June 2009 (F) - hey I'm 15 years old and I don't what to do. I really want to be in a relationship and have a boyfriend, but the thing is I'm too scared. I don't no why I am so scared, when I talk to boys I start shaking and go all shy. My last relationship I w...

Is my family's attitued rubbing off on me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5446 days ago

4 June 2009 (F) - Hey guys I've been going out with a 36 year old guy for about 6 months now (I'm 21) and everything's great. Age difference hasn't been an issue, and whilst our relationship isn't typical as he's at sea quite a lot, we email and it's great even ...

Did she mean what she said or is she trying to protect herself?

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4 June 2009 (M) - hi dear people, i really need your help : i am on relationship with someone i really love to death,she's cheated on me once and i fogave her,now she seems she's in love and i really love her a lot,we have become great friends but the doupt ke...

Familiarity breeds contempt?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5445 days ago

4 June 2009 (F) - i would really love a little advice, thankyou. so, i have been friends with this guy for about 8/9 months, having met him when he joined my school. we got on well really quickly, we talk a lot, always have fun, are relaxed around eachother, etc. ...

Dating for a year, need ideas for a gift for him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5446 days ago

4 June 2009 (F) - me and my boyfriend been going out a year in june and hes ciming down to see me i dont know what to get him any ideas?...

Would texting a woman be classified as cheating?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5446 days ago

4 June 2009 (F) - My fiance has treated me like crap for 4 months RUDE!!! I caught him texting a girl from work now that he's caught, he's being really nice and things are back to normal, I don't know what to think. In my book Texting another female and hiding it is ...

We split up, she found a rebound guy who hurt her badly, she still cares about him, do I have a chance here or should I just wait it out?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5446 days ago

4 June 2009 (M) - My girlfriend and I dated 18 months, I was and still am madly in love with her. A few months ago we broke up over some situations in our lives and fights that resulted from them. She was emotionally weak and she ended up going for a rebound. ...

Confused, she aborted her roomate's baby, says she cares about me, what am I to believe/

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5446 days ago

4 June 2009 (M) - Ill try and keep this brief, but this is a complex situation, which is why i am asking for outside help(not friends and family who have their own agendas) Met this girl through a mutual friend 6 weeks ago and we have had some of the most romanti...

After 11 years together, he got drunk and cheated, can this be fixed?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5446 days ago

4 June 2009 (F) - Dear Cupid.. I've been with my fiance for 11 years. 3 of those years we have been engaged. We pretty much grew together. We met when I was 18 and he was 23. I'm now 30..Anyway, Saturday night he walked down to the local bar, something he will usu...

Should I risk losing her, by telling her of my one night stand?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5446 days ago

4 June 2009 (M) - Hi I've been with this girl for a little over a year and I think I've fallen in love with her. We talk about our future, gettigng married one dy and have our own family. In the last month and a half or so I've noticed she's become a little distant...

I've fallen for my best friend after rejecting him, how do I correct this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5446 days ago

4 June 2009 (F) - I think I'm falling in love with my best friend, and I believe I may have messed up whatever chance I had with him. The thing is we've been friends for a really long time, since high school. It was couple of years ago when he confessed that h...

Too shy to kiss him!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5446 days ago

4 June 2009 (F) - Eugh ok so i am 20 years old and i've never been kissed not that i've not had chances too i have! but i just can't bring myself to do it, in some ways i want too but others i don't, i want to so i will stop feeling like a loser! and perhaps gain more...

Racist family don't want us to be together!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5446 days ago

4 June 2009 (F) - i have recently got together with a guy i really like but there has been problems, he is a football player so he spends most of his time at training, or out with mates i just dont seem to see him as much as i would like to,and people make it harder ...

Dumped for someone else by my work fling!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5446 days ago

4 June 2009 (F) - Ive been sleeping with a guy at work but weve never had a relationship because he said he didnt want to commit. I didnt mind I just thought it was a bit of fun at the time nothing serious. Then last month I went on holiday for a week and when I come ...

My boyfriend doesn't seem to find me attractive.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5445 days ago

4 June 2009 (F) - Hello all, Im 18 years old and me and my boyfriend have been together for two years. The problem im having is my boyfriends making me feel really insecure. When i turned around 13, i dont know what happend, i seemed to go from plain to pretty ...

Dating after divorce. Was it too early for me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5447 days ago

4 June 2009 (F) - I am a 30 year old recent divorcee and I started seeing this guy only 2 weeks after I left my husband. I met him while I was still married and we hit it off very well. I wasn't happy at the time, and it opened my eyes on my own situation. It took ...

He was a multiple cheater, we broke up, I insulted him, but feel I could forgive him, why?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5445 days ago

4 June 2009 (F) - Why am I still finding it hard to forgive myself and still blaming myself for the failed relationship since 2months with my boyfriend? A summary of what led it, was he had cheated before, but we settled it and lack of time and the way he treated m...

Is it legal for a 17/12 relationship without sex in Canada, I want to date her, but worried about legal aspects?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5445 days ago

4 June 2009 (M) - I'm 17 years old and have found out that too much of a good thing can be bad. I had a 27 year old GF that had a crazy apatite for sex.She would engage me sexually every time we met(always at her place) and we would have a lot of rough,hard sex f...

Friends, he wants more, after dating many girls, but says he has changed, believe him or not?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5313 days ago

4 June 2009 (F) - I recently just met a guy online. We went out a week ago and have been meeting up almost everyday. He knows I'm in the phase of getting over another guy, so I made it clear that we're hanging out as friends and stuff like that. After the firs...

He does not acknowledge the existence of his ex-girlfriend, any cause for concern?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5442 days ago

4 June 2009 (F) - Should I be concerned if my boyfriend is bitter about his ex-girlfriend? He won't acknowledge her existence. ...

We argue all the time, he makes me cry, how do we make it better?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5447 days ago

4 June 2009 (F) - dear cupid: i have a problem, i want my relationship to work. i dont know what else to do' i hate arguing and it seems like we are always arguing about the littlest and stupidest things, and he makes me cry each time. i just dont know what to ...

Could I maybe pursue him next year when she's gone?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5447 days ago

4 June 2009 (F) - Okay, this is the most teenager girl-ish question ever, but here goes: There's this guy I really really like. He's the funniest person I know and I love talking to him. Whenever I'm with him, I'm happy...he's sort of like the bright spot of my day. ...

Relationship crisis--together but hanging by a string!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5446 days ago

4 June 2009 (M) - My girlfriend for the past three years doesn't trust me because of a situation I was in pervously during our relationship. The situation is a minor one I think she's just insecure but she can't trust me now, in addition she can't seem to come to ...

Any sure-fire way of knowing he likes you?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5447 days ago

4 June 2009 (F) - is there any sure fire way to tell if a guy likes you… *really* likes you, or is just being nice?? there is this one guy, i’ve only know him for a few weeks, but lately anytime i see him i catch him looking at me across the room, or when i show...