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writes:my boyfriends parents are prolly gonna split up and he doesnt want them to. he has no clue why they will and they have been married for about 19 years and they are a great family! i mean yeah they have their ups and downs, but all families do!i mean my dad almost left my step-mom, but it never happened!! his family is like my second family and i love them all! his parents and his brother have always been nicee to me and he has treated me like the lukiest girl in the world! his family is so nice and they are so funny and a loving family! every year they go to florida and they all come back happy!nowi have lived by this family for 4 1/2 years and me and him have been best friends since! now i wanna help him but i dont know how! plz tell me how to help him!
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 June 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthank you very much, but i really couldnt do anything with my dad and step mom because, my dad sent me to my room because he didnt want me to get involved.
but again thank you for your help, altough i will still try and be there for him every step of the way, but i will also listen to your advice.
i dont know how mant times i can thank you so heres all the thank you's, thanks, thanks, thanks, thanks, thanks, thanks, thanks, thanks, and THAMK YOU!
love,
Jblver21221
P.S. his dad made up his mind!
HES LEAVING HIS FAMILY!!!
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reader, mimisoph3 +, writes (10 June 2009):
 There's nothing you can do for the parents, its their choice if they want to break up or not. It's actually their decision. Maybe their personalities and lives have changed because people do change. All you gotta do is respect the parents decisions and for your boyfriend, just comfort him and sometimes give him space because he might feel like you're too much for him and try to make him feel better, get his mind off his parents, I'm sure he's having pressure so go out somewhere a full day, somewhere fun and just enjoy it like a roller coaster ride or something where he wont be able to think about them because he's thinking about the fun. Remember, comfort is all a person needs at these times.Think back what you did to erase the pain with your parents. Good luck
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