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My girlfriend's choice of clothing is too revealing, we argue, any suggestions how to deal with it?

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Question - (10 June 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 10 June 2009)
A male Germany age 30-35, *va-Genesis writes:

I've been dating a girl for some time now, and she's been putting on some clothing i don't like her to wear because it is a bit revealing.

I tried talking to her about it, but we just ended up arguing, and she said that it was what she liked and I am no one to tell her what to wear.

I understand i can't control her, but I wouldn't want her wearing that kind of cloths either. Can anyone suggest me something?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (10 June 2009):

If it's just a bit revealing, then there shouldn't be an issue

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A female reader, Emilysanswers United Kingdom +, writes (10 June 2009):

To be honest, it's her body and her choice.

How did you manage to get close enough to her to get engaged without realising what kind of clothes she wears?

Talk to her calmly and tell her you don't like it but you know it has nothing to do with you.

It sounds like you have a real problem communicating your feelings with this girl. You need to get that fixed if you are going to marry her.

Good Luck!! xx

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