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36-40,
anonymous
writes:ok i have this problm ive been with this guy for almost five years and i had alot of problms with him lying to me and using drugs hes trying to change well in the mean time im talkin to another guy threw letters who is in jail he seems like a nice guy and we seem to have a lot in common but then he listed one of his goals as suduceing me i dont feel like thats cool you schould be in a relationship before you go there what should i do i told my 5yr guy about the other he said i need to make a choice right now!!! plz help
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reader, x.Helen.x  +, writes (10 June 2009):
 ok well your relationship with this guy you've been with for five years may not have been perfect but try to think if you really want to lose hiim. can you imagine yourself being happy without him? can you imagine not being with him everyday? can you imagine him no longer being a part of your life? i hope these questions help you a bit. do you really want to leave your boyfriend for this guy in jail? could it be that you've just really clicked with him and are confusing feelings of friendship (as you have so much in common) with feelings of romance? and to be honest think logically because when you finally see this guy thats in jail, you may have no chemistry. talking through letters and talking face to face can be completely different. when you meet him you may not like him as much as you thought and regret leaving your boyfriend.so basically what im saying is that leaving your boyfriend is a big risk and are you really sure you want to take that risk? Perhaps you can work on the relationship you have and focus on making it better. i wish i could help you more but its your decision. theres no right or wrong choice just follow your heart and do what your gut instinct is telling you to. i really hope it all works out for you. good luck.x
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