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*yegg
writes:my gf of over a year has a "friend" that gets out of jail soon. she says they are just friends, however they have slept together. she said that was a mistake and they are just friends. she didn't know him that long before he got locked up. she has been writing him 1-2 times a month without telling me. when i bring it up she gets defensive. my question is, does she have feelings for him? how do i get over this jealousy? how do i get over her being dishonest with me? is this the end of our relationship?
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reader, Smellyellie  +, writes (10 June 2009):
 The fact is she is still your girlfriend. I'm sure if she really liked this man then she would of left you along time ago.
Seriously some men act as if women can't have male friends. Ok they may have had sex but this is in the past and if she regretted it then you should be able to except this.
You feeling jealous is part of love I'm afraid and there will be nothing that will stop this!!
Too be honest her writting to this bloke is probably her way of trying to do a good deed. Has he got anyone when he comes outside of prison??? If not then she may just being a support network for him.
Her being closed about the subject may be that he has told her stuff in confidence and although you are in a relationship she has promised not to tell you...
By all means this relationship should go on ad usual unless you feel she is being unfafithful... Hope this helps!!
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