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Archived questions from: 19 June, 2009 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

I have feelings for this older boy...would it work or not?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5432 days ago

19 June 2009 (F) - I think i have feelings for this older boy but he has a girlfriend which he says he doesn't like her because she stalks him and he feels more comfortable around me but lately when i try to call him he doesn't answer and i feel so hurt. i really ...

Took drugs and sleeping pills , was very abusive to her, not the first time, can I save this relationship?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5430 days ago

19 June 2009 (M) - Hey, I'm wondering if you guys could help me out with something. I met this girl about a year ago. We started out as fwbs, but I decided I liked her more than that, like I thought I could fall in love with her, so we became a couple, but then she ...

Does my ex questioning me, mean he still likes me or what?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5432 days ago

19 June 2009 (F) - okay so me and my ex talk, hes with my ex best friend! but i still love him. so about 15 minutes ago i called him becasue when he called i was in the shower. so his cousin was there and he told my ex to describe me and my ex said shes white and s...

I am white , my boyfriend is black, my family doesn't like it,, how do I change their attitude?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5429 days ago

19 June 2009 (F) - i am confused i have a black boyfriend and i am white and my whole family dont like it and his family dont really care i dont know what to do ive been with him for almost 6 months. what can i do to make my family understand skin color dont matter?...

If he has a girlfriend, I don't want to be used, how or do I try to find out for sure?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5432 days ago

19 June 2009 (F) - Hi, I really need some advice on trying to figure this guy at work out. It's a bit of a long story but I would appreciate your views/comments. Thank you. Well me and this guy have worked in the same building for about two years but not in...

We have constantly had unprotected sex, could I be pregnant?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5432 days ago

19 June 2009 (F) - me and my boyfriend we been dating for awhile and we hardly use protection. we been having unprotected sex for 3 months but he neva cum inside me and we both know that we clear of STDs. i had my last period 28th may and its been atleast 3weeks and ...

I have anxiety problems, past relationship problems, it's hurting my current love, what can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5432 days ago

19 June 2009 (F) - hi all. I need some serious help. My bf is having a hard time dealing with me because I become needy at times. I've had some hard relationships, and I tried to explain this to him, that I become needy due to all the problems in my past. Inside I ...

We decided to have a little space, but keep in touch, he seems to be drifting away, what shoud I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5430 days ago

19 June 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating for a year now. The past 8 months we've spent working together on a cruise ship so it's been pretty full-on. We agreed to a 2-3week break before I would fly out to see him (he lives in another country about 3 ...

I am so in love with her, all I want to do is see her, how can I get over this obsession?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5431 days ago

19 June 2009 (F) - if any one out there can help me i be well happy about this I am worryed about loseing my self i am in love with this really nice and sweet girl but the thing is i am that in love with her all i wont to do is just see her not do any thing else not...

He's interested in a relationship, but I am reluctant, should I go with the flow?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5432 days ago

19 June 2009 (F) - Hello :) I'm hoping you can help me with this situation. A guy (who i'd known from school, but we rarely spoke) and myself have been seeing each other. We've only met up on 2 occasions, in addition to texting each other alot and chatting online....

My boyfriend mentions other girls he finds sexy, should I be concerned?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5432 days ago

19 June 2009 (F) - Hey guys, me and my boyfriend have what i believe to be a good relationship of over a year and a half. Exept for one thing.... Well, we were talking, and i cant really remember how it came about but he told me he thinks Gemma Atkinson is 'fit as ...

What's the best way for a shy guy to approach a gal at work?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5432 days ago

19 June 2009 (M) - I have a crush on a girl at work and I'm 100% certain she has a crush on me. This has been going on for ages now, I catch her staring at me in the canteen then she looks away; her department collegues also give me looks as if to say.. "what are you ...

Everything's falling apart. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5432 days ago

19 June 2009 (F) - I am getting to a really bad point in my life where i just feel like completely breaking down. I feel as though noone ever wants to listen to me, like yesterday for instance i was trying to help my boyfriend and his friend out and they just talked ...

Living together is a nightmare! I feel too young to be bogged down with all this

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5432 days ago

19 June 2009 (F) - Basically this is a rant and a rave about my boyfriend cos hes pissing me off lately. I'm 19 years old and never lived away from home until three months ago when i moved in with my boyfriend. It was a totally irrational decision and wasnt though...

I told him to take some time to reflect and mend. Was it the right thing to do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5432 days ago

19 June 2009 (F) - Ive been seeing a man for 4 months after he asked me out and we truly get on amazing. He has lots of issues with his ex (they split a year ago) and he has had a rough time since it ended as they have young children together. He admits his head is ...

Ever since we moved in with a friend, he doesn't seem to want to be around me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5432 days ago

19 June 2009 (F) - Dear Cupid I have been with my boyfriend for over a year now. When we lived together by ourselves it was amazing. He made me feel like i was the most important thing in the world to him. He told me goodbye everymorning and kissed me on my forehead, ...

Ex wants back in, but I have feelings for my girlfriend I can't ignore

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5432 days ago

19 June 2009 (M) - I had a relationship with my Ex for a total of four years, two of which we lived together after having a baby. We broke up rather angrily/violently and she even filed for child support which I now pay monthly. I tried to get us back together earlier ...

How do I leave this guy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5424 days ago

19 June 2009 (F) - I went out with this guy for like 3 months then one day I was like "hey do you have a myspace?" And he told me "ya but I'm never on so you dont need to add me." So I thought oh ok then nevermind. Well one day I was on myspace and I was soo bored so ...

Do I choose the one I love or my friends?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5410 days ago

19 June 2009 (F) - Ok sooo I am now 17 and im with a boy who's 18. I really do Belive I'm really seriously in love with this guy we've known each other for two years and we just got together. Lately he's been bringing up marriage and sex. He told me that he's going to ...

I know more happened than my friend and girlfriend are letting on. Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5432 days ago

19 June 2009 (M) - Well ok i confronted my friend and my girlfriend about a situation i posted earlier... they told me they talked on the phone but just on a friendship level.. nothing above... and they didnt even talk much... but i asked her have i ever called and ...

What does my lover mean by these words?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5422 days ago

19 June 2009 (F) - I would like some help please, I am having an affair with a married man and have been for many years. So please no "you shouldn't be doing this" comments thanks. We have a strange relationship and neither of us can say goodbye to it but it has me w...

What can I do to stop sex from becoming a power struggle?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5432 days ago

19 June 2009 (F) - I have a very pressing problem in my relationship. Up to now I've been trying to ignore it since I feel concentrating on it too much will just make it worse, and I think my boyfriend is completely denying it, but I would really appreciate some ...

I don't know whether to keep this baby or not... any advice gratefully received.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5432 days ago

19 June 2009 (F) - hiya, right ok on the 24th of april this year i had a miscarriage afterward we used condoms as a form of protection (I'm virtually married and we are very happy and have two children already). On the 6th of may we had sex but the condom broke, I ...

Does he want me back? Please help...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5432 days ago

19 June 2009 (F) - After a year of dating, my boyfriend broke up with me. I tried to get him back in the first few weeks. Then I completely backed off. Slowly I started hearing from him. maybe once a week. then twice a week. now, we talk about 5x a week. We both ...

I don't believe in love or dating. What's your opinion?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5433 days ago

19 June 2009 (M) - All my friends are dating and I get the feeling they don't want me around. But for some reason I don't beleve in love or dating or anything like that. I know it might sound pitiful but I've never dated and I don't know where to start. My problem is ...

I'm afraid that once he sees my stretchmarks he won't want me anymore

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5433 days ago

19 June 2009 (F) - My bf and i know each other for 2 yrs and been dating for 8 months.Im ready for sex but im ashamed of my body.I have stretch marks everywhere arms stomach breast and hips.I got them when my body started to develope. I feel really ashamed bcuz when ...

If I lose 30-40 pounds..will these huge breasts of mine..shrink a bit?

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19 June 2009 (F) - I'm too embarrassed to talk to anyone I know about it, but I really feel self conscious about this... my chest size has been bothering me for a long time. Big, sloppy breasts are NOT sexy... and I feel matronly and look obese. It's no fun looking ...

He's driving me nuts with his constant questions about my past work fling!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5432 days ago

19 June 2009 (F) - Dear Cupid, my boyfriend of almost two years broke up with me about a year ago. After a couple months of not talking, he decides he wants back in my life as a friend at first. So we start talking and i revealed the fact that i had "gotten ...

We broke up and I'm so lost! Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5432 days ago

19 June 2009 (M) - So about a week and a half ago my girl friend of 3 yr decided she wants space and needs time to think about what she want. she said it was a break/break up. she says she dosnt know if she still wants to be with me and she dosnt know how long it will ...

He won't leave! So how do I break it off with this abusive, jealous boyfriend?

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19 June 2009 (F) - Me and my friend has been together for ten months, and he always think I am cheating on him. He is always accusing me of something that I do not do, and he always want to be abusive, How do I break up with him, he stays with me and he will not ...

I have a crush on this actor--help me understand what he may think of me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5432 days ago

19 June 2009 (F) - I met an actor, who i have a crush on, after a show I saw him in. We are the same age. Me and my friend went for a drink with him afterwards. Some of the other cast members were in the pub too, but most of them left before he did. At one point,he ...