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Dating: Help and advice

Beast or lover?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5442 days ago

7 June 2009 (F) - Hi, guys, i need your advice. I've recently been dating a guy and im not sure of his character. He victimised a previous ex girlfriend by hacking into her mobile phone and monitored her messages. He shared intimate details of her to his friends and ...

How to break it off with my girlfriend and find a new lover?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5442 days ago

7 June 2009 (F) - okay so I'm bi sexual but i like girls a lot more better and am more sexually attracted to women. But, I have a girlfriend who doesnt really intrest me and things aren't working out. I want to find a new girl to be with and one that makes me happy ...

Why does my boyfriend not cum every time yet can keep an erection?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5441 days ago

7 June 2009 (F) - Why does my boyfriend not come every time but keep an erection? ...

I'm working with him on Friday, how should I react?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5443 days ago

7 June 2009 (F) - For the last six weeks I was seeing a guy who had a girlfriend (some of you may have read my previous questions) and now I know how much of a mistake it was but unfortunately I really liked him and kept seeing him. He told me he wanted to break up ...

Help! My boyfriend never wants to have sex with me, I've tried EVERYTHING!!!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5133 days ago

7 June 2009 (?) - Ok, I have been with my boyfriend for 3 years now, and Im having a really big problem. We never have sex and when we do, its not very good. When we got together, we had amazing sex all the time. Neither of us were virgins but neither of us was THAT ...

Too skinny to date?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5443 days ago

7 June 2009 (M) - Yeah, that's it. I'm 24 now and if you look at me, you'd think I stopped developing when I was 14. 6ft and only 135-140 lbs which apparently is a huge turn off for girls. I'm not going to say I've tried everything in order to gain weight...

He Cheated on me for months & lied about it: Do I end it?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5442 days ago

7 June 2009 (F) - My boyfriend of 2 years cheated on me and I cannot continue to be with him. Am I doing the right thing by ending it? We fell in love and lived together for several months, but he had to move for job reasons. Ever since that time, we have been lon...

Would I meet girls in bars and night clubs?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5443 days ago

7 June 2009 (M) - I am a fat, balding, bespectacled, virgin, 25 year old guy who is studying and working in a small town in the US. I do think girls sometimes give me looks, and maybe I'm not as ugly as I think myself to be. I honestly don't know. I'm too shy to...

Is he really just against LDR, or is he not into me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5443 days ago

7 June 2009 (F) - I know this is long, but I really need your help! :) A little back story: So I recently asked my "boyfriend" whether he would consider us to be dating or not. He said not really since school ends in 2 weeks and we won't see each other for 4 months...

Do I just suffer through a broken heart?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5443 days ago

7 June 2009 (F) - I met this guy about 9 months ago, and from the beginning he told me he was still in love with his ex, and hoped they would be back together someday, at that time they had been broken up for a little over a year. We decided to be friends, and ...

He wants me to move in but I won't unless it leads to marriage, help?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5443 days ago

7 June 2009 (F) - My boyfriend was married 10 years ago and got divorced. His wife had lied to him and said she wanted children but she never did. The divorce devastated him due to the lies and she also wiped him out financially. Now he has a great fear of marriage ...

Why are men pushing for a relationship when I am not ready??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5443 days ago

7 June 2009 (F) - Split up w boyfriend still love him but think he is a commitment phobic or just plain too emotional and afraid since he was hurt. I have dated other guys who I have liked and have explained that I am not ready for a realtionship yet but they just ...

I love my ex and I can't handle another break up, should I tell him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5443 days ago

7 June 2009 (F) - My ex and I broke up once and then became friends and it went back into a relationship. Stuff happened again I got jealous which was stupid but things were not resolved so then we split up again. It has now been 2 months and he wants to be friends ...

Why can't I find a girlfriend? Why do these girls just want me for sex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5443 days ago

7 June 2009 (M) - I have a dilemma...my girlfriend and I broke up about a little over a year ago. After I took awhile to heal I started dating again and have been meeting girls pretty often. Some of them I dislike and am upfront about it, others I like and try to ...

I'm giving it my all, he's "being cautious." How much time to I give him before I know it's never going to happen?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5443 days ago

7 June 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating for 6 mths, we both had past relationships in which both of us were hurt by previous partners. Neither of us are dragging the past into this relationship, though I feel that I am giving more than receiving. For ...

We like each other but my friend likes him first. What can we do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5442 days ago

7 June 2009 (F) - dear aunt, there is this guy in the hostel i use to stay who is realy nice. first i took him just as a friend and every girl the hostel were crazy about him,even my close friend said she loved him more than any thing.but i did'nt look at him that...

He doesn't show me affection, apart from sex

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5443 days ago

7 June 2009 (F) - Well... Me and my boyfriend have been going for a couple months now, well from like October... And sometimes he`s really sweet and he`s stuck with me when I`ve cheated more than a couple of times. Anyway I`ll get to my point... he never shows any ...

Falling in love AFTER the relationship ends?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5443 days ago

7 June 2009 (F) - is it possible to not be in love with someone during a relationship with them and months later once you're just friends fall in love with them? i only ask because my boyfriend and i first broke up because he said he loved me, but only as a really ...

I'm attracted to younger girls and wonder where it will go?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5443 days ago

7 June 2009 (M) - I find myself looking at younger girls from about 8 onwards in a sexual way. This disturbs me. I am 25. I know that I can't do anything. And feel that I will have the strength to avoid doing anything to a girl. But I fear that one day I might weak...

Twins in love can't chose between them!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5443 days ago

7 June 2009 (F) - my best friend and his twin brother both love me.they told me at different times when the other was't around.they both want to know if i love them .i like them both and don't know which one to choose.please help me?i'm so confused....

I don't really like him and hes calling me sweet names

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5443 days ago

7 June 2009 (F) - i dont get this guy..he asked me out in a acting and modeling class he seemed really shy about it then later that night he texted me saying are we offically together and i said idk ..cuz we never went out so i didnt wanna be together if we never ...

Will we be something in the future?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5443 days ago

7 June 2009 (F) - theres this guy in wisconsin and i'm in az so its a far away distance.this guy was intresed in me i can tell people from wisconsin said he talked about me and they said that we're both young so in the future watever happens..happens.a few months ago ...

I like him but he doesn't know I'm pregnant, what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4415 days ago

7 June 2009 (F) - Im currently 18 weeks pregnant (with my first child =))and i just became "friends" with a guy who i've had a crush on since my crushes began. I mean that seriously and although he doesn't remember the chubby me from that era, he was my first crush ...

2 year break! Should we try it again???

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7 June 2009 (F) - Well where to begin... I started dating a guy 2 years ago lasted about 6 months. He was a great guy but got a job opportunity in canada. Since we lived in florida and I was since in school it was hard to see each other. But we ended up being friends ...

For some reason guys just aren't attracted to me?!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5441 days ago

7 June 2009 (F) - hi there so I'm 16 years old and where i live kids started dating and stuff at around seventh grade. I've never kissed a guy,had a boyfriend, held hands with a guy or anything of that sort. For some reason,guys just arent attracted to me. I went to ...

Do guys clue thier frineds in if they like a girl?

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7 June 2009 (F) - There is this guy that I like and I think he likes me, but we're both shy so we don’t do anything about it. His friends are always staring at me. He has this one friend in particular that I don’t even know. He is always staring at me he looks back ...

Got food poisoning, he found me throwing up, stormed out without giving me the chance to explain ,what do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5443 days ago

7 June 2009 (F) - So I was really mad at my boyfriend (of 2 years) for something he did and I wasn't contacting him in anyway. Well I gave him a house key to my apartment (we're planning to move in together) and he randomly show up with some flowers he brought me. A ...

Should I tell him I slept with his friend or keep quiet?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5442 days ago

7 June 2009 (F) - Okay, so I posted before about wether or not to be with my current boyfriend. And I fell in love and we are/were doing great. My boyfriends best fried is also one of my good friends, we all met a long time ago (like 8 yrs). My boyfriend is suppost ...

We moved in together our sex life is nil, tired of me? What do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5444 days ago

7 June 2009 (F) - Ive been with my boyfriend for just over a year. We have recently moved in together. But a couple of months ago our sex life seems to be only every now and again and only when he wants it. When i mention it he says hes tired or he cant be bothered. ...

Told my fiancee I cheated, what can I do to help heal the relationship and regain his trust?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5443 days ago

7 June 2009 (F) - I finally did it today. I told my fiancé that I cheated. It was 1year 8 months ago. The guilt and agony was just too much. I was having anxiety attacks and nightmares. Like others have said I thought that I could keep it together and never tell. ...

I am crazy about this guy, he is not into me, don't know what to do, please help?

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7 June 2009 (F) - i written on here so many times but my problem isnt going away! i go on dates to try and find someone i really like, but i just can't get over this one guy. He is so perfect for me. but i think he thnks hes too good for me, and that he's not that...

Together for years, she's not happy, wants time to figure things out, how do I help?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5443 days ago

7 June 2009 (M) - Hi, iv been with this girl for 5 years almost, im 25 and she is 21. Recently she told me i cant communicate very good at all and that she feels distant from me. She told me she thinks we need a break and packed a bagful of cloths and left for her ...

17 and never been kissed. What do I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5438 days ago

7 June 2009 (F) - i'm 17 and have never been on a date or had a boyfriend or even had a real kiss. i feel like no guy is ever going to like me. i don't know how to talk to guys so i either don't or try to and sound awkward. i have no clue what i'm doing. i only...

Having sex with an ex and making my girlfriend feel special

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5444 days ago

7 June 2009 (F) - (Mod Note: Questions have been merged.) 1) Ok so me and my ex been wanting to have sex. We already has gone out 3 times already.We wanna go out again but we're not going to the same school, but we do like eachother.I wanna know if im doing wrong. ...

My scary dreams!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5444 days ago

7 June 2009 (F) - hi.. well im 17, ive been with my boyfriend now for 7 weeks! not long i know.. and we havent slept together. we're both virgins.. he's 20.. but recently ive started having scary dreams, ive had about 6 now. im pregnant in them and im living as if ...

No one likes me... why???

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5437 days ago

7 June 2009 (F) - Hi, im 14 and two years ago I had a bf for the first time. After 3 months I dumped him cuz I felt like I was only with him cuz I were desperate. I havent had a bf since an I feel dead lonely and depressed cuz no one likes me. Can anyone give me any ...

My boyfriend has a small pea sized spot on his scrotum. What could it be?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5444 days ago

7 June 2009 (F) - Hi = My boyfriend, who's 18 has recently noticed a small, visible, slighty hard (like a pea but smaller),red and pus filled spot on the actual scrotum itself. He says that it isn't sore but he's worried about what it could be, and is scared that it ...

How can I convince my boyfriend I'm not violent or rude now we have broken up?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5444 days ago

7 June 2009 (F) - My boyfriend has cheated and frustrated me so much but I tolerated a lot of things and I loved him so much until one day he missed four appointments we had, I blew up and started texting insults to him like using the f word, cursing him out, saying ...