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Dating: Help and advice

I don't think he's being fair to his heavily pregnant girlfriend... what do you think?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5378 days ago

11 August 2009 (F) - Hey, I've got a boyfriend who I've been with for 5 months but about 3 months ago i got friends with a guy on the net, we hit off right away, swapped numbers and i got a crush on him. Me and my boyfriend are really open so i told him and he was ...

Commitment issues?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5379 days ago

11 August 2009 (F) - I've been dating this guy only about 4 months now. We've only known each other for about 7 months. One week after we started dating he asked me to move in with him. I was reluctant to say yes but my lease expired in a couple of weeks and I was ...

Is he just using me as a rebound?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5378 days ago

11 August 2009 (F) - Ok...i was seeing this guy but we broke up because he wanted to get back with his ex. So he stopped all contact with me in case i ever said anything. He told me a few days ago that they broke up but then they got back together and he says he will ...

Am I the token boyfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5378 days ago

11 August 2009 (M) - I've been going out with this girl I love deeply for quite a while now, I love her more than anything. the thing is that I just never feel like I'm part of her life, she's an incredible and amazing person but sometimes I can't help feeling tha...

He wants us to live together but NEVER to marry!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5208 days ago

11 August 2009 (F) - I need advice so badly! I am 41 an he is 50. We have been dating 2 years and we both have had 2 divorces each and we both have kids. I have been divorced 6 years and he has been divoced 8 years. We get along great, we love each other we spend all ...

Anxiety is ruining my relationship. Please help me.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5379 days ago

11 August 2009 (F) - Hello I would like an outside point of view for my problem, I live in USA, I am inmigrant, from third world country, I came to this country after has suffer a lot of missery in my country of origin, my first years here were awfull because I didn't ...

Help.. I can't stop thinking about my boyfriend's buddy..

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5378 days ago

11 August 2009 (F) - Hi, I hope you can help me and not think of me as a horrible person for what I'm about to say because I'm trying to deal with it... :/ I've been with my boyfriend for 9 months now. He's lovely, adorable, sweet and caring. The problem is that I'm...

She read my e-mail, about her weight, and dumped me, any advice?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5377 days ago

11 August 2009 (M) - My girlfriend of 11 months invaded my privacy, went through an email and saw an email I sent my best friend which said exactly this: "I love my girlfriend. She has a beautiful face, but she is letting herself go. How can I get her to drop 15-20lbs?" ...

I did many things for her, though she care for a married man, nothing from her in two months, was I used?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5376 days ago

11 August 2009 (M) - The big question Have I done the right thing and have I been used I met a woman about 3 years ago and we got on from day 1. She was seing a married man who she had been seing for 2 years and she used to talk how she felt and how upset she was. We...

I don't know whether I should leave him or not, please help?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5379 days ago

11 August 2009 (F) - iv been with my boyfriend for 3 yrs now. Im a senior in highschool n i know i have my whole life ahead of me but i really do love him, but at the same time i wonder wat it wuld be like 2 be with someone other than him. i mean iv dated before him, ...

Need some good advice on getting and keeping a boyfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5379 days ago

11 August 2009 (F) - I;m an 18 years old girl, turning 19 very soon,and I feel very sad about my future boy- friend issue. I' don't know what am I doing wrong, but everytime,I have a ""chance'' it turnes out nothing at the end... Usually ,the guy already has a gi...

I want to get close to him but I'm afraid of catching something!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5379 days ago

11 August 2009 (F) - ok i have this really gig problem i am with a guy that is alot older than me and i like him so much but im so scared of getting close to him and have any kind of sexually contact with him because im scared of catching something and afraid that ...

13 and lovesick!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5379 days ago

11 August 2009 (F) - okay, to start things off, i am 13. yes, yes i know very young for love, but the more we become closer the more i begin to relize hes not worth my time, he could care less, iv tried and tried i have enough stress, i cant b around him and his ...

How to celerate 2 years of togetherness

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5377 days ago

11 August 2009 (F) - me and my boyfriend are goin into 2 yrs in our relationship next friday,any advice on how i could make it special for us ...

Why do I feel I need a boyfriend so much?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4801 days ago

11 August 2009 (F) - I don't know the reason why, but i feel like i need a boyfriend, i really want one! People would say i'm desperate, or being peer preshured, but it's not like that, i really want somebody to be able to cuddle and kiss and just be there for me, i ...

I think he likes me, can you confirm what I'm thinking?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5379 days ago

11 August 2009 (F) - hi so there is a guy i really like he;s same age as me we've known eachother for years. i've known him since my younger days in primary school. anyways. i think he likes me when we talk we get really into depth of conversations he has tol...

Am I truly ready to fall in love?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5378 days ago

11 August 2009 (F) - So, here's the story. I have been dating this guy for a year and 3 months now. He my 3rd serious relationship and the first guy I am seeing exclusively since me and my ex broke up 3 years ago. For a time period of a couple years I was single. I ...

He told me he wants to be with me but I havent heard from him in days!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5379 days ago

11 August 2009 (F) - I have this friend, we both want to be more than friends but we are taking it slowly, starting as friends and seeing if anything develops. there are two reasons for this 1) he is getting over a marriage breakup (6 months ago) and 2) i am already ...

Update: I put myself out there and not I'm not sure if the shy guy likes me anymore! What now?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5379 days ago

11 August 2009 (F) - please read my first entry [verification/log in code blocked]. it explains the background. I decided to take the advice I got and now I feel more confused. As I said in my last question, this guy is extremely shy. I have gone to two concerts wit...

How do girls feel about shy guys?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5379 days ago

11 August 2009 (M) - hi! how do girls feel about shy / quiet guys? just thought id keep this one short and sweet! ...

My friend stopped talking to me when I told her I had feelings for her!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5380 days ago

11 August 2009 (M) - I told a friend i liked her i had emotions towards her. she stopped talking and doesnt want anything to do with me. what should i do?...

I think I'm addicted to dating!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5379 days ago

11 August 2009 (M) - after a certain period of time i get really depressed. and i know what makes it go away. if i have a girlfriend i never feel this way. i think its that i feel alone and un-loved but i cant ever keep a girlfriend very long. i think that i'm addicted ...

How can I slow myself down and have a serious relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5379 days ago

11 August 2009 (M) - Every girlfriend i've had said i move too fast and because of this i've never had a serious relationship. Every time I seem to find a girl that I start to fall in love with I get dumped and hurt. I don't know how to slow down myself and i'm tired of ...

My girlfriend is always sad and I can't seem to make her happy!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5369 days ago

11 August 2009 (M) - I've been dating my girlfriend for just over 2 years now and I am really happy with her but it seems thats my girlfriend is always sad or depressed about one thing or another. She's expressed the desire to be married a bunch of times and we've ...

I feel ready for a more serious relationship, but not for sex. How do I make guys understand that?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5379 days ago

11 August 2009 (F) - I am 14 years old. i have never really been in a serious realationship. but when i am with a guy they always want to do more than just kiss. when i say that ive never done anything they dont exactally believe me. not because they think im a slut but ...

I've found a girl that I really like but I don't know if she likes me back!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5379 days ago

11 August 2009 (M) - Hi my names Chris and I live in American. Maine, to be more specific. Now, about three months ago I met a girl at the campground that I go to. Well technicaly I met her before then but we didn't talk much before then. Anyway, I fell for her the ...

Would you share your experiences of losing your virginity with me? It would really help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5372 days ago

11 August 2009 (F) - im a young person really looking for some answers about life and sex...i myself is a virgin and i kno this boy like it will be two yrs we kno each other..we started off on a really bad friendship and now we are pretty close and we kno each other ...

Please help me learn how to intimate with him again.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5379 days ago

11 August 2009 (F) - Hi everyone, I am 22 years old and I have a boyfriend and we have been together for over 5 years, we have lived together for the past year or so and are both finishing up university (he's in a 5 year bachelor and I'm doing my master's). Late...

Why would a man tell you he wants to see only you and then cut off communication?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5379 days ago

11 August 2009 (?) - I was dating this man for a few months. Everything was going well. We had met families and our children had become close. Then I had a feeling things weren't quite right. Like he sometimes wouldnt return texts or calls etc. So I comfronted him and ...

My criticism has hurt girlfriend over years-- I've changed, need advice!

This question has 23 answers - newest was posted 5374 days ago

11 August 2009 (M) - I have been with my girlfriend for 3 years. She is 23, I am 30. She has loved me very genuinely since almost the beginning. Very sweet, good-hearted, supportive, loving woman, who has expressed that she sees herself marrying me. We are a great ...

The awkwardness remained

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5375 days ago

11 August 2009 (F) - Hi there... just went into "just friends" mode with a boyfriend of 3 months. We are both very well suited for one another, but a degree of awkwardness always remained. We were exclusive to one another, but he was only able/willing to get together ...

Do I keep trying to get him or get over him? How can I get over him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5376 days ago

11 August 2009 (F) - Hi there,I need some help please. Well,I like this guy a lot and I've known him for almost a year now.I liked him when I first met him but I got over him real quick.Well,we both have the same friends and I get along great with his little brother a...

How do I forget about him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5380 days ago

11 August 2009 (F) - Ok so here it is..... I've known this guy for like 10 years and it wasnt until 3 years ago that i started to like him. he lives or should i say lived (he just moved) two houses down from me. He was always there to hold me when i needed someone and ...

Did I do something wrong, or is this a one-way relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5380 days ago

11 August 2009 (M) - I dont know what to do... my girlfriend is always lashing out at me for no reason, and im beginning to get sick of it. For example: She keeps in constant contact with all of her ex's. While this makes me uncomfortable I dont make mentio...

Go with my ex or stay with my current?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5380 days ago

11 August 2009 (F) - I'll try to make this long story short. I'm 31 years old. I was with my boyfriend for 2 1/2 years before he got a great job 2,000 miles away. I moved to the job location for him. We ended up having a lot of problems and he left me. That was in ...

Are we compatible, or do we just like each other?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5380 days ago

11 August 2009 (F) - 0k.. i have an named JW and we went together about 2 years ago and today we were just flirting and stuff.. Everytime we seen each other we just hugged and flirt.. I called him(what i dumb thing to do) and was talking and he was like text me i wasz l...

What's the proper thing to do about previously shared furnishings when moving in with a man?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5378 days ago

11 August 2009 (F) - When you move in with your man, isn't it bad sexual karma if you don't buy a new set of sheets, new pillow cases, new comforter for the bed you are planning to share -- especially if the old sheets, old comforter and pillowcases were shared by the ...

How can I deal with my jealousy so I don't lose her?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5380 days ago

11 August 2009 (M) - Hello all, Its hard for me to admit this but i can be a very jealous person. Especially when it comes to other guys and my girlfriend. Now im only 15, about to turn 16, and i no im gonna get some people who are gonna think im not in love with thi...

He said he would be with me if they ever broke up, but I haven't heard from him. What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5379 days ago

11 August 2009 (F) - So there's this guy that i've been liking for quite a bit now and he was the year above me at school, although we've both left now. And i met up with him and everything was great but on that same night after i'd gone his ex told him she wanted him ...

Am I overanalyzing, or is he really just not that into me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5380 days ago

11 August 2009 (F) - you know the movie/book "he's just not that into you?" well I'm kinda thinking thats the case for my situation, but maybe I'm just overthinking/analyzing it after watching the film/reading quotes from the book. First off- I like that he's t...

He never wants to go out anymore. How can I fix this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5380 days ago

11 August 2009 (F) - I've been in a relationship for just over a year now, and up until recently it's been going great. My boyfriend and I get on really well and we're friends as well as a couple. The only problem is that he's very lazy and never seems to want to do ...

Why would a man hide the fact that he has a girlfriend?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5377 days ago

11 August 2009 (F) - When a man is dating or involved in a serious relationship, would'nt a man talk about the woman he was involved with, when he talks about what he did for the weekend or his vaction plans for the summer??? Or does a man with-hold that information ...