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writes:So there's this guy that i've been liking for quite a bit now and he was the year above me at school, although we've both left now. And i met up with him and everything was great but on that same night after i'd gone his ex told him she wanted him back. So i told him to go back with her coz he told me he still loved her and tried getting back with her before but she didn't want it. So they were going out for a few days and in those days he didn't want anything to do with me, he deleted me as a friend off of a social networking site incase i say anything. So yesterday, i was round my girls house and i got a text telling me that they had broken up. So he rang me explaining that they'd had a fight at a friends party and that she was texting one of his friends. And he told me that he would speak to me about it all as he said he would be with me if it wasn't for her, and now that shes out the picture i haven't heard anything from him so i don't know what to do...any advice?
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 August 2009): He's not into you so it's best for you to forget him and go out there and find someone better. I know you will.
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reader, Renee okc  +, writes (11 August 2009):
I can understand what you are saying, but my question to you is why are you waiting on him just so you can be his rebound girl. When and if you hook up with him you want it to be because it was meant to be not because he made you a promise.
I think you should stop acting like you are desperate and move on how long are you willing to wait for him to notice that you are waiting to get in the game. Maybe he hasn't contacted you because he still has feelings for her and he is just trying to see what the end result will be with her before he totally moves on. Girl go get you a man and stop waiting on someone that may not be around.
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reader, muffy +, writes (11 August 2009):
 Well hun,it might not have been him who deleted you off of the network.It could have been his ex on his profile and she thought you were competition so she deleted you.If you haven't heard from him then maybe he's still contemplating whether or not he wants to be with you.I was told the same thing but it ended really bad.So just hang tight and if he doesn't get back to you soon then talk to him about it first.And if he still needs time then you should probably just give up.
I hope I've helped
Love always,Muffy
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 August 2009): I'd leave him alone for abit seems as if hes using you as a rebound, if you love him you could wait for him but personally wouldn't recommend it because you would be wasting precious days or months even years that you could be spending with a boy that would lose anything just to be with you.
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