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female
age
30-35,
*6andawesome
writes:Ok so here it is..... I've known this guy for like 10 years and it wasnt until 3 years ago that i started to like him. he lives or should i say lived (he just moved) two houses down from me. He was always there to hold me when i needed someone and he'd always kiss me (on the lips). A few months ago we started to hang out all the time and one day we got really intimate and i made the choice to lose it to him. I think it was at that time i started to fall in love with him. I cant stop thinking about him even when he stopped talking to me after that, but every time i went to his house we'd talk and kiss. But he didnt tell me he was moving and he stopped talking to me and answering his door when i came over. I still have alot of feelings for him and I dont want to feel anything for him anymore. What should I do? Reply to this Question
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reader, love-struckxo  +, writes (11 August 2009):
 I'm sorry about your situation. It's tough, but you have to learn to deal. You made yourself look desperate when you continued to knock on his door, and he didn't answer. Maybe he just wasn't home? Who really knows.The best thing you can do, is look at this situation as experience. We live and we learn, right? What else can you do. Clearly, he's not interested and as bad as it hurts. You will move on from it. It is NOT the end of the world.Try hard not to think about it. Don't listen to sad songs, or songs that remind you of him. Go out with your friends, and surround yourself with people you love. It's okay to cry, so cry if you need too. Your feelings are hurt, but don't let him know.Don't call him, don't email him. Just brush him under the rug. Act like he doesn't even matter anymore. Save sex for somebody who is really important, and who you love and loves you back. Don't give it away for someone you think you love.It's hard, but it's life. Tomorrow the sun will still shine, and the world won't stop turning. It's a new day, a new start. So put a smile on your face, keep on walking and don't look back.Good luck.
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