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Archived questions from: 25 August, 2009 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

We have dated others but were always having sex with each other!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5364 days ago

25 August 2009 (F) - Hi I am 23 yrs old and I've been dating this guy for 5yrs on and off again. Well, in that time he have had other girlfriends and I have had other boyfriends, but we never stopped having sex with each other. We always been there for each other no ...

Mixed signals or something more?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5365 days ago

25 August 2009 (F) - Hey, I need help!! I went to college with a guy for 2 yrs we've left now but I liked him for 2 yrs and I told him several times. Christmas 08 and i gave him a xmas pressie when dropping him home one night after college he thanked me and hugged me...

Recently divorced: will I be able to move on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5365 days ago

25 August 2009 (F) - I was married for 3 years I got divorced recently because I caught my husband cheating on me........ and ever since the divorce my friends are pushing me to go on dates but I just can see myself with anyone right now, I am still hurt from the ...

How do I get attention from women?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5365 days ago

25 August 2009 (M) - I am 25 years old every women i try to ask out either doesnt seem interested in me or seems to always have a boyfriend what is the best way to get a womens attention i have tryed the dress yourself up thing, the be friends thing, dancing seen i am ...

Is my girlfriend a player?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5365 days ago

25 August 2009 (M) - My question is about if I am being played by a woman or not. I am 36 and have been dating a 42 year old for over 13 months. When we met, she said she was divorced, a mother of 3, and just got out of a relationship with a younger man of an unknown ...

3 way relationship not working so well. Where do I go from here?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5330 days ago

25 August 2009 (M) - I'm having trouble deciding on what to do here. If anyone could help me with some suggestions it would be much appreciated. I recently started a 3 way relationship and I am the 3rd person to join into an already 2 way, but my intentions were not to ...

I have no experience with men! How do I know what he wants?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5365 days ago

25 August 2009 (F) - Ok I need some tips/help, I am a shy 26 year old who has no experience with guy, I always feel awkward around them but a guy I used to work with has asked me out and I really want to go but I am so shy, we had a kiss at the christmas night out and ...

Family hates my boyfriend!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5352 days ago

25 August 2009 (F) - 3 years ago my parents forbid me from seeing my bf. Weve been on and off since then. Hes 20 and Im about to be 18 in less than 6 months so theres really not much they can do about it.Im sick of sneaking around with him because I love him and I love ...

I'm 15, he's 20, is this ok?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4889 days ago

25 August 2009 (F) - ok i am 15 going to be 16 in 2 weeks and i have been dating a guy who is 20 we have been together 4 2 months now is that ok ??? cause sometimes it doesn't feel right when we first met we didn't talk much but we liked each other a lot from the moment ...

Too young to be engaged & in love with someone else, what do I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5341 days ago

25 August 2009 (F) - I am 19 years old and engaged. I have also been in love with a different man for almost 6 years. Recently, the man that i've been in love with for 6 years confessed how he wants to be with me and has had mutual feelings for the same amount of time. ...

I'm pregnant & he isn't taking it seriously & is even messing about in txt with my mate! Help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5365 days ago

25 August 2009 (F) - hey i need some advice. iv been with my fiance for a year, im pregnant with his baby and we moved into our own house 3weeks ago my bf has lied to me in the past and iv always been worried hes cheatin on me as he hides his phn and deletes msgs, on...

He's questioning me all the time. I don't know what to do. Please help...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5352 days ago

25 August 2009 (F) - im seventeen years old and ive been going out with my boyfriend since i was fifteen, however we have been friends since i was twelve. By looking at our relationship from an outsiders perspective, you would think that it was perfect. Even my own ...

I am 18, she is 13, can we get engaged?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 5345 days ago

25 August 2009 (M) - i like a girl in Mansfield but she love me will it be ok to get engaged to her, they are 13 years and i am 18 years old ? ...

Too far to love?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5365 days ago

25 August 2009 (M) - Hey i am 16 and met this girl online shes gonna be 15 in november. we talk forever online and when its too late to use the computer we text up until 3:30. I have never really felt about this girl the way i did any other girl. were so much alike she ...

17 year old girl and 15 year old boy?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5365 days ago

25 August 2009 (F) - I am 17 going on 18 in December. My boyfriend is 15. I live in Michigan and he lives in Wisconsin. When I turn 18, am I considered a pedophile? We love each other very much and would like to keep dating, but he's a little worried I might get in t...

Secretly in love with a girl who has a double personality!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5365 days ago

25 August 2009 (M) - my best girl friend which I love and adore has sort of a double personality. When she is with me she is sweet and adorable! However, whenever she is with her friend, which I think is a bad influence, she become this wild party girl who jump any hot ...

Why we cannot hold out for the real thing

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5362 days ago

25 August 2009 (M) - In a recent article on this site, MonicaC advises young people to "hold out for the real thing". She tells us that she was focused very much on sex when she was younger and that she had both good and bad experiences. Now that she is older, her needs ...

What do men prefer thongs or knickers?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5343 days ago

25 August 2009 (F) - Okay this is kind of two questions in one, but bare with me. First of all I'm in a relationship with a guy who's 4 years older than me (I'm 15, he's 19) but I met him because he's my best friend's brother, so I got to know him around his family, so ...

She's a daddy's girl

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5365 days ago

25 August 2009 (M) - Hey, please help me, I love a girl, Priya, I am a student of 10 standard. I m totally flirt on her. The problem with me is that she does not talks wid boyz, she does not know anything abt love, she is just her dad's girl. All of my classmat...

Am I bench warmer or is this dude just too shy to make a move?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5365 days ago

25 August 2009 (F) - This guy comes over my house pretty much every nite. We have dinner together, watch movies, have a few wines and we talk about everything. I really really dig him but I am NOT a first mover!! Lately he has been sleeping in my bed with me and we ...

I want to break up with him for the final time and find real love!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5365 days ago

25 August 2009 (F) - I have been with one guy for 10 years. but 5 years ago we breaked and we start again new love before three months but I couldn't continue with him. he is always come with negative thinking. he sent me bad text message every day. We don't have age ...

My crush likes my best friend, how do I get over him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5365 days ago

25 August 2009 (F) - i really like this guy but he likes my best friend. i thought he liked me because he kept giving me signals and telling me stuff that no one else knows. how do i get over him? he asked me if she liked him and said that he didnt really like her but ...

I don't think girls find me attractive!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5365 days ago

25 August 2009 (M) - Hi, I'm a typical 16 year old boy in a situation I bet everyone has been in, so I'm hoping you guys can help me :) Basically I've getting quite depressed recently because I like a girl but I don't think she finds me attractive, its been li...

The only issue in our relationship is that he never says "I Love You"

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5191 days ago

25 August 2009 (F) - Hi there, I know I may not hear what I want to hear, but I'd like to get some perspective on my situation. I'm sorry if it's a bit long, but bear with me. I'm just about 23 and my boyfriend is 24. We will have been together 18 months as of Se...

Can you have a relationship without doing oral?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5364 days ago

25 August 2009 (F) - can you have a relationship without going into other stuff like oral? just wondering......

I want him to be more romantic!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5366 days ago

25 August 2009 (F) - I have been in this relationship for 8months and a bit and i feel like i do so much stuff for him. latly i have felt so unappreciated and like i dont exist around his friends. its not like him to do this. so i asked him if he could treat me better ...

Is she showing me she's still free? Or just trying to make me jealous?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5366 days ago

25 August 2009 (M) - I met this girl. Amazing. I met her on tour with my group and flew her out to stay with me a month after returning home. She was sweet to me in a way that I can say she is unequivocally the best girlfriend I've ever had. And this qualification I ...

I want him to know I'm inviting him over sex. How should I say it?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5365 days ago

25 August 2009 (F) - If you ask a man you have started dating over to your house for dinner , will he think that's a euphamism for come on over and we'll have sex? I'm kind of hoping it will because I've been on two dates with a guy but they were just coffee/ movie an...

Is this inconsiderate of him or do you think I'm overreacting?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5364 days ago

25 August 2009 (F) - My boyfriend has no problem telling me that other women he comes accross or sees on TV are better looking then me. I would prefer believing that in his eyes I am the most beautiful woman in the world. I know there are women more attractive then me, ...

Boys say I'm pretty but then they're not interested. Is there something wrong with me? I really want a boyfriend.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5366 days ago

25 August 2009 (F) - ok i know im only 14 and lots of people would say im to young to have a boyfriend but i dont think so. lots of my friends have had boyfriends and stuff but not me. there plenty of nice fella around but none of them seem 2 b intressed in me. is there ...

She made a joke but it's left me feeling really hurt. I really need advice.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5366 days ago

25 August 2009 (M) - Hey guys I need help here.. I mean I been with my gf for like a month and a half I know it's not a long time but I been friends with her for a year. Anyway u know me and her play alot and joke around alot. But there's one specific joke I didn't like ...

Are his excuses true or do you think he just doesn't want to live with me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5366 days ago

25 August 2009 (F) - hiya can anyone offer any advice? im 19yrs old and my bf is 23, iv been with him for 13months, im 5months pregnant and we moved into our own house 2weeks ago, all the stuff in the house (tvs, comp n tables, wardrobe, draws, pots n pans etc) is mine ...

My girlfriend wants to break uo with me. How can I stop her?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5363 days ago

25 August 2009 (M) - My girlfriend of 7 months wants to break-up, because I love her, but she doesn't love me. She says she, "wants to stop hurting me". What can I do!?...

I don't want to scare him off, how can I let him know I like him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5365 days ago

25 August 2009 (F) - Theres this guy that I really like. I mean butterflies, the whole 9 yards. I dont think I've ever felt this way about anyone to be honest. Heres my problem. First of all, he lives in another state. Secondly he is in a band [but not a typical ro...

Is it possible to have a strong teenage relationship without sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5366 days ago

25 August 2009 (F) - So me and my bf have been dating for 5 months now i don't think thats relevent but anyways, I was just wondering if it's possible to have a real strong relationship without sex? Ask questions and give me answers and opinions please. =]....

Can Jewish guys be in relationships with Christian girls?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5366 days ago

25 August 2009 (F) - I've liked this guy for a long time. He's Jewish and I'm a Christian, but that really never bothered me in any way. Today we were rehearsing for our school musical, we have a scene where two people are trying to find their perfect matches. The guy ...

I'm 16, what is the oldest man I could date without being frowned upon?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5365 days ago

25 August 2009 (F) - What is the oldest partner a 16 year old girl in the UK can date without it without frowned upon socially?...

I'm 15, pregnant and scared of having an abortion

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5364 days ago

25 August 2009 (F) - I'm fifteen years old and I am two months pregnant. I've been in a rocky relationship with my boyfriend for the past nine months. My boyfriend doesn't come from a stable enviroment. Has yet to get a job, and ever since I found out I was pregna...

I'm not a monogamous guy - will there ever be another woman like her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5366 days ago

25 August 2009 (M) - My ex-girlfriend and I broke up just over ten years ago after a seven year relationship. I'll admit, I wasn't the nicest guy in the world. I did cheat on her and left her for other women several times throughout our relationship. Well, now I'm 42 ...

Is it selfish to go off to uni when you're in a serious relationship?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5363 days ago

25 August 2009 (F) - I've been going out with my boyfriend for 18 months now. I'm 18 and he's 22, every things great. we love each other so much and i am so happy with him. Anyway the problem is, he's a plumber/electrician and still lives with his parent. Whereas i have ...

My girlfriend rarely shows me affection. Help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5366 days ago

25 August 2009 (M) - So i've been with my girlfriend for almost 2 years now and she finds it hard to show me affection. We have pet names for each other (Muffin/Puffin) And I call her Muffin all the time and she rarely calls me Puffin. Point being is that she finds it ...