New here? Register in under one minute Already a member? Login

244974 questions, 1084347 answers

Got a relationship, dating, love or sex question? Ask for help!

New Questions Answers . Most Discussed Viewed . Unanswered . Followups . Forums . Top agony aunts . About Us . Articles . Sitemap

To browse questions by day in August, 2009, use the links below (in brackets, number of questions on that day in this category)

1 (28), 2 (30), 3 (27), 4 (29), 5 (44), 6 (35), 7 (39), 8 (21), 9 (30), 10 (54),
11 (42), 12 (32), 13 (29), 14 (26), 15 (28), 16 (29), 17 (37), 18 (28), 19 (34), 20 (39),
21 (18), 22 (37), 23 (51), 24 (28), 25 (41), 26 (34), 27 (44), 28 (25), 29 (23), 30 (26),
31 (34),

Archived questions from: 29 August, 2009 (see latest in Dating category)

(More questions from August, 2009)

Dating: Help and advice

I have feelings for another co-worker, and I'm scared of giving it a go because it happened before and blew up in my face! What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5361 days ago

29 August 2009 (F) - I have this male friend at work who I've hung out with outside of work a few times before. We could both tell there was definitely an attraction there, so one night after a few drinks, we ended up in bed together. I wasn't sure if it was a one time ...

How can I casually start talking to a guy I really like?!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5361 days ago

29 August 2009 (F) - Theres this boy i like at my school, Im a freshman in highschool, his locker is 2 dowwn from mine, we stare at eachother alot, i always come close to talking to him but i dont have the guts, whenever where in the hallway walking past eachother ...

Is it possible for a guy to not look at other women when he's in love with his girlfriend?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5361 days ago

29 August 2009 (F) - My boyfriend of three years has been telling me all along that he never looks at other women, and has no interest in anyone but me. I never asked him not to, or expressed a desire either way but he believes it is so fundamental in his beliefs that ...

I want to break off with this jerk!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5361 days ago

29 August 2009 (F) - Hi everyone, Please help me to stop being angry and more importantly- to stop caring. I have known this man for nearly five years. We went out for two and a half, one of which we lived together. I found out in 2007 that he was cheating and lyi...

Do you ever forget your first love? Your ex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5361 days ago

29 August 2009 (M) - Hi! do people ever forget their first love? is anyone still in love with their ex? is anyone still friends with their ex? please share your stories on this post! Id love to hear it an it would help to know im not the only one whose lost their first ...

He keeps getting into these little moods all the time and I don't know what to do!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5361 days ago

29 August 2009 (F) - Okay, so here's the deal.. My boyfriend and I have been dating for around 2 1/2 years. But he gets in these little moods all the time.. Like he just ignores me and is mean to me for no reason at all... For example, Last night He told me he was going ...

How can she like him after he held a knife to her throat?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5361 days ago

29 August 2009 (M) - Hey i like this girl and we get along rly well we went out a couple of times and than her ex bf comes back along and she now only wants to be friends now that doesnt rly bother me as shit happens what i want to know is how can she still like him ...

I am getting so sick of this guy...should I let him go?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5362 days ago

29 August 2009 (F) - I am so sick of this dude ive been talking too he pisses me off all the time but i just cant let him go,even tho we aint togather i think i fell in love with him i just dony know what to do....like today we were supposed to go watch a movie togather ...

I really like this man, but I can't help feeling disappointed that he is impotent

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5359 days ago

29 August 2009 (F) - Ive recently started dating a new man. He is 5 years older than me. After a couple of months I have discovered he is impotent and I don't know what to do. He didn't tell me when we first met and I can understand that, but after ending my long ...

She cut contact with me because she thinks the distance is too much. How can I get her back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5359 days ago

29 August 2009 (M) - ok so here we go. I've a rough life. im not gonna get too much into it but in short I've been thru it all when it comes to relationships, and I havnt been in one in years ever since my ex died. so I met this girl in the most unlikely of places. over ...

Me and this man started dating, and then he broke it off by saying he wasn't ready for a relationship, but wants to be friends. Where should I go from here?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5339 days ago

29 August 2009 (F) - I had a great date with a guy and he asked me out on a second date. We didn't kiss after the first date. The second date however was to take three weeks later as he was going away on business. He said he'd keep in touch but I didn't think he would. ...

Why do guys always make comments about your friends when you're dating them?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5361 days ago

29 August 2009 (F) - A couple of months ago I was seeing this guy who used to always comment on my girl friends. He never called anyone ugly, but he would always say something if my friend was gorgeous. He would say: Wow, she's so hot. After he did this a bunch of ...

What can I do to stop my girlfriend drifting futher away from me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5282 days ago

29 August 2009 (M) - hi im 15 my girlfriend my girlfriend who is 14 seems to be getting further and further away we used to talk a couple times a day on the phone and online now we barely talk once a day shes just starting high school and shes meeting new people and ...

How should I find out if she feels the same way about me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5362 days ago

29 August 2009 (M) - hi am a 21 year old boy. i met a girl about 3 weeks back. and v became friends. she's really sweet and i like her. i think am in love with her, but am not sure. i want to know she's haveing d same feeling for me or not. what should i do?...

Should we move in together?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5361 days ago

29 August 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for a week. But we have known each other for 15 years. Well we want to move in together. But im not sure if its the right time. Its not gonna just be me and him it will also be his bestfriend which is also my ...

We can't see each other outside of school!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5360 days ago

29 August 2009 (F) - okay so my problem is that me and my bf have been dating for the past 4 months and we have yet to see eachother outside school except at like football games and non private stuff. We can't really form a good connection without some alone time you ...

Boyfriend hides phone when he gets a text!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5361 days ago

29 August 2009 (F) - my bf hides his phone from me when he gets a text. it's not like im there looking over his shoulder to see who's texting him. i just happen to notice that he does it all the time! i mean, is he hiding something or someone from me? or what? i tr...

Confused and reluctant to let go in California

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5204 days ago

29 August 2009 (F) - I am a 31 year old single mother and I was dating my first love after him finding me after 13 years for 2 1/2 years. I recently listened to my woman's intution and looked through is cell phone. Of course I found evidence he was texting and speaking ...

Will age decide for me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5349 days ago

29 August 2009 (F) - i am 16 years old and i am curently in a relationship with a 23 year old. most of my friends tell me to leav him becouse of the age differance, but him and i get along very well, our relationship isnt sexual but becouse of his age we bouth runn risk ...

My girlfriend talks about her other guy friends who love her dearly!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5357 days ago

29 August 2009 (M) - Well this is the Issue. I have recently met a girl at work. She is just amazing, she is 20 but really has a good head on her shoulders. I am 28. We became very good friends pretty fast and then She came to know that I liked her more than a friend ...

How much "pocket money" should I give him while he doesn't have a job?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5362 days ago

29 August 2009 (F) - Hello everyone, I haven't been on his site for a long time but I hope all is well for everyone...my boyfriend of 2 years has just been let go from his job of a few years today and I just happened to just geta promotion...I don't know how to deal ...

Every guy I meet has a girlfriend!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5362 days ago

29 August 2009 (F) - im wondering if any other girls have been threw this? im in my early 30's single parent,working and renting my own home. Now...the prob is this...every guy i meet has a gf!! Ive been 'the other woman' for over 2yrs now to every man i meet....YES i ...

He put us on a break, but still wants to hang out! Do I "take out the trash"?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5316 days ago

29 August 2009 (F) - Okay, so his friend changed him within a week of hanging with him, right? (No I'm not kidding), and now my boyfriend is so negative. He said he could never leave me because he loves me too much to do so, but as of yesterday, I realized that ...