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Archived questions from: 5 August, 2009 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

He totally changed and I need advice on how to improve things?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5384 days ago

5 August 2009 (F) - I need help. I have posted my problem with my boyfriend's retroactive jealousy, and some advice was helpful. But ultimately nothing has changed for the better, however we are not really trying. What can I do?? How can I keep the man I love?? We ...

We are trying to have a baby, with no sucess, any suggestions?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5385 days ago

5 August 2009 (F) - Hey im 20 nearly 21 and me and my boyfriend are tryin for a baby. Iv come off the pill but just doesnt seem to happen for us as much as we try. I find after sex that half of the cum seems to leave me as soon as i get up from the bed. Its reall...

Should I believe him, or continue with my plans?

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5 August 2009 (F) - Help! Me and my boyfriend of a year and a half broke up a few months ago, and ever since then we've been on-off. I still love him with all of my heart, and he says he does too, but the way he treats me says something completely different. If we get ...

Is he oblivious to the fact that I like him, or is he uninterested?

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5 August 2009 (F) - Hello all! I've known this guy for a few months now but I still can't figure him out. He is an outgoing guy but he doesn't seem like a jerk, like all the other guys I have been with. I consider myself attractive and even his friend said I was hot ...

Seeing her for 10 months, making a ring for her, good idea? Any other gift ideas?

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5 August 2009 (M) - hi, im 16 and my gf is 15, we've been goin out for ten months now, and we're goin back to school in a few weeks. we really miss eachother, and i really wanna make it special when we i see her, so i started making her a ring, yes, making one. ...

He is very territorial and we have sexual problems, please help?

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5 August 2009 (F) - At the end of May of this year, my ex got back in touch and we eventually decided to try again since the reasons we broke up 8 months before was mainly due to lack of time because of his career. We have now been dating 2 months and already I fe...

We are in a difficult, troubled relationship and I need help?

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5 August 2009 (F) - Okay i dont wanna say i know what love is; i think i know what love is. Ive been dating this guy for a while now and things are so messed up, and ive tried everything i can to make things better, and it sucks vecaue everything stays the same. so, ...

He says he loves me, and I love him so much, but I don't know if he means it?

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5 August 2009 (F) - This guy says he loves me but I don't know if I believe him. We went out and then just out of nowhere he ended it cause he 'just found someone else' and after three months of us not talking he texted me out of the blue. We started talking and I have ...

How can I convince him I'm not cheating or playing games?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5383 days ago

5 August 2009 (F) - i am a 22 year old woman who has 3 kids and i am in love with a 36 year old man who has 3 kids of his own but because of the age gap he thinks i am cheating and playing games with him due to the fact we do not live together he is very jealous and ...

I'm sick of being hurt yet I cheat on the good guys, what should I do??

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5 August 2009 (F) - im so over all men. im so sick of being hurt. i have had so many men in my life i cant hold on to them. im not clinggy im not one of those annoying girlfriends like my friends i try to be the oppisite. i always choos the manwhores and then when i ...

He's a player who talks to me about everything and even sleeps naked with me, but he doesn't want sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5385 days ago

5 August 2009 (F) - There’s that guy who is my neighbor and we get along really well. The problem is that we physically attracted to each other but he has had bad experience before hooking up with neighbors so he comes in my room sometimes and sleeps naked with me he ...

Wanting to "spice up" the times we make out. Any tips?

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5 August 2009 (?) - So i'm wanting to spice up the kissing a bit. You know, don't want to just keep doing the same thing every time we make out. Any fun tricks or things you like to do while making out that really gets your guy going?? I'm up for about anything! ...

Since our weekend plans got muddled up he's been cold with me! What's going on?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5380 days ago

5 August 2009 (F) - I met this guy a few weeks back and we really hit it off, we swapped numbers and we've been texting, he asked me out on a date and telling me how much he would love to take me out and spoil me, he was rally nice, i text me all the time non stop. We ...

Shall I persue this girl or let it go?

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5 August 2009 (M) - hey guys i am in dire need of help... ok so i lost my ex and was a wreck till i met this girl. we hit it off right from the start. so much even that i thought i was ready to date again... so i did i dated this girl for a few weeks... dinner ...

How can I keep this jealousy at bay?

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5 August 2009 (F) - I am going away tomorrow to a music festival with my boyfriend and some of his mates. One of them is a girl and I know that my boyfriend fancies her. She's gorgeous, funny, slim and cool, and every bloke I know that knows her fancies her, a few have ...

I think she loves me but I think she has a boyfriend. What do I do next?

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5 August 2009 (M) - i loved a girl form 2004 till now i love her but i have never talk to her she stay behind my house. in staring i use to go to her collage she notice me there .after that she pretend to me that she has a boy friend .she also show before me that she ...

I think my boyfriend likes to make passes at girls who where glasses.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5385 days ago

5 August 2009 (F) - is it possible my boyfriend might have a fetish for girls with glasses and dirty blonde hair? whenever i talk about getting contacts he's always like no! i don't mind since i can't get contacts in anyway because my eyes are really sensetive and they...

Do you think she really means it? Do people really change? I have lots of questions..

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5385 days ago

5 August 2009 (M) - What does it really mean when someone says there not ready go be with anyone right now, but everytime your together its like youve been together for a long time? If someones feelings are strong enough should it really matter? or do people really ...

How can we have a relationship that includes his kids along with mine if he is gone every weekend to see his on ex wife's terms?

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5 August 2009 (F) - Any advice would help me! I am in an unusual situation. I have met the man of my dreams and I am afraid to lose him. He was married for 20 yrs and has 2 young kids who are his world. He has recently (less than a month) moved 2 hours away to live ...

Why doesn't he initiate conversations?

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5 August 2009 (F) - i just needed to ask a small question- if a guy likes you,he would initiate conversations,right? if he talks normal when the girl initiates,but he himself doesnt initiate,what does it mean? ...

I'm so into him but I don't know if he is into me!

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5 August 2009 (F) - i used to like this guy and i knew he liked me he would always hug me more then once in one night and he would try to make me laugh and show off in from of me.something happened he wasnt into me anymore...months ago one night i went to a dance club ...

I want to ask her out but she has been having family problems.

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5 August 2009 (M) - I really like this girl at school, we have been talking to eachother for what seems like months now, and it has been. We have got to know a lot about our minds and just what we do in general, but i have learnt about all of her problems with her ...

I need ideas for a romantic date night!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5385 days ago

5 August 2009 (M) - Ok, this weekend is mine and my girlfriend's last weekend before school starts back...I want to give her the best, most romantic date night ever, but I'm not a real romantic guy, so any ideas? ...

How do I get it through his head that it's best to wait before we get married? And how long do you normally wait before marriage?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5385 days ago

5 August 2009 (F) - This summer was crazy, and I don't know where to start. Well first, My boyfriend is in army basic training, but because of a medical discharge he's coming back. He's done with the army for two years (his choice if he comes back). But has said he ...

My boyfriend does nothing to help! Am I being used?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5386 days ago

5 August 2009 (F) - im 23 with 2 kids. i got with my new boyfriend just over a year ago. he as 2 kids he was grate at 1st but i feel like he's babysitter now as he is never in and when he is in he on the laptop. he dosnt help me do owt or look after any of the kids. am ...

Why do my parents think I'm a ladies man? I'm not!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5386 days ago

5 August 2009 (M) - My paents have always said all the girls would be chasing after me. That was a few years ago. Even now, thry are telling people, all the girls fancy me. I know they don't. I talk to girls but have never had a relationship and am not close to one. ...

The love I feel for her is overwhelming...but she loves someone from Australia and wants to move there

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5382 days ago

5 August 2009 (M) - This problem can be blamed on many things. I am the one that is to blame the most though. I have known this girl for over 10 years now and I can honestly say I love her. Don't look at my age and discriminate. I'm not naive, I know what this is. I've ...

I'm afraid to go down on him..

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5385 days ago

5 August 2009 (F) - Ok i have an issue. My boyfriend really wants me to give him head but I am really nervous. He says "I eat you out every time so why won't you do it to me?" I told him I am nervous to do it but he says ill always be nervous and i just need to do it ...

It makes me so sad.. it used to be perfect and now he just ignores me..

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5386 days ago

5 August 2009 (F) - I'm sad every day because my guy friend is ignoring me. We used to text ever day romantically and hang out now It feels as though my heart was ripped out.I can't grasp the fact that he changed. That he was able to intentionally hurt me and feel no ...

Should I accept my coworkier's matchmaking invitation?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5386 days ago

5 August 2009 (M) - I’m 24 and I have a fantastic coworker in a neighboring cubicle that around my mom’s age. Recently, after sharing some laughs about some funny/“bad” dates I went on the weekend she suggested her son’s good friends and sent me a group photo. Her ...

Do you think he's using me since he's from another country?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5385 days ago

5 August 2009 (F) - My boyfriend is 14 years younger, I'm 47, maybe playing a game with me... A week ago he asked me to marry him, what was really making me very happy, as he is a dream come true to me, but when he saw I changed my status on facebook, he got mad ,tha...

How much is too much to tolerate?

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5 August 2009 (F) - My boyfriend of a year and a half wants to go visit his family far away. In order to do so, he insists that i do not stay at our apartment on my own - none the less in the CITY on my own and tells me that I have to go to my family's house in ...

My boyfriend is obsessed with sex!

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5 August 2009 (F) - My boyfriend is obbsessed with sex thts all he talks about and i aint ready.........the thing is he lives in cali and i dnt.......i dnt wanna talk about sex let alone do it he is always trying to make me horny what should i do?...

He asked me out to dinner but keeps making excuses?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5386 days ago

5 August 2009 (F) - I meet an exboyfriend for cofee at his request on sunday. He was apoligizing for past mistakes and wanted to date again. I was ok with trying again, we had a great couple hours and before we parted he said maybe we can go to dinner on monday or ...

Don't average people get real love too?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5386 days ago

5 August 2009 (F) - i'm so sad! no one likes me enough for me to be their girl. I met a guy once, but he stopped contacting me after a few dates, another made it clear all he wanted was sex, another was way too clingy and i had to let him down. and so it goes on ...

I need to get over him, I'm too old to feel this way

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5 August 2009 (F) - Honestly, I don't know what my question is. Maybe I'm just hoping for reinforcement that I made a half-decent choice? Maybe I want someone to explain this silly boy's behaviour? Mostly I just want to get this out of my system. I cannot ge...

I can't stop thinking about what it would be like to make out with him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5386 days ago

5 August 2009 (F) - Okay so I think I like this major player..we're like good friends and I go to his house alot.. When we r alone we just hang out and have fun.. But at his parties he grabs me and always holds my hand and makes me kiss him on the cheek blah blah blah ...

I made up a boy friend to fit in, and now I feel badly..

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5386 days ago

5 August 2009 (F) - basically, i need help... most of my friends have a bf. i got quite jelous. so i made up a fake guy so i could fit in and feel better about myself... but now i feel bad for lying to my friends. plus i no i will never get a bf cause all the boys call ...

Am I being played in this love triangle?

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5 August 2009 (F) - Hi! Has anyone out there been in the following situation? I'm a female and part of a love triangle at work. The guy has expressed his love for me but the other girl won't let him go. Now I'm leaving the company, he's kinda dropped out of sight, ...

He was "the one" but he cheated.. should I forgive him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5384 days ago

5 August 2009 (F) - This thing is eating me inside out for almost a year now, so I decided to seek advice here. It is a long question, because it is a devastatingly complex issue for me. We met 6 yrs ago, clicked right away, talked for hours, ending eachother's sent...

I love her, I hate her, I'm losing my mind over her..

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5385 days ago

5 August 2009 (?) - hey,this isnt exactly a direct question but i just feel like i need some opinions on my situation...i met a girl about a year ago, and we've been quite serious for a good 4 months, im however leaving the country in september and we both knew this ...

Should I go back to this relationship? Will it last or will it fall apart again?

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5 August 2009 (F) - I need help in what to do, my ex boyfriend is asking me back but i dont know whether its a good idea. We met when i was 14 and he was 16 and since the day i saw him i wanted him this was in the summer on my trip to see my family. He finally asked my ...

How do I make time for her?

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5 August 2009 (M) - Lately ive not had that much time for my girl friend. I work 5 hours a day 4 days a week, I have 5 gigs a week at the comedy club, and the occasionaly i play at bands nights. How can i make time for her?...

I feel so bad for my daughter, Any advice on how to help her?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5384 days ago

5 August 2009 (M) - My daughter is 22 and has not had a boyfriend since she was 17. A boy she went out with for a couple of years broke up with her. She is a pretty girl and a little bit overweight (size 14) not huge. She is starting to feel like something is wrong ...