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Dating: Help and advice

Her Dad hates me -- is he just insecure?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5374 days ago

15 August 2009 (M) - I'm 23, my girlfriend's 25, and her dad hates me for no reason. He just insists he hates me. My girlfriend's mum thinks I'm great and says I'd make a great son-in-law and has teased me about how I look like a young Pauly Shore! I don't know wh...

In the middle of two relationships and both are troublesome

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5375 days ago

15 August 2009 (F) - I'm in a relationship with this girl whose a few years younger then me. I like her despite the fact that we are complete opposites and she's nothing but trouble. I just wanted to hang out with her and nothing really serious but I also didn't want to ...

What are the best ways to meet new people?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5375 days ago

15 August 2009 (F) - Hi I would like to ask if anyone has any good ideas on how to meet new people. All of my friends are in relationships or are married and have very little time for me, I spend most weekends at home, I have joined a gym, a book club etc but I would ...

How can I feel better about my boyfriend smoking weed?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5375 days ago

15 August 2009 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for the past two months. In the beginning, knowing he smoked weed, it didn't bother me at all. Just recently, he has began to smoke almost everyday. I have made it clear to him that i don't want to be near it and for ...

I love my b/f but really like someone else too

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5375 days ago

15 August 2009 (F) - me and my boyfriend are both 19 and have been together for 4 years with about 2 months break with in them years. hes slept with a girl in one of the months we split what im getting over now. ive been talking to some other guy whos telling me that ...

Should I even try? She has a boyfriend!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5375 days ago

15 August 2009 (F) - i knew this beautiful girl over the internet two years ago.. always has crush on her even after i knew she has a boyfriend. but i was "professional" enough to be just friendly.. as time passed by she sorta confessed that she has feelings for me, but ...

How can I make our relationship develop in a very short time?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5375 days ago

15 August 2009 (F) - Hi, guys, I have been liking the guy from my college, we are both draduates. After months, he asked me about my feeling and uncovered his interest, yet he is very shy and reserve by nature. He asked me not to take him wrong as he might need some ...

I want a child, he doesn't, get rid of him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5375 days ago

15 August 2009 (F) - Hi Everyone, I am a 37, about to turn 38 very young looking female. I have not met anyone special for almost 6 years. Finally I did! He is 30, has a 5 year old daughter. We spoke about me wanting to have a child. I would only like to give bir...

Why would he say bad things about me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5374 days ago

15 August 2009 (F) - ok so i am so depresed because of a stupiimmature thing like ''whos the best kisser'' but i need help coz it's hurting my feelings... almost every guy i kiss always wants more and we can make out all day long and they seem to like it so much ...

How can I stop looking at other girls?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5375 days ago

15 August 2009 (M) - i am too much cupid. when i see the big brest and ass of other girls, i cant control.still i am unmarried. must of the night time i spend to see blue films n such as. n i spend all my day on work at office.my girl friend is also working with me ...

I got too obsessed with him and now he won't talk to me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5365 days ago

15 August 2009 (F) - what would u say to a guy who thinks u are crazy but he is a freak and sexy and u wanna come and see him on monday so u can work things out with him. but if he doesnt reply to the texts or emails but if he did yall would argue wat would u do knowing ...

Twice he's said he needs to step back..so what do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5375 days ago

15 August 2009 (F) - Hi, se tisesion earlir didnt get any responses, so I'd really appreciate some help: i was seeing guy for 4 and a half months (not officially lke) 3weeks before he startd seeing me him n his gf of 3 n a halfyears broke up, about 1 month into thi...

I wanted to kiss him, should I just have done it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5375 days ago

15 August 2009 (F) - I am lost... i really think i am in love with this boy. He is 3 years older than me. We have a connection. And he says he feels it too. Though he has just got out a big relationship... should that matter? We had this moment when i was with him... it ...

Ok with texting but don't know how to talk on the phone

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5375 days ago

15 August 2009 (M) - Okay me and my girlfriend have known each other for a long time but never really talked to each other, and since we never gone to the same school we've never really seen each other. But latly we have been text messaging each other and it's Been ...

Dating someone who has been sexually abused..how do you go about it?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5374 days ago

15 August 2009 (M) - hey, this might be on the edge of what this site is for but here it goes: There's this girl that really likes me and i really like her, i'm one of the very few people she has trusted enough to tell that she has been sexually abused by her un...

Give him a chance or listen to what I've heard?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5375 days ago

15 August 2009 (F) - Hello. i have been with my boyfriend for 3days now and people who have known him years and have past's with him say he will just use me for sex and that he will f**k me about and when he is out with his friends or drunk that he cant trust himself ...

B/F having dinner with girl even though he knows how I feel about her!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5375 days ago

15 August 2009 (F) - i have a long history with my boyfriend say like a three year relationship, but we had an issue,, because we once brokeup because of another girl i found in his appartment she tried so many times breaking us apart she talks bad behind my back and ...

While we had broken up she slept with someone else....and I can't stop thinking about it. Help!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5375 days ago

15 August 2009 (M) - My girlfriend and I had a bad break up with no intent to get back together. While we were broken up, she thought I did not care about her and I thought the same as she did. we became started talking to each other between our break up, but very ...

Is it better to break up with my boyfriend, or push my feelings for this other guy aside?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5375 days ago

15 August 2009 (F) - Back in April I started meeting up with this guy. We would end up kissing, and I'd stay the night, but we didn't go any further than kissing. He eventually told me that he was falling for me, and made it clear he might want a relationship in the ...

I like her so much that I'm worried I have somehow messed things up!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5375 days ago

15 August 2009 (M) - Hey, i'll try to keep this short, so i met this girl the other week and got her number, the following week we met up in the afternoon and spent basically the rest of the day just hanging out, we got on great. So we end up at her place and just h...

Present for 15 year old girlfriend?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5375 days ago

15 August 2009 (M) - What should I get my girlfriend of 4 months for her birthday? She will be 15. I want it to be something that doesn't bank off how much I spend, but reflects on how much thought I put into it......

This guy I like sometimes stops talking to me for up to a month. Is he toying with my emotions?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5375 days ago

15 August 2009 (F) - Ok so I met this guy at the mall about 3 months ago and we have been talking a lot but were not in a relationship. We have been talking about meeting again. But anyway, he like sometimes stops talking to me for periods of time ranging from like 1 ...

Please help me, I don't know if this is the end between us!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5306 days ago

15 August 2009 (F) - i was seeing guy for 4 and a half months (not officially lke) 3weeks before he startd seeing me him n his gf of 3 n a halfyears broke up, about 1 month into things he asked to take a step back n things were going well but for the past month ive ...

He likes me, so why doesn't he want to make me his girlfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5376 days ago

15 August 2009 (F) - me n this guy liked each other over a year, but he told me he doesn't want a gf right now. Me n him had a relationship w/o da title but ppl knew we were "together" n we never cheated on each other. a) should I just give up completely b)sh...

Am I not good enough for him if he wants to look at other girls?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5376 days ago

15 August 2009 (F) - I am in a 3 month relationship, with this guy i really do love. i am having jealousy problems, i think. when i first got together with him, i knew he had playboys. but it did not bother me at the time. well later on in the relationship, i would get ...

How do we deal with problems before they get out of hand?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5312 days ago

15 August 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I are dating since a yr and half almost. we have our ups and downs and we've come across a lot of big and small problems that most relationships have and then ultimately everything gets fine after the fight when we both realise ...

How else can I meet new people?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5375 days ago

15 August 2009 (F) - Ok so I am a single 26 year old, I have been single for soooooo long. All of my friends are in long-term relationships, getting married, are already married and having children, I am really happy for them because they have found good men that are ...

Want to be with my stepsister how do I get her?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5375 days ago

15 August 2009 (M) - Okay i know it may sound a little sick, but i want to be with may sister... Granted she's my STEP sister, but still, i know she would be against it if i told her that i secretly love her and want to be with her because she considers us siblings even ...