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Archived questions from: 2 August, 2009 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

Two questions: How do I get rid of these spots? And how can I spice things up on his birthday?!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5385 days ago

2 August 2009 (F) - I've got two questions. I'm going on holiday with my boyfriend next week and i have suddenly got load of spots on my chin. I never get spots normaly so its typical for them to come up now. I've tried everything from spot cream to face masks an...

I need confidence to talk to girls!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5385 days ago

2 August 2009 (M) - I have a problem which is that I can never seem to be able to start talking to a girl I like when I do not know her or when I see her in a shop or something. What do I do?? Also I need some tips on how to gain more confidence. Thanks in advan...

My "best friend" asked out the girl I like just to spite me..

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5388 days ago

2 August 2009 (M) - I'm in love with this girl whose been like my best friend for years, and all my best friends knew about then one of them spitefully asked her out on a date and she said yes even though shes told my friend she dosent like him in that way. They dont ...

He's going out with a "friend"... Yeah right!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5381 days ago

2 August 2009 (F) - I've been tryin to give my ex a lil space*been broken up almost a mo*.. but then I felt it was silly and decided to call him 2 days later *last wk i didnt call for 2 days and he was bothered/thought I was having sucha a blast that I couldnt ...

He loves me, he love me not.. which one??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5387 days ago

2 August 2009 (F) - i have been with my bf for almost 3 years and a week ago he split up with me because he felt we grew apart however after a hour he decided he made a mistake and wanted to come and see me so he did and we talked he said he couldn't live without me ...

What's her problem?

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2 August 2009 (M) - I have a friend who iv been talking to for almost a month would be longer but the problem is she will talk to me for one day or 2 max and then not say anything for a week or more... and when she does message me its not till like 2 my time 1 hers. ...

What to do for the best??? Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5388 days ago

2 August 2009 (F) - My bf of 8 years and I have broken up (his choice) and I need some advice on how to play it - I don't know whether I should play it cool (would he just forget me?) or fight for our relationship as I love him with all my heart, and would love to hear ...

Is it normal that when my boyfriend acts cold, distant, and makes me feel rejected that I feel sad and want to cry?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5380 days ago

2 August 2009 (F) - Is it normal that when my boyfriend acts cold, distant, and makes me feel rejected that I feel sad and want to cry? I plan on talking to him today about how he makes me feel sometimes like he doesn't care and that he needs to show that he loves me ...

I was falling for him and then he told me he had a girlfriend!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5385 days ago

2 August 2009 (F) - 0k.. i Started out talking to somebody named M and we were really close we used to go over each other's house and he used to walk me home and stuff like that but he had a girl friend at the time and he didnt tell me UNTIL afterwards and i think that ...

It reads like womensense for 'not interested' - but the connection seems more real

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5386 days ago

2 August 2009 (M) - experience pays. I am recently back in the dating world (9months) and ive gone thru some changes and grown in some ways i guess. ive been in a few relationships in that time, and was really so happy to revisit these feelings i sort of just 'we...

Tell him... or stay friends?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4721 days ago

2 August 2009 (F) - Heeey Guyssies.. well ! Omg I have a big problem.. the thing is i change my mind a lot.. My ex boyfriend.. (lets call him fred) well he and i are like really good friends now i'm really comfortable around him and we talk about everything.. well.. ...

Need to get my rocks off before settling down... but it may be too late

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5365 days ago

2 August 2009 (M) - Ok, so my fiance has pretty much made me feel as though I'm Satan himself for even considering asking questions like this, but here it goes. We got engaged in February and I really love this girl, I want to marry her (hence the engagement... duh). ...

He said he needs time to mend his ego and now he is back on the online dating site!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5388 days ago

2 August 2009 (F) - I met a man two months ago online. On our first meeting, I didn't see him as my type (looks and views). But, he had something that drew me in. With every date, I grew more fond of him. He seemed loving, sweet and treated my like a princess. We ...

My boyfriends much more serious about our relationship than I am, and I don't want to lead him on. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5366 days ago

2 August 2009 (F) - I’m really confused could really do with some advice please, its doing my head in, cant bear to talk to anyone I know about it, thanks in advance for any feedback I really appreciate it! Well… I’m in a relationship with this guy have been for 8 ...

In the space of 1 week he went from being in love with me to leaving me for his ex!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5387 days ago

2 August 2009 (F) - i was with this guy a month, he spent 3 months chasing me, mainly texting me, telling me he loved me, i took it slowly, we started sleeping together, he said it was the best sex he ever had, then all in the space of a week he went from telling me ...

They want photos of me with no clothes on!

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5386 days ago

2 August 2009 (F) - 0k.. I am currently single but i talk to a LOT of guys they always send me dirty pictures of themself but they want me so send them a dirty picture of myself and i take some HOT pictures but i have clothes on and they want pictures with my clothes ...

Best friend told me it was ok to go out with her ex, but it really wasn't!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5388 days ago

2 August 2009 (F) - I'v been very stupid and already im regretting it!! My best friend split up with this guy that she absolutly loved in november because he treated her badly and then soon after in february she started going out with this guy that she met at work....

Sex in less than a week!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5388 days ago

2 August 2009 (F) - Last night I got into a little "activity" with my new boyfriend... He wanted sex. But, we just got officially together less than a week ago. Do you think I should've had sex with him?...

I didnt feel any physical attraction to him on our first date, am I worrying to much or leading him on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5388 days ago

2 August 2009 (F) - I have been alone for about a year and haven't even gone out. Last week, I ran into some one I have known for years and he asked me out. I had the best time talking to him--we know all the same people and it was fun having dinner and talking. I ...

Help! My relationship seems to be going downhill...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5388 days ago

2 August 2009 (M) - Hey - I am a 45 year old male. I met this fabulous woman who is just a few years younger online. When we met both she and I were going through a bad patch in our respective relationships with other partners. Like birds of a feather flock together we ...

Why has she contacted me again to set me up with other girls??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5384 days ago

2 August 2009 (M) - we are both in our 20,s We never went out but had serious chemistry. We were on the verge of going out then her ex came back into the picture. She never got back with him but I guess talking to him made her like him more and me less. She played...

I am SO in love with her I feel like crying!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5388 days ago

2 August 2009 (M) - There's this girl, who is very important to me. Every time I think of her I want to cry. I've known this girl since kindergarten. In the 3rd grade, she told me she liked me for a friend, because that's the same year she found out I've had a crush on ...

We're going our seperate ways plus I'm scared of rejection; should I ask her out?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5388 days ago

2 August 2009 (M) - I don't know if I should pursue my crush... I recently worked up some courage to finally talk to her, we had a good conversation on the phone. And I was thinking of going on to the second step of asking her out for some coffee where I could get to k...

Why do opposites attract?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5388 days ago

2 August 2009 (M) - Why do relationships seem to last longer between people who have very little in common? I had everything in common with my girlfriend, and yet it lasted less time than the relationships where the guy is a total abusive d*ck.....

Am I really ready for a baby? How should I approach my boyfriend about this?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5388 days ago

2 August 2009 (F) - Well this is my first post here so I am not sure how I should ask this and I also know peoples opinions differ but what I am wanting to ask is how would I go about asking my bf how he would feel if I said I wanted a baby.....weve only been together ...

I feel dirty and like a dumb bimbo to him when he watches porn. Please help

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5387 days ago

2 August 2009 (F) - heres the deal. i am in love, i know it for sure. my boyfriend and i have been dating for almost two years, the first year was amazing. i lost my virginity to him .. as a real sexual experiance because i was raped so hes not technically my first.. ...

Girlfriend goes out clubbing/drinking with friends and disappears. Am I wrong to wonder what she's doing and why I don't' hear from her?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5375 days ago

2 August 2009 (M) - Sorry in advance for the length of this, I want to provide as much background as I can to help set the mood for my question. I have been seeing my girlfriend for about 10 months and I'm concerned that something is wrong. We don't live together ...

My boyfriend is obsessed with licking my toes!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5378 days ago

2 August 2009 (F) - my boyfriend has this weird obsession with licking my toes and it kinda creeps me out when he licks my toes but im afraid that if i don't let him lick my toes he'll break up with me and go out with some other girl who will let him lick their toes ...

Will he ever ask me to be his wife?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5389 days ago

2 August 2009 (F) - i have been divorced for nine years and i have been seeing a guy for almost the same amount of time. he is the only guy i have dated since my divorce. i love him so much and he still takes my breath away when he passionately kisses me. he has been ...

Take a second date or take a break?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5389 days ago

2 August 2009 (F) - Im mid thirties and six weeks ago ended a 3 month relationhip with someone I had totally fallen for as he wasn't really available (he is going through a divorce and his wife wants him back/children). I want to meet someone and thought Id just get ...